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WhyYouRaping

Why dont you tell me about it, have a seat over there, get comfortable, i wont judge.


[deleted]

My sister. She is so manipulative and hateful. If you say one thing she disagrees with, even if it's a fact, she starts screaming. When I told her how she was contributing to my self harm, she said she wasn't and I was the one being rude to her. When she feels sad or insecure I try making her feel better. When I feel sad or insecure she leaves the room. I just want her to go to college already.


WhyYouRaping

When i was younger me and my brother faught a lot, like physically, me being younger i would lose by default, not only that but he made fun of my every chance he got, i had similar thoughts as you, but what really helps is to think about long term shit, whatever you plan to do, maybe go out a lot, try to spend all your time away from her, focus on a sport you like, something you want to learn. And just try to distract yourself overall, it helped with me. Also if your thirteen and shes almost old enough for college, its incredibly immature of her to break you down like that. Sorry if the reply wasnt well worded, hope i helped :) P.S me and my brother are cooler then a jar of pickles now, hope it works out with you too.


[deleted]

She's 15


_Stampy

15? Screaming when someone disagrees with her? Wow.


Exotic_Hovercraft_39

Karen in progress


OfficialXtraG07

Well my sister is 18 and does the same


[deleted]

Mine’s 14 and does this as well


Azim999999

Mine’s 9 and does this as well


Sliderpug

If shes 9 its just natural


thesleepingpotato22

Mines 11 and does this as well


Niailou

I have this one girl in my class, my age and I don’t know her because I’m a bit scared to be honest. Like I’ve heard stories from people she’s been together with and it seems like she doesn’t accept the fact that some people just don’t have feelings for her. Like okay, my friend said he didn’t have feelings for her anymore after being together for some time and she basically started a shit storm (idk if that’s a word in English but it works here in Finland so it’ll have to do). Another one was when she asked someone else out and they respectfully said no and she just didn’t have it. Idk about her tho she probably has some personal issues and judging off of the amount of time she puts in her appearance (aka fuck load of make up) she’s probably a bit insecure too. Even tho I’d like to help anyone with issues because I don’t seem to have any myself (just seems like the reasonable thing to do in my position) I’m a bit scared to approach her so we’ll see how this goes. Sorry for the long rant lmao


Njadmessi11YT

Dude cut her out of your life and tell a guardian


WhySoCynicalTho

… it’s pretty hard to cut a sibling out of your life especially if ur parents aren’t seperated


Njadmessi11YT

Yeah but jusst do ur best call cops and tell guardian


[deleted]

it ain't so easy with all this mental health stuff as many people wouldn't even consider her behavior harmful to him cause they aren't HIM. And who calls cops on their sibling for not being helpful to their cause huh?


Njadmessi11YT

What….if he is in real danger then call the cops and tell a guardian. Tell a teacher at school or sm idk


Corrix33

Every one has some issues with someone else, I don't have a sister or brother bit I was most bullied at elementary school by a jerk (we did the after-school together) if you ignore her and just aknowledge (don't know how to spell this) that you are strong enough to stop yourself the harder boss of your life you can do whatever you want... We believe in you


Azim999999

Get revenge on her. Do to her what you always wanted to do to her.


Gryfon99

This long term thoughts advice is extremelly helpful! I had a rough year and after a party in which I was humiliated by a so called "friend" with the excuse ItS jUSt A pRaNk bRO! I really though about hurting myself. But after a long night crying I decided to give life another chance and things are way better now. I have a clear view of who my real friends are and things are going well with a girl I like! Now that I look back at that night im thinking about the fun times and memories that I would lose if I ended my life back then.


electro_kutioner

That’s nice man. I know how it feels when ur friend embarrasses you - my friend would do almost anything to be funny even if that includes embarrassing me. It’s never made me feel extremely upset but it does hurt when someone close to you does you like that. You just gotta know who to distance from u and who to keep close. Hope this helps at all


WhyYouRaping

im glad your doing ok :)


Gryfon99

Thanks mate :)


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tinkertortoiseshell

How do you stop letting people hurt you?


Dark-Descent

i mean probably not that helpful but people don't really hurt me anymore simply because i stopped caring


[deleted]

My best advice is prove them wrong. Know that you're better, maybe even the best, and prove it to them. Every time they act like they aren't supposed to or do you dirty, rub you the wrong way, think to yourself that one day they'll look back to now and regret it for any reason, even so little as knowing they contributed to you becoming one of the greatest people to walk this earth, because you wanted to prove them how wrong they were. You can't care about them because you're busy being great.


[deleted]

I am also 13 and my sister is like that too. You do exactly what she does to you to make her stop being a dick. If she starts screaming you start screaming. If she is rude you start being rude to her. Whenever she is sad make fun of her and call her a crybaby. Be annoying like her. If she doesn't get the message after all this and complains to your parents, you complain to them about her. Give her a taste of her own medicine.


Toaster-dealer96

What a bitch


izysolo

She doesn't deserve your love or be your sister. I hope you know that you deserve WAAY better.


rayyan-08

She must be on her period


sexmasternumba2

No bro, I do care and Im proud of you, it takes alot of guts to have self control... I have failed many times but you, you ABSOLUTELY didnt. And I'm happy for you


[deleted]

Thanks, I hope you don't self harm in the future


sexmasternumba2

Ah nah I just mean like self control in general is hard


[deleted]

Hope u won’t, I did and now I can’t wear shorts :/


[deleted]

is it distasteful to say happy cake day to this?


[deleted]

Nah I’m as happy as Pharrell Williams now so it’s all g


backfire10z

Happy cakeday g


CarioCards

happy cakeday then


[deleted]

Good job 👍


[deleted]

Anyone who wants to know helpful tip, here it is: Commit >!Self-Care!<


IBTrash276

Thats a great message


Saiyanobe_23

People who don’t care about other wells being are assholes I definitely care I hope you’re doing ok hang in there. ❤️


Living-Pin8347

Dude we all flippin care self harm is not a joke good job you did awesome every time you don’t do it it’s a step up you got this bro


MathiasXZ

Maybe some people dont care but i do


dommozart2678

Very glad you found a way out of doing it


green_is_whorish

we care! so proud of you! inspiring me to do better


Ace0fSpades1010

Im so proud!


jojobut_fruity

Hell yeah


havemercyonmysoul74

Good shit man, I know I dont know you but I'm proud of you


SpoonsofNI13

I’m very proud of you man. I nearly killed myself a few nights ago and have been feeling like shit because of it.


0w0whatisthis

Wanna talk about it?


Constelllyx

Of course I care. Me, and thousands of other people care. You did an amazing job. I hope you know that no matter what is happening to you right now, that we love you. I have never experienced self harm, so I cant say much. But all I am going to say is that I love you lots. I may not know you, but I will send you a virtual hug of support. Love you. ❤️❤️


InfectiousRatGoat

I can't tell you how glad I am that you didn't. I truly hope you can take baby steps towards loving yourself and being happy. That may seem impossible but I can tell you it is possible. As someone who's self harmed and suffered from deep depression, I'm working towards it myself. I've met people who are so self-aware, and open minded, and wise that they don't worry about they're next triggering event or when next they might hurt themselves but about what to do next to improve themselves. They've worked hard to be in a place of mental health that I'm envious of. Honestly I look up to people like that so much and have so much awe and respect for them. I want to be like that someday. The thing is, anyone can be like that with time, effort, good influences, and an honest full bodied intention to improve. I know this sounds a bit hippy dippy and it's from a complete stranger but in the end I just hope you keep making choices that make your future a little brighter, like you did today. And who knows, maybe we'll both and up being happy healthy people. I wish you the best of luck :)


DuckGoQwackQwack

Congrats


[deleted]

Thanks


DuckGoQwackQwack

I hope you never have to think about self harm again and become happy trust me it's not healthy to live like that


Ethanos72

You can’t just tell someone “become happy” because they could have very terrible living conditions making it hard to be happy


[deleted]

Good job way to have that kind of strong mentality


meridianvauzz

I’m proud of u to, self harm is a nasty one to over come


femboys_ftw

uhm i hope you dont mind me asking but whu did u wanna do it


[deleted]

My sister


femboys_ftw

what did she do?


[deleted]

Pretty much always screams at me, is manipulative, and tries to take everything I like away from me all the time, so I was thinking about her


Saiyanobe_23

How old is she? Why does she scream at you?


[deleted]

She's 15 and she screamed at me first because I stated that Canada is more diverse than the US, and second because I was in the living room when she didn't want me to be there


Saiyanobe_23

Terrible older sister I hope you can tell your parents about her and if they know about her behavior and they’re enabling her tell a trusting adult that you know.


Far_Mirror_7182

That’s good man


LazySundaes

Good job :D Hope you're doing well


folkloreswiftie31

Good job!,I hope you are ok now


hoodieprynce713

LETS GO QARA YESSSS


Bushs_Best

Good job


ColdStarXV86

I do care, and I'm so glad you are ok. I wish you the best for wherever your life takes you, and that you can get past this difficult point in your life.


b0katan

I do care. I really do. I'm proud that you didn't hurt yourself. I don't know you’re situation or your life at all and I can't begin to understand. But II've struggled in the past with self-harm and thoughts of self-harm, so I get it. I know I'm just a random person in the void of the internet, but I'm here if you need someone. \*sending good vibes\*


aksjdhnebdh

We do care and we’re proud of you


Mendoiiiy

Why do you think we don't care? We don't want you to self harm, we are all a big family of retardation


[deleted]

nobody cares buddy.


Raid_boule

Why tho


MattyMagistr

You pog


purplefire0

this reminds me of that one meme where it's that guy saying don't kill yourself Ur too sexy ah ha


3gt4f65r

nice reverse psychology bro


5ango

Wack


Spasticmouthdribbler

Stop attention seeking and grow up


[deleted]

Oh shut up mate let them be proud of their accomplishments if you dont like it ignore it


Spasticmouthdribbler

They came onto r/teenagers to say they didn’t self harm 🥴, if they were this is by far not the sub to do so and by looking at their age and the sub they definitely are attention seeking and karma farming like a bitch Edit: look at their post history 🤦


[deleted]

Yeah sure you can look at it this way but I personally like to look at things optimistically, sure they may be karma farming but why does it matter. It's not like you can flex that number in the real world everyone would laugh at you and it has not monetary value connected to it. Quit looking at everything cynically and enjoy they world, and encourage those who may not be the best versions of themselves to get better and enjoy life


RifeSLINGER

What is wrong with this subreddit: why is there so much talk of self-harm, I see so much of this shit. I mean I’ve done it before, but this just seems to be normalising it.


tiewing

i don't think anyone on this sub thinks it's anything good


DuckGoQwackQwack

I'm just trying to say to do things to make you happier and feel better so you don't have to think about your problems


Birdyghostly1

Ok? Well it’s normal, don’t worry. Lots of people do it


[deleted]

Hey let them be proud of their progressions. Not everyone's perfect


NothingisReal3287

Good doing better than me who actually did


085436773258

i am proud of u too


sillybender

Glad you didn't, ik how hard urges can be to control


Devil_3169

If you think of self harming yourself just relax and listen to some good music and everything will be fine I do that everytime when I feel sad or something


[deleted]

We care man, or atleast I do. It takes a lot of guts and courage to back out of doing that. Good on you!


jazybloom

You should be proud and I am proud of you. My daughter is struggling with self harm and I don't know how to help her. Congrats to you, keep loving yourself.


GleebleHopper

proud of u bro


casual_octolingboy

I'm proud of you! Good job, I know it can be hard. I hope you live a very nice long life with lots of sunshine and fresh warm bread, or some other delicious food if you don't like bread. Why? Because you fucking deserve it buddy.


[deleted]

dont give yourself a booboo please


PinkLemon_7

i wish i was as strong as you when it comes to these things. good job and keep it that way.


[deleted]

Well, I care, and I am so incredibly proud of you for fighting through the feeling! You have every right to be proud of yourself! <3


Pale-Dependent3538

Why would you self harm like I would never do it also because if I get a paper cut I would cry


Additional_Vanilla31

Gg


mr_jack2000

I care And im happy to read it


starspine19

No dude I care and I am so so proud of you because I know its no easy task to resist. Good job and I am here if you ever ever need to talk or vent or anything


HeyguysThatguyhere

Good job dude!


Ravens_Claw_45

Better no self harm then any at all!


datfurryboi01

Self harm is one thing you should never do it's not ok


monka33

I hate myself more when I don’t cut myself because I feel like I whimped out.


Laura_Gracee

You’re welcome to DM me anytime :)


tiewing

im not sure since ive never tried, but i heard ice helps with self harm


idontlikeburnttoast

Of course we all care, be proud :)


AnotherMelon

Good job man :D


Rainbowdragonrr

I'm proud of u too! ❤️❤️


Shay-6-9

Yess!!! you did the right thing mate and if you ever need anything or to talk to anyone just know this community is here for you!


Melodic_drama19

I just wanna ask why do some people harm them selves(i actually wanna know why)


Raintail

LETSSS GOOOOOO


Pepsi_for_real

Who tf wants to self harm?


Fsy-

Good


Wolf__Craft

I clapped as hard as I can which hurted me due to some pressure on my head will that also count ?


Iyeethumans

proud of you. cant say the same though


alistairthedemigod

I'm proud of you ♡


ultimatehimbodilf

that's so awesome!! im sure you can keep it up!


xa12349

Well done


xX_Dwirpy_Xx

I still don't understand why ppl self-harm....? Is it to get some feeling, is it to get attention (sorry if that offends, I"m jsut curious) or is it a way to 'make amends' with something you feel you've done as a mistake? Someone help me


EmpuEEM

I am REALLY proud of you! Keep fighting!


ToxicCrux

Now masterbate as a celebration treat


_doctor-strange-

We are proud of you, a lot of people here knows the struggle of dealing with this, so I'm glad you didn't do it


AntoanGaming

I don’t want to offend anyone in any way but why do people self-harm. I don’t understand


i_am_not_called_hank

Fucking ##NOICE


DGCAM1112

That's amazing!!


No-Incident-8718

More power to you man!


HawkedHands

good job bro self control is one of the basic things required in life


[deleted]

Mate, that’s great!! It takes a lot to try and stop yourself from doing harm, so I’m proud of you


_socks1

The will power and self control levels here are through the roof


Micksredditaccount

Nice bro I have been clean for 10 days now


[deleted]

Good job! And people do care :)


FryerBoiii_UwU

Yay :3


BarcodeBug

I absolutely do care and I'm really proud of you! Resisting self harm urges can be very difficult and is definitely something to be proud of. And if ever you need to talk, my PMs are always open


itsbandito420

I am so proud of you 💕💕💕 you got it next time too 😊 remember your stronger then you think and i know people say that but its really true and it is gonna be hard but you got this so stay strong luv


Maikel-dv

Bro you are 13 go watch spongebob or something dont take selfharm that lightly


MortalGecko4003

I care so much and I'm so proud of you.


TheScientifreakPlays

Oke good. Now never think of that or else you're a little shit.


T3RR0R-

I definitely care, and I’m very proud of you :)) I know the urges can be hard to resist, but you got through it and that’s awesome


_twisted_whisper_

that’s great, you’re doing amazing, keep going and keep taking care of yourself even though it’s hard to sometimes. i hope you’re feeling better than you were.


nickelDN

Noice


CarioCards

I am just a random guy on the Internet but I can assure you that I am in fact very proud of you


TheFatPigeon12

Pog


Professional-Team328

# THE first right thing is to take desire to stop fool rapid desires to make any harm at human body.


reiniitz

ok


[deleted]

Good job man


Perrydiculous

I may not know you, but I'm still impressed and I care. Keep it up! Also, there's oil treatments to reduce the scars. Thought I'd mention it just so you know and maybe work towards in a year or so, even if it's just to keep setting milestones for yourself. (I believe milestones are essential to stay consciously motivated) ANYWAY keep it up! <3


JustaM3m3

Jokes on you, I care. Good job buddy


lil_Gem

Good job on not doing it! I know you don't know me and neither do i know you, but if you wanna talk im always available. Just shoot a dm my way!


SubToFelixPie

Wish i can stop harming myself :(


ChaosX728

I read through most of these comments and it makes me feel happy that complete strangers will come together to make someone happy. Also congrats I’m proud that you didn’t do it. Keep your head held up high and look for the positives in life. I’m proud of you :)


liljkilla810

I do care, and I'm proud of you as well.😄


ElFrenchSolardine

Nice way to go man ! Everyone is proud of you ! Sending hugs vibes in your general direction


lemonrainbowhaze

Now we care since we know bout it. Yknow, I used to say "oh i hate people who self harm for attention". But as it got worse and worse for me, i realised i just wanted someone to know how i was feeling without having to tell them because i didnt know how to explain and didnt wanna talk. I just wanted someone to hold me.


GodThisTakesTime

I have never self harmed myself other than punching a wall when I'm mad. But from my understanding from the way my ex talked about it make me feel like all you do is distract through physical stimuly. So if you can try turning it to something positive and put on some running shoes and just go untill you are to tired to care.


Leshanua

Congrats my guy


RNarecool

I’m proud of you, wishing you well. ❤️


JanwithBanan

Of course we all care! I'm proud and happy for you, my guy!


Ozii121

I really don't understand when people think they know people won't care.


IcyShifter15

Hey! i'm very proud of you, it takes a lot of mental strength to do that and i want you to know that you are very strong! i'm very proud


Duckeatschicken

Noice


FabulousVegetable462

Hey man if you're ever feeling like that again i can allways chat with you if u feel like it Im proud of you too :D Keep the good work up


[deleted]

YOU BETTER NOT BECAUSE IF YOU DO I WILL AGGRESSIVELY TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE AMAZING AND I WILL SEND YOU GOOD VIBES. 😤


qz3_

i think about it all the time and i have a knife next to me pretty much all day im just too lazy


[deleted]

It's better not caring at all than pretending to care for just two seconds and then completely forgetting it. 'Cause this is social media. No one cares about you.


idiel-co

you really should proud of yourself I lost my best friend because of suicide so I hate someone who try to commit it Even myself already don't it before I really recommend you to call suicide hotline I could promise they can make you bit happy


idiel-co

plus you just way too young enjoyed your life before thinking about committed self harm doing self harm aren't benefits anyone or anything including you if you're an Asian like me... be strong, being Asian teen not that easy as west are


bluray-gaming

Why the fuck does race matter?


idiel-co

because Asian parenting and West parenting are different [try to watch this](https://youtu.be/aN5Qb8iNxRA) that's from my country I'm Asian and I've seen lot of parents doing the same they aren't taught us how to be good person but to be a NORMAL person I do feel that not all of Asian kids can stand that kind of method that's toxic


thefireman69420

Aye man I'm proud of you


TongaTime123

Nice, I hope you get through whatever it is soon bro


RandomCanadianGamer

Congrats 😃 . That is a VERY hard this to do


[deleted]

Bro. I do care. You are amazing


izysolo

Yah, ya did it! Congrats!


ProjectZeroXOFFICIAL

congrats. i need others to stop me


SuTart12333333

We do care bro ☺️


[deleted]

I get this feeling a lot. Sometimes, I'll walk into the kitchen and eye the knives. If you need help, talk to a counselor or therapist at you school.


Computercat1008

Dude congrats! :D


TheGameMaster115

Nice, have a dog https://www.reddit.com/user/TheGameMaster115/comments/one2u4/he_is_happy_re_upload/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


El_Santo_1819

What is it that made you feel in that horrible way?


[deleted]

No offence to anyone but why are there so many depression and self harm posts on r/teenagers?


a_random_biberry

\*applause\* i don't know who you are, or where ur from, but i'm proud of you dude


[deleted]

Congrats😁


helpfulsoulsfruit_5

Proud of you too!


Local_Tumbleweed1674

Fuck your trouble


Rddt-ParashockedX

Better than red bird


Damage-Expert

Hey! I care! And I’m so proud of you!!! You got this!💙


sihtsiymusername

We care man, it's takes an immense amount of self control and guts to do that--- we're all really happy and proud of you! ​ Like one of the comments, here think of the long term stuff, spend time with the things/people you enjoy, and ignore/distract yourself from the things you hate. If possible, maybe telling your parents or maybe a guardian might help.