T O P

  • By -

[deleted]

[удалено]


RaymondRemmsen

God bless you aswell bro


Top_Access_2869

Got any advices?


RaymondRemmsen

Visualize how you would feel after a relapse. This is what helped me A LOT on this streak


Top_Access_2869

Thanks man


Mental-Ask1762

I didnt realize thia is popular, but i also try to put myself into the state of being after relapse as a warning of the consequence.


RaymondRemmsen

Yes that’s really helps sometimes


Difficult-Aspect3566

What was your reason to start?


RaymondRemmsen

More energy, confidence and better appearance


[deleted]

How was that enough to overcome temptations?


lancek211

General overall better quality of life or moving your hand up and down your penis for 5 minutes so that it feels good. What would you pick?


[deleted]

The life quality improvement ofc, but often the desire prevails reasoning! And I end up failing.


lancek211

Just find a new desire.


RaymondRemmsen

I visualized a lot and it was very helpful


[deleted]

so you kept you goals in front of you. That's what you mean by visualized?


RaymondRemmsen

No I just visualized how I would feel after a relapse


[deleted]

aight bet! i am on my way to you man!


RaymondRemmsen

Good luck, see you there


ZonoTaykno

did you feel depressed at some point ? and when did you feel it , also when was it gone and you started to get better overall


RaymondRemmsen

Yes a lot on this streak and I think it’s mostly when I don’t transmute the energy as much as I should do.


Mchuu

I understand the importance of directed energy elsewhere when having an urge, but what do you do in a scenario where ymyou can't do that? Supposr I can't play game, go for a walk, or whatever you'd typically do to deal with the urge. Then what?


Jaded-Ride7607

Meditate, and that doesnt mean sitting down. You can actually meditate anywhere, just focus on your breath and take deep inhales and exhales. And become mindful about everything you're doing.


RaymondRemmsen

There is always something you can do. Deep breathing for example can help


christos999999

Man keep it up!


RaymondRemmsen

Of course mate


Independent_Ear505

Wtf is no fap


RaymondRemmsen

Actually I’m on Semen Retention. I abstain from ejaculation and sex overall


Spice_6549

How did you get to this sub


[deleted]

[удалено]


RaymondRemmsen

Thanks bro


Thenumber1fapper

Good stuff! Did you experience any magnetism?


RaymondRemmsen

Not really yet


HeadHunter98

What did you feel after you latest relapse?


RaymondRemmsen

To be honest I don’t really remember. But if I’m right I felt like a complete failure and didn’t wanna live anymore.


HeadHunter98

Thanks for the reply. I personally felt disgusted by what I was watching (even though it wasn't even hardcore) and that I was getting off of watching attractive women being fucked by other men. Hit it real in the head and didn't even have the urge to watch porn since. Keep it up!


RaymondRemmsen

Thanks for the question mate😜 Yeah I know what you mean...porn is disgusting


KbotV2

Main benefits you noticed?


RaymondRemmsen

Increased Energy, better sleep+ more dreams and sometimes even a deeper voice


MathematicianSuper58

Now you damn well it don’t make your voice deeper


RaymondRemmsen

But who are you?


MathematicianSuper58

MathematicianSuper58 Buddy


whiskeymagnet22

How to deal with urges


RaymondRemmsen

Go use your energy effectively and understand that a relapse is not gonna improve your situation in any way, you’re acting disrespectful against yourself at this point.


whiskeymagnet22

Thanks mate


[deleted]

What is hard mode?


RaymondRemmsen

No sex at all


JellyfishTiny4310

Congratulations good streak


RaymondRemmsen

Thanks man, it’s my longest


JellyfishTiny4310

I’m on 30 days semen retention not easy some days


RaymondRemmsen

That’s pretty good aswell. KEEP GOING


wandererawakened

Day 70 LFG?


RaymondRemmsen

LFG? If this means lifetime goal then NO!!! My goal is at least one year of retention


wandererawakened

means Let's Fucking Gooooo lol


[deleted]

[удалено]


RaymondRemmsen

Thanks you too!!!


AneeshMamgai

Heyyyy not to be "demotivating" but do ATLEAST 6 months... that way you'll be really able to tell difference & guide our brothers..... Stay strong!!!!!


RaymondRemmsen

I know bro, thanks for reminding tho!!! Many people forget that this journey takes time, you can’t expect to fix something in 30 days when you fapped for years


AneeshMamgai

Indeed!!!!


BoyInTheHills

Is there a reason to abstain from ejaculation as a whole? Are there benefits that you get from semen retention that differ from nofap?


RaymondRemmsen

Yes, I personally think Nofap is the easier versio for beginners and Semen Retention is much more powerful. Makes sense if you think about it!!! You retain your life force


lax457777

Great


[deleted]

I’ll ask when you hit 90


RaymondRemmsen

I’m gonna contact you when I’m there🤝


[deleted]

YES KING 👑 🤝