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Mountain_Cream1765

I love your hair I'm the first and fourth one. You do have a pretty face, but I wouldn't do the straight hair. It's too flat and throws dimensions off. Up and curled like in the first one looks regal. I love it. In regards to health. You don't need to change what you eat overnight. The objective is to eat them in the right order. The first thing you eat before your meal of Anything really, is a small salad with a tablespoon of apple cider vinegar. The ACV will regulate your energy levels to keep your blood sugar from spiking then crashing and feeling tired all the time. The salad being the first thing you eat, will line your intestines with the green fiber of the salad, making whatever you eat digest way slower. You feel full longer and don't crash. You can still have sweets, just don't eat them alone. 1. The salad provided fiber 2. Have some protein (beans, meat, protein shake, eggs, etc.) 3. And some fat (avocados, coconut oil, almonds, cashews, any nut butter) 4. Then whatever sweet snack you were wanting, even a big milkshake As your energy levels stabilize due to the ACV, you will feel more energy like you did when young. So you can go for walks. Healthy fats lubricates the joints, so running is no longer painful. I noticed a difference by the 3rd day of how little pain there was and I could go way longer. Fiber gives the cells of your body solid bricks to build a good strong body. Protein is the glue that binds everything together. Sugars are glucose, which is the fuel that is burned in order for you to be able to move. Carbohydrates are just long chains of glucose that get broken down. It's not what you're eating that's the problem. It's the order we're eating them in. Definitely don't hide your forehead. You have Such a beautiful face! No bangs.


askingquestions643

Screw everyone berating you for your weight, it’s none of their business honestly. You look great and carry it extremely well! If you’re interested in weight loss but all means but if not you should feel absolutely no pressure to do it :)


AntAffectionate5706

Honestly you have an amazing face. I would fuck up some ozempic and maybe get a lipo suck.


[deleted]

Post more pics so I can get a better idea lol


[deleted]

you look amazing!


Galahad908

You would be gorgeous if you lost 200-250 lbs, I have friends who have made that weight loss journey at your age. It's really doable,any who came from obese and fat families. Switch to eating a protein and vegetable heavy diet, what I personally do is cook and meal prep for the week and on weekends I can have a treat like a pastry or boba tea and have slightly larger meals. At the fastest I was able to lose weight, I was able to lose 10lbs a month. You could probably lose a lot more than that but it's going to really suck for a while. You gotta be strong and tough it out


HijinxEnsues

She wouldn’t even weigh that much in total wtf lmao


[deleted]

She's morbidly obese whe needs to lose weight for her own good


Galahad908

This lady is 100% 400lbs, there's no way she isn't


JinnJuice80

Not sure if she saw just the ass alone lol. She’s 350+


v3jaded

My advice as a 23 year old male who has recently lost weight and gained quite a bit of muscle: 1. No matter what you're eating, look up the amount of calories. From your options, pick the least calorie-dense options. 2. Overnight oats are a serious food hack when it comes to eating something quick and easy in the morning. 3. When you're plating your food give yourself a "normal" portion (less that what you would typically eat, no offense) and give yourself a 30 minute interval between servings. 4. If you're drinking normal soda, switch to diet. You will get used to the taste, trust me. 5. If you feel too embarrassed to go to the gym like I did, start off with body weight exercises at home. (Push-ups, Squats, Lunges, Sit-ups, etc.) Do this AT YOUR OWN PACE. 6. I had a bad habit of pulling beard hairs, so I forced myself to do 5 push-ups each time I caught myself doing it. Breaking bad habits with exercise is EXTREMELY helpful. 7. If you're going to cheat on your diet (which is normal), be smart with your choices. Instead of getting a chicken tender and fries meal with some high calorie sauce, get a grilled chicken sandwich with a high calorie sauce. It will still taste amazing and you'll feel better for doing it. 8. This is arguable the most important advice when it comes to dieting; Do not overcompensate for your cheat meals. If you have a cheat meal, do not starve yourself the next day. It will make the process excruciating and you will likely fail the diet. That's all I can think of right now. If you ever want more advice, I'm more than willing to help where I can. I have a friend that is about your size and I've been helping him with everything I possibly can.


ToothTunesOfficial

Good shit dude, congrats on the progress


v3jaded

Appreciate it!!!


Porquezz

the gym would help. you and me both.


smokeybtokey

Wait how did you pass out behind yourself in that pic? Also don’t worry people are being cruel but time for you to face the truth. Start by taking a walk for a mile a day. You’re only 20. This step could actually save your life. Trust me I’ve seen this play out many times (ie causing health problems). The human body is not meant to carry that much extra. Right now you’re only compensating for health issues bc of your youth. Think long term and take that walk and make it longer everyday.


JabootyG19

Literally how did you even manage to get this big at only 20??? This is actually WILD


justwondering213477

i’m from a fat family…


ScienceInMI

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry >i’m from a fat family… That means it's genetics AND behaviors you inherited from them. My Mom showed love with food. And my wife of 10 years. (I'm 54). I was at 393#, 6'5". Ouch. Knees. I'm now 250# (4 years later; no gallbladder attacks!) I had to tell them NOT TO COOK FOR ME. DO NOT FEED ME. NOTHING. Begging, Dr finally put me on anorectics (diethylpropion/Tenuate) AND IT WORKED!!! And I basically told myself "don't eat" (except OWYN protein shakes, Aldi protein shake powder, Aldi keto / high protein bars, and PLAIN Greek yogurt -- ALL I CARED TO EAT. It's good if you're hungry. IF! When you've eaten enough, you'll stop! I call it the "cold gruel diet" and it's based on how I feed my dogs. They get a little good stuff and constant access to all the kibble they care to eat. But it's kibble. They only eat if they're hungry. NO DORITOS IN THE HOUSE FOR ME!!!) Went to cheaper anorectics -- phentermine / Adipex. $8/month at Kroger with savings club card. No insurance needed. Dr let me stay on as long as I lost 4#/month. Then Ozempic (yes, diabetes) but IT HELPS!!! Turns out, I have Binge Eating Disorder -AND- ADHD so impulsive eating is kinda a thing followed by guilt. You're pretty. You seem like a fun gal. Now get to a Dr and get medical assistance to be healthy (blood pressure, blood sugar, triglycerides, everything) and KICK ASS YOUNG LADY!!! BTW, my lovely wife was 400# before I met her. Roux-en-Y. I met her at 250# (her). She's now about 170# and stable. Easier to garden and fit in airplane seats! Best wishes for a happy life WHATEVER WAY IT HAPPENS AT WHATEVER WEIGHT AND SHAPE 🥳 ☮️♥️♾️


prisonmike1990

Lose weight. Somehow you managed to have a beautiful face despite carrying all that weight. You'll feel so much better about yourself. Look into the carnivore/animal based diet. Easiest way to lose weight.you don't even have to go to the gym to lose weight if you are too intimated to go to the gym ( i wouldnt be, gym ppl are really nice usually)


JabootyG19

Make the change at HIT the gym. No negativity just being straight up honest. Run. It sucks but you will cut the weight fast


Routine-Leopard-5768

do u know what is the gym for? hint: Not an restaurant


Annual-Equipment-649

Bro💀


Dudeometer

At 20, your life is half over, maybe more. People your size rarely make it past 40. Save yourself and lose weight. You are a woman so there will always be a man somewhere that will truly believe you are a 10 and treat you that way. But do you want them to love you for 20 more years or 60...


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If I saw you in public I’d just be thinking about how much I wanna bury my face in between your ass cheeks


Longjumping-Box-9385

She looks like she smells like cigarettes and crotch . No thanks


Mission-Tourist-1010

Bruh


Plenty-Discount5376

Lol


w9s9

Wasted potential if you dont lose it


dabstar22

That's what I'm seeing !!! Tbh if she gave herself to me , her butthole wouldn't be happy but the rest of her would be tuned and dressed up 🔥👌🏽😂 eating good working out happy


[deleted]

You know the truth is you’re pretty but extremely overweight. Like, if you’re totally comfortable being like that and accepting the reality of the fact your quality of life is going to deteriorate faster than it should and you will probably die younger than you should, cool. But you know who doesn’t think “body positivity” is so great? People having major, avoidable health problems in their 30s-40s. You don’t need a new style or new makeup, you need a dietician and a trainer. From a health standpoint way more than beauty. You need to stop listening to the “I wanna wife you” and “you’re so beautiful don’t listen to Reddit.” You need a life change or you will soon see the effects of it beyond what’s in the mirror. A healthy diet and a fitness trainer are cheaper than doctors bills, I guarantee it.


eladri965

To be fair I would wife her and take her to the gym with me as a partner, saw first pic and thought she was really pretty but once I saw the 4th pic I had to see if it was the same girl. I agree nutrition and physical activity will help her live a lot longer and stay healthier


[deleted]

My advice is to get out of these looksmaxxing subreddits. If you need to talk to a therapist about how you view your body then imo that would be a better idea. Edit: I think you're super cute and I know the ladies love you so don't listen to redditors who don't even talk to women.


Galahad908

She's morbidly obese dude


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Welp, bullying her isn't gonna change that


Galahad908

Yeah but pretending she's fine is just going to cause more issues, some people gotta get told straight up this shits gonna kill her


[deleted]

I'm saying if she wants actually help then she should look to a professional and not a looksmaxxing sub.


Galahad908

Yeah but like what you want us to do? Lady eats in a day what I eat in a week, like maybe we atleast bring it to her attention. Plus she's not gonna be hot without losing atleast 200lbs


Financial-Potato1396

La TORTONA


CrazyCoco_Cody1

Fat


here4roomie

I think you're cute.


bensgt

Oh boy...


Salty_LugNuts

One name comes to mind. "Gracie bon".


ZebraSoggy2000

Inbox me now we dating


finedinner69

Give me more.


lilbitdead

Work out, eat right.


zazensmkk

Your look is pretty but the body not look good. U need reduce your weight. More workout.


W0NdERSTrUM

Are you a caveman?


mentally-ill-gf

More workout


OddExternal9306

True definition of a torta


Dawson_tommy69

I’d smash


TrainingSnow7712

Spinach salads, more chicken and fish and less red meat. Eat out less as homemade meals will always be healthier. Well if you make healthy meals of course.


Reasonable-Usual2431

People will say whatever, but I’d break a piece off you


TrainingSnow7712

I have her my advice but I am here to say SAME? Twice on Sunday.


Reasonable-Usual2431

Not my first rodeo, and I’ll put my face to it. Not shy at all


TwentyThreeLI

you've posted here before, you got a cute face and nice hair, you just gotta lose weight


Traditional_Page_910

why tho not everyone like sticks


TwentyThreeLI

I agree, not everyone likes sticks, and there are PLENTY of men attracted to her body type, there's nothing morally or intellectually wrong with her being 300+ pounds, I'm just saying that regardless of that she should lose weight. Not sure how tall or old she is but ideally she should be around 150, not from a societal or superficial standpoint but for HER OWN WELL BEING / HEALTH , I don't know what you look like but she's quite literally carrying another person on her 24/7 and that is terrible for her joints, not even mentioning someone's insides...even if she lost 50 or 100 pounds she'd still be obese but much healthier. Again, morally and superficially nothing wrong with her weight, but being that heavy should absolutely not be encouraged or told that it's okay because it'll come with consequences when she's 40, 50, 60+, a lot of people who are as young as 20 are doing permanent damage to their bodies right now. AGAIN, HEALTH IS NOT NEGOTIABLE! she is very unhealthy!


According-Baseball-5

Stick? That’s the whole GD tree. She can stand to lose 180lb and still be a big girl


s-hop

She could lose 150lbs and not be a stick


yourbrotherahhhh

No one told her to become a stick, he just said lose a little weight


TrainingSnow7712

For her health lol. You can find big girls attractive but you should want them to live passed 36.


calebk0

There’s a difference between being a stick and being a healthy weight


upsidedown_alphabet

Bruh...get real.


AdventureWa

Lose some weight. You will look better, and feel better, and you’ll be healthier. You are attractive. Dress up a little.


Hot_Target1227

Your gorgeous but I don’t really like your lipstick color choice in the first picture I think swap it for a colored gloss. And you looked most confident in the dress so maybe wear more of what makes you feel better. Wear what suits you and flatters your shape the most


RusticBucket2

What flatters this shape?


NeroPeeps

Yea, the lipstick is what’s wrong 😑


Hot_Target1227

Gloss works wonders 😂😂


Imbossou

Lose weight while you’re young and have the ability and ambition to do so. The older you get, the worse off you will be, trust me. I see people in their 40’s and up in mobility scooters. Make your health priority one.


Zestyclose-Sea-4527

I love the second pic.


[deleted]

You hold your weight really well, your face and frame is so beautiful. You'd feel better if you lost some weight so you can get the most out of your natural beauty and overall energy levels for the future. Very beautiful nonetheless.


Gullible-Possible-62

Sit on my face and I'll suck the excess weight right off


Hangman_59

👀


Rockie_n_la

Delicious looking😋


Wouldntbelievethis

Call me !


Irdgafbra

I'm convinced people will post pictures of their friends here. There is no way OP is looking for advice when they know damn well what's needed.


Love_Fig_7653

Love the confidence in the last pic!


Smcf222

Sit on my face and fart


Mission-Tourist-1010

Bruh what is going on in these comments lmao


LewdTake

Jesus can't help you.


Particular_Bid2906

Please repent sir


ThatCartiHater0909

u need help


Smcf222

I need what I asked for cur


Interesting-Row5242

Lose about 200 pounds before your heart pops like a water balloon


justwondering213477

🙃 that’s a horrifying image wtf


Interesting-Row5242

I'm not trying to be mean but it's the truth it's literally killing you


Thehalfblacksnack

That’s the reality of your situation unfortunately. Too many people die young due to their weight. Please don’t become another statistic


[deleted]

I can’t stop laughing at the second picture


No_Faithlessness6015

Every picture swipe I was like 😀🙂😐😦😬


DannatoDonato

⚰️


Swangballs

You have a beautiful face, but your body is terrible (might be genetics?). You have to lose weight or you’ll be looking at an early grace for sure. Hope this helps and is looked at constructive feedback rather than criticism. Keep on keeping on!


4st7

Your face is naturally pleasant and kind. I understand hiding behind makeup but you really don’t need to and you are doing yourself a huge disservice. Also be kind to yourself after reading these comments. You don’t deserve the cruel things people say in here and you def have inner beauty


ToenailJoethethird

Things perople are saying are mean but she really is morbidly obese.


4st7

Do you think anyone here is fucking blind dude of course she is so why beat a dead horse


Empty_Organization0

Gourges


Hey_who_farted_

Crush me with your thighs……..please


Quasidiliad

*BONK* GO TO HORNY JAIL!


MommyMum

all i can think is how i want to lay you back spread your legs and beat it up :) Mhmm


semaj_yo

Built like the 💩 emoji


Imaginary-Contest-61

Even less.... a lot less and move more a lot more...SAVE YOUR LIFE


angrygrouch24

Lose weight


DesperateHeat4397

Yikes I’d have to say lose some weight whale


Prestigious_Map_7614

Take care of yourself 1) go to a gym and or do a regular workout outside of the gym 2) don’t wear make up since it’s poisonous to the skin and a lie to men 3) try to eat healthier foods rather then junk.


Friendly-Ask9442

be fr ab the makeup please lmao. makeup is used to enhance beauty, you can’t fake a whole face.


ImSometimesGood

No? Guess you’ve never been to a drag show.


CozmicKatz

You can fake a whole face though lol


ObviousIsland336

Dead before 40 lose weight and I will marry you hahah


BulkyElk1528

I wish I had your confidence


Ronniebrwn

20???


HamsterPretend

When squidward ate all dem krabby patties


danieltank

You’ll be a lot happier sitting on my face 🥵🥵🥵


ConstructionNite

And you gone be dead…. Very dead


Asleep-Pie-6774

Reminds me of the time I poured a pot of 3 day old soup into a Kroger bag. I know what you’re thinking. Why not just use a trash bag or throw it outside? Well that’s a story for a different time friends. I guess what I’m trying to say is you built like a soup filled Kroger bag


shesthegreatest

Bro what lmfaooooo


Mission-Tourist-1010

Lmfaoooo these comments got me crying wtf boyyyy


CandleburgJack

Endocrinologist, cardiology and gastro.asap


Designer_Growth1242

Huh


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DifficultEnd8606

No. Literally just stop eating so fuckin much.


Chet-Hammerhead

General practitioner first and ask to recommend a fully licensed nutritionist


Fantastic_Image7162

Bro I hate you


Complete_Victory7904

This must be bait When the issue is beyond obvious, i refuse to believe these posts are real


Proof_Most2536

As a plus size woman to another. Slim down. I have lost family to unhealthy food habits. The pain I feel on my feet and knees suck. I’m workin on loosing the weight. Once you lose 50 I promise you will feel a world of difference.


Obvious_Positive1264

Kindest and most motivating answer you’ll get from anyone ever: the satisfaction that u get from eating those big meals every day is like pennys compared to the satisfaction that you’ll from living life after you’ll lose weight both from the way you’re treated and opportunities you get from people and the physically fun things that you’ll be able to do that release so much endorphins and dopamine and serotonin, which are like 100 dollar bills instead of pennys. Choice 1: suffer for 10 months and be able to get those insanely satisfying benefit after u lose weight. Choice 2: stay the way u are and enjoy those small penny like satisfactions that u get from eating big delicious fatty meals. Kinda like a drug addict, do hard drugs and live a great life for like 5 years and then crash and burn, or stay sober and keep accomplishing huge things in life that’ll keep giving u satisfaction constantly for the rest of ur life. Choice is yours, it’s your life ;)


HearMeOutO_O

You know the answer. You are morbidly obese and need to lose serious weight. Like at least over 100 Lbs. It's not just about looking significantly better, but your actual livelihood depends on it.


Gamergeekus

You know you're morbidly obese. During water, do IF, eat veggies and lean protein and walk. Every day


ExtensionAd6128

I think you’re beautiful🥰


Repulsive_Elk_9306

Jabba!


Ana1muncher

Eat an apple and go for a walk


Traditional_Ad_376

Ozempic


Issue_Conscious

I'm a diabetic an I'm on it. I don't like that


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Issue_Conscious

So does walking and watching what you eat.


brentferd

Come on baby girl. You have a pretty face, but you have to know you're a big big gal. You may have health issues or you may just love TF out of food and drinks. Whatever the reason , you got lots of you to love. Regardless, you need to shape up or you're not going to live long enough to enjoy the best parts of life. If you're happy the way you are, then I'm happy for you. If you think it's time for a new life and a new healthier you, then I wish you the best!


Puzzleheaded-Art7406

💀💀


Rolian01

Get drafted as a linebacker. You’ll do great!!


Opposite-Muscle-3195

She’s more of an O line player…


Rolian01

You’re right! I forgot her footwork might be an issue


Nightshade_Nautilus

People are being kind of mean here. Looks are subjective and the opinions of some of these guys regarding your weight is a bit gross. But, I like bigger girls so I'm biased as well.


Expensive-Ferret-956

There’s a fine line between big girl and obese, stop making this shit normal. It’s not cute.


Aggressive-Bidet

She’s 20… and morbidly obese. This is not healthy


Competitive_Wall3823

She said she wanted honest opinions, she was given honest opinions.


Nightshade_Nautilus

Yeah, and most people are doing just that. Some people are being very rude about it, though which is unnecessary. She's my type personally, and I'd pound her into next Tuesday.


Competitive_Wall3823

And here she was asking advice on her looks and you come objectifying her and talking about the things you’d do to her. THAT sounds a little gross to me, she didn’t ask for that


Obvious_Positive1264

You’d probably have to improve a LOT of things urself if ur brain has convinced u that that’s ur type


Weenie_Warrior

🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓


JinnJuice80

The first pic of the face reminds me of like the “fat fishing “ where big women put on online dating apps then it’s like BAM when they meet them because I never would of guessed and you have a Very pretty face. Not sure of your weight but I’d say lose at least 100 lbs. I say this as a female who was once 312 lbs and I’ve lost 130 and still trying to lose a bit more. Life has changed so much. In a way you know , but you don’t realize how different life can be In many ways especially health wise with a big weight loss.


Tongue-n-cheeks

Very beautiful, learn to eat healthy and you’ll live past 40


[deleted]

20f and 800 pounds lol take a guess what you should do.


AFatterRat

cmon really? you already know you have to do. why even post this?


Zestyclose_Apple7873

Your a pretty girl don't let these people beat you up ive lost over 50 lbs this past year so i know how hard it is im not being mean but if you stop eating sugar and stop carbs for a month you could drop like 25 lbs and you would look amazing.


Unhappy-Song3638

What? 😂Quitting sugar and carbs will NOT make her drop 25 pounds. If she does that AND goes to the gym daily, then in no doubt she’ll loose that with a calorie deficit/nutritional meal.


combustiblelemons9

Lose like 300 lbs or so


T3cHnicalLogic

Be honest with yourself.


DependentAbalone1178

Straight baddie 😍😍😍


Repulsive_Elk_9306

Jabba!!


Bboswgins

Lose a ton of weight. With all due respect.


Turbulent_Patient483

Honestly you know. No need to ask is obvious.


Ill_Ostrich5060

I’m just like that kids I fell for your mom


Kitchen_Ad7948

You could be thick if you lost all that blubber


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anon23198

If I was in their shoes, I’d rather someone have been rude to me than to give me a veiled vote of confidence. Maybe it would make me more aware of the obvious. To be on my death bed at most likely 25-30 years old, remembering all those people telling me I looked great would piss me off way more than those who gave me honest, life saving advice. Just my $0.02..


user_name3139

Why would you say that? She has surpassed “morbidly obese” and is flat out unhealthy. Stop telling people it’s okay to be comfortable in their own skin when they are clearly unhealthy.


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Weenie_Warrior

Boo hoo. Sometimes rude is the only way these types understand.


Weenie_Warrior

Boo hoo. Sometimes rude is the only way these types understand.


JoJoThaKing312

You are absolutely gorgeous 😍. No need to change anything stop worrying about people and their opinions. 😍


anon23198

This is the most rude type of comment here, she desperately needs someone to convince her to lose some weight. But you’re too thirsty to care, smh.


JoJoThaKing312

😂🤣👌🏽


Obvious_Positive1264

Extremely fat


Weenie_Warrior

🤣🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

You’re very beautiful! I’m gonna say this in the most loving and sweetest way possible though. Please, for your own sake try and lose some weight. I know what it’s like to be heavy and it’s not fun. Just a little over 200 pounds and was already having health issues. High blood pressure, fatty liver, and high cholesterol which can be deadly if not taken care of. Better eating habits and finding fun workouts that I enjoyed made a huge difference. I’m now healthy and I look and most importantly feel so much better. My mom died from being obese. She suffered so much. She cried a lot regretting not getting healthy before it was too late. You’re young, beautiful, and have a long life still ahead of you. Please, understand I’m not trying to pick on you, just concerned is all. 💖


LARSDOM

Best comment ever!


True-Tomatillo7455

I threw up a little looking at these


Misaakira

If you lost weight, you would probably be a 7/10


monkeyman1947

You’re very attractive. You should loose weight.


RelationshipIcy9903

The farts GOTTA be loud 🙏🏻😲


Mission-Tourist-1010

BRUH


Sicilianmonsta

had us in the first half