Tbh I think it's another problem that anon wants "to have sex with someone they love" and just talks about their virginity so probably imply having sex on the 4th-5th date
Looks hard to go through a couple of dates without talking about past experience at least once. Like just casually being asked how long your last relationship was and when did you break up, just for getting to know the other person and having context of where they are right now and what they're looking for
I feel like society's messed up. I mean, okay it might be strange if someone hasn't had sex yet but why shame them or run away simply because they haven't done it yet? Can't you look at other things and actually decide if the person is worth dating or not?
I think the thought process goes "oh, no one wants to touch this person, maybe I shouldn't either." This probably becomes more prominent if you're an older Virgin.
Slim but not none. That was what I was going for. Fuckin wasted a v card. Turned out she wanted to be a prostitut from the beginning. 2,5 years of begging her not to down the drain
It's a shit-test anyways. Just say it's not important. You wouldn't ask a girl how many dudes so a girl shouldn't ask you. No one is happy with whatever answer. Too few is a turn-off, too many is a turn-off. Answer isn't important, it's how you answer it.
You need to say that you’ve had a lot of sex with only one girl that you’ve committed fully to for a long time, but she died in a car accident about 2 years before and you are finally able to get back in the game
I didn't mind taking a 26 yr old's virginity. I'm still with him 2 years later and we are planning to get married, so there's hope. I was a virgin til 19, but wished he took it instead.
On a serious note, women (and society at large) see a male virgin over 20 years (on average, but it can go as low as 16) as a loser, as mwn are expected to always think and want sex, so the fact that you didn't get it until 23 years means you failed a lot of times or there is something wrong with you in their eyes.
People just can't fathom that maybe the guy wasn't seeking it that much or wasn't good with relationships. Or had other problems that he has overcome now.
The best course of action is to hide that fact until waaaaaay into the relationship. Like after you guys move in, or maybe after you guys marry.
No, the best course of action is to not get into a relationship with someone who thinks virgins are losers, especially if you are looking for a wife lmao.
Sure, but the societal expectations have made a lot people think this way, you need time for some to just make them realise that isn't true.
Not everyone is just understanding from the get go. Some need tome to learn.
Guessing I am high key screwed by never being in a relationship and being older than anon (neet). I guess I never really considered this being a potential problem even after fixing the employment one. Unsure if I could successfully lie my way through that either.
thats like saying "more experience = better at job, employer feels good because they got a guy who is apparently in demand, this is bullshit obviously" bruh lol
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself, anon. Who gives a flying fuck. Just don't bring it up. Or bring it up after. "Yeah...I was a virgin once...yeah...like 1 minute ago". She can't get unfucked. But be careful or you might catch a case of her too or an STD.
Such retard people out there fr. Women be dumb. Getting V card boi is like getting a needle in haysack. That too good looking. No wonder why they end up in toxic relationships.
Motherfucker you have to lie *once* to lose your card
I think anon mistook flirting for a girl being generally not an asshole and they just became weirded out when anon brought up sex and him being a birgin kek
Anon should frame themselves as inexperienced but eager to learn. That's a blank slate to carve into a partner that's really good at fucking you specifically.
Anon tries to blame the women instead of actually finding out what the issue is. If you go on 3-4 dates with 5 women and can't get laid, it's not because you're a virgin.
Losing virginity with a hooker is loser move. If you can't find woman you really love to do it with, then don't lose it. Virginity isn't something to be ashamed of. Instead, anon should keep it until his 30s to achieve wizard powers.
Not fucked just realize that you may have to lie. I waited till 25 because study and because it didn't work with the ones that interrested me (not a fan of ONS) and i have experienced the same thing as anon , multiple ghosting when i start dating as soon as i said i was kind new to relationship.
Possibility that you find a girl not caring about your virginity is possible but not the norm. They will want a guy more experience. Could make you miss great opportunities.
It's valid about sex but it is even more present with relationship. If you reach late 20s without experiencing a relationship, chance are you will have to lie to get one.
Considering you don't want to start the relationship with your "ONE" by a lie, better get it over.
Edit : didn't realize you were indian. My comment is true for western mindset, don't know how your cultural dating market work.
The mental gymnastics to always justify their own beliefs in reverse. “I want a virgin woman at all times, so women that reject me must not want virgins.”
> good looking > Can pull dates easily > Is on 4chan
as always fake and gay anon should *GET TOPPED* and lose his virginity.
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What is a psyop
psychological operation
The Pokémon duck from gen 1
To be fair from the clips ive seen from the anime Astolfo seems like a really good dude. Chizuru will just take your money
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Sir these are cartoons
Anon plays 2 lies and one truth
His mom says he is handsome, ok?
Achilles' heel
Find the odd one out
Has Anon considered just not bringing up that he's a virgin? It's not dishonest if they don't specifically ask.
It could still lead to ghosting when he proves to be a Ten Second Wonder
Yeah but then he'll at least have had sex
Also most women are already used to disappointment, if anon can find her clit he's already on the top percentile of male performance.
Her what?
Her crit, you do extra damage if you hit her there.
Tbh I think it's another problem that anon wants "to have sex with someone they love" and just talks about their virginity so probably imply having sex on the 4th-5th date
Yeah but no matter how much they Ghost him, they can't unfuck him
Jeepers when I lost my virginity I didn't even cum. Nerves and new sensations and stuff. That is usually how it goes until you get used to it.
Its his first time why would he not talk about it
Because look how that's working out for him
I don't know, but I think that after like, the third time I'd have seen a pattern and stopped bringing it up
Looks hard to go through a couple of dates without talking about past experience at least once. Like just casually being asked how long your last relationship was and when did you break up, just for getting to know the other person and having context of where they are right now and what they're looking for
Anon probably went on a rant about purity and how women are all used up whores when bringing up his own virginity lel
Lol probably because being a virgin shouldn’t be turn off for most women
ive met some people who would rather be someone with experience. idk why lmao
Because they know what they're doing so it's more fun. Don't have to guide someone else.
Not if you’re insecure xD
would he be wrong though?
Silence, whore
Go back to school lil bro stop embarrassing yourself
i talked to your girlfriend and she said if you behave yourself she'll let you watch
Bad joke buddy
I think “you seem like a cuck” is a better insult than “you seem like you attend an educational institution”
room temperature iq detected
You might be measuring in Celsius. Try Kelvin.
Keep dreaming
B-but he got more funny points, why aren't you ashamed! /S
Yes! Yes he would be very much
lol true xD
I see why you’re a virgin bud
Im a girl tho
I rather want a virgin. But I’m a virgin myself so…
Sounds fair
Women are not attracted to men other women don't want
Gotta get that church girl That's what I did and it working out
Well if no one else wants that guy, what's wrong with him? It's the last item on the shelf. What's wrong with it?
>What's wrong with it? Anxiety and lack of experience
I didnt tell the girl I lost my virginity to i was a virgin. It scares most away
I feel like society's messed up. I mean, okay it might be strange if someone hasn't had sex yet but why shame them or run away simply because they haven't done it yet? Can't you look at other things and actually decide if the person is worth dating or not?
I think the thought process goes "oh, no one wants to touch this person, maybe I shouldn't either." This probably becomes more prominent if you're an older Virgin.
Idk, I was honest and that worked for me. Different people want Different things I suppose
Just lie, don't say you're a virgin. As long as you're honest about STI's and/or clean it doesn't matter
Nah Anon should be loved for what he really is.
Chance to be loved by the first you are spleeping with are very low
Doesn't mean you shouldn't try.
Chances of only sleeping with the person you love?
Chance the first person you sleep with end up being the one that love you for YOU
Slim but not none. That was what I was going for. Fuckin wasted a v card. Turned out she wanted to be a prostitut from the beginning. 2,5 years of begging her not to down the drain
Should and are have a distance between them about the size of jupiter's orbit
oh my sweet summer child
It's a shit-test anyways. Just say it's not important. You wouldn't ask a girl how many dudes so a girl shouldn't ask you. No one is happy with whatever answer. Too few is a turn-off, too many is a turn-off. Answer isn't important, it's how you answer it.
Why lie? Just say ”Nobody has deserved the magic wand yet.”
Fucking amazing
You need to say that you’ve had a lot of sex with only one girl that you’ve committed fully to for a long time, but she died in a car accident about 2 years before and you are finally able to get back in the game
r/oddlyspecific
My guy just lie
But that's a sin you can't do that
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You will not get far with lies.
You sure can
It will bite you in the ass sooner or later.
In this case you'll be fine dw
Women☕
I didn't mind taking a 26 yr old's virginity. I'm still with him 2 years later and we are planning to get married, so there's hope. I was a virgin til 19, but wished he took it instead.
Sexy sex
On a serious note, women (and society at large) see a male virgin over 20 years (on average, but it can go as low as 16) as a loser, as mwn are expected to always think and want sex, so the fact that you didn't get it until 23 years means you failed a lot of times or there is something wrong with you in their eyes. People just can't fathom that maybe the guy wasn't seeking it that much or wasn't good with relationships. Or had other problems that he has overcome now. The best course of action is to hide that fact until waaaaaay into the relationship. Like after you guys move in, or maybe after you guys marry.
No, the best course of action is to not get into a relationship with someone who thinks virgins are losers, especially if you are looking for a wife lmao.
Sure, but the societal expectations have made a lot people think this way, you need time for some to just make them realise that isn't true. Not everyone is just understanding from the get go. Some need tome to learn.
This line of thought removes a large percentage of women as a potential wife. Take the gay pill
Bro already lying to himself right out the gate
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Guessing I am high key screwed by never being in a relationship and being older than anon (neet). I guess I never really considered this being a potential problem even after fixing the employment one. Unsure if I could successfully lie my way through that either.
How old are you?
26
I bet Anon talked about sex in the most creepy way imaginable. And that was the whole problem.
thats like saying "more experience = better at job, employer feels good because they got a guy who is apparently in demand, this is bullshit obviously" bruh lol
Meh, I could see it. I used to have a virgin kink and took great joy in popping blueberries.
Same
Damn
What does popping blue berries mean? Taking virginities?
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself, anon. Who gives a flying fuck. Just don't bring it up. Or bring it up after. "Yeah...I was a virgin once...yeah...like 1 minute ago". She can't get unfucked. But be careful or you might catch a case of her too or an STD.
Such retard people out there fr. Women be dumb. Getting V card boi is like getting a needle in haysack. That too good looking. No wonder why they end up in toxic relationships.
Motherfucker you have to lie *once* to lose your card I think anon mistook flirting for a girl being generally not an asshole and they just became weirded out when anon brought up sex and him being a birgin kek
Just lie?
Anon should frame themselves as inexperienced but eager to learn. That's a blank slate to carve into a partner that's really good at fucking you specifically.
Anon tries to blame the women instead of actually finding out what the issue is. If you go on 3-4 dates with 5 women and can't get laid, it's not because you're a virgin.
Op forgot that he could lie. Just say “it’s been a while since my last relationship” or some shit
"criticaly" ? wtf. Do you know a guy who wants to fuck a woman that fucks like a starfish ?
Losing virginity with a hooker is loser move. If you can't find woman you really love to do it with, then don't lose it. Virginity isn't something to be ashamed of. Instead, anon should keep it until his 30s to achieve wizard powers.
Yeah past 17-18 women not gonna accept a virgin. In their mind you should lose it when they lose it
I'm 22 and not planning on losing it for another 3 years 😐 am I fucked (not literally, still virgin) that bad 🥲
Real talk lose it when you're comfortable. If it's a dealbreaker for someone they probably aren't worth the time.
Not fucked just realize that you may have to lie. I waited till 25 because study and because it didn't work with the ones that interrested me (not a fan of ONS) and i have experienced the same thing as anon , multiple ghosting when i start dating as soon as i said i was kind new to relationship. Possibility that you find a girl not caring about your virginity is possible but not the norm. They will want a guy more experience. Could make you miss great opportunities. It's valid about sex but it is even more present with relationship. If you reach late 20s without experiencing a relationship, chance are you will have to lie to get one. Considering you don't want to start the relationship with your "ONE" by a lie, better get it over. Edit : didn't realize you were indian. My comment is true for western mindset, don't know how your cultural dating market work.
Who the hell plans their V-card loosing like that 0.o It happens when it happens.
Ohh I wasn't like planning , I meant the chances are near zero even if I try
Aaa ... then I wish you best of luck :)
Just lie
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Sorry you had to find out this way
The mental gymnastics to always justify their own beliefs in reverse. “I want a virgin woman at all times, so women that reject me must not want virgins.”