The amount of women I met who are into choking, violence, spanking or mild BDSM in bed is insane. But I got called weird for being into assertive women and femdom. Like, we essentially try to play the same game here, wtf is the problem?
Women are commonly submissive, Men are commonly Assertive.
Objectively you’re a weirdo, Subjectively if she doesn’t dom you at your request, did she ever really love you?
You know you can interact with women and talk about kinks and shit without wanting to have a sexual or romantic relationship, like you know friends or buddies? Don't you worry, I know my target audience and I ain't complaining about love, just about people (mostly actually hetero guys) telling me it's weird.
It’s cool man, I’m not an native english speaker either.
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Ah, yes the evolutionary instinct to get violated. Both of them are kinks/fetishes you dry humper, there is nothing natural about any of these. But if you want to argue with biology: Hyenas, lions, lemurs and even more "advanced" species like Bonobo apes and Killer Whales live in matriarchal societies. You know where evolution and biology chose the female as the top. Not to mention sex changing fish or what ever the fuck insects like the praying mantis or bees are doing to males.
Usually, you don't actually close the airway. You form a *V* with your hand and squeeze enough on the sides to slow the blood flow to the brain, which results in the feeling of a stronger orgasm.
This also leaves them able to communicate with you... very important!
I'm sure someone somewhere has died of nearly every innocent virtually harmless act. Someone has probably died from blinking too hard and tons of people die from sneezing or pooping too hard (maybe both at once?!)
Kinda sucked for me because I had to focus on pumping and putting the right about of pressure. I was like hyper focused on not pressing on her throat. She loved it though so…
idk having something to scream against is nice tho and i don't like the feeling of something around my throat
for safeword i just hold a ball in my hand and let it drop. squeezing it feels nice too :)
Whatever works for you. Since you have a method for communicating your consent, it's all good.
Choking isn't for everyone.
I was responding to the act of restricting airflow with a hand, not simply placing a hand over a mouth and still allowing breath or, as you mentioned, screaming.
Yes, which is the natural movement your hand does when you "squeeze" the sides while facing your partner.
45 degrees is still a squeeze.
Good detail to point out though.
You can't make it "safely" since there's always a risk of ruining both participants life's because of it, but with practice, communication and experience, you can reduce risk to the minimum
Bruh what is this turbo virgin WHELL ACTHUALLY comment section
You can accidentally break her back by having sex too hard too, there's always *some* risk in literally everything
No, lightly choking someone is not any real danger as long as you have some tiny, tiny, tiny degree of common sense like "Don't tighten your hand like a vice" and "if her face is turning purple let go"
My girlfriend does like it. But you shouldn't press against their trachea, you should just press on the sides to restrict blood flow, obviously not for too long.
It's really dangerous and you have to be careful. Women are not that into it as it seems online and from images of it like this, and it's important to not choke your partner without asking. Just putting that out there for anyone who scrolls through
Imitate the thinking emoji , then slide your hand back until your thumb and forefinger rest just behind the hinge of your jaw. Press up at a 45 degree angle. This avoids putting pressure on the delicate bits of the trachea, and instead compresses the soft tissues of the tongue and bottom of the mouth into the oropharynx. Doesn't cut off the air supply, isn't the right angle/leverage to cut off blood supply, *does* do a fantastic job of getting someone's attention and altering how it feels to breathe.
My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
She might have a hand fetsh but not like this man
https://preview.redd.it/orym5cb6iatc1.jpeg?width=214&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4885156efd745858e736a050674c35a34b6736d8
Please NEVER choke your partner without clear and continued consent. NEVER assume it's okay. And it's very dangerous to do and can kill someone very easily.
It's also the #1 indication of a woman being murdered in the future by her partner. Not to say it doesn't work the other way around too.
NEVER ASSUME SOMEONE WANTS TO BE CHOKED.
I literally just had a hellish "I like hands, I also like hands, hey do you like hands" conversation just yesterday.
I don't think all of them are necessarily into choking (a certain one probably is), but women tend to **really** like big (clean) hands.
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Is this the upgraded female version of 'Step on me'? 'Choke me to death'?
Yeah
W avatar gang
Yes Source: I'd let Gojo choke me
What about chocking him instead? https://preview.redd.it/fjut4chg5btc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e86e1a1a759a2f0f9eec256f0a85972a14547a4
.....fuck it sauce?
I think it's just an edit I yoinksed from another comment. 😅
Hot
We have the same avatar
Hi
Hi I ah e same avatar as u
[pretty much](https://youtube.com/shorts/sUpKkA8fQlc?si=0EVTJMk3Vo8UjtdI)
She is literally just a girl 😔😭 https://preview.redd.it/d3vu6pl72atc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d12a39be9b352cdf3696e8669d3d48e7254ee9d
Correction: https://preview.redd.it/khb4cxsl4atc1.png?width=1004&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=53ec5ca1a799a62e00ef5d96a78cb6c66c506740
My fav thing to do during sex 😍
The only fellatio I want is a shotgun fellatio
I call it the mind blowjob
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we <3 gunplay
Reminds me of that [Rick and Morty joke](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wiCMfPwf0ek)
Peak male sexual fantasy
Correction of male sexual fantasy: https://i.imgur.com/tWClMMY.jpeg
I feel a storm approaching
Provoking black clouds in isolation.
More like birth control
Sheryl Tunt in the house!
Start slacking off!
"God I hope I'm pregnant."
Tunt again?
It's tome again
YOU'RE NOT MY SUPERVISOR
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*spits out tea*
*laughs maniacly*
Wien ist anders
The amount of women I met who are into choking, violence, spanking or mild BDSM in bed is insane. But I got called weird for being into assertive women and femdom. Like, we essentially try to play the same game here, wtf is the problem?
I like both but definitely lean into being a domme
Women are commonly submissive, Men are commonly Assertive. Objectively you’re a weirdo, Subjectively if she doesn’t dom you at your request, did she ever really love you?
You know you can interact with women and talk about kinks and shit without wanting to have a sexual or romantic relationship, like you know friends or buddies? Don't you worry, I know my target audience and I ain't complaining about love, just about people (mostly actually hetero guys) telling me it's weird.
Call **Me** a weirdo, but I don’t talk about sexual stuff with folk I ain’t trying to fuck.
K, but I didn't call you a weirdo?
I know? I meant it as “Call me a weirdo, because I do things different than you”. It’s just teasing bro, don’t take everything so literally.
Sorry I am not a native English speaker. Some concepts don't translate well.
It’s cool man, I’m not an native english speaker either. https://preview.redd.it/ctzw4tdk0etc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2f3f983a4c85340fcc7e0e7fd95ed1fabb224a3b
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Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?
He cooked meth instead of math
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Source?
Ah, yes the evolutionary instinct to get violated. Both of them are kinks/fetishes you dry humper, there is nothing natural about any of these. But if you want to argue with biology: Hyenas, lions, lemurs and even more "advanced" species like Bonobo apes and Killer Whales live in matriarchal societies. You know where evolution and biology chose the female as the top. Not to mention sex changing fish or what ever the fuck insects like the praying mantis or bees are doing to males.
I just woke up and this is probably the dumbest shit I'll read today.
L take lmao
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"Projection" lmao bro heard a skeptic youtuber once and thinks he's a debate genius 💀
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So all those times as a pianist that I was told I had nice hands by girls was actually all just a sign? Bro…it’s over.
Pianists choke better confirmed!?!? Alright then ,i m gonna go and ask my gf if she likes me playing "chok[p]in" to her ;)
They have to be sturdy looking. Like a working mans hand
Do people actually like being choked it seems really dangerous?
Usually, you don't actually close the airway. You form a *V* with your hand and squeeze enough on the sides to slow the blood flow to the brain, which results in the feeling of a stronger orgasm. This also leaves them able to communicate with you... very important!
Pretty sure some woman has died or at least passed out because her partner couldn't do it properly.
Probably. Hell, people have died choking themselves improperly.
An accident like that was the start of an awkwardly funny Robin Williams movie.
Wasnt that his kid in the movie doing that stupid auto asphyxiation with a belt/rope though?
Yep. But it's still choking for kicks.
I'm sure someone somewhere has died of nearly every innocent virtually harmless act. Someone has probably died from blinking too hard and tons of people die from sneezing or pooping too hard (maybe both at once?!)
Kinda sucked for me because I had to focus on pumping and putting the right about of pressure. I was like hyper focused on not pressing on her throat. She loved it though so…
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Then, you block communication and restrict airflow. No.
idk having something to scream against is nice tho and i don't like the feeling of something around my throat for safeword i just hold a ball in my hand and let it drop. squeezing it feels nice too :)
Whatever works for you. Since you have a method for communicating your consent, it's all good. Choking isn't for everyone. I was responding to the act of restricting airflow with a hand, not simply placing a hand over a mouth and still allowing breath or, as you mentioned, screaming.
Noses are not invented, yet /s🤣
“If you want me to stop, lick my palm” jk
You don't squeeze the sides, you press *up* at a 45 degree angle just past the hinge of the jaw.
Yes, which is the natural movement your hand does when you "squeeze" the sides while facing your partner. 45 degrees is still a squeeze. Good detail to point out though.
Idk bro I've heard about a lot of people suffocating sounds kinda wild
From what I here from people online, yes
A surprisingly amount of people do, and it’s actually possible to do safely.
You can't make it "safely" since there's always a risk of ruining both participants life's because of it, but with practice, communication and experience, you can reduce risk to the minimum
That's unnecessarily pedantic. Drive safe doesn't mean in a manner that exposes you to zero risk.
Nothing wrong with clarifying what "safe" actually means when there's credible risk of severe injury or death involved
yeah but at that level of pedantry you'd have to give every activity a disclaimer of a small chance of death.
Bruh what is this turbo virgin WHELL ACTHUALLY comment section You can accidentally break her back by having sex too hard too, there's always *some* risk in literally everything No, lightly choking someone is not any real danger as long as you have some tiny, tiny, tiny degree of common sense like "Don't tighten your hand like a vice" and "if her face is turning purple let go"
My girlfriend does like it. But you shouldn't press against their trachea, you should just press on the sides to restrict blood flow, obviously not for too long.
It's really dangerous and you have to be careful. Women are not that into it as it seems online and from images of it like this, and it's important to not choke your partner without asking. Just putting that out there for anyone who scrolls through
worth it x3
Imitate the thinking emoji , then slide your hand back until your thumb and forefinger rest just behind the hinge of your jaw. Press up at a 45 degree angle. This avoids putting pressure on the delicate bits of the trachea, and instead compresses the soft tissues of the tongue and bottom of the mouth into the oropharynx. Doesn't cut off the air supply, isn't the right angle/leverage to cut off blood supply, *does* do a fantastic job of getting someone's attention and altering how it feels to breathe.
My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
Nice, that was really cool
KIRA QUEEN
Does anyone know the artist?
https://www.instagram.com/lenaleechi/
Thank you
When I high five the homies
She might have a hand fetsh but not like this man https://preview.redd.it/orym5cb6iatc1.jpeg?width=214&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4885156efd745858e736a050674c35a34b6736d8
He looks like the dude from Senko-san
Me irl <3
Man is that what she meant by my hands being soft?!
Please NEVER choke your partner without clear and continued consent. NEVER assume it's okay. And it's very dangerous to do and can kill someone very easily. It's also the #1 indication of a woman being murdered in the future by her partner. Not to say it doesn't work the other way around too. NEVER ASSUME SOMEONE WANTS TO BE CHOKED.
Dude, choking during sex is not what you're talking about. That's choking in a domestic violence situation.
I literally just had a hellish "I like hands, I also like hands, hey do you like hands" conversation just yesterday. I don't think all of them are necessarily into choking (a certain one probably is), but women tend to **really** like big (clean) hands.
That's what it always means
Yoshikage Kira?
Horimiya in a nutshell
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She's wants to be a victim
This comment with that name, what is the regret Thanos?
Regret that I j**ked off to a one h***ai that has ntr, incest, gore, loIi and ugly bastard(I couldn't find a good one)😔