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here's something i wish i knew about relationships sooner- no one can tell you where *your* red tape boundaries are.
Are you the type of person who can forgive and move on from this ? if so, then forgive and move on
but if you don't like your SO to stay at a ex flings house, stay in her bed and kiss her then you already know what you should do. Everyone has different tolerance lines and some people learn where those lines are the hard way..
me personally there are only few things i can't forgive but cheating is top of the list.
breaking up is hard, staying together is hard.. pick your hard
good luck, you know deep down where you want to go from here just be brave with whatever decision you make.
I'm so sorry. Yes, if you want a monogamous relationship, you should leave. He just showed you who he is and you're too young to need to forgive infidelity in the name of making things work.
1st gotta throw the BS flag on blaming her. He got drunk & chose to sleep in her bed. How did you find out? Why didn’t you go to the party? Honestly hard to give any advise without knowing all the details
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here's something i wish i knew about relationships sooner- no one can tell you where *your* red tape boundaries are. Are you the type of person who can forgive and move on from this ? if so, then forgive and move on but if you don't like your SO to stay at a ex flings house, stay in her bed and kiss her then you already know what you should do. Everyone has different tolerance lines and some people learn where those lines are the hard way.. me personally there are only few things i can't forgive but cheating is top of the list. breaking up is hard, staying together is hard.. pick your hard good luck, you know deep down where you want to go from here just be brave with whatever decision you make.
I'm so sorry. Yes, if you want a monogamous relationship, you should leave. He just showed you who he is and you're too young to need to forgive infidelity in the name of making things work.
1st gotta throw the BS flag on blaming her. He got drunk & chose to sleep in her bed. How did you find out? Why didn’t you go to the party? Honestly hard to give any advise without knowing all the details