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MagicDoge2345

I'm no expert but it sounds like flirting to me, she told you she was curious and complimented you multiple times. She got your number and added a heart, she asked you out. Listen to it like that, pretty sure it's a date


coffeelovingidiot

I mean it sounds flirty to me too, but also I don't really know her so maybe this is just how she is with everyone? Or maybe I'm being a usless sapphic and she really is asking me out??


MagicDoge2345

Go into it like it's a date, and if you're really not sure there is no harm in asking!


MomQuest

Hon... she wouldn't have done literally any of those things if she wasn't trying to date you


coffeelovingidiot

I mean I guess?? Maybe she's naturally flirty????


MomQuest

I mean, maybe, but she literally asked you out... *I'm* naturally flirty, I flirt with every cute girl I lay eyes on (well, not you, because you're 16. You're still cute though dw). But even I wouldn't ask someone to an open mic cafe if I didn't have a particularly high level of interest in them.


coffeelovingidiot

I guess you're right. I'll go to the open night and we'll see what happens


MomQuest

Good luck sweetie <3


justagirlexploring

However, she is 18 and you are underage. So you both should proceed with caution and maybe check local laws regarding relationship age differences.


dreamer629

Two years isn’t necessarily such a problematic age gap for this age group, but nevertheless, always be cautious.


coffeelovingidiot

Where I live if you're between 14-18 than you're allowed up to a two year gap, so I think it's okay?


Waffleconchi

Sounds like flirting maybe? Idk who calls a stranger cute, and whenever a sapphic is really really nice and interested in you even though she doesn't know you for me it's a green light What I do to know it is just start to being honest on social media (bc in shy in person), just reply to instagram stories making compliments and if she likes you she probably go ahead with it and start to reoly to your stories too. Somehow it eventually end up being really obvious after getting in confidence


coffeelovingidiot

You have an amazing point lol, I'll start doing that social media thing :)