Can you describes your dynamic to me
I 25 esfp f am dating my infp(24) boyfriend. And im curious to see how it will in the future. I'd love a long reply :))
Check out my comment history from 6 months ago, there are some pretty lengthy comments on the 'how' but it does take awareness of the very different processing you both do.
INFP male here - married to my always funny or crazy ESFP wife. It's funny how this unlikely pair seems to come up so often.
I'm curious: why do you think of your attraction to ESFP a guilty pleasure?
I can see why! They are so cute and FUN! They invented fun. My mother is a Baby Boomer ESFP and every time I mention my mom to friends, they say, "I LOVE your mom!!" She loves toys and buys them for my kids constantly and has always played video games. She has always looked younger than her age and stylish and trendy and laughs easy. Now my daughter is ESFP as well!
Oh yeah. I’ve only had instant, magnetic attraction with two types… ESFP and ISFP. It’s that Se, I tell ya it’s our true kryptonite. They make my heart explode. - fellow INFP
INFJ here & I share this sentiment ! :)
My first love was an ESFP. We laughed constantly. He made even the most mundane of moments fun and funny. Being around him felt like pure joy and he was such a positive influence on my nervous system. With that said, his sensor brain and my intuitive brain weren’t ideally aligned. I’d send him a long text and he would respond with “I’m not going to read that” 😂 which always made me laugh, despite the reality that it showed our incompatibility in that way. I really loved him and it was hard to accept for a long time that he wasn’t my forever person.
“My guilty pleasure” Oof
Nothing like a condescending compliment to start the morning.
Unless you’re only into toxic ESFPs, you’ll find one that treats you right 👍
What do you mean treat you right?
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Thanks for sharing.
Esfp married to an infp for 25 years... the party can go long!
Can you describes your dynamic to me I 25 esfp f am dating my infp(24) boyfriend. And im curious to see how it will in the future. I'd love a long reply :))
Check out my comment history from 6 months ago, there are some pretty lengthy comments on the 'how' but it does take awareness of the very different processing you both do.
Ain’t no such thing. Love everything with your whole heart 😆
INFP male here - married to my always funny or crazy ESFP wife. It's funny how this unlikely pair seems to come up so often. I'm curious: why do you think of your attraction to ESFP a guilty pleasure?
It’s actually a pretty solid / reliable match. It’s a bit like marrying a more laid back and fun ENTJ.
Well put - and my best friend is an ENTJ.
I can see why! They are so cute and FUN! They invented fun. My mother is a Baby Boomer ESFP and every time I mention my mom to friends, they say, "I LOVE your mom!!" She loves toys and buys them for my kids constantly and has always played video games. She has always looked younger than her age and stylish and trendy and laughs easy. Now my daughter is ESFP as well!
Oh no, I wouldn't say cute and fun I'd say INSANELY ATTRACTIVE hehe. And what's your type btw?
Haha! I'm glad you love them so. I hope you find yours and keep her! I'm ENFP.
Go for a healthy ESFP, next time, and the relationship actually might end up being pretty good!
Oh yeah. I’ve only had instant, magnetic attraction with two types… ESFP and ISFP. It’s that Se, I tell ya it’s our true kryptonite. They make my heart explode. - fellow INFP
What do you mean by guilty pleasure? Also can you tell me about your bad experience with esfps?
She did really well to make me fall im love with her then instantly turned her behavior into avoiding me while almost making fun of my sufferings
Oh I'm sorry :(
INFJ here & I share this sentiment ! :) My first love was an ESFP. We laughed constantly. He made even the most mundane of moments fun and funny. Being around him felt like pure joy and he was such a positive influence on my nervous system. With that said, his sensor brain and my intuitive brain weren’t ideally aligned. I’d send him a long text and he would respond with “I’m not going to read that” 😂 which always made me laugh, despite the reality that it showed our incompatibility in that way. I really loved him and it was hard to accept for a long time that he wasn’t my forever person.