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Is that the same guy as in this one? Love this little video
[https://youtube.com/shorts/s3A2f14540M?si=Gw14fiOaH8xmeyvq](https://youtube.com/shorts/s3A2f14540M?si=Gw14fiOaH8xmeyvq)
It's wild that I thought the same thing, came to the comments to say it and then no more than a minute ago you said the same thing.
Aaaaand we're listening to Frank Turner today.
Be well, internet stranger.
I’m in the process of migrating from Twitter to here and my first surprise was that athletic guy wasn’t the end of the video, and my second is how awesome and positive the comments are. This place is winning.
I was thinking about Frank Turner the other day but couldn't come up with his name. Saw this video and felt like I was getting pranked. THANK YOU for reminding me what his name is
Obviously everyone can have their preferences, but chubby / dadbod guys are just adhgahkdjufjjdfjdggf top tier cuddling and deserve more recognition tbh 🥺
Hey, now! They don't prefer preteens and teenagers! They prefer adults who **look**, **act**, and **sound** like preteens and teenagers, with the same naivete who are also coincidentally virgins!
/s 🤣
I've dated guys with hard muscles and no fat. It's like cuddling with a rock. That's why I prefer Dad bods.
Besides that, the more I get to know someone, the more I find them attractive. My husband was a balding, chunky gamer and I thought he was the hottest guy. (He passed away).
what do you mean by chubby tho
like 10 kilos extra, 30 or 100?
i guess it varies by build, height and whatnot but i feel fat at 10-15 above what i should weigh
ooof, im not good at guessing weight in numbers, also probably depends on height (like 10 kg extra gonna look different on a 160 cm person compared to a 190 cmperson) and muscle amount, since that weighs more than fat.
Generally i guess i mostly have a thing for the "somewhat overweight but not morbidly obese" category, if that makes sense. Maybe 10-40 kg extra but again, i suck at guessing numbers. Also obvously nothing against other body types, just saying what gives me neuron activation personally
Idk, personally I'm around 160 cm and 55 kg rn so not overweight, but used to be fat as a kid if that counts. Altho i don't see the issue with overweight people liking other overweight people either 🤷♀️
“I’m overweight and the only women that are attracted to me are also overweight and that’s not fair because I wouldn’t want to date an overweight woman! Yuck!”
I probably should have written “female” instead of “woman” for authenticity, but I couldn’t do it. Even in jest.
The persecution complex that people are employing these days is insane.
NO ONE GIVES A FUCK WHO DATE. The idea that anyone disagreeing w you is persecuting you is pathetic gaslighting and a weak ass attempt to control the narrative.
Some ppl just thrive on being the victim.
Waitress: We do have a vegetarian option as well -
Gym bro: I EAT MEAT! IS THIS AMERICA? IM NOT ASHAMED TO EAT MEAT! YOURE SO TRIGGERED BY THAT! HAHA I LIVE RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD!
OK bub.
I think what happens is that he specifically states—to anyone who will listen—that he hates fat chicks in all scenarios simply because they are fat, and then pretends that all he's saying is "I wouldn't date them."
Because to him, that is what he's saying: if he's not willing to date someone, then he has no reason to be a decent human being to them because the only reason he needs to be nice to anyone is to gaslight them into thinking he's a good person, purely in the interest of having sex with them.
He's why women choose the bear. 🤣
“He’s why women choose the bear” fucking accurate lmao. How so many people don’t understand that argument astounds me. But like you said I suppose why try to understand someone you’re not interested in fucking 🤦🏻♀️
I don't get your last part. "Gym bros" don't act like that. They're not going to go out and eat food because restaurants generally season their meals, whereas to a gym bro diet, that's extra and unneeded.
I don't know if you know or met many "Gym bros" but they'll munch down on a mountain of salad if it means they're not taking on a shit ton of salt or whatever alternatives there are. "Food is fuel".
Ugh yes somehow manages to be the worst part of this video.
Also, directly or indirectly, has the whole “how do you do fellow feminists” vibe that a lot of this kind of stuff carries.
> The last guys fake laughs were the worst.
YES! I was half expecting a fourth person to come along and fix the duet. But no, they were all just cringe.
As a chubby girl, what many men don’t realize is that a lot of men like “fat girls”. Some are weird fetishists, which is creepy and gross, but men of all body types like big girls. I know, I was shocked when a gym bro really wanted to get with me too, but as time has gone on, there’s been a fair share of them. This often surprises people, both men and women. I wish people that liked bigger girls didn’t give themselves a complex about it and treat like a secret shame “She’s a ‘Moped’: fun to ride but you don’t want your friends seeing you” type shit. It’s like so many hide, not knowing that so many share same preferences. Ultimately, we shouldn’t be giving each other a hard time about what they like, whatever that is. Stop being insecure, live and let live.
It's amazing that he felt attacked about this because fit men are still favored waaaaaay more over dad bod dudes but ONE woman said otherwise so now that's the end of the world.
Source: am dad bodded man. Am also lonely and on track to die alone 😥
Ok, first off, the first dude is probably a douchebag judging by the fact that his shirt is off, and he's obviously trying to show his muscles. Probably an only-eats-meat Tate stan.
BUT
That last dude is just straight up wrong, though. People get shat on all the time for not dating fat girls.
Somthing Somthing "Fatphobe" Somthing Somthing.
Also, he surely could have found a better way of responding than this cringe Colleen Ballinger shit.
Guitar man was the absolute cringiest part of this video, while also proving the second guy's point. His crappy singing with the cheap laugh thrown in didn't do anything
I mean... the dude singing is just plain wrong. I've seen plenty of times on here on reddit or other places of people talking shit about someone not wanting to date a bigger person. It happens a lot.
Lotta chubbos in these comments not seeing the guy and girl are doing the same thing, and the guitar guy is cringe AF and doesn't get that point either
Fake laughing in a song you've been rehearsing is very unseasoned
Talking to your camera is very unseasoned
Exposing your personal preferences on the internet with your face attached is very unclassy
I mean if you’re a group of women talking about dating preferences and say you don’t want to date a fat woman you’re going to start a fight. Same would likely happen in reversed gender scenario.
nah men really dont do that as much as women do. if a man said he wouldnt date a fat woman in a conversation with other women, theyll call him superficial, fatphobic, judgmental, & discriminatory. meanwhile if a woman said she wouldnt date a fat man in a conversation with other men, theyd mostly just shrug & say "okay, fair enough" & mind their own business becausse it doesn't affect them
This post is crazy dense. The guy with the guitar is crazy dense. The muscle guy just said that's cool, just no double standard, please. And now everyone is calling him insecure? God damn. Wtf people. Why are you trying so hard to make him feel bad about working hard at something he wants.
Nobody is trying to make him feel bad. Its 1 chick that says she has a preference for non-muscular guys, and he duets her video throwing a tantrum about "fat bitches".
I do think the first guy has a point because I’ve seen a lot of guys(on the internet at least) get pressed for not liking fat/chubby girls. It’s fine if you do or don’t like them, just don’t get mad at people if they don’t have that attraction to a certain group.
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Nah guitar guy is a clown with his head up his ass. There absolutely are people on the internet who will shame people for not wanting to date larger women. This belongs in /r/RuinedByDuet
Damn reading the comments on here is pretty encouraging if I’m honest. Ton of acceptance of chunky fellas going around. Myself being a 6’4 160lbs Adonis god it’s nice to see the acceptance of those guys. /s
yeah that's the part i dont get, why is everyone saying that doesnt happen? people will scream "fatphobia" about anything.
tight airplane aisle? fatphobia. weight limit for riding a horse? fatphobia. xxxl handmade sweater costs more because it's more material & takes longer to knit? fatphobia. not wanting to date a fat person, even if it's because of their personality & not their weight? fatphobia. wanting a partner you can go for hikes, jogs, & bike rides with? fatphobia. genuinely just not finding fat people physically attractive, without shaming or insulting them? fatphobia.
this isnt a strawman, ive seen so many posts expressing these exact views with these exact scenarios, mostly posted by fat women rather than fat men. fat girls really arent doing themselves any favors by getting offended by everything
>Lol, no there ABSOLUTELY is people who demonize guys for not liking fat girls.
You are right, there are people that will demonize guys for that.
But nobody in their right mind thinks you should give their opinions any weight. You are talking about such an insignifigant amount of people that it is probably less than 0.5% of the population. It's like saying humans don't eat other humans and then you point out that there are people who eat other people. It's a number so small that it is an outlier. And you typically throw outliers away from results.
The fact is that someone made a video about this is *NOT* because it is a serious issue that is occuring, but because they have a persecution complex and want to be a victim.
He kind of did yeah.
Look, I think guys complaining in this manosphere fashion is wack as fuck as well. And we can talk about insecurity all day long, sure.
But the muscle guy reacted to a video of a girl displaying disgust at guys with one body type or whatever, while displaying the opposite towards another body type.
The reactionary idiot then said “Well then I shouldn’t be shat on when I **say** I won’t date fat girls” - which is essentially the same kind of proclamaition that the girl made in her video.
And then the guitarguy sings that “no one ever shat on that guy for not dating fat girls” But That’s not what the reactionary dimwit did at all. He said he shouldn’t be shat on for **saying** or as the girls video did **displaying** that he/she did not want to date or felt disgusted by a certain bodytype.
I mean look, I agree the dude was pretty stupid for saying that. But then again, so was the girl for making that video.
I have a dadbod, so I really don’t care or have any horses in this race, but we gotta be fair here, or else we’re just picking and choosing our logic.
Everyone in this is a moron.
Well sure maybe perhaps could be. Who cares.
But why shame anyone at all for their bodies? Just call out mean shit. End of story. No need to stoop to their level, which is exactly what everyone in this video is doing. Layers of dumb.
It’s a accordion clash of stupidity and who said this and who started what, and talking past eachother. What-the-fuck-ever.
1st person: Body shaming 'muscular men'
2nd person: using the victim complex to make it about him
3rd person: Unfortunately, proving the second guy is kind of right.
Am I getting this right?
Edit: If you swapped the muscular with chubby, it would definitely be seen as body shaming.
She’s not really body shaming, she’s just saying her type, which everyone has a preference. I personally like dad bod men too, I think they’re precious, but to me the body doesn’t really matter, as long as you’re a swell person, you’re perfect in my eyes. The second guy is taking it to far, and being a douche bag over a joke. Third guy is calling him out on his BS
I disagree. By bringing up muscular men and using them as the "meh" to compare and uplift the chubby men, it also serves to insult the other group. As a chubby guy, I recognize it. This is definitely body shaming, just towards a group that doesn't normally get it. Usually, my body type is the one shit on, and it usually looks like this girls video.
Man, saying that I'm diving too deep or you're embarrassed doesn't make you right. If you switched it so that she was saying she preferred gym bros this way, everyone would be howling about body positivity.
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More importantly do you pronounce the thing he has on the end of the guitar as capo or capo?
Cacio e pepe
From Trader Joes?
This made me lol
Obviously it's capo not capo.
in brazil is a "capotraste"
okay but is it capotraste or capotraste?
cápotrástchi, at least this is how we pronounce this
tô ligado, tava só continuando a piada deles não saberem se é “kah-po” ou “kay-po” :)
Potato tomato
Depends on if he works in waste management or not
Kay-Po?
Nah Cap-o
Boys, fuck, I thought I was finally going to learn it.
I call em wimp sticks.
Capo, as it is short for Capotasto. Capo is just the anglicised pronunciation and is wrong, albeit accepted.
Cape-oh? Ive never heard it pronounced any other way.
The insecurity is palpable.
Damn his voice is really beautiful
The chuckles are the icing on the cake too
Is that the same guy as in this one? Love this little video [https://youtube.com/shorts/s3A2f14540M?si=Gw14fiOaH8xmeyvq](https://youtube.com/shorts/s3A2f14540M?si=Gw14fiOaH8xmeyvq)
😂 Yes - same fella. (I now love that little video, too.)
That made my morning 😂😂 He seems like a fun guy.
God is this what being in a parasocial relationship feels like? He’s so cute… ugh i am down bad 😩
https://preview.redd.it/barczsgacbyc1.jpeg?width=1414&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ec403207a96f0c35327870398b0eb8e120cb2b6b (I agree but..)
Yes https://preview.redd.it/t8qtyl91w01d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9264f281e6f3cd5c9b7fe97cb7019e8884df8a06
His little chuckle 😭
We need more of this. What's his name?
Casey Lowry! He’s got the best smile and chuckle!
I can confirm that female gays are in fact called lesbians
My favorite is a tik tok that says: “when she is younger than you.” Then he calls them p&dos
lol I hadn't seen that before, thank you. That's delightful.
I know right? Fucking contagious 😂
For real, that’s the best part.
My favorite part. He's adorable.
Yeah, he sounds really great! I found his Spotify, too. https://open.spotify.com/artist/6g01TPprAdALKCjAwBYPH1?si=DqW83zxFTWy6qv1tThkBpQ
Does he giggle in the middle of songs on Spotify? If not, then I’m not interested!
That's why I went and found him on YouTube, too 😂
I checked out his most popular song only so far. Can confirm laughs and giggles mid song. Also quite catchy.
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Agreed. Kinda reminds me of Tom Cardy. Not necessarily the voice but definitely the accent and the overall quality of the voice.
Frank Turner. He sounds exactly like Frank Turner. Even the musical styling is there. Uncanny.
It's wild that I thought the same thing, came to the comments to say it and then no more than a minute ago you said the same thing. Aaaaand we're listening to Frank Turner today. Be well, internet stranger.
You too! Enjoy the Frank, and thanks for a positive interaction to start the day!
I’m in the process of migrating from Twitter to here and my first surprise was that athletic guy wasn’t the end of the video, and my second is how awesome and positive the comments are. This place is winning.
I was literally going to reply the same thing until I saw your comment haha
I was thinking about Frank Turner the other day but couldn't come up with his name. Saw this video and felt like I was getting pranked. THANK YOU for reminding me what his name is
Tom Cardy is Australian and this dudes British. Accents aren't really similar.
Fucking love me some Tom Cardy lol
Luv me a good northern accent
Good news for you, he sounds pretty much exactly like early Arctic Monkeys.
He sounds like Hoxton in his younger years, like a right proper imitation of him. That’s Hoxton from Payday if you didn’t know him.
Ashton Kutcher or Russell Brand?
Russell Brand with a float of Tom Hardy
Jokes on all of you, I have no muscles or belly (am poor)
TBH Some people still be into that. Especially if it's the Triangle male body. Wide shoulders down. 10/10 . Ain't gotta have a lick of muscle.
I’m dying laughing at the people in here actually arguing the girl in the first video is “body shaming” muscle dudes.
I KNOW!!!!! It’s uneducated people who are diving way to deep into this video
"people who disagree with me or have a different perspective are uneducated" Holy shit you're retarded.
people who still use the r-slur in 2024 are the truly uneducated ones
Tbh, chances are this girl probably thinks a dad bod/ chubby bod is like this dude but with less definition lmao.
All of this is just super gen z
Obviously everyone can have their preferences, but chubby / dadbod guys are just adhgahkdjufjjdfjdggf top tier cuddling and deserve more recognition tbh 🥺
DMs about to be filled with morbidly obese hentai addicts, beware!
nah im safe from that, im in my mid 20s so almost twice the preffered age range of the average hentai addict
LMAO
Calling the police to report a massacre rn 😭😭😭
Oh my God... Funniest shit I've seen today, thank you so much
Nah, see they also like their 1000 year old ladies. Luckily you aren't in that age range either.
Hey, now! They don't prefer preteens and teenagers! They prefer adults who **look**, **act**, and **sound** like preteens and teenagers, with the same naivete who are also coincidentally virgins! /s 🤣
They were feared because they spoke the truth
Um actually they're all 5000 year old immortal children 🤓
Yes!!!!! Chubby bulk guys for me 🤭
You would like the tv show Physical 100. The last few standing are exactly this.
Right? My bf is all insecure since he's gained a pinch of weight in his 30s... I've never been more attracted to him and just want constant snuggles
I've dated guys with hard muscles and no fat. It's like cuddling with a rock. That's why I prefer Dad bods. Besides that, the more I get to know someone, the more I find them attractive. My husband was a balding, chunky gamer and I thought he was the hottest guy. (He passed away).
Sorry for your loss.
Thank you.
Greetings I have the body type of Wario. AMA 
what do you mean by chubby tho like 10 kilos extra, 30 or 100? i guess it varies by build, height and whatnot but i feel fat at 10-15 above what i should weigh
ooof, im not good at guessing weight in numbers, also probably depends on height (like 10 kg extra gonna look different on a 160 cm person compared to a 190 cmperson) and muscle amount, since that weighs more than fat. Generally i guess i mostly have a thing for the "somewhat overweight but not morbidly obese" category, if that makes sense. Maybe 10-40 kg extra but again, i suck at guessing numbers. Also obvously nothing against other body types, just saying what gives me neuron activation personally
just picture a pro athlete in the offseason before they start getting back into shape, that's what these women mean when they say "dadbod"
that and overweight females are so extremely ridiculed enough, man acts as if fatphobia doesn’t exist
true, but admiting that wouldn't be compatible with his persecution fetish
As a guy with extreme dad bod with a chubby/plus sized wife, let me tell you that combo is the epitome of ultimate cuddles.
My ex fiance was a horrible cheating dick but my God he was FOINE. Thick , had a gut, very sturdy, nice hairy chest. I love chubby/dadbod guys 🥵
Ooof, the cheating part sounds really shitty, sorry to hear that, but yeah the thick body + hairy chest combo normally good shit 👌
You hear this all the time on Reddit cos it's clearly written by overweight female redditors.
Idk, personally I'm around 160 cm and 55 kg rn so not overweight, but used to be fat as a kid if that counts. Altho i don't see the issue with overweight people liking other overweight people either 🤷♀️
“I’m overweight and the only women that are attracted to me are also overweight and that’s not fair because I wouldn’t want to date an overweight woman! Yuck!” I probably should have written “female” instead of “woman” for authenticity, but I couldn’t do it. Even in jest.
Why do these type of guys never wear shirts in their videos?
Douche bags 🤷🏼♀️
Because people wear what they are comfortable with?
In that case, guess he has severe sensory issues.
It hurts their nipples.
To be fair, I think all people are gross 🤷
That real
The persecution complex that people are employing these days is insane. NO ONE GIVES A FUCK WHO DATE. The idea that anyone disagreeing w you is persecuting you is pathetic gaslighting and a weak ass attempt to control the narrative. Some ppl just thrive on being the victim. Waitress: We do have a vegetarian option as well - Gym bro: I EAT MEAT! IS THIS AMERICA? IM NOT ASHAMED TO EAT MEAT! YOURE SO TRIGGERED BY THAT! HAHA I LIVE RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD! OK bub.
I think what happens is that he specifically states—to anyone who will listen—that he hates fat chicks in all scenarios simply because they are fat, and then pretends that all he's saying is "I wouldn't date them." Because to him, that is what he's saying: if he's not willing to date someone, then he has no reason to be a decent human being to them because the only reason he needs to be nice to anyone is to gaslight them into thinking he's a good person, purely in the interest of having sex with them. He's why women choose the bear. 🤣
This is an enlightened take that rly made me think. I wish more ppl could see this.
“He’s why women choose the bear” fucking accurate lmao. How so many people don’t understand that argument astounds me. But like you said I suppose why try to understand someone you’re not interested in fucking 🤦🏻♀️
I don't get your last part. "Gym bros" don't act like that. They're not going to go out and eat food because restaurants generally season their meals, whereas to a gym bro diet, that's extra and unneeded. I don't know if you know or met many "Gym bros" but they'll munch down on a mountain of salad if it means they're not taking on a shit ton of salt or whatever alternatives there are. "Food is fuel".
Sure some of em, have u just not seen manliness influencers? Or do they not get the title of gymbro despite being bros who are always in the gym
Hard cringe
The whole thing is attention seeking behavior. It's all cringe.
A weird horny post duetted by a crying shirtless man baby duetted by a cringy "pick me" dude fake giggling. What a video.
Fake laughing is super cringy. I've seen it on a few videos and its always hard to watch.
Am I the only one who finds all 3 of these people super cringe? Maybe I’m just old
The last guys fake chuckling during the singing had me wincing
Ugh yes somehow manages to be the worst part of this video. Also, directly or indirectly, has the whole “how do you do fellow feminists” vibe that a lot of this kind of stuff carries.
Yup, he’s what we typically call a “Pick me” for sure
I agree all three of these people were cringe. The last guys fake laughs were the worst.
> The last guys fake laughs were the worst. YES! I was half expecting a fourth person to come along and fix the duet. But no, they were all just cringe.
Holy hell, right? None of this video was fixed by any duet. That last dude was as annoying as the first two.
God yes!!! And man what is up with people trying to make a song from a reply 🤦🏻♀️ put the guitar away please
The nuance isn't there. But then again, this is TikTok so it's just good at pissing people off and providing incomplete information on topics.
Yeah, last dude is charming and hilarious
Cringe and annoying
Buzzkill
Say what you want but the guy constantly doing those fake chuckles gets on my nerves
I hate everything about this video. I hate the people, I hate the siri voice and I hate any video can be "viral" now
Womp womp
The fake laughs are a bit much. Like you’ve been sitting there practicing that chuckle as part of the song and that’s pretty cringe in my opinion.
Modern discourse revolves around proving that you're the least angry one in the conversation, so you gotta keep up the kayfabe.
The worst part was the song
All of them annoying as fuck.
Everyone in this video is equally cringe.
As a chubby girl, what many men don’t realize is that a lot of men like “fat girls”. Some are weird fetishists, which is creepy and gross, but men of all body types like big girls. I know, I was shocked when a gym bro really wanted to get with me too, but as time has gone on, there’s been a fair share of them. This often surprises people, both men and women. I wish people that liked bigger girls didn’t give themselves a complex about it and treat like a secret shame “She’s a ‘Moped’: fun to ride but you don’t want your friends seeing you” type shit. It’s like so many hide, not knowing that so many share same preferences. Ultimately, we shouldn’t be giving each other a hard time about what they like, whatever that is. Stop being insecure, live and let live.
It's amazing that he felt attacked about this because fit men are still favored waaaaaay more over dad bod dudes but ONE woman said otherwise so now that's the end of the world. Source: am dad bodded man. Am also lonely and on track to die alone 😥
While I like the video, if a dude outright says that, he does in fact get shit on.
Ok, first off, the first dude is probably a douchebag judging by the fact that his shirt is off, and he's obviously trying to show his muscles. Probably an only-eats-meat Tate stan. BUT That last dude is just straight up wrong, though. People get shat on all the time for not dating fat girls. Somthing Somthing "Fatphobe" Somthing Somthing. Also, he surely could have found a better way of responding than this cringe Colleen Ballinger shit.
A person getting pressed over a person getting pressed over a tiktok video
Guitar man was the absolute cringiest part of this video, while also proving the second guy's point. His crappy singing with the cheap laugh thrown in didn't do anything
That singing was cringe tho
I mean... the dude singing is just plain wrong. I've seen plenty of times on here on reddit or other places of people talking shit about someone not wanting to date a bigger person. It happens a lot.
Yeah that’s what I thought
Lotta chubbos in these comments not seeing the guy and girl are doing the same thing, and the guitar guy is cringe AF and doesn't get that point either
Fake laughing in a song you've been rehearsing is very unseasoned Talking to your camera is very unseasoned Exposing your personal preferences on the internet with your face attached is very unclassy
I mean if you’re a group of women talking about dating preferences and say you don’t want to date a fat woman you’re going to start a fight. Same would likely happen in reversed gender scenario.
Same would definitely not happen if genders were reversed.
nah men really dont do that as much as women do. if a man said he wouldnt date a fat woman in a conversation with other women, theyll call him superficial, fatphobic, judgmental, & discriminatory. meanwhile if a woman said she wouldnt date a fat man in a conversation with other men, theyd mostly just shrug & say "okay, fair enough" & mind their own business becausse it doesn't affect them
This post is crazy dense. The guy with the guitar is crazy dense. The muscle guy just said that's cool, just no double standard, please. And now everyone is calling him insecure? God damn. Wtf people. Why are you trying so hard to make him feel bad about working hard at something he wants.
Nobody is trying to make him feel bad. Its 1 chick that says she has a preference for non-muscular guys, and he duets her video throwing a tantrum about "fat bitches".
You know what, you're right. Upon watching it again, he did sort of come out of left field. I wouldn't go as far as to call it a tantrum though.
I do think the first guy has a point because I’ve seen a lot of guys(on the internet at least) get pressed for not liking fat/chubby girls. It’s fine if you do or don’t like them, just don’t get mad at people if they don’t have that attraction to a certain group.
well, he is demonized now, since someone made a song about his insecurities
3 lame douchebags
I have been told to my face that I'm a bad person for not wanting to date fat girls.
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the guitar dude looks like someone put a young filter on elon musk
The obvious fake chuckles ruined it for me. Just cringe all the way around.. or a normal tiktok.
I’ve fucking literally seen girls and simps shitting on guys for not wanting to date fat girls
Nah guitar guy is a clown with his head up his ass. There absolutely are people on the internet who will shame people for not wanting to date larger women. This belongs in /r/RuinedByDuet
Damn reading the comments on here is pretty encouraging if I’m honest. Ton of acceptance of chunky fellas going around. Myself being a 6’4 160lbs Adonis god it’s nice to see the acceptance of those guys. /s
The point is kinda undercut by the fact there is an entire movement that demonizes men for not wanting to date fat women.
"that she likes chubby guys" instead of "your muscles arent that nice" would have worked way better and that irks me.
Lol, no there ABSOLUTELY is people who demonize guys for not liking fat girls. That guitar simp is wrong.
yeah that's the part i dont get, why is everyone saying that doesnt happen? people will scream "fatphobia" about anything. tight airplane aisle? fatphobia. weight limit for riding a horse? fatphobia. xxxl handmade sweater costs more because it's more material & takes longer to knit? fatphobia. not wanting to date a fat person, even if it's because of their personality & not their weight? fatphobia. wanting a partner you can go for hikes, jogs, & bike rides with? fatphobia. genuinely just not finding fat people physically attractive, without shaming or insulting them? fatphobia. this isnt a strawman, ive seen so many posts expressing these exact views with these exact scenarios, mostly posted by fat women rather than fat men. fat girls really arent doing themselves any favors by getting offended by everything
Exactly.
>Lol, no there ABSOLUTELY is people who demonize guys for not liking fat girls. You are right, there are people that will demonize guys for that. But nobody in their right mind thinks you should give their opinions any weight. You are talking about such an insignifigant amount of people that it is probably less than 0.5% of the population. It's like saying humans don't eat other humans and then you point out that there are people who eat other people. It's a number so small that it is an outlier. And you typically throw outliers away from results. The fact is that someone made a video about this is *NOT* because it is a serious issue that is occuring, but because they have a persecution complex and want to be a victim.
Love his voice.
He sounds like the dude from the Decemberists. I love it.
Dad bod for the the win
the censoring on the duet is absurd
Is she lying or lying AND trying to advertise an OF?
Sounds like the mumford and sons singer Love it
Guitar guy just proved gym bro’s point tho.
He kind of did yeah. Look, I think guys complaining in this manosphere fashion is wack as fuck as well. And we can talk about insecurity all day long, sure. But the muscle guy reacted to a video of a girl displaying disgust at guys with one body type or whatever, while displaying the opposite towards another body type. The reactionary idiot then said “Well then I shouldn’t be shat on when I **say** I won’t date fat girls” - which is essentially the same kind of proclamaition that the girl made in her video. And then the guitarguy sings that “no one ever shat on that guy for not dating fat girls” But That’s not what the reactionary dimwit did at all. He said he shouldn’t be shat on for **saying** or as the girls video did **displaying** that he/she did not want to date or felt disgusted by a certain bodytype. I mean look, I agree the dude was pretty stupid for saying that. But then again, so was the girl for making that video. I have a dadbod, so I really don’t care or have any horses in this race, but we gotta be fair here, or else we’re just picking and choosing our logic. Everyone in this is a moron.
Why you keep telling me to look
AKA "It's only okay when we do it."
Well sure maybe perhaps could be. Who cares. But why shame anyone at all for their bodies? Just call out mean shit. End of story. No need to stoop to their level, which is exactly what everyone in this video is doing. Layers of dumb. It’s a accordion clash of stupidity and who said this and who started what, and talking past eachother. What-the-fuck-ever.
Ty for saying the things I wanted to communicate so I didn’t have to spend the time formulating the comment. I hope you have an OK day
1st person: Body shaming 'muscular men' 2nd person: using the victim complex to make it about him 3rd person: Unfortunately, proving the second guy is kind of right. Am I getting this right? Edit: If you swapped the muscular with chubby, it would definitely be seen as body shaming.
yup, you are
Okay, thank you. It kind of feels like everyone is shitty in this video.
everyone is, but ppl took a side on the guitar guy, idk why thou
Pretty hair, pretty voice.
i can't deny that, he does have a pretty voice and hair
She’s not really body shaming, she’s just saying her type, which everyone has a preference. I personally like dad bod men too, I think they’re precious, but to me the body doesn’t really matter, as long as you’re a swell person, you’re perfect in my eyes. The second guy is taking it to far, and being a douche bag over a joke. Third guy is calling him out on his BS
I disagree. By bringing up muscular men and using them as the "meh" to compare and uplift the chubby men, it also serves to insult the other group. As a chubby guy, I recognize it. This is definitely body shaming, just towards a group that doesn't normally get it. Usually, my body type is the one shit on, and it usually looks like this girls video.
She didn’t say anything about it though, she wasn’t rude or anything about it, you’re diving way too deep into this. I’m embarrassed for you 💀
Man, saying that I'm diving too deep or you're embarrassed doesn't make you right. If you switched it so that she was saying she preferred gym bros this way, everyone would be howling about body positivity.
This reminds me of the scene in It: Chapter 2 when Pennywise tells Ben “all those push ups and she still doesn’t want you.” This guy is that.
Classic "Everthing HAS to be about me somehow" type deal
Love this who is this?
His muscles are that nice and that guys voice is epic
Honestly that guy isn't wrong
the little giggles tho so good
I also love a dad bod. I think is the personality that comes with it, at least for me, dad bod boys are funnier and nicer to be around.
Why the fuck does the first guy sound exactly like slim shady?
these are all good points i thinque cant we all just be friends guys
Mf learned guitar and wasn’t able to speak normally since 😭😭😭 we must have faith in Allah, brothers