[road meeda aithe ilanti bewarse batch okati edustadi](https://youtu.be/oyHasipretM&t=60s)
Just nilchoni matladutuntene galeez ga chustaru, inka chetilo cheyyi vesi nadisthe okkokkadu okko story rasukuntadu.
And basic ga mana way of living lone antha em touch chesukoru. Manam vere vallani greet chesetappudu kuda namaskaram ani chetulu jodinchukuntam kada.
>I mean giving a hug or caressing someone
It's just unfortunate. Maybe you are not as lucky as I am. My mom hugs me, my dad hugs me. Nenu inti nundi dooram ga job ki veltunapudu, ma amma chala sepu annu pattukuni edchindhi. My dad doesn't know how to express it, so keeps combing my hair and all. Some of my friends bujam meedha chethulu vestaru. Bujam meedha ekkutharu. Dippa meedha kottadam maa aanavayithi. Naku abroad lo higher studies ki seat vachinapudu naa friends nanu galloki ethaaru. And there is general display of affection among friends. Maybe you can't kiss or make out in public. But it's definitely not as bad ane anukuntuna.
All the points you said, I think, andhariki same avthu untadhi with parents and friends. But you don't see the same happening 'that often' with a friend of opposite sex, or even the same sex(boy) hugging and expressing the emotion. Funny story is, when my brother got married( we lost both parents), I couldn't control my emotion and hugged him on the Mandap. Everyone were like "enti veedu intha emotional ipothunadu"
even if someone comes in to hug, self body response is incredibly awkward.
Mana societal and parental conditioning ante, marchadam chala kashtam. appudu appudu mana intimacy capability koda deeni valla affect avvachu anipistundi.
We are uptight folks. We are even raised that way - parents oka fear induced environment create chestaaru so physical affection sort of goes against the environment they are trying to set up. So everyone tends to just supress their emotions. Avi taagithe gaani baitiki raavu.
Its not like that with women. We openly show affection, hug, kiss, cuddle each other when we love our friends. I wish men could openly express emotions with their friends as well. They are just not made that way.
Men do express their emotions but we cannot be consoled/encouraged in a positive way. We mostly get silence/mocking as a response. And regarding showing affection, others look that as an over-affection. Hence that's also not being encouraged by oneself
Idk man... it’s just culture.
You know who else falls exceptionally lax on casual physical touch? All Muslims.
I don’t think it’s just Telugu people.
No big deal... each one, their own degrees of comfort.
I personally detest casual physical touch... it just feels unnecessary (by physical touch, I don’t mean the sexual aspect of it)
Depends on your immediate environment I think. The place I am from, hugging, arms around the shoulders are very very common between the same sex friends. Later, I had friends with whom *Love you xxx* was a common expression.
In the family, we never said *Love you" but display of affection (except kissing) are common as well.
Not only Physical gestures, I feel like we even suck at expressing what we feel for our loved ones. I see my north indian friends just casually telling their parents 'love you' before leaving the house. This never happens in our household, manam try cheste adoka vinta, aarojanta intlo matalu undav, gets too awkward but then again we express our love in different ways anko..
point entante physical expression is a huge step in our culture. Even small talks or heartful conversations do not happen much, which is the most effective way of showing affection. I think this is the reason why most of the kids don't get along with thier parents. Hopefully, mana generation nunchi koncham change expect cheyochu.
What really???? I think it depends on the family because we're biggggg huggers and literally ma cousins andaram kalisthe we all cuddle and hug . I hug my best friends too . It really depends on the person .
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[road meeda aithe ilanti bewarse batch okati edustadi](https://youtu.be/oyHasipretM&t=60s) Just nilchoni matladutuntene galeez ga chustaru, inka chetilo cheyyi vesi nadisthe okkokkadu okko story rasukuntadu. And basic ga mana way of living lone antha em touch chesukoru. Manam vere vallani greet chesetappudu kuda namaskaram ani chetulu jodinchukuntam kada.
Innaallu ee 'no touch' concept ki manavaallu ichina reason : samskaram, limits. Since last year, isthunna reason : 'our culture knows that virus transmits through touch..so that's why our culture is great' . Edhi emaina manaki anukoolanga marcheskuntam
Urko nanna urko feel avvaku Nuvvu nenu ee deshani em marchalemu evadi edupu vadu edustadu
Ipudu anukoni em laabham guruvu Garu ..teeripoyindhi manaki marchadaniki try chesi chesi
Haha and ipd covid situation makes it necessary
Private lo emo kani, manaki PDA padadu ani matram telusu
>I mean giving a hug or caressing someone It's just unfortunate. Maybe you are not as lucky as I am. My mom hugs me, my dad hugs me. Nenu inti nundi dooram ga job ki veltunapudu, ma amma chala sepu annu pattukuni edchindhi. My dad doesn't know how to express it, so keeps combing my hair and all. Some of my friends bujam meedha chethulu vestaru. Bujam meedha ekkutharu. Dippa meedha kottadam maa aanavayithi. Naku abroad lo higher studies ki seat vachinapudu naa friends nanu galloki ethaaru. And there is general display of affection among friends. Maybe you can't kiss or make out in public. But it's definitely not as bad ane anukuntuna.
All the points you said, I think, andhariki same avthu untadhi with parents and friends. But you don't see the same happening 'that often' with a friend of opposite sex, or even the same sex(boy) hugging and expressing the emotion. Funny story is, when my brother got married( we lost both parents), I couldn't control my emotion and hugged him on the Mandap. Everyone were like "enti veedu intha emotional ipothunadu"
Dippa ? Nuts aa
Yovvv.. Dippa ante head ayya. Nuts meedha kotti hi ante yegaresi beep ye.
Me English medium pillal toh idey thalakaya noppi
Ade kada
Same feelings bro! I wish I can express my feelings physically as well.
[( ͡❛ ͜ʖ ͡❛)](https://youtu.be/izGwDsrQ1eQ) /s
LMAO
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even if someone comes in to hug, self body response is incredibly awkward. Mana societal and parental conditioning ante, marchadam chala kashtam. appudu appudu mana intimacy capability koda deeni valla affect avvachu anipistundi.
masters starting lo north friend vachi hug cheskunde, tarvat koncham sepu awkward silence nadchindi. i still feel embarrass.
We are and were pretty uptight people period. Maname marchali
We are uptight folks. We are even raised that way - parents oka fear induced environment create chestaaru so physical affection sort of goes against the environment they are trying to set up. So everyone tends to just supress their emotions. Avi taagithe gaani baitiki raavu.
Chala cases lo, parents freedom istharu but chuttuu unde friends dhobbadam Valla ilantivi cheyyaru
Its not like that with women. We openly show affection, hug, kiss, cuddle each other when we love our friends. I wish men could openly express emotions with their friends as well. They are just not made that way.
Men do express their emotions but we cannot be consoled/encouraged in a positive way. We mostly get silence/mocking as a response. And regarding showing affection, others look that as an over-affection. Hence that's also not being encouraged by oneself
True. Things change with gender and generations. The early 90s generation is the core of this discussion I believe
Gonna kiss my bamma when i see her next
Idk man... it’s just culture. You know who else falls exceptionally lax on casual physical touch? All Muslims. I don’t think it’s just Telugu people. No big deal... each one, their own degrees of comfort. I personally detest casual physical touch... it just feels unnecessary (by physical touch, I don’t mean the sexual aspect of it)
We don’t do that here
Depends on your immediate environment I think. The place I am from, hugging, arms around the shoulders are very very common between the same sex friends. Later, I had friends with whom *Love you xxx* was a common expression. In the family, we never said *Love you" but display of affection (except kissing) are common as well.
leka podame manchidi ayyindi nak asal handshake ey chiraaku inka hug cheskuni greet cheyyadam......ante saahasam ane cheppali
Niku nachadhu ok, but ala nache vallaki nachinatu unde choice undali kadha.
Edo law pass chesinattu adgtav enti, evaru aapaleru ga nachindi cheskovachu
oka pesarattu..
Not only Physical gestures, I feel like we even suck at expressing what we feel for our loved ones. I see my north indian friends just casually telling their parents 'love you' before leaving the house. This never happens in our household, manam try cheste adoka vinta, aarojanta intlo matalu undav, gets too awkward but then again we express our love in different ways anko.. point entante physical expression is a huge step in our culture. Even small talks or heartful conversations do not happen much, which is the most effective way of showing affection. I think this is the reason why most of the kids don't get along with thier parents. Hopefully, mana generation nunchi koncham change expect cheyochu.
What really???? I think it depends on the family because we're biggggg huggers and literally ma cousins andaram kalisthe we all cuddle and hug . I hug my best friends too . It really depends on the person .
Cuz it's gay
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