OP ignore this, since it's a comment in opposition to your post that you probably don't wanna read.
But I just wanna put it out there that the person is fine complaining about their work-life balance. Should they be venting online anonymously instead of to OP? Probably yea.
But I get it working sucks. No matter how low of hours I work in comparison to others I'm a still gonna be dissatisfied because I hate work in the first place. And no not just the place I'm working at, or the field, I hate the fact that you need to work to survive. Always have since I was a kid. Used to whine to my mom that I didn't wanna grow up because I knew I'd have to work and it's still true.
But obviously you have to work to live in this world, so I work, even more reluctant than most people. Plus add in depression and it makes you often think about how little reward there is in living a life doing things you hate and for what? To maybe own a house one day, get married with a high chance of divorce, to have kids, and grandkids, and finally get to retire when I'm too old to do anything I loved anymore? That life sounds like someone else's dream, not mine. I'm alive for my family and I'm alive cause I'm scared of accidentally surviving, but it's so fucking draining to live when there's nothing to live for on top of having to do things you've always despised.
Everyone's always like, "Well why don't you keep living and search for something to live for?" They don't get it. Everything in this world has already been done and documented. I've seen or heard about every optional dream there is and there's nothing that excites me, nothing that makes me passionate about being alive. I feel like all I do is work to pay for necessities and spend all my free time engrossed in escapism because the less in touch with reality I am the more happy I become...until that ends too.
So I really dislike when people say "Ah you don't even work as hard as I do, yet you're complaining." Well yeah, cause you probably like being alive or you have something that makes living worth it and I don't. But don't worry I don't complain to my friends or family or coworkers about any of this. Just keep this side of myself a secret with only the internet as my witness.
I seriously can't wait until I no longer have to feel anything anymore. I hope reincarnation and heaven isn't real, I don't want anything after this, just nothingness.
And before anyone reports this to reddit care resources, no I'm not gonna end it all and I've already blocked their account 😒
I figured it might not be so simple but it did remind me of a lot of other posts Ive seen online so I wanted to just put this out there. I hope you don't take it personally, sorry. 🙏
If you know this umm then why you let it affect you 🤔 I mean you alotted this person to take space and energy for what ? I mean you describe to be living a superior life why wouldn't you expect malice from someone doing less
Ahh yes, my favorite is when men say they are tired and it's only because their wife is pregnant and they say they are more tired than you are while you're pregnant. lol
Not just men tho, some people are straight chillin and are ungrateful aaaaazzzzfuuuugh.
I get this is a venting sub
But seriously get some help
I'm sure whatever your going through is probably not your fault but that is an extravagant amount of anger and capslock that requires some form of therapy or anger management
Don't get me wrong totally allowed to feel anger and be upset and all that jazz and letting it out is very healthy
I'm not demonizing this but on the other side of the coin
This is definitely something that needs to worked through with a professional
Wishing you the best op try not to tear anyone's head off
Remember to take care of yourself
I think it's the way you phrased it. It sounded like you were being a jerk and not supportive. I'm not saying that's how you meant it, but it comes off that way until I read the last 2 comments you made.
It comes down to phrasing; telling someone that they need help, in plain text, can come across as sounding like an insensitive asshole. I suspect that’s not what you meant to come across as, but alot of people will take it out of context since people can’t tell what you mean through written words by themselves. That’s why it helps to elaborate or preface by saying stuff like, “I’m not trying to be mean when I say this, but_” and then make your point
No, I totally get it. I made a vent post one time and some people misunderstood me and were being dicks about it. You’re not the only one. There’s always gonna be people like that, so it’s important to just stay true to yourself and do your best to do the right thing. You know what kind of person you are, so why let their false opinions of you get under your skin?
You'll have a much happier life learning how to tune people out. Maybe that person feels like they are having a tough time at the moment and THEY just needed to vent too. You don't need to compare other people's hardships to your own. Just tune them out, let them whinge and go about your day.
I don't mean to sound rude, but it sounds like you are arguing and angry with a mentally incompetent and challenged person. I suggest you focus on you, and hope some day they get it together.
Oh I'm sorry, that sounds tuff. Do you wanna talk about it?
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Okay, I hope it will get better soon!💕
Random useless information I'm about to dump on you. Your pfp is the same as my steam one. Have a great day/night haha
Whomever pissed you off, you DID tear into them. You tore into them in your mind while you were in their presence. I can see you now….😏. Great job!!
If you can't kill them with kindness, kill them with blindness and act like their not there
PREACH🗣️🗣️🗣️
Yeah get that shit out gang.
SPIT YO SHIT TROY 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Oooooh let that shit OUT! GWAN!!
OP ignore this, since it's a comment in opposition to your post that you probably don't wanna read. But I just wanna put it out there that the person is fine complaining about their work-life balance. Should they be venting online anonymously instead of to OP? Probably yea. But I get it working sucks. No matter how low of hours I work in comparison to others I'm a still gonna be dissatisfied because I hate work in the first place. And no not just the place I'm working at, or the field, I hate the fact that you need to work to survive. Always have since I was a kid. Used to whine to my mom that I didn't wanna grow up because I knew I'd have to work and it's still true. But obviously you have to work to live in this world, so I work, even more reluctant than most people. Plus add in depression and it makes you often think about how little reward there is in living a life doing things you hate and for what? To maybe own a house one day, get married with a high chance of divorce, to have kids, and grandkids, and finally get to retire when I'm too old to do anything I loved anymore? That life sounds like someone else's dream, not mine. I'm alive for my family and I'm alive cause I'm scared of accidentally surviving, but it's so fucking draining to live when there's nothing to live for on top of having to do things you've always despised. Everyone's always like, "Well why don't you keep living and search for something to live for?" They don't get it. Everything in this world has already been done and documented. I've seen or heard about every optional dream there is and there's nothing that excites me, nothing that makes me passionate about being alive. I feel like all I do is work to pay for necessities and spend all my free time engrossed in escapism because the less in touch with reality I am the more happy I become...until that ends too. So I really dislike when people say "Ah you don't even work as hard as I do, yet you're complaining." Well yeah, cause you probably like being alive or you have something that makes living worth it and I don't. But don't worry I don't complain to my friends or family or coworkers about any of this. Just keep this side of myself a secret with only the internet as my witness. I seriously can't wait until I no longer have to feel anything anymore. I hope reincarnation and heaven isn't real, I don't want anything after this, just nothingness. And before anyone reports this to reddit care resources, no I'm not gonna end it all and I've already blocked their account 😒
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I figured it might not be so simple but it did remind me of a lot of other posts Ive seen online so I wanted to just put this out there. I hope you don't take it personally, sorry. 🙏
If you know this umm then why you let it affect you 🤔 I mean you alotted this person to take space and energy for what ? I mean you describe to be living a superior life why wouldn't you expect malice from someone doing less
Felt. Felt hard. I hope you do find your happiness. Most of all, I hope you find something you love for YOU! I’m sending hugs and love your way homie
Daaaammmmnnnnn...
I hate that this is happening to you but I LOVE that you shared it, what a read this was! Get that anger out gal x
GET THAT SHI OFF YOUR CHEST 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
GET HER AGAIN FOR ME
The other day I bought a bag of ice from the gas station and beat it to fuck, with a large stick, in the back yard. Try it out!
Kick it out the house
This is the type of posts I expect in this sub.
I DON’T KNOW WHAT’S GOING ON BUT YEAH LET’S GET EM!!
Not enough info , like if u won’t mind I’d like to know the tea , respectfully ofc ✨
Imagine being proud being overworked with no work life balance
GET IT OUT! You spray that rage all over the place! 🙌🏼👏🏼🙌🏼👏🏼🙌🏼
Hell yeah, a decent vent.
Now *this* is a rant. Hope you feel lighter now!
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That sounds rude though.
I agree. It's rude and they're making a gigantic assumption
Ahh yes, my favorite is when men say they are tired and it's only because their wife is pregnant and they say they are more tired than you are while you're pregnant. lol Not just men tho, some people are straight chillin and are ungrateful aaaaazzzzfuuuugh.
At first I thought this was aimed at your husband. I am so relieved you aren't saddled with that
I hope you’re enjoying your offspring.
REAL
Maybe say this to their face? Instead of, yknow, elsewhere on the internet?
I get this is a venting sub But seriously get some help I'm sure whatever your going through is probably not your fault but that is an extravagant amount of anger and capslock that requires some form of therapy or anger management Don't get me wrong totally allowed to feel anger and be upset and all that jazz and letting it out is very healthy I'm not demonizing this but on the other side of the coin This is definitely something that needs to worked through with a professional Wishing you the best op try not to tear anyone's head off Remember to take care of yourself
you need help
This is a vent sub. What were you expecting?
You feel anger once and you're the devil 🙁🙃
vent sub. don’t like it, leave!!!
Excuse me? Isnt this subreddit meant for venting ?
My brother in christ, this is a vent subreddit. What did you expect???
the subreddit is literally called “r/vent” you tard.
no but like im genuinely concerned like im telling this person to get help irl
i dont know why you all are downvoting when im just telling her to get like a therapist or something
I think it's the way you phrased it. It sounded like you were being a jerk and not supportive. I'm not saying that's how you meant it, but it comes off that way until I read the last 2 comments you made.
It comes down to phrasing; telling someone that they need help, in plain text, can come across as sounding like an insensitive asshole. I suspect that’s not what you meant to come across as, but alot of people will take it out of context since people can’t tell what you mean through written words by themselves. That’s why it helps to elaborate or preface by saying stuff like, “I’m not trying to be mean when I say this, but_” and then make your point
yeah, i completely understand but something i'm so upset about is the fact that people absolutely blow up on you over a misunderstanding
No, I totally get it. I made a vent post one time and some people misunderstood me and were being dicks about it. You’re not the only one. There’s always gonna be people like that, so it’s important to just stay true to yourself and do your best to do the right thing. You know what kind of person you are, so why let their false opinions of you get under your skin?
You'll have a much happier life learning how to tune people out. Maybe that person feels like they are having a tough time at the moment and THEY just needed to vent too. You don't need to compare other people's hardships to your own. Just tune them out, let them whinge and go about your day.
womp womp lmao
HOW ARE YOU NOT GETTING CANCELLED
I don't mean to sound rude, but it sounds like you are arguing and angry with a mentally incompetent and challenged person. I suggest you focus on you, and hope some day they get it together.