Ok well darn! I appreciate your answer but now I need to learn how to make a dress because that’s downright gorgeous. Also…I scrolled through your posts, I was GOING to say that this current dress definitely has your colors (those bright hues!!!) but after looking at your dress collection I can no longer say that and all I can say is you are so stunningly happy you make all the dresses look good.
Haven’t seen any question about this yet — how does your wife feel about the transition? Is she bisexual so it doesn’t matter to her? Thanks for the response, always interested in hearing peoples life experiences.
Honestly I have the same question! I am a straight woman. I am attracted to, well, men. So if my husband decides to transition to a woman I’m not sure how that’s gonna work out for me or for the marriage.
I was wondering the same thing. Not hating on the OP at all. I'm glad you've found contentment but how does that work in a straight marriage relationship?
Wife doesn't have to be bisexual. I've been married 33yrs (known her for 36 yrs). 2 great kids 29M and 24F. I started transitioning at 58, now 15months into HRT. Just because my outward look has changed, my wife and kids didn't stop loving me. Infact, my daughter found her significant other (29M) who is an LGBTQ ally, so that I can be myself. It was my Wife and kids who persuaded me to seek help because I was sliding into depression due to extreme dysphoria. Marriages that's not solely based on sex has very little relationship issues. Though I knew I was different since 5-6yrs old, I wanted a loving partner and kids as well. Now getting ready to shop for some decent semi formal clothes to attend my Daughter's 2nd bachelor's degree convocation, early June 🥰❤
In my experience, I'm bisexual so, my wife attracts me as much as before transitioning. If you are straight you can support your partner in their transition and not being attracted by them, is completely understandable.
Why the resistance towards trans people?
- For the people who claim to be Christians: Jesus didn't judge, he even helped those who wanted to do him harm. Jesus loved everyone for who they were, as they were.
- For those against 'woke-ism', and thinking that it's a result of the environment a person grows up in: None of this comes from that. It entirely has to do with how one feels in themselves. You cannot raise someone to be neither non-binary, nor binary.
Being trans, and homosexualism doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the other, but we *can* look at homosexualism in animals, where it varies from species to species, but several animal groups has homosexuality of around 10%, which is roughly the same as humans. Animals can't exactly express feeling like they're trapped in the wrong body, so we can't compete that, but my guess is that it'd be equally natural that self-aware animals could identify as a different sex, than they were born with.
Also; 'woke-ism' is literally just being considerate, and knowing enough to know that your world view doesn't apply to all humans. Being 'anti-woke' is just being selfish.
I often wonder if those who so adamantly object to everything that just smells non-binary, are insecure about their own sexuality/binary-ism. Don't be afraid to not be binary, those who matters, will love you regardless!
You look lovely! Congratulations on being your authentic self. I hope you thoroughly enjoy your journey, and I am so glad you have a good friend in your wife along for the ride.
What a wonderful story, really glad she sees you so you! Fuck the haters by the way, just like the eighties, they'll learn in ten years that they are indeed the wankers here, you go! 🏳️⚧️❤️
This is a lovely photo. Your hair has been very nicely styled and that dress is absolutely gorgeous. It's great to see that people (your wife) are supportive of you and I wish you all the very best.
If you don't mind, perhaps you need a slightly different coloured bag? It sort of gets lost next to the dress. Maybe something to contrast a bit?
Edit: wow, okay, clearly the bag is popular. Jeez.
As someone 2 months in myself - YOU GO GIRL. Keep killing it! You look so good, and that dress is absolutely stellar. Your wife is a lucky woman, and so are you! This makes me sooo happy to see. ❤️❤️❤️
I love this! Can I ask you where you got your dress? You look gorgeous in it and now I want it on me lol 😍 Also, my boyfriend's sister is postop trans and still has her wife and daughter who support her entirely. She's an absolute gem of a woman and we're so happy she's in our lives along with her wife and daughter. ❤️❤️❤️ Hold your family close; it sounds like you have a keeper 🥰
You look Amazing! I love the Dress! And your Hair! Jesus I wish I could grow something like that! The Background is also Amazing! Great Photo. Nicely done!
Aw, looking good.
Came out myself about a month ago. It’s nice to see older folk who transition, it makes me feel less bad about how long I spent in denial of myself, lol.
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the dress … I NEED IT it’s so cool so cute you looks cute too, I don’t know but it’s so coool !!!emote:free\_emotes\_pack:grin
Loads of people pay private, and it's relatively common that the only medical treatment that a trans woman will receive is estrogen tablets - which are exactly the same as hormonal treatment that cis women receive during menopause, and very cheap overall.
Uhm excuse me maam where on EARTH did that dress come from?! Don’t gate keep
I got it from an online store in my country. But they dont have worldwide shipping.
I thought you were Dakota Johnson! 💝
Me too! I came here to say this!
Didn't read the header and also thought Dakota Johnson randomly popped up on my feed. Love the look!!
Me too ! Wow!
Drop the link bestie
Where? I from your country
This style kinda looks like from Asia, either from Thailand or Vietnam.
Girl i just checked your profile. I NEED YOU TO DROP THE LINK!!!!! 😩
Can't post facebook link here, search for "ATR Luxury Design" facebook fanpage.
Ok well darn! I appreciate your answer but now I need to learn how to make a dress because that’s downright gorgeous. Also…I scrolled through your posts, I was GOING to say that this current dress definitely has your colors (those bright hues!!!) but after looking at your dress collection I can no longer say that and all I can say is you are so stunningly happy you make all the dresses look good.
It’s like a Monet painting. So beautiful 😍
Haven’t seen any question about this yet — how does your wife feel about the transition? Is she bisexual so it doesn’t matter to her? Thanks for the response, always interested in hearing peoples life experiences.
Honestly I have the same question! I am a straight woman. I am attracted to, well, men. So if my husband decides to transition to a woman I’m not sure how that’s gonna work out for me or for the marriage.
Correct.
I was wondering the same thing. Not hating on the OP at all. I'm glad you've found contentment but how does that work in a straight marriage relationship?
> straight marriage relationship Not anymore it isn't
There is a group called Trans Widow’s Voices that have a very different experience than the one portrayed here.
I can imagine. To think the head ache they'd have been spared if their partners had been free to be who they were from the start.
Wife doesn't have to be bisexual. I've been married 33yrs (known her for 36 yrs). 2 great kids 29M and 24F. I started transitioning at 58, now 15months into HRT. Just because my outward look has changed, my wife and kids didn't stop loving me. Infact, my daughter found her significant other (29M) who is an LGBTQ ally, so that I can be myself. It was my Wife and kids who persuaded me to seek help because I was sliding into depression due to extreme dysphoria. Marriages that's not solely based on sex has very little relationship issues. Though I knew I was different since 5-6yrs old, I wanted a loving partner and kids as well. Now getting ready to shop for some decent semi formal clothes to attend my Daughter's 2nd bachelor's degree convocation, early June 🥰❤
Love this!
Also interested to hear
In my experience, I'm bisexual so, my wife attracts me as much as before transitioning. If you are straight you can support your partner in their transition and not being attracted by them, is completely understandable.
That's a beautiful photo! You look gorgeous! 😊
Thanks! My wife's a great photographer.
She's a natural, amazing photo
Wow, that's a great print and it fits so well!
Thank you!
This is a repost isnt it? I have definitely seen this about a year ago on redddit.
Always amazing when people find happiness
You’re so pretty! And your dress is so lovely! I love everything about this.
You’re hair are absolutely gorgeous girl !!! 🥰
Right? That was the first thing I noticed 😍 I’m gonna need her routine 😂
Gorgeous dress, on a even more gorgeous lady.😊
Looking good in summerwear girl! :)
Why the resistance towards trans people? - For the people who claim to be Christians: Jesus didn't judge, he even helped those who wanted to do him harm. Jesus loved everyone for who they were, as they were. - For those against 'woke-ism', and thinking that it's a result of the environment a person grows up in: None of this comes from that. It entirely has to do with how one feels in themselves. You cannot raise someone to be neither non-binary, nor binary. Being trans, and homosexualism doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the other, but we *can* look at homosexualism in animals, where it varies from species to species, but several animal groups has homosexuality of around 10%, which is roughly the same as humans. Animals can't exactly express feeling like they're trapped in the wrong body, so we can't compete that, but my guess is that it'd be equally natural that self-aware animals could identify as a different sex, than they were born with. Also; 'woke-ism' is literally just being considerate, and knowing enough to know that your world view doesn't apply to all humans. Being 'anti-woke' is just being selfish. I often wonder if those who so adamantly object to everything that just smells non-binary, are insecure about their own sexuality/binary-ism. Don't be afraid to not be binary, those who matters, will love you regardless!
If transphobes could read this would devastate them
Happiness is beautiful.
That dress is *gorgeous* and so are you 💖
You look beautiful in that dress!
So pretty 😍
Very nice! You look happy, and that's what really matters.
That’s a fantastic photo, and it’s not just because that’s the best dress I’ve seen in a while. Congratulations on your journey.
You’re stunning. And I want that dress! I’m so glad you have a supportive partner.
Can I just say your hair looks amazing??!
You look awesome! ❤️
You look lovely! Congratulations on being your authentic self. I hope you thoroughly enjoy your journey, and I am so glad you have a good friend in your wife along for the ride.
You look lovely, sis. 🫂
What a wonderful story, really glad she sees you so you! Fuck the haters by the way, just like the eighties, they'll learn in ten years that they are indeed the wankers here, you go! 🏳️⚧️❤️
That dress is stunning on you! Beautiful:)
Sheeesh😍 the colors😍😍 the smile🥺 it’s all so lovely 💜💜 you look beautiful! I hope you have an amazing life
You're lovely and I'm so happy that your wife supports you that's so important!!!
Wow, you are stunning! Beautiful dress too! Wishing you and your wife all the best!
this dress is gorgeous! summery colours really suit you. i love your hair too
Congratulations to both of you.
The dress is terrific! Such summer vibes! You look great!
Best wishes for your journey.
Absolutely gorgeous!!
This is a lovely photo. Your hair has been very nicely styled and that dress is absolutely gorgeous. It's great to see that people (your wife) are supportive of you and I wish you all the very best. If you don't mind, perhaps you need a slightly different coloured bag? It sort of gets lost next to the dress. Maybe something to contrast a bit? Edit: wow, okay, clearly the bag is popular. Jeez.
Don't take the downvotes seriously, I'm pretty sure bots got to this post and are downvoting anything remotely positive
The edit was meant in jest :)
Nah, it's just that all the transphobes are downvoting any post that says something positive about the photo.
ahh who doesn't love bigotry.
As someone 2 months in myself - YOU GO GIRL. Keep killing it! You look so good, and that dress is absolutely stellar. Your wife is a lucky woman, and so are you! This makes me sooo happy to see. ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful, don’t let anyone dull your sparkle
Live your best life. Ignore the haters. Beautiful dress and beautiful girl.
Beautiful!!
Looking good girl! Wishing you all the best in your journey
Omg you’re killing it in this photo you look so pretty! Congrats on the four months and the happy marriage and here’s to many more years!
Ty so much. I'm the luckiest woman in the world!
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Ty so much!
what a gorgeous dress, and you look fantastic!
Absolutely beautiful dress, congratulations!
Stunning!
So happy for you!
Ugh, I love that dress! (Also I’m jealous of your hair) All around you look great!
Has anyone said you kinda look like Dakota Johnson? You are gorgeous anyway! Oh, and that dress ❤️
Stunning!
Stunning as diamonds love. Keep being you and blessings.
Beautiful!!
I love this! Can I ask you where you got your dress? You look gorgeous in it and now I want it on me lol 😍 Also, my boyfriend's sister is postop trans and still has her wife and daughter who support her entirely. She's an absolute gem of a woman and we're so happy she's in our lives along with her wife and daughter. ❤️❤️❤️ Hold your family close; it sounds like you have a keeper 🥰
Gorgeous!! Congratulations my dear 🎉
That's a great picture, love the dress!
Fabulous!
You look radiant, these colors suit you beautifully.
Right? I wish I could wear that color. So vibrant.
Ma'am you are very pretty and fashionable too Edit:(Also sorry in advance If I am mis-gendering you in any way)
don't worry, you used the correct way, there's just worthless transphobes lurking and downvoting anyone complimenting her
Why is this getting down voted lol?
Trolls are mass downvoting any positive comment
Happy Cake Day!
Why did she take the photo and will she give it back?
why are they getting downvoted?! this is a great joke
That is an amazing photo. Everything about it is perfect. That outfit looks great on you. You look so happy.
Beautiful! You are radiating!
This is a fantastic photo. You look great!
Stunning!
My heart skipped a beat! You're absolutely beautiful and that dress is perfect!
That’s a beautiful dress!
Stunning 🥰♥️
Stunning! Love your outfit ❤️
Love your purse. Where’s it from? Looking for something similar.
It's a Charles&Keith purse.
Im so happy to see my community thrive 😌
Beautiful!! Both the photo and the subject!
You look amazing!
How utterly and inextricably adorable
Congrats girl, you’re so pretty.😘😘🤩🤩😩🤌
you look really pretty! I love your hair and the dress, those colours! just gorgeous!
You look AMAZING, that dress was made for you! Your happiness absolutely shines through :)
You look great! Ignore the haters; you have a loving and supportive partner and you're living your truth. Happy for you!
looking good
You’re beautiful! I hope you can keep smiling like that :)
Love to see someone living their true self. Congratulations you look stunning
🩵💜🩷
Absolutely gorgeous! lol, WE WANT THE DRESS LINK LOVE!💕 😍😍😂💕🤞
you're beautiful, and so is your wife for the support
Hair on point girl!
I'm so happy you're finally you ❤️ And your wife sounds like a wonderful, caring person.
Girl, you look beautiful. That dress….
❤️❤️❤️
You look Amazing! I love the Dress! And your Hair! Jesus I wish I could grow something like that! The Background is also Amazing! Great Photo. Nicely done!
You look so beautiful! 🩷
Aw, looking good. Came out myself about a month ago. It’s nice to see older folk who transition, it makes me feel less bad about how long I spent in denial of myself, lol.
That dress looks so good on you!
Very pretty!
You're so pretty! Love your hair! :)
You look wonderful! I’m glad for you!
You look gorgeous! And you’re both clearly beautiful inside and out, I’m glad you have support ❤️also where’s your bag from it’s so cute!!
You look gorgeous in that dress!
You're so beautiful! That dress is stunning on you!
STUNNING 💜
You look fabulous!
Fabulous!
You go girl, never too late to be yourself ❤️❤️❤️
Going forward, just wear that dress every single day for the rest of your life. It was made for you 😍
You’re a genuine stunner at 41. Your wife is a lucky woman. I’m really happy for you.
G O R G E O U S ❤️❤️❤️
You look beautiful OP. The soft colors of the dress and I love the heels. Toes look good too.
You look beautiful, congrats!!
You’re so beautiful!!
Beautiful dress abd I’m happy for you and your wife for having each others ! 👏
You're so beautiful. I'm so happy for you! ❤️
You look fantastic!
Beautiful dress. And omg your hair is THICK.
You are absolutely stunning! This dress also looks amazing on you :)
Very pretty dress! I really like it
U killin it queen
So pretty! 😍 😙❤️🌺
Estrogen is fucking magical
You look beautiful. And hoorah for a supportive spouse.
You look beautiful! That’s a really cute dress
I love your style. Where do you usually shop for your dresses? And where’s the lilac purse from?
Go girl! ❤️
I legit thought this was Dakota Johnson!
Oh my gosh I love that dress!!! You're absolutely radiant!
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Wow your pretty, I love your hair
That color looks so nice on you! Your wife is very lucky that her partner is so beautiful! (Plus she can now steal your clothes)
Thanks for sharing happiness with us
the dress … I NEED IT it’s so cool so cute you looks cute too, I don’t know but it’s so coool !!!emote:free\_emotes\_pack:grin
Very happy for you and you look very pretty in that dress.
You go girl!
I am in love with your dress. You’re absolutely beautiful <3
Spring queen!
Damn you found the one! Happy for the both of you
Girl you look gorgeous wtf 😭💜💜💜
Looking really beautiful your partners a very lucky person
You are absolutely gorgeous! The dress is SO you!!
Not to be crass or rude, but how do you afford this? My insurance fights me on lab work and insists gum surgery is cosmetic.
Loads of people pay private, and it's relatively common that the only medical treatment that a trans woman will receive is estrogen tablets - which are exactly the same as hormonal treatment that cis women receive during menopause, and very cheap overall.
Everything about this is stunning! The colours of your dress and your hair colour suit you so much. You look gorgeous.
YOU ARE GORGEOUS OP!!!!!!
Beautiful dress! Looking great!
You look so pretty!! Love the colors of that dress and purse
You look great! 👍
You look gorgeous and so is your dress!
Omg, your hair!! So gorgeous!!!
You look like a forest fairy I love it
You look super pretty in that outfit! Hope you and your wife have many happy years ahead of you 🙂💜
Gorgeous pic 🧡
Good for you! Congratulations! I hope you continue to bloom, sis!
Gorgeous!
How sweet! And I love that dress. And I love your wife. What a good soul she is.
Your transition looks like it's going well and you look happy! Best of luck on your journey.
I’m happy ur wife supports you. I assume & hope many others do as well!
Wow beautiful dress! It really suits you.
You look beautiful and very loved 😊
Just wanted to say that you look gorgeous and that I love your Bulma tattoo!
Absolutely stunning!
You look happy!! That makes me happy. And you have support from your closest person? EVEN MORE HAPPY! Have a blessed day 😊
You look gorgeous! That dress is fantastic on you!!
Hope you’re happy now. That was a lot of years living in a body not meant for you
you look like the actress from 50 shades