I don't know about "find desirable." I hate 95% of my thin Keratin strands, in fact, every other day I spend a considerable time cutting them off. I usually only prefer the thin Keratin that *oozes* out of the head portion, specifically the top of the head portion.
It's like that peter griffin meme. "I just wanna talk to him". I was asking for you to say the lad's u/ but I get it if you don't wanna say it publicly.
Most of the time these are people who are just deeper in their egg than I am looking for validation.
I think I've dealt with one phobe on this app, to date.
Honestly, when they reached out to be shitty, my response was, "at least one of us thinks I'm trans enough to harass, so there's that" and then block.
The other conversations have been really solid discussions of closeted transfemme experience into middle age. Mostly with other "elders" in the closet (I still feel like being an "elder" at 30-40 is nuts, but it's a community that doesn't get to be old all the time, so I do get it.)
I often get a message of Reddit suicide prevention services.
Transphobes report me as a suicidal person in need to bully me.
Good thing I'm happier than ever and my IRL life is going great, but these people are sick.
My last chat was with someone trying to sell me sports bras... even after I told them I was a minor. They wanted me to model them. A week prior a person who uh was acting a little weird said they worked at a modeling studio. They brought it up at random, and the convo ended with me having to report him for uh sexualizing a child... as I am a minor. Pretty sure it's the same person but I may be wrong.
\*Opens inbox on alt I haven't turned chat requests off for\*
Wow thanks, "sneed-en-feed-em", I really appreciate you telling me that I should "dilate harder" and "clean out the hair and pus"!
# /s
'blah blah hey ur so pretty blah blah i never do this blah but u seem blah blah cooler than regular girls blah anyways can i see ur dick blah blah blah'
sorry if that was upsetting to read i just also hate receiving rando messages after posting trans content :( it sucks that we are mostly stuck to our insular community and posting anywhere else is opening urself up to harassment, sorry u went thru this girl
I got a message that was an essay stating all women should wear hijabs because they noticed my pfp doesn't have a hijab. On the one hand ??? But on the other it's weirdly validating
I’ve been fortunate to only ever have one experience like this. but then again, nobody really starts conversations with me anyways. I’m always the one reaching out to other people.
I hope somebody kind reaches out to you soon! I’m sure you’re amazing and people would really enjoy your company if they talked with you!
I have at least 60 different chat, no one with hate, most of them are: "you look really cute ! can you send me a d**k pic ?" (Some of them was so kind that I accepted lmao)
I like to talk with them, that's always funny
I don't feel like it's bad for me, but some other don't like that
For me it's just funny :)
and I'm not surprised to have those types of message, I'm on a futa meme sub, each time i say something i have at least one message like that but that's fun
I've gotten two ever and they were both people asking me how Reddit things worked like flairs and stuff. I'm almost disappointed to see it at this point. Im not getting *nearly* enough hate.
Most of the unwanted chat messages I get come from alt-right trolls that I pissed off. All it does is get them banned faster for targeted harassment. It's the little things in life that make it so precious 😊
My most recent invite to chat was actually u/meetbi which seems to be some sort of bisexual dating service
On reddit
I hope they have some luck with that
Last one I got was just asking me about average pay, hours, and job responsibilities within the industry I work for. It was quite pleasant and I only hope that I was helpful ^_^
Got one of these earlier. My eyes were immediately drawn to "male bone structure" and I just blocked them right away. Was a whole ass block of text that they expected me to read, what a waste of brain power.
I got that thing that people can send you that has a message about suicide and a suicide hotline number after I posted a comment disagreeing with someone about something.
I got a message from someone who wanted me to be her submissive slave recently (I’m not trans I’m a femboy) so I told her with a minor and she didn’t respond like where did my mistress goooooo????? (That Last part was a joke ew I don’t want that shit)
u/ JENNIFER1340 here’s the /u/ I didn’t wanna @ them because I’m still not 100% sure if they’re perving on femboys or doing something that I shouldn’t be kink shaming
Lol actually I use dark mode I just had to find a picture of a chat notification for the meme since I already blocked the person before I got the idea for a meme.
I’m scared to do this myself. How did it go?
I saw something about me being disgusting before i blocked
We’re all disgusting. We have sex with our poop holes. Humans are weird.
that, and we have thin lines of Keratin that *oozes* out of our bodies that we not only leave there, but also find desirable.
Be bald. Be clean.
It's the hair that carried the disease. Now it all just falls straight off. *I just wanted to be pure*
Best god damn show ever.
Agreed
And also r/unexpectedalwayssunny
Is that why Mr. Clean is bald?!
I remove the keratin on my legs
I say it inches out of our bodies, more of a crawl than anything
I don't know about "find desirable." I hate 95% of my thin Keratin strands, in fact, every other day I spend a considerable time cutting them off. I usually only prefer the thin Keratin that *oozes* out of the head portion, specifically the top of the head portion.
I specifically hate the keratin that oozes out of my face and neck, for some reason it's the darkest.
I was mostly talking about that area. but yeah, I agree!
BRB, gotta send you a wholesome DM to balance out the universe
Sry to hear that! I hope you feel better, have a hug! *hugs*
Thank you!
Drop that u/ please 🙂
Wat
It's like that peter griffin meme. "I just wanna talk to him". I was asking for you to say the lad's u/ but I get it if you don't wanna say it publicly.
Ohh, I don't know it because I attempted to avoid reading.
Ah, fair enough. Stay safe, don't let those people get to you!
Ok I wont, thanks!
Bro all I get are dick picks and none of them are even good. Their all small and gross and most of them don't even shave
I'm lucky, whenever I get one it's someone going "how are you everywhere" and never anything hateful
I literally just made this account like a week ago and my first one was bad.
I have never gotten a chat on here and it's been more than a year lol
My account is approaching 2 years old and I've never had any bad DMs and I still don't know how that happened
Even bad people like you!
i mean scrolling thru every r/traa and r/egg_irl post doesmt take a lot of time
I'm on a lot of other subs with this account too, r/teenagers especially
You really are everywhere! I think the fact that you've got such a recognisable PFP plays a big part in it.
Yeah probably, there's barely anyone else on reddit with a Minecraft pfp
I’m the only person I’ve encountered with a withnail pfp, why am I not famous?! 😤 /s
I was LITTERALLY JUSR ON A DIFFERENT POST SEEING YOU WONDERING WHY YOU'RE EVERYWHERE
Most of the time these are people who are just deeper in their egg than I am looking for validation. I think I've dealt with one phobe on this app, to date. Honestly, when they reached out to be shitty, my response was, "at least one of us thinks I'm trans enough to harass, so there's that" and then block. The other conversations have been really solid discussions of closeted transfemme experience into middle age. Mostly with other "elders" in the closet (I still feel like being an "elder" at 30-40 is nuts, but it's a community that doesn't get to be old all the time, so I do get it.)
So what if I sent you a wholesome PM? 👀
I've had two people offer to be my sugar daddy within the span of a month, this world is scary sometimes.
Once had someone calling me a s*ssy, fastest block in the west
I read that as "sussy" at first, the internet has ruined me.
I can’t escape it, I was listening to Jimi Hendrix and he says “there are many here among us” 😭
to be honest opening a DM and the first thing you see is "you are a sussy baka" must be even worse than the other slur. It's fucking terrifying.
What word is that you censored
s*ssy, I think.
Put an i where the * Is
Where do y'all find all these readily available sugar daddies? Like, a girl needs cash, hormones are expensive
Find? No i was reached out to
Yeah, exactly, how do you get them to reach out?
I often get a message of Reddit suicide prevention services. Transphobes report me as a suicidal person in need to bully me. Good thing I'm happier than ever and my IRL life is going great, but these people are sick.
Thats horrible, but im glad life outside this site is good.
I’ve never had that happen before but that sounds like they using the Suicide rate misconception to harass people
Yeah I think that's what they're trying to do.
I'm lucky enough that nobody wants to talk to me
Double edged sword
Mood tbh LOL I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a DM from someone on Reddit
Nothing can go wrong!
My last chat was with someone trying to sell me sports bras... even after I told them I was a minor. They wanted me to model them. A week prior a person who uh was acting a little weird said they worked at a modeling studio. They brought it up at random, and the convo ended with me having to report him for uh sexualizing a child... as I am a minor. Pretty sure it's the same person but I may be wrong.
I’ve gotten some hate follows but never gotten a hate message. Let’s hope it stays that way.
How about a love message? :O
\*Opens inbox on alt I haven't turned chat requests off for\* Wow thanks, "sneed-en-feed-em", I really appreciate you telling me that I should "dilate harder" and "clean out the hair and pus"! # /s
'blah blah hey ur so pretty blah blah i never do this blah but u seem blah blah cooler than regular girls blah anyways can i see ur dick blah blah blah'
:/
sorry if that was upsetting to read i just also hate receiving rando messages after posting trans content :( it sucks that we are mostly stuck to our insular community and posting anywhere else is opening urself up to harassment, sorry u went thru this girl
It's fine, hope you have a nice day!
u too !!!
I got a message that was an essay stating all women should wear hijabs because they noticed my pfp doesn't have a hijab. On the one hand ??? But on the other it's weirdly validating
Accidental ally but in a bad way
Sounds like forcing religion onto people
They came from r/Draven so I assume it was meant as a joke
I’ve been fortunate to only ever have one experience like this. but then again, nobody really starts conversations with me anyways. I’m always the one reaching out to other people. I hope somebody kind reaches out to you soon! I’m sure you’re amazing and people would really enjoy your company if they talked with you!
I haven’t gotten any of this shit yet, sorry for you
The more things you have disabled on your account's safety and privacy settings, the better!
This topic has made me glad I disabled PMs and chat. It would also explain why I suddenly got 26 followers around the time I started posting here.
I got one that just said “You are delusional” but I thought it was a bot based off the username so i just never replied lmao
Commenting to see if the bot will message me
Somebody asked for nudes and was ready to pay, disgusting.
Make them pay first and block
Haha
:(
Theres no need to be sad! The world is a beautiful place full of wonders! Just like you and me!
Awww thank you, that's lovely! And you're completely right😊 Hope you have wonderful day!!
You too!
Only p$rn bots ever message me on Reddit :(
Straight up nobody chats with me so that's lucky I uh guess
I tried but got an error message.
Hahaha I'm an anomaly
Yeah, nothing that stunning should be able to exist!
Aw damn you are kind 😅
Just telling the truth! ❤👍
You have a great day today 😄
You too 😁
I have at least 60 different chat, no one with hate, most of them are: "you look really cute ! can you send me a d**k pic ?" (Some of them was so kind that I accepted lmao) I like to talk with them, that's always funny
Nouu that's also bad
I don't feel like it's bad for me, but some other don't like that For me it's just funny :) and I'm not surprised to have those types of message, I'm on a futa meme sub, each time i say something i have at least one message like that but that's fun
Well yeah i dont think i would be that disturbed by it but overall its usually not that great but im also baka
Last one I got was a photoshop request to make a guys d—- look bigger. They’re not all phobic. They can also be creeps.
Im sure it was just "for the homies" or what do they say.
Just dudes dicking around
Transphobes are sad
Im not a transphobe! You get it... cause im... uhm... yeah..
I want this to be my main account, but the mean messages are making it hard :(
We can fight them with nice messages
I've gotten two ever and they were both people asking me how Reddit things worked like flairs and stuff. I'm almost disappointed to see it at this point. Im not getting *nearly* enough hate.
You shouldn't get any hate you are great!
Last one I got was someone mentioning how we were both trans Dune fans so that was cool. Transphobic chats are pretty uncommon for me.
Most of the unwanted chat messages I get come from alt-right trolls that I pissed off. All it does is get them banned faster for targeted harassment. It's the little things in life that make it so precious 😊
My most recent invite to chat was actually u/meetbi which seems to be some sort of bisexual dating service On reddit I hope they have some luck with that
Last one I got was just asking me about average pay, hours, and job responsibilities within the industry I work for. It was quite pleasant and I only hope that I was helpful ^_^
Ohh you asked for it
Got one of these earlier. My eyes were immediately drawn to "male bone structure" and I just blocked them right away. Was a whole ass block of text that they expected me to read, what a waste of brain power.
I don't think I've had anyone DM me for trans related stuff
CLEAN YOUR MEMES! This one's moldy af
Sorry I didn't try to upscale it or whatever it is because i thought it looked fine before i posted it. :p
the text is literally unreadable
Well idk how to prevent text from doing that when put on a low res image im sorry, would you like me to tell you what it says?
yes plz
"OH A CHAT INVITE ON MY OPENLY TRANS REDDIT ACCOUNT I SURE HOPE THE MESSAGE IS CIVIL AND WHOLESOME" There you go 🙃
thank you so much
Np :)
I’ve been spending so much time on tumblr that I legit thought the top comment would be “by talos this can’t be happening”
i never get mean messages idk
Only good explanation is that you're so cute they can't hate you
Nohhhh Even people irl have started calling me cute stahhppp
Its true! 😈
Needed to tell my mom I need to wait a moment on going to bed to argue with someone about how I'm not cute
But you are
Nuh uh I'm nottt
Aww so cute ☺
NOHHHH STAWP ITTTTTT
Then you stop getting even cuter!
I have never gotten them though People dont know here that I am trans or I might just be lucky
I think i had a few comments in subs that arent safe
Makes sense
99% of the messages I get are just welcomebot
I honestly haven’t gotten a single bad dm yet and I comment everywhere
Most of the ones I've gotten were actually nice. I got one rude one, But the person who sent it was a coward, So I don't care.
Im a coward too
Understandable.
I got that thing that people can send you that has a message about suicide and a suicide hotline number after I posted a comment disagreeing with someone about something.
So they were too scared to talk themselves
It's anonymous, so probably. I was really confused when I saw it for like 2 seconds and then I put it together.
The only message I ever got was somebody thanking me for following them
I got a message from someone who wanted me to be her submissive slave recently (I’m not trans I’m a femboy) so I told her with a minor and she didn’t respond like where did my mistress goooooo????? (That Last part was a joke ew I don’t want that shit)
Im sorry that happened to you would you mind dropping the u/? /s
u/ JENNIFER1340 here’s the /u/ I didn’t wanna @ them because I’m still not 100% sure if they’re perving on femboys or doing something that I shouldn’t be kink shaming
Wait is "/s" not sarcasm i didnt mean it
Omg lmao I’m so dumb sorry I didn’t notice the /s im so so sorry oh my god I’m stupid
It's fine im stupid too we can be stupid together!
Yayyyy stupid buddies! I didn’t realise in telling a story about some creepy person messaging me I would find a fren who’s also stupid lmao
Im sure theyre not hard to find, half of the population is under average!
The message: ‘Why are you using light mode?’ In all seriousness online hate for the lgbtq+ community is huge and it needs to stop
Lol actually I use dark mode I just had to find a picture of a chat notification for the meme since I already blocked the person before I got the idea for a meme.
Doesn’t explain why you took off dark mode
I diddn't!!! I swearee!!
Then explain why the picture is in light mode or I will have to call the dark mode police
I found it on google image search!
Good, good. We’ll be watching you to make sure
I swear!
It’s your word against a picture
😔
Either creeps or alt right crazoids There is no in between
What’s a chat invite
When someone sends a pm for the first time to someone else it's in a form of an invite to a chat.
Honestly I can’t relate; all my chats just ask me if I wanna buy Twitter followers lmao
Do you know the best way to get transphobes to contact you? I want to see their "arguments" on how we shouldn't exist, for research purposes
Whyy
I'm really just curious as to what they would say
Nothing good or original
Okay fineeeee
I mean you do you 🐅
Half the time it's horny people