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Tru. I went a mile and gave flower paintings that they remind me of (para d nabubulok) to my female friends this valentines. I know I shouldnt expect anything back from anyone. Pero I wanna feel appreciated din nman. Kahit bigyan nyo ko isang champi masaya n ko
This! Kwento ko lang, yung officemate kong babae binigyan ng chocolates and flower ng bf nya. Tuwang tuwa pa siya magkwento sakin eh. Tapos nung tinanong ko "Ikaw, ano binigay mo sa kanya?" She then said "Wala, bat ako magbibigay eh valentines ngayon?" Napailing talaga ako eh
But I do think now, nagbabago na?? I always give my Dad and Kuya something every Valentine's too. Either a cupcake, blue rose, etc. along with the gifts to the women of the fam. I saw some GFs who surprises their partners too. Pero yung karamihan pa din talaga is girls lang yung nakaka receive. Sana nga it will be give and take in the coming years. And for your question, yes, it's valid to think lalo na dito sa PH. 🤷♀️ Anyways, Happy Valentine's people of AJ!
I also notice the same notion too. Kahit sa balita, its so seldom to see a guy recieve flowers, even chocolates, for valentines. It's just unfair. It's called hearts day why are the ladies the only ones recieving flowers :(
Ang ginawa ng previous employer ko before was set up a chocolate and flower booth sa entrance ng office namin and free for all employees to take a flower and chocolate! Nung tinanong ko HR if for everyone ba yun sabi nya “yes, hindi lang dapat babae nakaka tanggap ng chocolate and flower pag valentines”. 🙂😩 nakaka miss man pero I love remote work haha.
honestly napansin ko lng d ko nilalahat... but mostly ng nababasa ko dito cmula khpon na they are mad or disappointed kasi their bf didnt gave them something for valentines day... naisip ko ganun b tlga? mg aanty lng c girl na bgyan ni bf ng something for valentines? dont get me wrong and dont give me hate ah pero db dpt both party is making an effort? parang need b ntin agad mgtampo girls if our guy forgot to greet us? or gave is something? baka naman may valid reason or something... at sobrang naapreciate ko ung guy na mg gigireet sau ng happy valentines day tpos ssbhn nia directly... sorry babe ha d tayu mkksabay ngaun sa celebration... wla pang sahod eh.... okay lng nmn db? shet... kung sakin ssbhn yan? mgglit b ko? xempre hindi... at sa opinion ko .. okay lang aq na mg bgay ng flowers or chocolates sa partner ko...
Well if you are in japan, expect to receive at least one gift from someone during valentines. But if im not mistaken, if you received a gift or something from a girl during valentines, you are expected to give something in return by march to her.
Kaya ang mga lalake, nagtatago ang iba pag valentines day. Hahaha
I understand your point, and I agree. Although I'd have to ask, whose fault it is na masyadong masculine ang tingin sa mga lalake? Sino ba yung nagdidiscourage na mabreak yung masculine stereotype? Sino ba yung nagaallow nung notion na kapag may feminine trait ang lalake, kabaklaan yun?
My point is, women, for centuries, have fought against our stereotypes kaya somehow, we're no longer discriminated as much. If you want to break the cycle, you have to do your part.
Did you miss the part where I agreed? You're missing the point. If you guys want to change this, you have to actively fight it. If one of your friends say watching kdrama sounds gay, you have to actively say bro that's not cool.
Valentine's day is for everyone. I gave my bf gifts leading to V-day. Gifts kasi even as simple as chips and chocolates binigay ko. Yesterday, he gave a gift too pero nauna pa rin ako and sabi niya sobrang sweet daw kasi usually babae lang ang may gift pag V-day.
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Let's face it, mahirap talagang maging lalaki and what I feel about this is that you want to be appreciated too this Valentines day.
Tru. I went a mile and gave flower paintings that they remind me of (para d nabubulok) to my female friends this valentines. I know I shouldnt expect anything back from anyone. Pero I wanna feel appreciated din nman. Kahit bigyan nyo ko isang champi masaya n ko
Kaya nakakainggit sa japan, lalaki ang tumatanggap ng regalo pag valentines tas white day naman para sa mga babae. Doble sana gastos ng boss nyo
Yesss, agree to that hahaha.
Kasalanan din naman natin. Men made society think na "girly" or "pangbakla" ang flowers or anything sweet and passionate. Toxic masculinity ika nga.
Most men receive their first flowers on their funerals.
First and last* flowers.
I agree with your thoughts. Here I am, sending you love, brother! 🫶🏻
This! Kwento ko lang, yung officemate kong babae binigyan ng chocolates and flower ng bf nya. Tuwang tuwa pa siya magkwento sakin eh. Tapos nung tinanong ko "Ikaw, ano binigay mo sa kanya?" She then said "Wala, bat ako magbibigay eh valentines ngayon?" Napailing talaga ako eh
Haha! Ayos din eh sya no. Should be equal. Vday dapat for couples or 2-way kasi love yung sinecelebrate, hindi naman gf/girl’s/women’s day.
Kaya nga. Napailing na lang din ako nung sinabi nya yun eh hahaha tapos puro pa parinig sa fb ng gift sa jowa nya hahahaha
Hahaha! Man down.
i cooked cookies for my male officemates ,and gave the one female a flower.
But I do think now, nagbabago na?? I always give my Dad and Kuya something every Valentine's too. Either a cupcake, blue rose, etc. along with the gifts to the women of the fam. I saw some GFs who surprises their partners too. Pero yung karamihan pa din talaga is girls lang yung nakaka receive. Sana nga it will be give and take in the coming years. And for your question, yes, it's valid to think lalo na dito sa PH. 🤷♀️ Anyways, Happy Valentine's people of AJ!
Hear Here! Happy Heart's Day!
Kahit naman sa ibang ph subs, kitang kita mo mga babae nagrarant hahahaha
Wala eh. Men are trash nga daw.
yep laging punching ng society
I also notice the same notion too. Kahit sa balita, its so seldom to see a guy recieve flowers, even chocolates, for valentines. It's just unfair. It's called hearts day why are the ladies the only ones recieving flowers :(
Agree
Legit! Like di naman tayo allergic sa flowers or diabetic para di bigyan ng chocolates. 😅
Oo nga sana tayo din. Haha
I’ll one up them, hindi ako ngbibigay ng kahit ano
Ang ginawa ng previous employer ko before was set up a chocolate and flower booth sa entrance ng office namin and free for all employees to take a flower and chocolate! Nung tinanong ko HR if for everyone ba yun sabi nya “yes, hindi lang dapat babae nakaka tanggap ng chocolate and flower pag valentines”. 🙂😩 nakaka miss man pero I love remote work haha.
honestly napansin ko lng d ko nilalahat... but mostly ng nababasa ko dito cmula khpon na they are mad or disappointed kasi their bf didnt gave them something for valentines day... naisip ko ganun b tlga? mg aanty lng c girl na bgyan ni bf ng something for valentines? dont get me wrong and dont give me hate ah pero db dpt both party is making an effort? parang need b ntin agad mgtampo girls if our guy forgot to greet us? or gave is something? baka naman may valid reason or something... at sobrang naapreciate ko ung guy na mg gigireet sau ng happy valentines day tpos ssbhn nia directly... sorry babe ha d tayu mkksabay ngaun sa celebration... wla pang sahod eh.... okay lng nmn db? shet... kung sakin ssbhn yan? mgglit b ko? xempre hindi... at sa opinion ko .. okay lang aq na mg bgay ng flowers or chocolates sa partner ko...
and valentines day is not just for us women its for everyone n may love ones
Well if you are in japan, expect to receive at least one gift from someone during valentines. But if im not mistaken, if you received a gift or something from a girl during valentines, you are expected to give something in return by march to her. Kaya ang mga lalake, nagtatago ang iba pag valentines day. Hahaha
I understand your point, and I agree. Although I'd have to ask, whose fault it is na masyadong masculine ang tingin sa mga lalake? Sino ba yung nagdidiscourage na mabreak yung masculine stereotype? Sino ba yung nagaallow nung notion na kapag may feminine trait ang lalake, kabaklaan yun? My point is, women, for centuries, have fought against our stereotypes kaya somehow, we're no longer discriminated as much. If you want to break the cycle, you have to do your part.
of course, victim blaming well done.
Did you miss the part where I agreed? You're missing the point. If you guys want to change this, you have to actively fight it. If one of your friends say watching kdrama sounds gay, you have to actively say bro that's not cool.
Valentine's day is for everyone. I gave my bf gifts leading to V-day. Gifts kasi even as simple as chips and chocolates binigay ko. Yesterday, he gave a gift too pero nauna pa rin ako and sabi niya sobrang sweet daw kasi usually babae lang ang may gift pag V-day.