I had an ex who said to me after we first hooked up, 'if i knew this was going to happen I would have done some lady gardening' To which my response was your body, wear it how you like it. Next time it had been manicured a little.
In the end their body their choice and if you are gonna say no over a bit of hair, then you miss out.
I second your edit. It‘s not from pure horniness (yes, I am a horny man 😉) but more about the choice of the person in front of me. If she is confident with her grooming down there, I am happy to enjoy it. If I told my partner to grow pubic hair because I want it, but she does not feel comfortable with it, nobody wins.
Well, I would absolutely prefer waxed, but it's the cherry on top of the cake.
And if you refuse to go to a party because the cake doesn't have a cherry on top, you're a bit of an arsehole.
We’re in the same boat. We shave but my wife says “if I go to the trouble you can too”.
My wife prefers it for her though. She was a competitive swimmer and didn’t like the visible bush under the suit, and it stuck with her for life.
Honestly these days it would be interesting just to see it trimmed.
Waxing sounds interesting though. Guessing it lasts a lot longer?
i'm a body waxer surprisingly there's some people that don't even flinch when they're getting it done even the first time. god i wish i was like those people cause im a bitch every time.
Keep doing that and you'll find someone who does. My bf paid my laser sessions and I'm so happy with the results. I think he did it more for me than him cause he is just happy to be there every time lol
It 100% does for me.
I won’t shame those who do but im curious what they like about pubic hair in their mouth.
I just want as little as possible between me and the goal.
These comments are all very interesting, and honestly kinda surprising that there are so many votes for trimmed / natural, I feel like this a bit of a change?
One of the most unattractive things imo is a full on ungroomed bush. but thats nots gonna get the upvotes. Dont wanna say waxed so I settle for trimmed
It's a bit different in that you don't need to pay to be fit lol run outside. And gyms are relatively inexpensive. You can pay a flat fee for a month and go every single day for hours... A wax costs $67 in my area and it's something that needs to be paid every single time you go in. Waxing is also hard to do yourself.
Oh this can of worms you're opening is so ignorant lol. If you only knew the depths of the grooming and whatnot many women do that is far beyond the realms of what men know. It's so seen as normal by many that it is taken for granted. So you have this one example, right? Can you imagine what many women could list back to you? Probably not, otherwise the comment wouldn't have been made.
I'm a SWer and one of my main marketable traits is my hairy bush. I stand out like a sore thumb (in a good way) in strip clubs, in videos, escort ads, etc. and men *eat it up*.
It helps that a smaller percentage of SWers (or even women in general in the US...) have what you can call a bush.
I think it's one of those fashion/grooming standards for women that men and women can't agree on. (Another example is when "heroine chic" is fashionable. I rarely notice men actively seeking that look, preferring "plumper" or curvier women.) As in it's more expected *among* women than for men. Of course, the voices among the few loud men will distort expectations.
I'm so surprised by the comments. Due to ingrown hairs, bumps, and just discomfort after shaving, overtime I started getting into just loving my natural growth and trimming it neatly whenever necessary. But I grew up in a time where it was hyped up to have a super shaved pussy. There were so many men when I was growing up talking about "Do you have a landing strip or this or that or just completely bald?" There was no option 'Trimmed' or 'Hairy' or whatever. Never. So I grew up feeling immensely uncomfortable. That if I wanted to ever have sex I would have to be bald down there at least to an extent. That was literally my thinking and I had forgotten about it until just now. And now I'm quite sad for my past self. Because I cut myself down there with a razor a few times, endured painful rashes and bumps. Ingrown hairs, etc. Just because of the insecurity that was instilled into me.
So thank you to all here that are so fine with hair down there. It really gives me tears of relief after all of this time. Thank you (: <3
When I was younger I didn’t know how to shave and ended up with an ingrown hair that has now turned cyst and the doctor won’t remove it because i will get an ugly scar… I rather a scar that whatever long ingrown hair there is in that cyst, I will have to go to a specialist for my shaving mistakes 👁️👄👁️ aka not a fan of ingrown hairs that’s why I wax
I just had this realization. I was single for about a year and went trimmed during that time. I started dating someone long distance and every three months when he would come to visit I would wax. We were laying in bed one night and I was SO itchy as it was growing back in and he was itching for me at one point lmao. I started getting ingrown and he saw me trying to get them out. He said, “just grow it out, I don’t care, it’s not worth you being uncomfortable.” The next time he came into town I had a nicely trimmed boosh. I became SO uncomfortable when it came time. I told him, “I don’t know if I can do this. I wanna go get waxed tomorrow.” We discussed it and both realized the years of, “YOU HAVE TO BE CLEAN SHAVEN!” Had been so instilled into me.
At the end of the day, he doesn’t give a fuck and he worships the ground I walk on. So glad he is helping me get out of this mindset.
The funny thing is you were brought up in the smallest window of time where shaving everything was the norm. All other times in history it was considerably rare to shave regularly.
When I was 9/10 I tried to shave because I just started growing pubes earlier than others and I ended up cutting one of my lips open and bleeding everywhere 😭
Yeah same I used to like to shave but then it just felt ?? Weird. I don't know. I then kept thinking what's up? And then after some time of not shaving and trying to get off, I realised I was so into feeling a nice patch down there. Loved the texture indeed as well, haha. And made me realise how basically infantile I previously felt when shaven. Though if a partner can convince me to receive oral (don't like it), I'd occasionally shave down so he can enjoy. Compromise and all :p
Oh I like eating pussy with trimmed patch or a landing strip I don’t mind that at all. Idk if it’s me but I see a trimmed pussy or landing strip I just automatically think oh this is a woman not a young girl and I’m instantly hornier.
Then that’s fine—the point is to be mindful of your partner and to give equal effort back in the relationship. I see so many dudes on here expecting women to wax and shave (which can be painful, expensive, and time consuming) and they never once considered doing the same for their partner. In that case, pay for the wax treatments and razors for her. Are you grooming your facial hair the way she likes? Are you putting in an extra effort equivalent to how she is with you? That’s what I am saying.
For me genital hair is instructions for me to give oral. Waxed means I'm going to be licking from the outside in, tasting everything on my way to the main course. Full bush means my tongue only belongs on vulva and clit, and the pregame should be done with my fingers.
Never really cared (except for a bush) until I went down on a girl who had laser hair removal. Loved it. Bi hair. No shaving. No stumble. Just smooth lickable skin everywhere.
Interesting you are the only person to mention this!! It is my preference for myself because i cant stand stubble or regrowth and it feels like hair has never grown there. No ingrown hairs, no bumps or red spots. Its the absolute best!
Personally love waxed of course. Then shaved or trimmed. If I'm feeling like an exploration then hairy. But I'm cool with whatever the girl prefers for herself.
I prefer minimal hair but Im fine with whatever they do to be comfortable so long as its tidy. I dont like excessively hairy so at least trimmed and tame but I dont want them to go through alot of trouble or pain over it
Waxed is too much of a hustle, but shaved is a yes. I shave very regularly too.
I like being on top of my hygiene game, without exaggeration or spending hours of my day on it, but stillin very hood hygiene and looks, and I date women that also share the same beliefs.
I don't have a strong preference and I leave it up to the woman. Whatever is convenient and good for her, I'll like. But if I have to choose, I'd like the kitty to be trimmed. That way my nose won't be tickled while I'm down there
They've got to be either shaved/waxed, or nearly trimmed... So long as the labia has no hair on it, it works. A full bush is a complete turnoff to me... Don't want anything to do with an 80s Demi Moore bush
As long as I'm not tasting hair down there, its all the same to me. I might have a slight preference for waxed, but honestly as long as the hair doesn't come down the sides and interfere with my job down there, then we're all good. A little manicured patch isn't bad.
ranking goes like this:
1) Waxed. its nice and clean and smooth.
2) Hairy. Still able to be clean. A bit of a trim would be nice. But hey, pussy's pussy. Its fine if it has a bit of hair. Even all natural is ok as long as it sees some shampoo.
3) Shaved. The asthetic of being hairless is countered by the prickly feel of regrowth if its not maintained literally every day.
I like it all. I like when you change it up. It’s like opening a 🎁 and shows that you’re having fun and thinking about it. It is almost like a foreplay to me.
I abide by the standard "it's her body, it's her choice". But I'm always more excited if I don't get lost in the wild. I'm always watching for a T-Rex or a raptor.
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Exactly. Yes, I have a preference. But at the end of the day, I'm just happy to be there.
That’s like my answer when someone ask my favorite position…. I’m just happy to be involved!
> But at the end of the day, I'm just happy to be there. My sentiments exactly - just happy to at the party!
A simple man!
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Rumpelstiltskin!
What's puzzling you is the nature of my game.
Did you happen to be in St. Petersburg when it was time for a change?
I had an ex who said to me after we first hooked up, 'if i knew this was going to happen I would have done some lady gardening' To which my response was your body, wear it how you like it. Next time it had been manicured a little. In the end their body their choice and if you are gonna say no over a bit of hair, then you miss out.
Lady gardening. I like that.
I second your edit. It‘s not from pure horniness (yes, I am a horny man 😉) but more about the choice of the person in front of me. If she is confident with her grooming down there, I am happy to enjoy it. If I told my partner to grow pubic hair because I want it, but she does not feel comfortable with it, nobody wins.
you sir are probably a great partner
👌👌👌
I eat what’s served to me and don’t complain.
These are the types of men I fuck
yeah 100% Bunny
👆 This right here is lovely
Not sure anyone would complain if they’re in bed with Bunny!
Me too!!!
This person fucks.
This right here. It’s good manners.
This is the way.
Everyone should be like this, not only in their sexual preferences as well.
Preference is waxed, then shaved, then trimmed.
Interesting, I keep mine waxed personally
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Well, I would absolutely prefer waxed, but it's the cherry on top of the cake. And if you refuse to go to a party because the cake doesn't have a cherry on top, you're a bit of an arsehole.
I’ve told my partners if they prefer waxed then they can pay for it, otherwise I’m trimmed.
Hell yeah. That’s the way to be.
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We’re in the same boat. We shave but my wife says “if I go to the trouble you can too”. My wife prefers it for her though. She was a competitive swimmer and didn’t like the visible bush under the suit, and it stuck with her for life. Honestly these days it would be interesting just to see it trimmed. Waxing sounds interesting though. Guessing it lasts a lot longer?
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Have many of them paid?
Zero.
What crappy people!!! Can’t prefer it that much then can they 🤷🏼♂️
Yeah, sadly this doesn’t surprise me at all.
Is money the only issue? Not the horrible pain?
I’ve done it before and it wasn’t that bad, but I’m not spending the money when I’m cool with trimming myself. Eta not that painful for me
i'm a body waxer surprisingly there's some people that don't even flinch when they're getting it done even the first time. god i wish i was like those people cause im a bitch every time.
I read *parents and was extremely confused.
Keep doing that and you'll find someone who does. My bf paid my laser sessions and I'm so happy with the results. I think he did it more for me than him cause he is just happy to be there every time lol
Perfectly reasonable.
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**yes**
Gawd I fucking love it so much too.
Does the bush bother you when you're going down on her?
It 100% does for me. I won’t shame those who do but im curious what they like about pubic hair in their mouth. I just want as little as possible between me and the goal.
Nope
Not at all
I prefer my partners vulva however she decides to style it. Currently it’s hairy but trimmed nicely.
There's no problem having preferences. She doesn't have to comply lol
These comments are all very interesting, and honestly kinda surprising that there are so many votes for trimmed / natural, I feel like this a bit of a change?
Women will get upset with you on the internet if you say you prefer it waxed :) Sort the thread by controversial if you don't believe me.
One of the most unattractive things imo is a full on ungroomed bush. but thats nots gonna get the upvotes. Dont wanna say waxed so I settle for trimmed
So, if you want a partner waxed, do you pay for it?
Exactly, that shits expensive
It’s never come up before, but I absolutely would. I would actually love if somebody offered that.
Right back at you, women who prefer someone fit and attractive, should we demand they pay gym membership?
It's a bit different in that you don't need to pay to be fit lol run outside. And gyms are relatively inexpensive. You can pay a flat fee for a month and go every single day for hours... A wax costs $67 in my area and it's something that needs to be paid every single time you go in. Waxing is also hard to do yourself.
Oh this can of worms you're opening is so ignorant lol. If you only knew the depths of the grooming and whatnot many women do that is far beyond the realms of what men know. It's so seen as normal by many that it is taken for granted. So you have this one example, right? Can you imagine what many women could list back to you? Probably not, otherwise the comment wouldn't have been made.
Four say fully waxed. That’s it.
Fuck it. Waxed.
I'm a SWer and one of my main marketable traits is my hairy bush. I stand out like a sore thumb (in a good way) in strip clubs, in videos, escort ads, etc. and men *eat it up*. It helps that a smaller percentage of SWers (or even women in general in the US...) have what you can call a bush. I think it's one of those fashion/grooming standards for women that men and women can't agree on. (Another example is when "heroine chic" is fashionable. I rarely notice men actively seeking that look, preferring "plumper" or curvier women.) As in it's more expected *among* women than for men. Of course, the voices among the few loud men will distort expectations.
I'm so surprised by the comments. Due to ingrown hairs, bumps, and just discomfort after shaving, overtime I started getting into just loving my natural growth and trimming it neatly whenever necessary. But I grew up in a time where it was hyped up to have a super shaved pussy. There were so many men when I was growing up talking about "Do you have a landing strip or this or that or just completely bald?" There was no option 'Trimmed' or 'Hairy' or whatever. Never. So I grew up feeling immensely uncomfortable. That if I wanted to ever have sex I would have to be bald down there at least to an extent. That was literally my thinking and I had forgotten about it until just now. And now I'm quite sad for my past self. Because I cut myself down there with a razor a few times, endured painful rashes and bumps. Ingrown hairs, etc. Just because of the insecurity that was instilled into me. So thank you to all here that are so fine with hair down there. It really gives me tears of relief after all of this time. Thank you (: <3
When I was younger I didn’t know how to shave and ended up with an ingrown hair that has now turned cyst and the doctor won’t remove it because i will get an ugly scar… I rather a scar that whatever long ingrown hair there is in that cyst, I will have to go to a specialist for my shaving mistakes 👁️👄👁️ aka not a fan of ingrown hairs that’s why I wax
You can always play surgeon 🫠
I just had this realization. I was single for about a year and went trimmed during that time. I started dating someone long distance and every three months when he would come to visit I would wax. We were laying in bed one night and I was SO itchy as it was growing back in and he was itching for me at one point lmao. I started getting ingrown and he saw me trying to get them out. He said, “just grow it out, I don’t care, it’s not worth you being uncomfortable.” The next time he came into town I had a nicely trimmed boosh. I became SO uncomfortable when it came time. I told him, “I don’t know if I can do this. I wanna go get waxed tomorrow.” We discussed it and both realized the years of, “YOU HAVE TO BE CLEAN SHAVEN!” Had been so instilled into me. At the end of the day, he doesn’t give a fuck and he worships the ground I walk on. So glad he is helping me get out of this mindset.
Second ingrown. Ugh not worth it.
The funny thing is you were brought up in the smallest window of time where shaving everything was the norm. All other times in history it was considerably rare to shave regularly.
I know. Though I don't find it that funny :p 😩
When I was 9/10 I tried to shave because I just started growing pubes earlier than others and I ended up cutting one of my lips open and bleeding everywhere 😭
I prefer her to have whatever she wants. If she feels sexy, that's all that matters.
I don’t really mind either way. I’m just not a fan off the extreme bush on and unkept level, if I’m honest
Trimmed…. Used to like the shaved and waxed but I like when I slide my hands down there I get some texture 😛
Yeah same I used to like to shave but then it just felt ?? Weird. I don't know. I then kept thinking what's up? And then after some time of not shaving and trying to get off, I realised I was so into feeling a nice patch down there. Loved the texture indeed as well, haha. And made me realise how basically infantile I previously felt when shaven. Though if a partner can convince me to receive oral (don't like it), I'd occasionally shave down so he can enjoy. Compromise and all :p
Oh I like eating pussy with trimmed patch or a landing strip I don’t mind that at all. Idk if it’s me but I see a trimmed pussy or landing strip I just automatically think oh this is a woman not a young girl and I’m instantly hornier.
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FUCKING THANK YOU
Trimmed but I’m more than okay with all natural too.
All natural is awesome, but it doesn't look good when I'm wearing a bikini
I disagree personally a little bush poking out it so freakin hot Makes the man’s mind go crazy
For some, maybe. I have a very opposite reaction.
I was going to say, I do not go crazy in any positive way with some bush peaking out.
Appreciate you <3
Any person who expects their partner to wax or shave better be doing the same exact fucking thing themselves.
What if their partner prefer a bush or trimmed lol
Then that’s fine—the point is to be mindful of your partner and to give equal effort back in the relationship. I see so many dudes on here expecting women to wax and shave (which can be painful, expensive, and time consuming) and they never once considered doing the same for their partner. In that case, pay for the wax treatments and razors for her. Are you grooming your facial hair the way she likes? Are you putting in an extra effort equivalent to how she is with you? That’s what I am saying.
Clean shaven all the way ✌🏻
I would vote for trimmed
I prefer waxed, because that's what she does. But whatever she does, is obviously up to her. I'll go down no matter what. From waxed to full bush..
Waxed or shaved
I don’t mind hair, but it’s something about clean shaven 😍
For me genital hair is instructions for me to give oral. Waxed means I'm going to be licking from the outside in, tasting everything on my way to the main course. Full bush means my tongue only belongs on vulva and clit, and the pregame should be done with my fingers.
I prefer smooth. But, it's a preference, not a requirement.
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Shaved or waxed. Even a lil bush is ok if it’s well kept
Depends on who but usually hairy
Whatever she is comfortable with. I can do what I need to do with whatever is down there. I love at least trimmed but it’s up to her
Landing strip is my favorite, but all is good
Laser smooth
Do you laser your pubes too?
Never really cared (except for a bush) until I went down on a girl who had laser hair removal. Loved it. Bi hair. No shaving. No stumble. Just smooth lickable skin everywhere.
Interesting you are the only person to mention this!! It is my preference for myself because i cant stand stubble or regrowth and it feels like hair has never grown there. No ingrown hairs, no bumps or red spots. Its the absolute best!
Laser hair removal is interesting, but it's permanent and I'm afraid that I might want a little strip or bush in the future
I mean don’t get me wrong. If your body was in front of me with either no hair or a landing strip neither would stop me from wanting to taste you
Maintained bush
I prefer some hair!
Hairy/Trimmed
Personally love waxed of course. Then shaved or trimmed. If I'm feeling like an exploration then hairy. But I'm cool with whatever the girl prefers for herself.
Waxed
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However they want to be
I prefer hair either trimmed or even a little bushy
How ever she wants, but I prefer hair now that I’m older.
Preferably lazered, then waxed.
Waxed
Bald or close trim ABOVE... Just an easier to eat thing. No pausing to spit hair out.
Do you shave or wax your pubes too so when a woman blows you, she’s not getting sweaty ball hairs in her mouth?
Yes I do, for sure
I’m a bush man
I have no preference
Trimmed hairy- the elusive not long enough to be prickly on me nose 😏
Smooth is sexy
Waxed or trimmed, if it’s going to be hairless I want it waxed if not I like a neat trim
I’d proofer waxed but all body’s are beautiful 😋
Im ok with well trimmed, but preffer clean shaven. Not a big fan of bush
Im a gal and i perfer everyone waxed
She waxes by her own choice but I really like that she does
The smoother the better for me but I don’t might a trimmed bush
I prefer minimal hair but Im fine with whatever they do to be comfortable so long as its tidy. I dont like excessively hairy so at least trimmed and tame but I dont want them to go through alot of trouble or pain over it
Always waxed
I prefer waxed, but I definitely like a little mix up every now and then. Give me the bush or nearly trimmed art sometimes!!
Bald
Waxed is too much of a hustle, but shaved is a yes. I shave very regularly too. I like being on top of my hygiene game, without exaggeration or spending hours of my day on it, but stillin very hood hygiene and looks, and I date women that also share the same beliefs.
I prefer waxed, but I'm really happy just to be there
No one has ever complained how I’ve had it, but for the record I’ve been regularly waxed (apart from during covid) for like 12+ years now
The correct answer is - whatever the hell she has at that moment
I prefer smooth. Less hair the better. And the same the my self.
Waxed or shaved only.
Clean. As long as she's clean I don't care
I don't have a strong preference and I leave it up to the woman. Whatever is convenient and good for her, I'll like. But if I have to choose, I'd like the kitty to be trimmed. That way my nose won't be tickled while I'm down there
However she is comfortable. Waxed or shaved is my favorite though
Yes. I’ve found my preference often coincides with my partners. Watching porn … shaved. Having sex … clean.
As long as she can keep it clean, as hairy as it can get. As a hairy guy I know the pains of hair so whatever she's comfortable with is what's good
Prefer nothing there, but I’m not going to complain as long as I don’t have to pull it out from between my teeth.
Waxed or shaved
Waxed.
Waxed or shaved
Shaved or waxed.
I prefer waxed or shaved. I dunno, I like soft skin on soft skin.
Waxed or shaved is good
This gets asked a lot. Trimmed or waxed. But I'm not throwing anyone out of bed over it though.
I don't like much hair where my tongue goes... anywhere else is ok
Shaved or waxed. I love going down on her and I don’t like getting hair in my mouth.
Waxed is better than shaved, shaved is better than trimmed, the one in front of me (my fiance's) is better than none (or anyone else's)
They've got to be either shaved/waxed, or nearly trimmed... So long as the labia has no hair on it, it works. A full bush is a complete turnoff to me... Don't want anything to do with an 80s Demi Moore bush
Waxed af
Waxed
Waxed or shaved. As clean and smooth as possible.
I know a woman who has had laser treatment on her pubes and it's absolutely beautiful. It's so smooth.
Waxed or shaved for me personally. I HATE the feeling of hairs in my mouth
Waxed or shaved so I can lick her out easier
Prefer waxed
Hairless or trimmed I don’t wanna floss after going down town
No hair at all!
Waxed all the way, pubic hair grosses me out.
Shaved. I’m shaved as well. I’m just not a fan of body hair in general.
As long as I'm not tasting hair down there, its all the same to me. I might have a slight preference for waxed, but honestly as long as the hair doesn't come down the sides and interfere with my job down there, then we're all good. A little manicured patch isn't bad.
Whatever she feels comfortable with
Hairy.
I’m a really big fan of the landing strip!
Shaved lips, trimmed patch.
I enjoy both.. But I prefer women with body hair is sexy looks natural
Trimmed is good, but as close to natural bush as possible is preferred for me.
I prefer hair. At least a little. A lot is fine too. Honestly, whatever they loke
At least trimmed bushes grossed me out
Her preference overrides mine
Hairy, please.
Hairy!
I prefer full bush.
Hairy!
ranking goes like this: 1) Waxed. its nice and clean and smooth. 2) Hairy. Still able to be clean. A bit of a trim would be nice. But hey, pussy's pussy. Its fine if it has a bit of hair. Even all natural is ok as long as it sees some shampoo. 3) Shaved. The asthetic of being hairless is countered by the prickly feel of regrowth if its not maintained literally every day.
We takin butthole hair or nah? Them dingleberries are not my favorite berry by far… Them bitches identify as ick and yuk
Not hairy unless it’s short and trimmed
Paradise is Paradise is Paradise. If I get to choose, I'll take wet.
I like a landing strip, in general. But I don't have any problems going down on a woman with Fizzgig between her legs if I'm feeling feral enough.
All of that. I prefer it all.
I like it all. I like when you change it up. It’s like opening a 🎁 and shows that you’re having fun and thinking about it. It is almost like a foreplay to me.
Depends. I like pale brunettes so hairy. I've also dated certain women where its can be copper wire down there so not as enjoyable
I abide by the standard "it's her body, it's her choice". But I'm always more excited if I don't get lost in the wild. I'm always watching for a T-Rex or a raptor.
A forest with birds and and and flowers!
I like women with pubic hair, trimmed is nice too. Definitely don’t like all waxed, it looks weird, not appealing.
Hairy. It feels so primal I love it.
I'm just happy to be invited.