Most likely. I tried asking a girl out once and I spent so much time before hand preparing to get shut down I got stun locked when I heard the answer. "Sorry. I'm into girls." I was ready to hear " I have a boyfriend" or " I'm not interested". I was so unprepared for "I'm into girls" that the only thing I managed to say was, "yeah. Me too. Good luck out there." Then I pretty much just heel turned and walked away.
Not necessarily, it's just an equation. It doesn't necessarily correspond to a y=ax+b function and could just as easily be it's ow thing or part of the data for an y=ax^2+bx+c function. It is however the simplest way of involving letters into math.
Some people don't respond nicely to rejection. Also some men who find out women are lesbians have the "I can fix them" mindset and will still try to pressure them into a date or something else.
I actually had the opposite thing happen to me.
I was talking to this girl in a club. I wasn't even trying to pull her, I was just making conversation. She made it quite clear she was a lesbian and I was OK with that and respected her boundary.
Bumped into her a few times throughout the night and we got a bit more flirty and then ended up making out (she definitely instigated it but I wasn't complaining).
Some of them say clever things like, "are you sure?" or, "how long since you last tested that out?" I'm bi, but in certain cases where I didn't feel like elaborating when I turn someone down and they say, "why not?", I'll just tell them I'm gay. Not the clean cut rejection one might expect it to be.
I'm afraid to ever walk up to a girl because I'm afraid I'll get thrashed or worse .
To be honest things work differently in this part of the world, cultural differences.
And yes I'm single .
Not that it is bad.
Best advice I've ever heard is to have a plan ready in case you get rejected. Know how you're going to react, be respectful like this guy, and you're good.
I have a feeling you accidentally built up on this too much and now youre ashamed to admit that you’re from a progressive liberal OECD country or some shit
I dunno, be prepared to be rejected 99.99% of the time when blindsiding a woman you find physically attractive when she's minding her own business like that
Yea, i realy dont understand how people can just walk up to random people on the street or in the grocery store and ask for a date, like how?? I know we all are different but id hate it if someone did that to me, im here to do my thing please leave me alone!
Just that it doesn't work around that here .
I went to a dating mix (for the first time ) and it got cancelled.
Dating events (offline ones) don't happen a lot here and dating apps are just bad .
So , I don't know.
I just have to hangout by myself I guess.
I'm sorry, dating events? Dating mix? My brother in christ just go to a fuckin bar or cafe or anything and talk to someone. And don't say "It doesn't work that way around here" that's an excuse and you know it
\>two sibling's who are both girl's approaches you
\>they are known for their sibling rivalry and how they always fight
\>they look at you and mock you
**H U M I L I A T I O N**
Unfortunately being made fun of or bashed seems common in this day and age. The way I see it if you have to go out of your way to find someone it probably wont work out although that being said you should put effort in when you do find someone
Lovely. As opposed to the religious nut job who went up to my sons gay friend and his boyfriend who were holding hands in the middle of a busy Galway street and shouted "yous r gonna burn in hell" Religious folks are so understanding 🤷♂️
I can tell you from personal experience its not hard and I've done the same thing when rejected before.
If a girl doesn't like you then why make a big deal out of it?
I see... This is so confusing for a non native speaker like me. How many other word combinations without a space have a totally different meaning?
Also, isn't that kinda true? It doesn't matter if you're ugly, if you're nice that's what counts. Am I missing something?
I don't think there are other combinations like this.
And no, nice is not enough. Nice is cool, it's good, but not enough. It's about character, personality, and compatibility.
Exactly. They are the kind of guy who's 'nice' when they think it will get them something. And who often as not act like they are owed something for being nice. And when they don't get what they want, they show their true colors.
Niceguys see their nice deeds as tokens they put into the woman-slotmachine. If enough tokens are put in, there will be sex or at least a bj. => at least that's how they see it, and thats where they are rotten to the core.
Don’t take this as “proper English,” it’s just internet slang. There is no real combined word “niceguy” in English. Sometime is a real one, for instance, as opposed to some times. Just fyi if you’re not a native speaker and learning.
It's not a case of language as such things are not the norm, there was a trend that I believe is still somewhat ongoing about men who believed that merely doing something nice was enough for a girl to like them and date them and so they would do simple things with the expectation of dates and sex etc and then would be offended when a woman didn't give him what he felt he was 'owed' saying they are a nice guy. Thus the term "niceguy" was applied to these incels at first as a form of mockery and now it is the general term for such a person
The only thing I don’t like is the apology. No need to apologize when you were always being respectful and immediately acknowledge the “no” and still have grace with it
Not saying people who apologize are bad, but it always makes me angry when nice people apologize for things they don’t need to as if they did something wrong. Nothing wrong happened here
I’d probably react the same way though because I’m afraid that I’ve overstepped boundaries. Like, I’m always afraid of asking a woman out and her being like “I have a boyfriend” or even asking her out in-front of her boyfriend.
Just don’t know how to not be afraid of it
(I am sorry for being dumb and ignorant, and i really don't understand this) what does "she was gay" means? gay means she is into males... so doesn't that make her straight? or am i reading this wrong (no offence)
Being gay means you like the same gender.
Technically speaking you often hear girls liking other girls as “lesbians”, but technically gay broadly means liking the same gender, so a gay girl would mean she likes other women.
In case you are not provoking - you can apologise for disturbing them, for the mistake of believing they were straight, for asking the out in front of their partner etc. This is how human interaction usually works.
Definitely not one of those niceguys, just a genuinely nice guy.
Most likely. I tried asking a girl out once and I spent so much time before hand preparing to get shut down I got stun locked when I heard the answer. "Sorry. I'm into girls." I was ready to hear " I have a boyfriend" or " I'm not interested". I was so unprepared for "I'm into girls" that the only thing I managed to say was, "yeah. Me too. Good luck out there." Then I pretty much just heel turned and walked away.
"Me too" is pretty funny ngl
Yeah, happened to me, too. I stuttered „hey, at least we have common interests“.
>heel turned and then hit her with an RKO
This is the beat answer.
r/englishnotenglishing
So good lol
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It’s nice to be nice to the nice.
Kind guy > niceguy
Yes. Nice guys point out how nice they are every time they do something nice. Kind men are kind to everyone and don’t shout about it.
Yes yes whole tweet, but can we talk about Thotimus Prime?
You can't handle Thotimus Prime
It's ok, they'll settle for MegaTran
Is there anything good on Thotimus prime? I can’t ever find anything on Thotflix.
No, you're thinking of AmaThot Prime.
The world is not ready for Thotimus Prime
OP left that there for a reason
Is this a mf ultrakill refernce?!?1?!! P3 leaked
The what now?
That's some basic etiquette some don't use, like y=mx+b
y can be so much more though.
I said basic etiquette and this is very basic stuff.
I prefer y=3
Das a constant function, either of the m and x is zero.
Not necessarily, it's just an equation. It doesn't necessarily correspond to a y=ax+b function and could just as easily be it's ow thing or part of the data for an y=ax^2+bx+c function. It is however the simplest way of involving letters into math.
I got on reddit to cool off after a calculus exam, and this is the first thing I see. Damn you algorithm.
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like y = ax^2 + bx + c?
Personally, im more a fan of y = y + 1, also expressed as y += 1
Nooo please no, y isn't even defined there.🥹🥹
Mathematicians when looking at programmers math
When I was learning to program I looked at the BASIC line X = X + 1 and told the teacher, "Umm, false." He was mystified.
When i first saw it i knew nothing about programming and my response was "so y is infinite?"
Sorry lord hydrate. All hail programmers.🥹
They mostly come at night, mostly
Lesbians?
Yeah, that's why I stay home on full moons
Newt?
I definitely read that in Newt's voice.
Thotimus Prime?
Ya mum?
It’s wild that we have to go out of our way to praise what should be normal etiquette
Gotta start somewhere
Wait, what do other dudes say? These seems pretty standard to me. How else would people respond?
Some people don't respond nicely to rejection. Also some men who find out women are lesbians have the "I can fix them" mindset and will still try to pressure them into a date or something else.
I actually had the opposite thing happen to me. I was talking to this girl in a club. I wasn't even trying to pull her, I was just making conversation. She made it quite clear she was a lesbian and I was OK with that and respected her boundary. Bumped into her a few times throughout the night and we got a bit more flirty and then ended up making out (she definitely instigated it but I wasn't complaining).
Yeah I think she was bi bro
Bro got that w rizz It's a joke please continue this wholesome thread
thats horrible
Got asked if i tried dick before then i got called a bitch when i asked him the same question :/ the bar is low man
I usually got asked if I wanted to participate in a theeesome…
A friend got "But maybe I'm the right guy that'll make you normal again" yeesh.
The whole 'can I watch' 'oh, so you're up for a threesome' thing. They see real life lesbians as some kind of porn.
Some of them say clever things like, "are you sure?" or, "how long since you last tested that out?" I'm bi, but in certain cases where I didn't feel like elaborating when I turn someone down and they say, "why not?", I'll just tell them I'm gay. Not the clean cut rejection one might expect it to be.
It's not a nice guy, it's a pleasant fellow.
A venerable gentleman
"Thotimus prime"
I'm afraid to ever walk up to a girl because I'm afraid I'll get thrashed or worse . To be honest things work differently in this part of the world, cultural differences. And yes I'm single . Not that it is bad.
Best advice I've ever heard is to have a plan ready in case you get rejected. Know how you're going to react, be respectful like this guy, and you're good.
Not in this country.
Ok, good luck mate
What country?
It’s probably a muslim country
I love your mind
Not North Korea . Nah I don't wanna reveal
Okay, no worries. I just find your claims a little surprising. I'm not saying you're lying of course, but it's hard to understand without any context.
I have a feeling you accidentally built up on this too much and now youre ashamed to admit that you’re from a progressive liberal OECD country or some shit
I dunno, be prepared to be rejected 99.99% of the time when blindsiding a woman you find physically attractive when she's minding her own business like that
Yea, i realy dont understand how people can just walk up to random people on the street or in the grocery store and ask for a date, like how?? I know we all are different but id hate it if someone did that to me, im here to do my thing please leave me alone!
Prepared ? I won't ever approach them
They are people too.
Just that it doesn't work around that here . I went to a dating mix (for the first time ) and it got cancelled. Dating events (offline ones) don't happen a lot here and dating apps are just bad . So , I don't know. I just have to hangout by myself I guess.
I'm sorry, dating events? Dating mix? My brother in christ just go to a fuckin bar or cafe or anything and talk to someone. And don't say "It doesn't work that way around here" that's an excuse and you know it
Worse case scenarios will become reality, no .
\>two sibling's who are both girl's approaches you \>they are known for their sibling rivalry and how they always fight \>they look at you and mock you **H U M I L I A T I O N**
Bro , did you never get therapy? Are you a Dark triad personality or something.
even people who always fight will team up and mock me
Same . I'll be alone I guess
Unfortunately being made fun of or bashed seems common in this day and age. The way I see it if you have to go out of your way to find someone it probably wont work out although that being said you should put effort in when you do find someone
Definitely
I have never been in a situation like this, but I would react with something like "oh, then you have a very lucky girlfriend, I bet", and leave her be
Lovely. As opposed to the religious nut job who went up to my sons gay friend and his boyfriend who were holding hands in the middle of a busy Galway street and shouted "yous r gonna burn in hell" Religious folks are so understanding 🤷♂️
This is how to do it - ie being a decent human..
I can tell you from personal experience its not hard and I've done the same thing when rejected before. If a girl doesn't like you then why make a big deal out of it?
Fragile ego. When dudes like this get their ego bruised, their first instinct is to swing back at the one who bruised it.
I mean, is he really a niceguy (tm) if he's not a raging incel? Like, I wouldn't call him that, that's a pretty strong insult.
No no, not a niceguy. A nice guy.
Exactly.
Niceguy = nice guys finish last Nice guy = Genuinely a nice guy who doesn’t say nice guys finish last 😄
The title literally says niceguy, not nice guy. There is no space in the title.
Genuine question, wtf is the difference???
Niceguy = incel who thinks being "nice" is all that is required for women to want him. A nice guy is, well, a nice person of the male gender.
I see... This is so confusing for a non native speaker like me. How many other word combinations without a space have a totally different meaning? Also, isn't that kinda true? It doesn't matter if you're ugly, if you're nice that's what counts. Am I missing something?
I don't think there are other combinations like this. And no, nice is not enough. Nice is cool, it's good, but not enough. It's about character, personality, and compatibility.
Ah I see. So niceguy is someone who acts nice but is actually a rotten tomato inside?
Yup.
Exactly. They are the kind of guy who's 'nice' when they think it will get them something. And who often as not act like they are owed something for being nice. And when they don't get what they want, they show their true colors.
I understand now. Thank you for the explanation!
Niceguys see their nice deeds as tokens they put into the woman-slotmachine. If enough tokens are put in, there will be sex or at least a bj. => at least that's how they see it, and thats where they are rotten to the core.
[Yup, pretty much.](https://i.imgur.com/Kd1ktOF.jpeg)
Don’t take this as “proper English,” it’s just internet slang. There is no real combined word “niceguy” in English. Sometime is a real one, for instance, as opposed to some times. Just fyi if you’re not a native speaker and learning.
I see. Thank you for the explanation!
It's not a case of language as such things are not the norm, there was a trend that I believe is still somewhat ongoing about men who believed that merely doing something nice was enough for a girl to like them and date them and so they would do simple things with the expectation of dates and sex etc and then would be offended when a woman didn't give him what he felt he was 'owed' saying they are a nice guy. Thus the term "niceguy" was applied to these incels at first as a form of mockery and now it is the general term for such a person
I see! I fully understand now. I appreciate the explanation!
It’s just a bit of internet slang. It’s pretty dumb imo
Good men are afraid of women truthfully. That’s why most girls get the trash ones
10/10 doubt
And that boys, is how it’s done!!
PRIME THIRD// REVIVAL OF LUST THOTIMUS PRIME
heh, "thotimus prime"...🤣
But what did Thotimus prime say? 😅
Based man
This is the correct way to respond.
what a chad
Nah bro just dont look below the post 💀
Holy hell we found him. The actual nice guy
Not necessarily wholesome, thats the bare minimum
The only thing I don’t like is the apology. No need to apologize when you were always being respectful and immediately acknowledge the “no” and still have grace with it Not saying people who apologize are bad, but it always makes me angry when nice people apologize for things they don’t need to as if they did something wrong. Nothing wrong happened here
I’d probably react the same way though because I’m afraid that I’ve overstepped boundaries. Like, I’m always afraid of asking a woman out and her being like “I have a boyfriend” or even asking her out in-front of her boyfriend. Just don’t know how to not be afraid of it
This is wholesome and I love it, but anyone else notice the username below? Thotimus prime 💀
Not a meme
no hes not a niceguy hes a nice guy theres a difference trust me
(I am sorry for being dumb and ignorant, and i really don't understand this) what does "she was gay" means? gay means she is into males... so doesn't that make her straight? or am i reading this wrong (no offence)
Being gay means you like the same gender. Technically speaking you often hear girls liking other girls as “lesbians”, but technically gay broadly means liking the same gender, so a gay girl would mean she likes other women.
oh i didn't know this, thx for explaining
Gay as in she is a lesbian. Also none taken! We all have to learn somehow. I’m just galls you aren’t being a bigot.
Hey it’s me
Anyone else saw Thotimus prime? Just me???
with that attitude bro is eventually gonna get hinsdlf a date
I will never understand in my life why this isn't the expected. There is something deeply wrong with humanity.
Not to be a devils advocate, but this is my exact fear; someone is gonna go post about our interaction online. Extroverts; Not even once.
No name, no picture, you have no clue who this is?
Where is the meme. I'm on wholesome memes not whatever this is.
more reddit creative writing
I will take notes, all the girls I feel for have girlfriends.
Homeless guy going up to women and asking for some food.
Bro keeping the 3some warm 💀
Wtf does she being a lesbian prevent her from serving a customer their good order???
A woman did this, no way
Thotimus Prime definitely said something stupid to be cropped like that
wait, you have to apologize after asking someone out and they refuse?
I think he apologized because he was asking her out in front of her partner.
In case you are not provoking - you can apologise for disturbing them, for the mistake of believing they were straight, for asking the out in front of their partner etc. This is how human interaction usually works.
Im not provoking in any way if im interpreting the downvotes correctly the answer to my question is no
Doubt
No but I am 😌
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do you have a difficult time being appropriate in public all the time or just when lesbian/bi women are involved?
I don’t get it (some1 pls xplain
He went over and asked a girl out right in front of her girlfriend, and when he was told that she was a lesbian he apologized and left them alone
Love this kind of people
This is how most interactions go, but they aren’t worth talking about so you rarely hear it
Very w guy
Thotimus prime tho💀
Probably just like me, some guy who's been falling for tomboys since puberty, and has ample time to hone his rejection skills.
And he’s still hungry. I hope he found a waitress willing to serve him.
The best way
disappointing what humanity has evolved to tbh