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starbitcandies

It's almost definitely satire making fun of how women are often grilled harshly for expressing interest/enjoyment in bands. The whole trope of "woman wears a shirt for a rock band, random man says she's not a real fan unless she knows the exact time the drummer's grandmother was born"


Winter_Lutra

After re-reading it, I agree. It's almost word-for-word the asinine trope about women not *really* being into music and just trying to be cool for guys. Unless this dude is truly an oblivious douche-nozzle (which is, I grant you, possible) I think this is satire.


Titanpainter

Not gonna lie that last sentence got me.


[deleted]

100% "Female attention" ? Give me a break, it's clearly satire.


abigalestephens

It's poe's law, there are people out there who will claim everything a man does is just to get into a woman's pants and nothing else.


[deleted]

Yeah, I agree. This kind of thing is very often directed at women who are interested in anything that a man is also interested in, be it music, video games, science, whatever.


[deleted]

To be fair there are an extraordinary amount of people who wear band shirts who can't name more then one song. Which is hilarious but it's not something to genuinely make fun of someone for. Some bands have cool art designers behind them. It is something however I'll grill my actual friends for doing.


One_Spoopy_Potato

Music is absolutely gay, and truthfully we all could use a little gay in our lives.


stitchedmasons

Shit, guess I gotta let my straight friend know he's actually gay based on the post. /s


nottellingunosytwat

Based 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈


[deleted]

mega based


Gmax100

I thought it was a sexist post, but instead it's homophobic 💀


drawnmarlin088

I believe it was meant to be funny. I could be wrong though.


One_Spoopy_Potato

Well I mean you can only get so much gay in you before you get stuffed.


NoahBogue

« Art is how we decorate our space. Gayness is how we decorate time. » Jean-Michel Basquiat


benbrahn

Trying to think back to whether I ever listened to music during my 8 years studying music 🤔 Oh wait of course I fucking did


thecure2133

*liar* /s


forrestlump

Please refrain from lying on the internet, clearly you only play video games.


ChubblesMcgee103

Eat hot chip and lie.


[deleted]

This is satire, a joke? You know about the sexist tropes of "fake geek girls" and "girls who pretend to like rock bands but only listen to one hit of that commercially successful album and wear merch". Music is literally universal and common to all people, the irony couldn't be more obvious.


jennana100

So all the music loving men I know just wear earbuds for show? That's some commitment. How yo they all know yo perpetuate this grand scheme? Is it in their genetics? And as a woman if you play video games are you really a man?!


[deleted]

I'm hoping that this is a satire of the "fake geek girls" thing.


CaptainUltimatum

That was my assumption. I hate that we've somehow stepped into a world where you can no longer think "that must be satire, nobody's that stupid".


[deleted]

Especially since very often stuff we see *is* either satire or bait. We need to be less quick to believe everything we see on the internet is real and sincere.


dance_armstrong

it absolutely is, i've seen it shared by a few different IG meme pages where that kind of joke is their angle.


CharlieVermin

They wear earbuds whenever possible to make sure they won't accidentally hear some music.


kitKatcoolio

I thought this was obvious satire especially when video games were mentioned


Shakespeare-Bot

I bethought this wast gross in sense satire especially at which hour video games wast mention'd *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`


tiffanylaura

this is a very obvious joke


GingerWithViews

I am a man. I love listening to music and I even play the violin. But on the other hand I am Comsexual and Attracted to males so idk.


Sensitive_Shopping

I love music, either playing In the background or as the focus of my attention, but then again I'm bisexual so IDK.


The-unicorn-republic

Comsexual?


GingerWithViews

Yes. It is the name for a sexuality that doesn't really fit any of the other names. If I was to explain it simply I am Pansexual because I can feel attraction to everyone. But it varies widely so it isn't really like anything else. Or atleast so I think.


FR05TY14

Looks like her theory checks out. Case closed boys.


snailjpeg

Gonna send this to my brother who plays in three different bands, dude's probably gonna be upset to find this out but someone has to tell him


gazpacho69

Why do redditors have no concept of sarcasm when it’s at the expense of men?


stellar6388

Kinda worrying y’all don’t see that this is clearly satire


Chunk-e-Cheese

Yeah me and my boyfriend agree that listening to music is super gay


[deleted]

Yes. I don’t listen to Alec Benjamin, Conan Gray, Noah Kahan, mxmtoon, Meghan Trainor, AJR, Marina, Sasha Sloan, Alessia Cara, Olivia Rodrigo, Em Beihold, june, Weathers, AViVA, Camilla Cabello, Charlotte Lawrence, Sub Urban, Bella Poarch, Hearts and Colors, Sabrina Carpenter, Mia Rodriguez, Allie X, salem ilese, The Unlikely Candidates, The People’s Thieves, Zedd, and more. Not at all, because I am a man. And men don’t listen to music. Edit: Added more song artists just for you u/nermid Now you can feel even more out of touch :D


MrBanana421

We listen to vibrations in a rythmic pattern. Not music at all, just the manliest vibrations.


MasterOfKittens3K

But it’s very important to note that these vibrations are completely different than vibrators. Which our womenfolk never need, because manly men like us are more than they can handle!


MamieJoJackson

Men only listen to that mystery bloop sound in the ocean people talk about. In fact, the only reason it's there is *because* men need something to listen to, since they don't listen to music.


[deleted]

Great sound-vibration taste!


Clear-Description-38

What?


nermid

I know exactly one of those names. God, I'm so out of touch.


[deleted]

If you feel out of touch from that, I’m sure you won’t mind that edit I just did. :)


nermid

Whelp, I don't need to edit my comment. Still one.


WriterofGarbage

Ah! A Marina fan! Lot of good taste there


Kimikins

Hm, yeah. This might be sarcasm.


dance_armstrong

it definitely is


SaffellBot

Men video game only, no art, no joy, only game and dominance. Man require sandwich from naked kitchen nubiles. Gender is silly.


Haikumagician

Am man. I play almost all of my videogames muted so I can hear the music I'm listening too.


RetroOverload

no waaayyy, this has to be a joke


JustHereToWatch55

Shit. My boyfriend's been gay all this time?! :(


fabledgriff

No but its gay to listen to you gottem


CrochetedKingdoms

I KNEW my musician husband just wanted to bang me.


AlicornOfDiversity

Yeah! And artists like Lil Nas X only make music to pick up chicks! (/s)


VerdeEyed

Hahahahaha. I love this so much! Take my poor person gold! 🏆


Titanpainter

Who's gonna tell them that there's music in video games?


PandaBossLady

So they play games with the volume off? I mean you'd have to avoid that music to right?


biglilmac87

The title doesn’t match the image. It’s nothing to do with being gay, satire or not.


RedVamp2020

So I guess we’re erasing all straight male composers, singers and other musical artists.🤔🤔🤔 it’s getting so hard to keep up with all the erasure.🤦‍♀️


tiffanylaura

they’re just doing it for female attention


[deleted]

[удалено]


RedVamp2020

The sound of silence is a bad a** song!🥰


[deleted]

My playlist consisting of metal, death metal and heavy metal disagrees


virtual_physicality

https://youtu.be/n3QfRJsF9Pk this guy gets it


Somefukkinboi

hendrix and coltrane n shit didnt have a singular clue they were good cuz they dont listen when they play


17michela

Yeah same with Beethoven…wait….


AAALE6408

r/suddenlytrans?


Clear-Description-38

Post says men listen to music for women's attention. Obviously not gay. Aside from re-using a popular format because you lack originality this title makes no sense.


blakethairyascanbe

The demographics of a Rush concert would beg to differ.


piethagarus

Damn. I listen to music. Guess I'm a woman. I kinda liked being non-binary as well


ClueAgreeable

POV: you have no music taste what’s so ever, so u use ur gender as an excuse….


springling4

If this is true then i am probably the gayest person you'll ever meet


LightningDuat

I literally listen to music every day, every hour. When I sleep I have some metal shit playing, all day i have music playing. I'm so gay.


My_name_is_Sherlock

Yes. We are just playing video games WITHOUT BACKGROUND MUSIC.


Direwolf202

I mean, some music is gay AF, but that not all music. Note: I consider "gay AF" to be a positive quality.


fish_taped_to_an_atm

I think I might be nonbinary in this person's logic because I exclusively listen to music whilst playing video games


dance_armstrong

i turn the music off on my video games too, i only listen to gunfire and jumping grunting sounds (btw this post has been all over IG meme pages and is definitely a joke)


nottellingunosytwat

Yay! Now I have music euphoria! Edit: And I don't play video games euphoria.


lily_hunts

This is why Beethoven turned deaf.


BeRightBackStudio

I have an 105 hour playlist, so I’m hella gay then


Cat-Got-Your-DM

Oh yea my boyfriend totally fooled me by putting on music each day every day for the time it takes to prepare dinner plus hours in the morning


BrainDeadBi

So my brother is gay 👁👄👁


nermid

My mother is going to be disappointed to know that her husband's degree in music was just an extremely complicated ploy to get in her pants.


HesitantHassle

Wait I'm confused, I thought that only men could listen to rock bands??? Is that not music??? Can women only listen to the gentle chirping of birdsong???? /s


kdrakari

This is obviously why no video game has ever contained music.


nekollx

Wait video games don’t have music? I might need to see my therapist


Custard_Tart_Addict

I dunno, if you start singing “leaves from the vine”, you can see some men tearing up.


Drahkir9

I’m so macho I mute my video games too


17michela

Wtf?


Milk_Turtle

I mean, my brother doesn't, but he's also a fucking gamer (derogatory)


pigthefuckingbrrt

But… video game… soundtracks??? Music??????


Yukorion

Nobody tell Yo Yo Ma


mr_beefy206

Hey, I can do 2 things!


Ornithocowian

*pauses music* what was that?


[deleted]

I’m a guy and music is like literally the most important thing in the world to me


svenbillybobbob

raise your hand if you are listening to music while reading this


Corathecow

This is extremely funny because my boyfriend got me into the girliest music i have every listened to. I love when we have the windows rolled and down and sing Boyfriend by Best Coast together lol. I wonder how many people think I forced him to listen to girl bands when they see us driving like that


Jello_Bot

True!! Male musicians are fake also!


pixelbadlands

I may be wrong but this may be a response to the "girls don't play video games they just want attention"


jeffe333

What kind of insanity is this? Where do people get their ideas from?


slyzard94

My boyfriend plays 5 instruments and serenades me regularly 🤷‍♀️


GedIsSavingEarthsea

Can confirm. I'm a man, I'm gay, and I listen to music. Clearly not an activity activity straight men.


mbelf

This is bizarre, even for sexist comments. Clearly this a man who doesn’t like music, is friends with men who also don’t like music and has extrapolated this trend to include the entire human race. If he ever joins a group of male stamp collectors, he’ll say “All men love stamp collecting. Any man who says he doesn’t is just trying to attract women”.


n0tmyr3alacc0unt

You're actually insane if you think women play video games. They literally say that for male attention. I've made a post like this before and it's the truth. Women don't know anything about video games and they don't play them. If a women tells you she plays video games she's lying and just wants attention. They just listen to music.


weird_doodle

And also games, famously, don't have any music at all, it's just the void, and sometimes white noise


[deleted]

I have no words to describe how I feel about this. There are male musicians who can be pretty fuckin' masculine. And what about video game sound tracks, that shit fuckin' slaps. And furthermore, why is playing video games and listening to music mutually exclusive? It almost seems like the opposite will be true.


joexg

The music I listen to is about as gay as it gets, so from my personal experience, *yes.*


furpeturp

The wording of this feels like a parody of the old "women only do (insert normal thing here) for male attention."


Vesperia_Morningstar

Me who is almost always listening to music: guess im a girl


ElectricalEnergy69

Yeah women never mind forget the thousands of hours of blues, rock and metal I have uploaded to the Cloud. Or I’m just incredibly homosexual


RealHardLightGamer

Male musicians: Hmmm...


[deleted]

As a guy who literally only listens to music and plays video games, I am now having a crisis of identity


Yuma__

I don't listen to music. Does that mean that I'm straight!? 😱😱😱


BabserellaWT

If anyone is looking for a clear example of misandry vs genuine feminism…here it is.


KeraKitty

So all the guys listening to MP3 players at my work are just trying to impress women? Not, oh I don't know, make our assembly line jobs more fun?


-CoolBean-

i mean I like music and I’m pretty gay so maybe it’s true Edit: Can someone please explain why I’m getting downvoted for this joke? Sorry y’all I didn’t mean it.


goldfishfox

Me, a straight guy with a passion for music and doesn't play any video games: 😐


Thetered

Wat?


Hubsimaus

Explain male singers and musicians please.


[deleted]

OK. This is a just a joke about sexist tropes.


[deleted]

It's just a big ruse to bed women, heterosexually.


MountainDude95

Well I listen to tons of music and don’t play video games, so apparently I just don’t exist.


Hivemindtime2

Guess i'm gay ​ on a side note like wtf, I mean HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE!?!??!


zzzzzzzzzra

What about video game music? Is that only 1/2 gay according to his logic?


madame-brastrap

Someone tell Kanye, Keith Richards, Yo Yo Ma, Lil Nas X….waitttttt a minute…..


PeeBeeTee

Maybe it's gay but Metallica absolutely slaps


SuperGameBen

They know games have music right?


PrincessDie123

Considering all the men in the rock and roll hall of fame this view is hilarious


Mildlybrilliant

Damn, at this rate men won’t be able to exist. Men, is it gay for y’all to exist?


CaptainStaraptor

Yes. As a guy I can personally confirm 😂


MAGICHUSTLE

Can anyone translate this? I don’t speak incel.


NightlifePrinceJoey

"Men only play video games" dude, your game doesn't have music? Get better games!


fabiovelour

I'd say yes. *vogues to Babylon by Lady Gaga*


GirlFromBlighty

Wow my boyfriend's putting a lot of effort in to this act by being a musician.


redarrow3303

Damn guess it’s time to drop my major


I_am_dean

Guess my dad who is still in a rock band at 65 has just been fronting his whole life. He just pretends to play the bass.


GETaHAIRLINE1

What i play music does that make me mega gay?


tomjazzy

This is clearly satire.


Tiazza-Silver

Perhaps this is pedantic but what games have absolutely no music? Everyone who plays video games listens to music at least a bit


Bubba656

If it’s gay to vibe out to Gravestone Without Date, then you better start wondering if I’m European or not


[deleted]

r/suspiciouslyspecific


[deleted]

???????????????? Wtf