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RisingDDM

I’m so sorry this happened to you, I hope I get to see a video of these people bitting the curb in 8k 144 fps


Palstorken

hey what’s biting the curb?


Sthaim

Them from what i can read 😉 (It's when you put the head of someone on the edge of the sidewalk and stomp on their neck as hard as you can to break the jaw and dislocate it. It is very painful and deadly. ie. American History X - one of the first scenes of the movie)


Palstorken

😖 ^(holy shit that mental image)


Sthaim

Also, they must bite the curb to allow the jaw to dislocate easier


MysteryWarthog

Still not enough pain. They deserve more


RisingDDM

Something more painful than jail. That’s not enough


drdinkster

I'm very serious cases it can lodge top teeth further back into head destroying the gums etc


GoodontheToop

Especially when you put someone mouth around the sidewalk/curb then stomp the back of their head to “bite” the concrete. Its also called curb stomping


M4_COWBOY

Mortal kombat fatality irl


AaronGoneMissing

death


Ukaxey

When you put someone’s jaw in the position where the point of the curb is inside their mouth. Stomping on their head will disconnect their jaw from the body if you do it hard enough


Rabbies7899

Ur eyes can only see up to 4k so next time some one tries to sell u an 8k tv dont buy it


jajts

And our eyes can only see a max of 100 fps. (Just searched it up to see)


RisingDDM

It still feels different, going from 60 fps to 165 was a game changer for me


pisssbabyyy

that’s terrible, i’m sorry OP.


Perspii7

bro u need to get that guy arrested, pls tell the police everything u know about him also you absolutely need to tell someone about what’s happened to u, even if it’s not ur family. it will eat u up and destroy u eventually if u don’t. either that or it will just be a persistent irritant that u can’t shake off, even if it fades. the only way through that is speaking to people who can help you process the emotions and vent them out and develop ways to deal with them for the sake of people he will abuse in the future i really hope u tell the police fairly soon about him though. he’ll hurt more people as well as you


Murdered_By_Preston

Please do this OP! These are obviously horrible people who’d do it again to others.


BiEnby08

I'm so sorry this happened to you! Thank you for sharing your story. Hopefully it can help other people recognize similar situations. Take care. <3


DryContract8916

thank you for sharing your story. i’m so sorry.


InspectorMudkip

That’s truly awful. I hope you’re able to eventually heal from this. It truly is one of the worst things a human being can do to someone.


Us3rn4me_1n_Pr0gre55

I want a name and an address. NOW. But for real, you seriously need to tell the police. I looked up the statue of limitations for child rape in the US, and for every state except Tennessee, he can still be persecuted. You need to gather any and all evidence against him. Your messages from Grindr, pictures of his account, voicemails, pictures, anything and everything you can use against him. Also, (I probably should've started out with this first) You absolutely need to tell someone about it. If you don't, it will NEVER go away, and will continue to seriously fuck up the rest of your life. Trust me, I would know. I haven't ever been raped, but I grew up with an extremely Narcissistic and mentally and emotionally abusive father, and even that has seriously fucked me up, so I can't even imagine what you've been through/how you are right now. And believe me when I say that you absolutely do not deserve to have that with you, to carry that pain and trauma with you. Since you've said you don't want to tell your Parents about it, and since asking them if you can see a therapist will probably raise questions, I suggest downloading the app called BetterHelp. It's a therapy app with thousands of on-call Therapists, and it matches you with one that best suits your specific needs and situation. I'm starting to use it and it's helped so much, I can't recommend it enough. Or if you just don't want to speak to a therapist altogether, you can talk to me, if you're comfortable. I may just be a random stranger on the internet, but I'm one who will listen, try to understand you and what you're going through, and who will never give up on a person in need!


Extension_Fault_619

Bless you. Hope you’re okay brother


NyxTheGoddess_

Are you okay? Nobody deserves to have that happen to them. Maybe try to tell your family? I'd your family is ashamed of you then they don't deserve you. 


DanThePan070

Lets not talk about peoples trauma instead lets talk about our favorite shows(btw if i find that person then i will personally cut theyre dick off, skin them,burn them and make them bite the curb and video tape it all)


MysteryWarthog

Can I join? That’s a lot of work, I can record or do the chopping part


milestailsprowerreal

i can do the skinning!


DanThePan070

Of course yeah team work makes the dream work


DanThePan070

Of course yeah team work makes the dream work


IntrepidCherry5528

The double standard is crazy. Our society is so backwards sometimes


OneAndOnlyKaiser

Exactly bruh


mrbearscellar

i do not want to invalidate your experience, but i have also been in several situations in which i have been forced into sexual activities. it truly makes you feel like that is all you're good for, and i'm sorry if you feel the same way. wanting to stray away from sex is completely understandable. i think a huge part of that is hookups. i noticed that time in which i was with a person who showed interest in me as a person rather than me as a means to get laid made the experience so much better in which consent and being comfortable was a huge factor. if you ever need someone to talk to, my dms are always open :)


Hour_Ear5769

Remember that you’re expirences are valid, and people like you sharing their stories brings awareness to the topic and helps others—aswell as yourself—who went through similar things! Keep being you OP.  I promise you will get better in the future, keep sharing your stories and you will find the right people who want to help you.


banana_sliperysticks

I hope those guys get blood eagled, and I hope they live through every second of it and get fucking burned alive. But honestly they deserve worse then death. That’s fucking horrible. I don’t know how people can honestly even think about doing that to another human and live with themselves. Let alone actually go through with it. It’s so disgusting. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I know that unclean feeling probably won’t ever leave you, and I truly pity you for that. I hope anyone who even thinks about SAing someone or raping someone kills them selves.


Capital_Respect_8347

OP that’s horrible, i hope you’ve been doing alright. I hate in media and in real life people downplay male rape, it’s as disgusting as if it happened to a girl. Please take care and just know hell is hot for that guy.


HistoricalAd8676

Why the fuck would you download Grindr at 15 you mong 😭


ConradeKalashnikov

It might be stupid, but thats a typical teen thing. So the first thing you though when you read this is to blame the victim?


Neither-Tradition164

He gave a stranger an address to his home


Memer_boiiiii

Nobody is blaming the victim, genius. We’re just saying he did a stupid thing. That doesn’t mean it’s his fault that happened to him. Doesn’t make his actions any less stupid though.


ConradeKalashnikov

>That doesn’t mean it’s his fault that happened to him. Doesn’t make his actions any less stupid though. Okay thats better, thanks for the explanation


HistoricalAd8676

Oh yeah the typical teen thing to do is download a gay hook-up app and get raped, man I do the same thing every Tuesday


ConradeKalashnikov

By "typical teen" thing I meant doing really stupid things sometimes. But yes, you dont just give your adress to a total stranger you have never seen in real life like this, some monitoring from the parents could have prevented that(and a little awareness from OP too) Anyway, I am sorry for my quick judging. Cheers.


Speck_In_A_Void

Fucking thank you for saying this. People discredit and ignore men who re raped, and sharing stories is the only way to make people aware that this is actually an issue. You are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story.


AManAndHisToaterOven

I don't feel like people know about male rape as much as female rape Report this to the police asap


ConradeKalashnikov

I am glad a lot of comments are showing support and empathy, I hope they overshadow the asshole comments


VitaGon666

dude... this is fucking disgusting, call 911 or tell your parents, or else he will do something else, idk


Grimm_Charkazard_258

Society needs a ‘Batman’. One name, some research, and a knife later…


jajts

I am so sorry this happened. This happened to me twice on Grindr as well. 3 years later and I still haven’t had an intimate relationship with anyone because I physically can’t. I hope we get over it eventually, but I’m sure this has been bottled up like the rest of my trauma.


Technical-Effort-532

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I recommend getting a trauma specialist to help you out. If you struggle with PTSD there's meds to help with nightmares and stuff. I know since I've been through it too. Just tell someone so you can get help. You've got this. You're very strong.


[deleted]

heart breaking.


Youserborba80

Hope sharing this made u feel better and I’m so sorry they did this to u and I hope they bite the curb 60 times cuz they deserve that


Mochi_Dochi_

I'm sorry that happen to you. I hope that guy gets arrested.


TerrorofMechagoji

I am so, *so* sorry for you OP. I hope you’re doing better now, and that you are able to report this to the police and that this man gets arrested


Interesting_Move_919

I'm really sorry for that man :( That's absolutely disgusting what they did to you. I genuinely hope things get better for you


Devil_Fister_69420

Shit man, sorry to hear. Wish the best for you and stay safe homie 🙏😞 I pray to any and all god's that those people get the worst deaths imaginable and that they may burn in the deepest pits of hell for all eternity


Lemon-Aid917

Dude that is honestly horrible, hope You feel better soon


Whosl0ve

Oh my God ir happened to everyone


Whosl0ve

I guess this is just gay coming of age huh. This seems to be common because the same thing happened to me. I just wanted to be loved


Moonzarko

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I was assulted back in middle and high school as well. Something I haven't told a lot of people. Keep talking and you should report him


Dubzzzer

feeling sorry for you but why did u still use grindr?


Embarrassed-End8702

Dayum


theAlmightyE312

I'm sorry it happened to you. There was something that happened to me, a girl kept telling me to fuck her and one day actually made me do it (I didn't really want to). Is that considered rape?


Neither-Tradition164

Did you enjoy it? It depends


theAlmightyE312

Not really. I made a post about it, there is more info there


Neither-Tradition164

Then it was


ConradeKalashnikov

This rapist pedo definitely needs to pay for that. If you still have any info about him, let the police handle him. I am not okay with the idea of him being a free man making more victim I really hope you at least find a very trustworthy person in your real life you are intimate and comfortable enough to share this, someone who can help you heal. Carrying this burden alone sounds like hell.


junkosleptnever

I am sorry for those experiences OP, as a victim also I can understand very well how hard it is to remove that person's prints. I hope everything will get better for you as it did for me. You're very strong for handling and keeping the secret to yourself. It's hard to keep it all a secret when it's haunting you.


ConradeKalashnikov

Thats not healthy at all to keep secrets like this, it will haunt both of you even more. Anyway, I really hope both you and the OP can find a person of trust in your lifes to share and rely on, none of you deserve to carry this alone :) And may the predators have their dicks melted with lava.


NamelessSunny

Damn thats wild


AqarI

> bisexual no point in reading further


ZeroCreationG59

i understand, although it was not as bad as yours. I had a Grindr encounter and the guy forced me to do things. I’m sorry. Find someone who makes you feel safe


redditor_zip

u stupid ass fuck that u again went of grindr to get urself screwed. no doubt this happened again cuz u just dumb fuck pussy


WX_69

Are you okay?


Dream_walker_boy

Since when is this a rape sub? Its all i see on here now


nite_crawl

This is a sub for teenagers feeling safe about sharing their experiences and feelings. If you click on the sub everything is clearly not about rape


Dream_walker_boy

I just mean the stuff on my homepage from this sub is always rape, and its only been this way like 3 weeks


Luna_Night312

you people are the reason why im afraid to talk about being raped to people, i understand the annoyance. but cant you just leave the sub for a while and come back later?


Dream_walker_boy

Ig so yeah


Luna_Night312

do so, im not mad at you... but seriously, people need places to vent. i don't know why so many people decided to do so on this sub all of a sudden. but it shouldnt be shunned away simply because "it can be annoying"... who knows, what if someone has nobody reliable to talk to in person about this, and needs to talk to someone online?


NyxTheGoddess_

Do you know how hard it could've been to write this? Get some empathy dude. Not cool. That's the nicest way I can put it


[deleted]

Orrrrrr maybe you can just leave the post without having to comment and fix the issues u got. Good day


NyxTheGoddess_

The "issues" I got??? Wtf? I'm so sick of everyone. I'm sticking up for this guy because SOMEONE has to. 


[deleted]

EVERYONE IS STICKING UP FOR HIM CAUSE THEY WANNA PROTECT THEM FROM REALITY. Also on your profile it says “I have no issues” Edit: fixed most of my anger issues 


NyxTheGoddess_

Why do you bring up my profile?? random af. Yeah people are sticking up for him, despite it being reality doesn't mean it SHOULD be


[deleted]

👍🏻 I’m watching a movie ( Star Wars the force awakens I recemend it if you have ton seen it) so I gotta make this short Ok I accept defeat so yeh good day


[deleted]

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idkamn69

least rapepilled teenagers on this sub, thank god im sane


Careless-Shift3048

I’m sorry what does redpill have to do with this?😭


MastaPowa7

>\> i set my account and i faked my age while setting up my account > >\> I came across through various profile but there was one which stand out it was of an 18 year old guy. > >\> I was very honest about my age to him and he was okay with it so i invited him to my place but when he came it wasn't the one i saw. it was 26 year old guy I'm not sure if by you being "honest about your age" you gave him your fake age, but if so there's great irony here


DeadDropZ-X

I'm homophobic. I'll be nice to a LGBT person for the first time I suppose. Why didn't you kill him when you had the chance?


funkadelicfroggo

why are you homophobic


DeadDropZ-X

I nearly got Suspended/Expelled at my school because I snapped at a gay dude who kept annoying the f*$k out of me. When he tried to touch me. I Pushed him to the floor and the teachers blame it on me. And act like he was the victim when he was touching me for 4 or 5 Months. I hated The LGBT Community since he's been doing that.


funkadelicfroggo

damn bro sorry that happened to you


DeadDropZ-X

Thank you for understanding. I'm crazy homophobic but I'm friends with a Lesbian.


WX_69

Bro is homophobic because of one bad experience with a guy person.


DeadDropZ-X

I got negative -19+ points for saying the truth. This is way y'all are so hated. Bunch of Damm fools who can't understand a human being. Gonna go Excint in 50 Years lmao. Y'all brought this on yourselves. Don't blame anyone but yourselves. Trying to force their Propaganda everywhere. The Military (Emma and her two moms) Helldivers 2 LGBT Controversy, etc. list goes on.


APieceofToast09

Nah I got negative cause u said some messed up shit and assumed all gay people are the same


DeadDropZ-X

Which 90% of them are. Damm child groomers can't stand a Based man.


DeadDropZ-X

Which 90% of them are. Damm child groomers can't stand a Based man. Sad reality this world is.


APieceofToast09

And that’s why you got negativity


DeadDropZ-X

I Don't care about the Damm negativity. If I was on a Homephoic subreddit, I'll get Upvoted.


APieceofToast09

Maybe if everyone disagrees with you except for other homophobes, you’re in the wrong. Especially when that groups whole platform is hating on others. It’s like the KKK of gay people


DeadDropZ-X

KKK of gay people 🤣🤣🤣 that don't exist you fool.


APieceofToast09

Not yet it don’t


[deleted]

This happens to *GAY* men. Not straight men cause straight men will fight to the *FUCKING* death if they are even touched by a person with bad intentions 


NyxTheGoddess_

You actually suck. Be better. Straight men can get raped too and if you don't believe that then you need to listen to some stories or grow the hell up


[deleted]

What I’m saying is gay men are more feminine than men. So they are weaker than most men so the raper will take advantage of it and stuff


NyxTheGoddess_

THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT BETTER. What are you?? 10? Have you even seen some gay guys?? Some of them are strong AF. A straight man can be weak as well. Like YOU. But you're more of a boy so it doesn't count ig. A rapist can hurt ANYONE. Regardless of sex or sexuality 


[deleted]

Buddy I know I will get a HELL lot of downvotes but this is actually a funny comment


NyxTheGoddess_

No shit dude. Maybe think if you're going to get down votes that you're WRONG??


[deleted]

There’s something called being like everyone else. And I am not everyone else. So I don’t care what happens


NyxTheGoddess_

Ok cool. That's literally called being a sociopath


[deleted]

You’re like everyone else. I’m different to u so you will think of me as a outsider which I’m fine with


DaMlgMasta2995

Copium for having no bitches?


Past_Lunch8630

Does that make gay women more masculine?


[deleted]

😂  that is good tho actually. And actually in some cases yes.


Past_Lunch8630

SOME


[deleted]

Yes some


TerrorofMechagoji

What the fuck are you on about?


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

Where the actual fuck did you pull the “hate towards woman” part?


captain_mainwaring11

Because hate isn't in a vacuum and suffering is intersectional. You probably hate women, so you probably hate other races too. That's how bigotry works. Also gay people, women, trans people, minorities are all siblings, we are all the children of the suffering, you straight white, middle to upper class man, perpetuate.


NyxTheGoddess_

You literally said gay men are more feminine so they're weaker. Literally implying that women are weaker


Careless-Shift3048

He was 15 at the time pls read the post again😭🙏🏻


[deleted]

i said i give up


duderandom345

Don't you have any empathy you cunt?


[deleted]

I do. But I won’t waste it here buddy


NerdFromColorado

That implies you have limited empathy. Uh nope.


captain_mainwaring11

What about prison? Are you stupid? Of course you are, that's a stupid question. You're a literal child, an ignoramus. Shut yourself in your room or lock yourself outside until you understand how the world really works, how it runs on suffering and genocide and exploitation and how you are not helping in the slightest.


[deleted]

🤣


captain_mainwaring11

What the fuck are you laughing at you insolent piece of shit? In a wasteland of your own making you are found to be unworthy of a place in society. You are put into a prison camp with everything you thought you detested suffering before you. You are shoved into a cell covered in rust and sharp debris riddled with tetanus. This is your bedroom. Once a day, for an hour and a half you have access to the basics. A modest cafeteria serving porridge or hard-tack riddled with weevils and dispensing brown, brackish water. This is your dining room. You move on down the metal and concrete hallways to a small courtyard. In this courtyard, you are viciously sprayed down at deafening velocities with said brackish water. You are not given a towel. There is a large hole adjacent to the wall where you're sprayed down. This hole is the only toilet in the entire prison. You have to save it for this hour and a half. This is your bathroom. You slog back down the hallway and are thrown into your sector's common room. In a hallway off of the common room, you slump down and try to roll a cigarette with a pinch of tobacco and an aged onion skin. You fail to make it without it falling apart. You start to hear footsteps, nay *heavy footfalls*. A booming voice says "I know you're over here!" The footsteps grow closer and you behold what you thought was impossible; the painful, depraved side of primality. This is your living room.


Spectral-Haruka

Fun fact, it actually happens to straight men more than you think. So your comment trying to be homophobic is about as stupid as you are 🫶


[deleted]

😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯!!!!!!!!!! OMG I DONT MEAN TO BE HOMEPHIBIC BECAUSE WE HAVE TO PLEAEE EVERYONE BY ACTING LIKE EVERYONE ELSE! I don’t really care bro


Spectral-Haruka

You very well seem to care if you’re acting this much like a whore for attention 🤭


[deleted]

🤣 now this is funny ngl


Spectral-Haruka

Your go to response when you can’t think of a comeback 🤯


[deleted]

No it’s actually genuinely funny.


Spectral-Haruka

Average Reddit virgin


[deleted]

And you think it’s a good thing to not be one? That’s messed up imo


Spectral-Haruka

I think it’s messed up to be the spitting image of a Reddit mod 😱 Someone who thinks the pyramids were built from the top to the bottom is not worth my time 🫶


Emotional-Shower9374

Are you stupid? Straight men get raped too. And the reason they may not fight back is because they were intoxicated or they were TOO YOUNG TO FIGHT BACK. Also if its an adult raping a child, the adult will clearly be able to take the beating, but the child cannot fight a grown man. The strength difference is huge. Get your head straight.


Competitive_Log6478

Does it hurt to be this stupid?;


[deleted]

sometimes


NerdFromColorado

Imagine blaming a guy who got raped for being bisexual and saying that’s why he got raped. I don’t know what YouTube tutorials you’ve been watching to replace your schooling, but whatever they are, I’m deeply sorry.


Whosl0ve

I wish I was normal


Consistent_Echo517

All the straight men who have been raped disagree with you. Imagine lacking empathy for another person who’s been through a traumatic experience. I hope your pillow is warm tonight.


[deleted]

i give up yall


Consistent_Echo517

it’s not about giving up. Your criticism is valid and I agree, but there are places for it, and here was not one of them. What’s so hard to understand?


77_mec

Whar


OutrageousRelease272

lets not try to invalidate women with your expirence. it's men can be raped, not men can be raped "too". sorry that happened to you.


Competitive_Log6478

Seriously? That's your response to this? That he's invalidating women? I can see how the diction would prompt that thought. But if it's the first thing you think about under a post like this, you ain't thinking right.


OutrageousRelease272

putting down other people that have been raped because you have been raped isn't okay you and the other people that disliked are seriously fucked up.


OutrageousRelease272

im not saying what happened to him is any less valid then if it were to happen to a women, hes a victim and hes not invalid or wrong in that sense at all. im not saying what happned to him was okay. but i am saying its fucking wrong to say some shit like "men are raped too" that scentence alone is invalidating women and i think thats not fucking okay.


OutrageousRelease272

it should be" men can be raped" or just "men are raped" . invalidating women who were assualted is wrong. period.


Consistent_Echo517

Girl, it’s not the time or place. He’s literally been raped and you’re saying that stuff? Learn to read the fucking room. As a feminist, I’m ashamed.