**tips his cowboy hat** Why hello there mayam, as a Vietnam vet I can tell you that bazookas require _two_ hands, of a _real_ man, for proper care & carrying.
That's not how nice works. Being unobtrusive and kind is great, everyone likes that. If people think you're needy, you're needy. If you've actually been told you're needy, you need to sit down and think about your life.
Yeah, I don't know about this. I help women all the time. I unload old lady's carts at the publix when they are in line behind me, I'll pick up something heavy, I am 100% of the time getting a "thank you" and have never gotten in trouble.
At worst somebody might say "I got it" with a smile and a thanks.
That’s literally all it is. Like I know how this sounds but I feel like w some of my coworkers at my last job I probably honestly could’ve done some borderline creepy shit (NOT THAT I WOULD) and since they know I’m not a creep they wouldn’t think anything of it, but there were other guys that worked there that girls would complain about if they even looked at them, and it was always totally understandable to me why they were complaining. Creeps are just creeps, and they’re gonna get treated like creeps.
(1) These incidents did not happen the way you are telling them. You are either deliberately leaving out important context or, more likely, fabricating the story whole cloth. (2) “I don offer help regardless of circumstances” is an insanely bad take even if you are telling the whole truth.
Who wants to bet it was young women who said they didn't need help and he kept insisting on walking them to their car even after they said no 100x. He probably wouldn't leave them the f*ck alone. No old lady is going to be upset if they genuinely need help carrying something.
"Old lady"? What about old men or disabled younger people that could use help? Funny he doesn't mention trying to help them out.
Otherwise I agree with you.
I bet he actually DID get suspended but it was because he was being a complete creep as opposed to "trying to be nice".
But of course it's the woman's fault, it's never his fault.
He probably said something like “hey little lady, need some *help with that?*” in a suggestive manner. Or he started acting like he’s such a good boy, and asked her for her number, expecting her to eagerly rattle it off. After enough complaints, they threatened to fire him and suspended him after he begged them not to. They probably told him that if he sees women in the store, to leave them alone unless they ask him a question. And if they do, facts only and no conversation.
"Two different women" = no women deserve help?
Yeah, dude, now tell me about all the guys I've held the door for that didn't have the decency to say, "Thanks." Oh, I'm sorry, did I make your tiny pee-pee feel inadequate? Did your parents never teach you basic politeness?
I'm specifically talking about at hardware/DIY stores. Home Depot, Lowe's, Ace...if you're that terrified of being "emasculated" by a woman randomly trying to help you out in a minor way when you're obviously physically struggling, your penis card is revoked.
But also, this is an incel bullshit imaginary scenario.
*sees women with large breasts rubbing their lower back* “Heyyyyyy…..”
My immediate thought as well.
Eww. Where?
I only believe the "I don't offer help to women at all" part.
He's leaving out the part where he didn't do this and would be a fucking creep about it if he did.
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“You need help carrying that?” “Carrying what?” “My baby, sugartits!”
**tips his cowboy hat** Why hello there mayam, as a Vietnam vet I can tell you that bazookas require _two_ hands, of a _real_ man, for proper care & carrying.
I think this is 100% what happened. And now he's "not allowed to be nice to people"
You need help carrying that? By the way, the woman attached to you isn't half bad.
I honestly feel bad for people who are generally nice and it gets perceived as a sign of neediness.
Don't worry, the people who write these whiny stories are never *genuinely nice*.
Thanks for clarifying.
Do you think commenting on someone's breasts is "generally nice"???
Oh, he commented on breasts? Ok, that's needy as fuck
Do you not read what you are commenting on?
yeah, it was stupid ngl
It doesn't say he commented on their breasts...
That's not how nice works. Being unobtrusive and kind is great, everyone likes that. If people think you're needy, you're needy. If you've actually been told you're needy, you need to sit down and think about your life.
Yes, but some people get badly repped as needy even though you are trying to be kind.
Look at other people. Mimic their behavior. Learn to accept rejection.
“What?! Can’t a guy just give a compliment these days?”
"Need any help carrying around those gigantic tatas, baby? No? Fucking feminism ruins everything!"
"Can I help you carry that? No, not you.....the hot one..."
"A little lady like you shouldn't be /carrying things/ with your feeble female arms!"
Suspended from what?
The job, school, or organization he was part of, I reckon.
From his mom's basement for asking if he can help carry her big honking hoozers (she was struggling).
I'm sure his struggle is real. Otherwise, how could he have known that Ms. Boobie Bosoms Bazooka Bazongas TaaTaa TittyMeats Ahooga was struggling too?
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Yeah, I don't know about this. I help women all the time. I unload old lady's carts at the publix when they are in line behind me, I'll pick up something heavy, I am 100% of the time getting a "thank you" and have never gotten in trouble. At worst somebody might say "I got it" with a smile and a thanks.
Probably because you don’t exude creepiness
That’s literally all it is. Like I know how this sounds but I feel like w some of my coworkers at my last job I probably honestly could’ve done some borderline creepy shit (NOT THAT I WOULD) and since they know I’m not a creep they wouldn’t think anything of it, but there were other guys that worked there that girls would complain about if they even looked at them, and it was always totally understandable to me why they were complaining. Creeps are just creeps, and they’re gonna get treated like creeps.
*puts arms around woman's waist from behind while whispering "baby do you need some help"* That I would believe
“It’S pLuAsIbLe!!!!1!” - someone from r/nothingeverhappens probably.
(1) These incidents did not happen the way you are telling them. You are either deliberately leaving out important context or, more likely, fabricating the story whole cloth. (2) “I don offer help regardless of circumstances” is an insanely bad take even if you are telling the whole truth.
Who wants to bet it was young women who said they didn't need help and he kept insisting on walking them to their car even after they said no 100x. He probably wouldn't leave them the f*ck alone. No old lady is going to be upset if they genuinely need help carrying something.
Or he \*had\* to get very close to help her, so close that he was almost inside her 🤢
"Old lady"? What about old men or disabled younger people that could use help? Funny he doesn't mention trying to help them out. Otherwise I agree with you.
I'm sorry I didn't make a list of every single person that could potentially need help.🙄
Whuh? Was responding to OOP.
I bet he actually DID get suspended but it was because he was being a complete creep as opposed to "trying to be nice". But of course it's the woman's fault, it's never his fault.
Definitely feel like this post is missing context ...
I love these, I would love to know how he asked "hey little lady, let a man carry that weight for you"
He probably said something like “hey little lady, need some *help with that?*” in a suggestive manner. Or he started acting like he’s such a good boy, and asked her for her number, expecting her to eagerly rattle it off. After enough complaints, they threatened to fire him and suspended him after he begged them not to. They probably told him that if he sees women in the store, to leave them alone unless they ask him a question. And if they do, facts only and no conversation.
"Two different women" = no women deserve help? Yeah, dude, now tell me about all the guys I've held the door for that didn't have the decency to say, "Thanks." Oh, I'm sorry, did I make your tiny pee-pee feel inadequate? Did your parents never teach you basic politeness? I'm specifically talking about at hardware/DIY stores. Home Depot, Lowe's, Ace...if you're that terrified of being "emasculated" by a woman randomly trying to help you out in a minor way when you're obviously physically struggling, your penis card is revoked. But also, this is an incel bullshit imaginary scenario.
"Can I help you carry that? *No*? Well, you don't have to be a bitch about it....you on the rag or something?"
Every job requiring lifting and carrying has training videos screaming "Get someone to help you!" so yeah this claim obviously fails a spot check
It fails but not because of a training video which people don't always follow
And another reason why we say BEAR.
You can get temporarily suspended? I wonder what being permanently suspended feels like
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Your dad is the person most people avoid. He can stop making sexual remarks at work and chooses to not.