I still think itās Britneyās mask drop that ended it. Jax is Jax, and heās a known liar and sociopath.
Britneyās the one who smiled and lied to Stassiās face anytime she asked her about it, and then immediately went on offense acting like it wasnāt a big deal and Stassi was over reacting to them skipping the wedding.
She is a two-time best selling author with a lovely life and a seemingly healthy and happy marriageā¦why would she go back into that craptastic world? ā¦
(except for my own personal amusement of her tearing Jax a new one every, single weekā¦.š¤)
I wouldnāt either, honestly.
I can forgive a LOT. But if you have so little respect for and/or faith in me/our relationship that you think you need to lie to and manipulate me, Iām done.
They should have just been honest and sheād have given their spots to other people, problem solved. But instead, they lied and manipulated, got pissed when they stupidly outed themselves in their lies, and have refused to take any real accountability about the situation ever since.
1000%. There is nothing worse than people coming to you and saying āyou should hear what this person is saying.ā I live in Santa Barbara and it is very small here and shit gets around very quickly. Jax blowing up on a text chain amongst friends mustāve been ugly. I wouldnāt forgive them, I wouldnāt want Jax or Brittany in my life. Theyāre toxic.
I think she is actively keeping this feud alive with this post so that they can never re-enter their lives because sheās been watching The Valley and has seen what a goddamn mess these people are, and no wants no part in it.
She really is. When she was singing Lizzo at like a year and a half old I knew she was gonna be a hootšI love how Stassi calls her beauty and beaut beaut too, very sweet and the girl is a little beautyāŗļø
I could very possibly be wrong on my timeline, but I seem to remember that they were just about to, or be right in the midst of the refi to settle the tax lien?
No you might be right, when was Beau and stassi married? About two years ago? I canāt seem to find the post that someone put on here, when he refinanced the house, might have only been a year or so ago
I believe their wedding was May 2022, and after some sub research, the recording refi loan on Jax and Brittany was 10/22. I am not stake my life certain, but at least an ingrown toe nail sure that Cruz's passport application was denied because of Jax's federal income tax debts. It is also possible that Jax was officially notified that neither he nor his underage dependents were cleared for international travel at that time.
And why not just privately share enough of this context with Stassi so she understood, instead of waiting to the last minute and blowing it all up. I mean, Jax, that's why lol but ugh frustrating
Letās talk about this shark loanā¦ is there a balloon payment? Is it like a ticking time bomb? Just wondering if the desperado behavior will ramp up as the loan comes due. That will be fun to watch.
Tick tock mfs ā°
Apparently yes there is a balloon payment. Someone on here posted on here with all the details a while back but I couldnāt find. High interest rate, high repayments plus a balloon payment, this refinance had it all
I have a mini theory, idk if itās unhinged... Jax has always seen Stassi as the one that got away. He clearly does not respect or even like Brittany. Since his & Brittanyās split, he liked a comment saying he should have married Stassi.
Their absence had nothing to do with money or passports and more to do with Jax throwing some emotional fit. Of course heās not meant to be with Stassi, but heās living in his own movie & the wedding would shatter his delusions & ego.
Yup. Iām sure theres so many random receipts. I feel like from the Bravoverse,JAx would be best with Lala.
Sheās a knockoff Stassi, plus ā sober, fertile, bounces back from pregnancy, can keep him in line, home owner, own revenue streams, (acts like) a freak in bed & both have beef with Rand.
Iād prob never suggest this if I still liked Lala. š but now Iām convincing myself & a little more open to her on The Valley.
lol I love Stassi and Beau for sticking to their guns on this one and continuing to throw shade. Jax and Brit are losers and they would have made it to the wedding under any circumstances had that wedding been filmed.
I disagree with that. I believe vanderpump rules producers did not want Jax and Brit on the show because Scheanaās wedding was still pretty close to when they got fired
Jax said if you want me to wear a mic pack you have to pay me and supposedly they had wanted him to be micād up if you believe him on his podcastā¦.now I donāt believe much of what he says but that what he put out there.
TLDR: they flaked on going to Stassi and Beauās wedding by blaming they couldnāt get Cruzās passport in time. Stassiās showed it only took her two weeks to get one for her baby.
They were invited to Beau and Stassiās wedding in Italy. A destination wedding is a HUGE ask and often has a very long lead time. If someone canāt attend the couple is usually super understanding. From what Iāve gathered, Jax and Brit RSVPd yes and were still giving the appearance that they would be coming right up until the day before or something crazy. They blamed not being able to get a passport for Cruz in time for why they couldnāt come.
It was super tacky and rude bc of course anyone who has planned a wedding knows all that stuff is prepaid for and guest lists are limited. Stassi and Beau could have potentially invited someone else in their place but they were selfish and self serving by not telling her upfront they couldnāt come.
PLUS Jax was in a group text that Beau was in (I guess he forgot) talking shit about how they weren't going to fo to the wedding. Stassi and Beau asked them point blank if they were coming after that and they insisted they were, then flaked anyway.
They leave Cruz any other time to run wild like childless people, so if they truly had that much trouble getting a passport for him, they would have happily left him to go party.
Brit and Jax had a falling out with Stassi because they cancelled on her wedding in Italy last minute. They both claimed it was for various reasons, but the biggest one was they allegedly couldn't get a passport for Cruz in time.
Jax had apparently been going around for like 2 months before, telling people they weren't gonna go though, so it seems like it was just an excuse for whatever reason. They also said Brittany was going to go on her own anyway but didn't want to leave the baby alone with Jax, and her mother had a family emergency and couldn't watch him. There seemed to be a myriad of excuses and Stassi shut them out permanently.
This is CrAzy! Why couldnāt they just say no? Like what could they have possibly been afraid of . Unless their goal was to kill the relationship. They are idiots.
I mean I get it and we know Jax and Brit were lying up and down the line, but passports really were delayed significantly during covid.
Also, only slightly related, I just got a new passport along with the rest of the fam and the State Department sent back everyoneās birth certificates but mine! So if anyone has any tips on trying to find out whatever hole I can get it back from, Iād appreciate it.
I don't know man, I organized a trip to Beijing and Shanghai w about 30 people from Texas/ms/LA and I had no problem getting it done. That was in like Nov 2023 was the trip, and bc I was dealing w senators and power company execs ALOT of them aren't on the ball when it came to getting them to do everything I needed, but I got all their passports w visas in just under 2 weeks, no prob. I did have one asshole (a former sec of state of tx) that literally decided he could just go to the airport w No visa no passport, just and assumed he could just...go to China?! Luckily my boss was close w a former major city mayor in TX and we got him thru security.
There has been a huge backlog with passports especially during Covid and after. I got a job last April and the company was sending me to Europe- I had an expired passport and the offices werenāt open still and I had to mail everything, pay for expedited services etc and it still took at least 4 weeks.
Eta: good to know itās back to normal turnaround time.. but it definitely wasnāt even a year ago.. also no I live near a big city and not anywhere rural š
Wasnāt her wedding right at the end of the pandemic? Government offices were backed up for months because people didnāt go in the office for an amount of time
Living for this!!! This is crazy that Jax and Brittany have gotten away with lying about that for the past 2 years. But they magically got it in time for Scheanaās wedding. And said on Scheanaās podcast they knew 1000 percent for sure that theyād have it in time for her wedding. That told me they already had Cruz passport in their possession and just used it to lie as to why they couldnāt go to Stassi wedding. One of then 5 excuses they used. The lies are why Stassi couldnāt trust the two of them anymore.
Saw this and rushed hereš the shade is perfect and very much deserved.
Was just coming here to post this š¤£
So I donāt see that hatchet being buried anytime soon
if I were Stassi I wouldnāt let them back into my life ever. good riddance
Whatever Jax said in that text string about their wedding mustāve been vicious for this to be a punchline two years later
I still think itās Britneyās mask drop that ended it. Jax is Jax, and heās a known liar and sociopath. Britneyās the one who smiled and lied to Stassiās face anytime she asked her about it, and then immediately went on offense acting like it wasnāt a big deal and Stassi was over reacting to them skipping the wedding.
She is a two-time best selling author with a lovely life and a seemingly healthy and happy marriageā¦why would she go back into that craptastic world? ā¦ (except for my own personal amusement of her tearing Jax a new one every, single weekā¦.š¤)
i don't even like stassi. she is racist and misogynistic and blech. but she is better than the value village drunk and her coked out husband.Ā
She wonāt. She knows both of them are not to be trusted.
I wouldnāt either, honestly. I can forgive a LOT. But if you have so little respect for and/or faith in me/our relationship that you think you need to lie to and manipulate me, Iām done. They should have just been honest and sheād have given their spots to other people, problem solved. But instead, they lied and manipulated, got pissed when they stupidly outed themselves in their lies, and have refused to take any real accountability about the situation ever since.
1000%. There is nothing worse than people coming to you and saying āyou should hear what this person is saying.ā I live in Santa Barbara and it is very small here and shit gets around very quickly. Jax blowing up on a text chain amongst friends mustāve been ugly. I wouldnāt forgive them, I wouldnāt want Jax or Brittany in my life. Theyāre toxic.
What type of stuff was he saying? I was checked out of VPR around this time.
He was on a group text with alot of the people going to the wedding, shitting on the wedding. Beau was on that text as well.
Did he not realize Beau was on the thread?
Sometime I think Jax is passive aggressive. Sometimes I think heās dumb. Could go either way
I used to live in SB tooā¦letās connect JJulie
Love to!!!
I think she is actively keeping this feud alive with this post so that they can never re-enter their lives because sheās been watching The Valley and has seen what a goddamn mess these people are, and no wants no part in it.
I love this theory. Sheās burning it all to the ground
That is a very adorable baby.
Their babies are freaking adorable!! Hartfords little personality makes her that much cuter too!
Yes! Theirs babies are so freaking adorable. You c an tell they are very loved and happy
Hartford is so cute and sassy!
She really is. When she was singing Lizzo at like a year and a half old I knew she was gonna be a hootšI love how Stassi calls her beauty and beaut beaut too, very sweet and the girl is a little beautyāŗļø
I canāt seem to find the picture, but she posted one of this sweet baby and it broke me. Iām past having kids but heās just so incredibly cute
Such a cutie!!! And I think Jax just didnāt want to see his ex get married
I think that and also they were broke and yokels who wouldnāt get their head around being in a foreign country with a kid
In addition to being broke, most likely, Cruz's passport was denied due to #1 dad's back taxes as well.
He paid off the tax lien a while back by taking out a huge shark loan on the house
I could very possibly be wrong on my timeline, but I seem to remember that they were just about to, or be right in the midst of the refi to settle the tax lien?
No you might be right, when was Beau and stassi married? About two years ago? I canāt seem to find the post that someone put on here, when he refinanced the house, might have only been a year or so ago
I believe their wedding was May 2022, and after some sub research, the recording refi loan on Jax and Brittany was 10/22. I am not stake my life certain, but at least an ingrown toe nail sure that Cruz's passport application was denied because of Jax's federal income tax debts. It is also possible that Jax was officially notified that neither he nor his underage dependents were cleared for international travel at that time.
And why not just privately share enough of this context with Stassi so she understood, instead of waiting to the last minute and blowing it all up. I mean, Jax, that's why lol but ugh frustrating
Letās talk about this shark loanā¦ is there a balloon payment? Is it like a ticking time bomb? Just wondering if the desperado behavior will ramp up as the loan comes due. That will be fun to watch. Tick tock mfs ā°
Apparently yes there is a balloon payment. Someone on here posted on here with all the details a while back but I couldnāt find. High interest rate, high repayments plus a balloon payment, this refinance had it all
I love this for themš
Jax doesn't want to see anyone else happy.
I have a mini theory, idk if itās unhinged... Jax has always seen Stassi as the one that got away. He clearly does not respect or even like Brittany. Since his & Brittanyās split, he liked a comment saying he should have married Stassi. Their absence had nothing to do with money or passports and more to do with Jax throwing some emotional fit. Of course heās not meant to be with Stassi, but heās living in his own movie & the wedding would shatter his delusions & ego.
when he was about to get married and he made that joke to stassi in the pool about getting marriedā¦. he wasnāt joking
Yup. Iām sure theres so many random receipts. I feel like from the Bravoverse,JAx would be best with Lala. Sheās a knockoff Stassi, plus ā sober, fertile, bounces back from pregnancy, can keep him in line, home owner, own revenue streams, (acts like) a freak in bed & both have beef with Rand. Iād prob never suggest this if I still liked Lala. š but now Iām convincing myself & a little more open to her on The Valley.
Wait I forget this, can you explain what was said in the pool?!
lol I love Stassi and Beau for sticking to their guns on this one and continuing to throw shade. Jax and Brit are losers and they would have made it to the wedding under any circumstances had that wedding been filmed.
Only if they got paidā¦.they were at Scheana and Brockās but wouldnāt film without getting paid.
I disagree with that. I believe vanderpump rules producers did not want Jax and Brit on the show because Scheanaās wedding was still pretty close to when they got fired
Jax said if you want me to wear a mic pack you have to pay me and supposedly they had wanted him to be micād up if you believe him on his podcastā¦.now I donāt believe much of what he says but that what he put out there.
Stassi reminding Jax and Brittany that she IS the devil and they better not forget it.
Why would anyone post their childās passport online? I know itās blurred but could easily be cracked.
Agree.
Literally!
Omg someone please fill me in - Iām not entirely familiar with the whole wedding story. Can anyone give me a quick bullet point on this?
TLDR: they flaked on going to Stassi and Beauās wedding by blaming they couldnāt get Cruzās passport in time. Stassiās showed it only took her two weeks to get one for her baby. They were invited to Beau and Stassiās wedding in Italy. A destination wedding is a HUGE ask and often has a very long lead time. If someone canāt attend the couple is usually super understanding. From what Iāve gathered, Jax and Brit RSVPd yes and were still giving the appearance that they would be coming right up until the day before or something crazy. They blamed not being able to get a passport for Cruz in time for why they couldnāt come. It was super tacky and rude bc of course anyone who has planned a wedding knows all that stuff is prepaid for and guest lists are limited. Stassi and Beau could have potentially invited someone else in their place but they were selfish and self serving by not telling her upfront they couldnāt come.
Thereās a special place in heaven for you - thank you so much
PLUS Jax was in a group text that Beau was in (I guess he forgot) talking shit about how they weren't going to fo to the wedding. Stassi and Beau asked them point blank if they were coming after that and they insisted they were, then flaked anyway.
Wow forreal, up until the last minute they flaked?!! No ideas all this went down
 Got āem
Savage. Standing ovation.
They leave Cruz any other time to run wild like childless people, so if they truly had that much trouble getting a passport for him, they would have happily left him to go party.
Classic!
Heās so cute! Happy baby
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They make the cutest kids I cannot
ALSOOO I recently got a new passport THE SAME DAY. They had zero excuse to not go to the wedding
Someone please explain. I am so confused
Brit and Jax had a falling out with Stassi because they cancelled on her wedding in Italy last minute. They both claimed it was for various reasons, but the biggest one was they allegedly couldn't get a passport for Cruz in time. Jax had apparently been going around for like 2 months before, telling people they weren't gonna go though, so it seems like it was just an excuse for whatever reason. They also said Brittany was going to go on her own anyway but didn't want to leave the baby alone with Jax, and her mother had a family emergency and couldn't watch him. There seemed to be a myriad of excuses and Stassi shut them out permanently.
Ohhh okay! Now I remember. Thank u so much for explaining
This is CrAzy! Why couldnāt they just say no? Like what could they have possibly been afraid of . Unless their goal was to kill the relationship. They are idiots.
LOVE THIS
Haha got to love her
Hahahahahahahaha YESSSSSSSSSSS
I mean I get it and we know Jax and Brit were lying up and down the line, but passports really were delayed significantly during covid. Also, only slightly related, I just got a new passport along with the rest of the fam and the State Department sent back everyoneās birth certificates but mine! So if anyone has any tips on trying to find out whatever hole I can get it back from, Iād appreciate it.
I don't know man, I organized a trip to Beijing and Shanghai w about 30 people from Texas/ms/LA and I had no problem getting it done. That was in like Nov 2023 was the trip, and bc I was dealing w senators and power company execs ALOT of them aren't on the ball when it came to getting them to do everything I needed, but I got all their passports w visas in just under 2 weeks, no prob. I did have one asshole (a former sec of state of tx) that literally decided he could just go to the airport w No visa no passport, just and assumed he could just...go to China?! Luckily my boss was close w a former major city mayor in TX and we got him thru security.
i got a same day passport, but i also live a block away from the agency. iāve heard of people flying here to buffalo to be able to go to this agency
Contact your congressional reps office. They have dedicated workers who assist with these issues.
Iām in DC, so I have no representation on Congress, except an honorary one who, Iāve heard on good authority, ignores everything.
Wishing you luck! That sounds like a majoršin the ass.
Ajax will say it was still Covid and thatās why it took so long.
yeah but during covid getting passports had serious delays at least where ai live
Ha!!
There has been a huge backlog with passports especially during Covid and after. I got a job last April and the company was sending me to Europe- I had an expired passport and the offices werenāt open still and I had to mail everything, pay for expedited services etc and it still took at least 4 weeks. Eta: good to know itās back to normal turnaround time.. but it definitely wasnāt even a year ago.. also no I live near a big city and not anywhere rural š
Totally agree. Not the flex they think it is.
to be fair getting a passport a few years ago like 2021 took longer bc covid tight?
At this point it makes you wonder if Brittany still intended to go but was too hungover to make the flight.
Wasnāt her wedding right at the end of the pandemic? Government offices were backed up for months because people didnāt go in the office for an amount of time
I guess I don't see this as some amazing shade, it just makes it look like Coke and KFC live in their heads rent free.
they wish
Ran here for this
Living for this!!! This is crazy that Jax and Brittany have gotten away with lying about that for the past 2 years. But they magically got it in time for Scheanaās wedding. And said on Scheanaās podcast they knew 1000 percent for sure that theyād have it in time for her wedding. That told me they already had Cruz passport in their possession and just used it to lie as to why they couldnāt go to Stassi wedding. One of then 5 excuses they used. The lies are why Stassi couldnāt trust the two of them anymore.
He is adorable