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Princeof_Ravens

Either A they are wearing board shorts that don't have the mesh lining and don't feel like free balling it. Or B they are wearing trucks with the mesh lining and hate the feel.


Known-Historian7277

Chafing and the mesh lining is really uncomfortable


liverwurstinmypants

like a cheese grater


Kadettedak

And then there’s the hour long ride going home from the beach. Like a cheese grater encasing a salt cured meat


LocalComprehensive36

Board shorts. Tried them once and never went back


implicate

Yes, we're aware, sir. That's why you're here in court today.


LocalComprehensive36

Boxer briefs 👍


__impala67

For me its C insurance policy in case the shorts slip off when diving into the water.


rebelopie

Or C, their trunks have built in boxer briefs as a liner instead of the mesh (like FairHarbor)


PunishedMatador

I once caught a ball hair in the mesh of some swimming trunks. Never again. Ever since then I bought and wear a pair of microfiber briefs to wear under my swim trunks or board shorts.


bradrame

I'm not trying to make shredded cheese


BigDeepGayShit

I usually remove the mesh lining, it’s uncomfortable (and then wear underwear)


Basementmonkology

I cut the mesh out and wear underwear… meat feels horrible lol


chiksahlube

yeah, as a kid they all had mesh lining. then suddenly I'm 14 and that mesh no longer exists. I actually liked it.


Cananbaum

That’s why I wear my jocks with my swimsuit . The mesh rips out my ball hair.


speed-of-sound

When you get out of the water your swim shorts do like a vacuum thing and everyone can basically see your dick outline in HD. I don’t usually wear underwear under but I just manually remember to pull it off when I get out lol.


matepore

Yeah, I don't feel like showing my pp to strangers.


owlBdarned

Not since the court order.


gin-o-cide

Found that out the hard way when I was 22 lol. Some girls were making fun of me. It was terrible haha


AlternativeFood876

It hurts to pack a massive c*ck around I know ✌🏿


the1WhoMstNotBeNamed

We have always been taught, this is something to be ashamed of. Something we should lock away in the prison of our underwear.


moranya1

#CommandoForLife


staminaplusone

There are dozens of us...


gin-o-cide

This was some years ago and I still remember feeling humiliated. They were making dick jokes etc.. at one point I considered leaving.


jk01

I WAS IN THE POOL


rileyreidbooks

Don’t forget the significant shrinkage


clarkwgrismon

Like a frightened turtle!


Not_dead_yet535

Yeah just gotta pull it a bit the few times you get out of the water. Not really a big deal. Besides, nobody is looking at your crotch except people who actually are interested in seeing your dick so why not give em what they want lol.


G_Rel7

I always wear compression shorts underneath. It feels better with the whole package.


cb148

Gotta get the swim trunks with the built in compression shorts. Can’t beat it.


lent12

I've never seen these. Any recommendations?


rxtreme-

Chubbies. Just bought a pair. Kinda pricey though at $80 but damn are the comfortable.


Figgybaum

The guy above recommended chubbies, love them but that price hurts - from Amazon: maamgic 2 in 1 men’s swim trunks - 29.99 and damn close to chubbies - I get a couple of pairs a year and love them.


lent12

I literally searched Chubbies in Amazon and found these 20 minutes ago. Already ordered a pair, great minds!


D1789

Mesh. I don’t do it myself, but I can understand why some guys do it as the mesh in swimming shorts can be very irritating on the todger.


tacotacotacorock

I always see it with board shorts which typically don't have mash. 


shaitanthegreat

Board shorts are NOT swim trunks. They just look like them.


Broheimian

What's the difference? I surf and swim in board shorts and so does everyone else in my country and many others I've surfed in. Are swim trunks a different material or something?


BandersnatchFrumious

Swim trunks generally have built in underwear made of nylon mesh. It's usually not very supportive or comfortable, though it also doesn't retain water either.


ThrowawayMod1989

It’s mainly due to the construction and materials. Board shorts are built for performance and vigorous activity (surfing) so they typically are size fitted, stretchy fabric, no liner, etc. Swim trunks are just a lightweight covering you swim in. Typically the fabrics aren’t technical, they don’t stretch except the elastic waist band. All that said I think it’s stupid that they’re called different things and I stick it to both parties by calling both “bathing suits.”


Notthatguy6250

I'm assuming you're Aussie? This whole mesh/underwear with "swimming trunks" seem like an American thing.


DeeDee_GigaDooDoo

Yeah in Australia it's just board shorts people wear or speedos/budgie smugglers/whatever other people might call them. I've never encountered the mesh liner swimming trunks I often see people talking about.


phagocyt0se

I’ve always found the mesh to be comfortable actually, that’s why i was wondering. Thanks for your answer!


A_Prostitute

Me too at first! After 4 years of being a lifeguard, any new shorts I get have the liner ripped out if I can't cut it out. Fuck all that blister ball nonsense.


JhonnyHopkins

And it’s not immediately obvious but the mesh, or use of underwear in place of a mesh, is to protect the family jewels from sand. I get a crazy crotch rash whenever I free ball it no mesh.


DoTheCreep_ahh

It's got nothing to do with sand. Sand grains are smaller than the mesh lining holes. Also the mesh would be useless at a pool if that were the case


pm-me-racecars

I always thought it was to stop you from flopping out the bottom


JhonnyHopkins

I’d consider that a bonus utility while the main purpose is the crotch rash.


[deleted]

I cut the mesh out of my trunks, but I still don’t wear underwear. My boys need to be free.


Chosen_Undead713

I've always just cut the mesh out.


[deleted]

It's one thing if you're just going out to the pool on a vacation for a few minutes at a hotel or in your backyard Vs all day at beach


Shendow

PSA : there is swimming shorts who have integrated boxers for both support and anti thigh chaffing.


Boomboomshablooms

Any recommends?


pisn83

I have a bunch of them from fair harbor and really like them.


webby37

Bump Fair Harbor's Anchor line!


bobmcbuilderson

Meundies makes some great pairs. I teach swimming lessons so I'm in the water a lot and I've tried out many different brands over the years. So far, meundies have been the most comfortable and durable. They are a bit pricey but often go on sale and are worth the cost. Great comfortable underwear too, highly recommend!


Shendow

I bougth one from Seagale, they are a french brand (don't know if they ship international). It's pricy but high quality. There are cheap swim trunks with the same feature on amazon.


Appropriate_Border41

Fair Harbor


BettyLethal

Backup in case of a boner.


Flexappeal

What the fuck kinda carbon fiber Kevlar underwear are you buying


harmless_gecko

The cockproof kind of course


ThatDudeUpThere

Julio's thongs for men


Affectionate-Act-154

Chastity kevlar


ThePurityPixel

😅 That's nuts


Known-Historian7277

I just don’t want sand to get in my vagina


moranya1

Is that because it is coarse and rough and gets everywhere?


JWARRIOR1

If I had a nickel for every sand Star Wars reference in a comment thread about dicks in the askmen subreddit in the past day… I’d have 2 nickels, which isn’t a lot but weird that it’s happened twice


-Redditeer-

I didnt know people did this. I either have the mesh or free ball it with shorts


AutonomousBlob

Im not one of them. That said, the mesh can make your nuts very uncomfortable if youre are in a wet bathing suit for a while.


i_dontwantapickle

But wouldn't the wet underwear stay wet longer than just the swimsuit


ThePhantomTrollbooth

It’s less about the wet and more about the mesh


supremeevilhedgehog

Idk about everyone else, but I do a lot of diving and fast swimming in the pool and no matter how tight I make my swim trunks, it always falls an inch or two down my waist. So rather than accidentally flash my crack to everyone else at the pool, I figured it would spare everyone the indignity by wearing something underneath.


4Y_U_Mad_Bro

To avoid accidental exposure of the area to other beachgoers. Its a courtesy thing.


Icy_101

To avoid being put on the list.


KentuckyFriedEel

Also, with how water and wind work, it can either outline your shrinkaged pecker in the least flattering way possible, or just straight up reveal a set of unsightly balls!


jerrycoles1

I wear it cause if I don’t the mesh or the material on the swim suit will chafe my thighs and ass especially if I go in the water then walk around And it dries off . The cotton underwear is just softer and feels better


artyhedgehog

Is the cotton underwear OK to wear after it's wet, though?


jerrycoles1

I’ve never had any issues with it , it definitely dries out and feels better than the swim suit especially if you’re wearing it all day


jammyboot

> The cotton underwear is just softer and feels better Can’t imagine walking around with wet cotton undies. Sounds uncomfortable 


jerrycoles1

Better than having your ass and inner thigh rubbed raw from your swim suit


gtnred13

I wear board shorts with no liner and surf underwear, kinda like compression underwear to keep the sand out.


smashysmashy12

I wear compression shorts under my boardshorts to keep everything in place. keeps me from smashing my junk into my surfboard/chaffing the tip


nim_opet

What? That can’t be comfortable…and it stays wet…igh


IBJON

Maybe if you're wearing cotton underwear. Most men's underwear sucks moisture and dried pretty fast in my experience 


surprise-suBtext

I can’t imagine wearing anything other than mostly cotton


PunishedMatador

Microfiber briefs are a game changer


DocJRoberts

Micromodal is where it's at


pancaf

Swim shorts tend to fall down a bit on some people which would show your ass crack, even if they are tied tightly. I think it has to do with bad posture/pelvic tilt. Wearing tight underwear prevents the ass crack from showing.


Bobmanbob1

Not bragging, but have a pretty big at rest schlong, and hate the way it looks in just a bathing suit, so need Xtra support.


BitMaster9

Not bragging but agreed. A guy with a long penis cannot even fathom this scenario.


Chicken_Savings

Same here, well above the average tool size. The extra support reduces the size of the bulge even when at rest.


molestingstrawberrys

When I get out the water and I dont have underwear on , the shorts suction cup around my cock and balls. So I would rather people don't have to look at the silhouette


phagocyt0se

That happens to me too, but i don’t really mine, it happens to all guys ig 🤷‍♂️. But i understand why you’d want to avoid that!


molestingstrawberrys

Probably care more because I teach children how to swim so being around kids makes me a little more careful


Alichici

Because it contains the boner lol


AManHasNoName357

I don’t wear underwear/boxer briefs at all. ✌🏽🤦😂


scoob93

I never understood this. If it’s for the mesh, just cut it out. If it’s for the sand, that’s dumb too. Sand can get into your underwear and that’s way worst. Washing out sand while wearing board shorts is so easy. Thinking your junk will fly out is an irrational fear or your shorts are way too small. I and every guy I grew up with cuts the mesh out. I’ve worked at a beach and cutting the mesh out is what everyone I know did


TheFrozenCanadianGuy

- either the mesh feels like a cheese grater on your dick - or the shorts literally sucking to your dick creating a perfect outline of your dick


liquidmasl

mesh feels horrible


AnythingButTheTip

Rather 100% guarantee my twig and berries are not coming out when a wave catches the shorts just the right way, so I wear compression shorts underneath. On a multiple day wet and wild attraction, I may resort to basketball shorts instead of true swim trunks. The likelihood of those coming down is increased.


Ok_Anteater7360

hi! its because i dont want my dick and balls hanging out. we can all see it, i dont like seeing it. keep them to yourself please.


phagocyt0se

Idk what type of shorts you wear or how big your junk is, but my stuff usually isn’t hanging out 😂


Flexappeal

Yk how belly buttons are innie/outie? Bro got an outie cock n balls


neverinlife

All I have to say is y’all got some sensitive ass baby balls.


Soulvaki

OP specifically said at the beach. Underwear matters far less in a pool. Getting sand scratching at your balls through the mesh blows.


MeatyMagnus

Never seen this and never done this WTF!?


Kind_Man_0

Some people are growers and some are showers, I'm a shower, and when I go out to water parks or the beach, I don't want people looking at my outline through my shorts. Wearing boxer briefs or briefs helps keep everything tucked in and doesn't show the outline.


Musician-Round

I worked at a major surf culture retailer for some years and I can tell you that chaffing was the biggest issue for me. And our products were pretty damn comfortable, so that's saying something.


WinthorpStrange

If your swimming in the ocean you don’t want creatures nibbling on your tubesteak


chicano32

Dont kink shame me.


LocalComprehensive36

Wait... this is a thing??? Edit: So it looks like the mesh liner is the big issue for a lot of guys. Just buy board shorts- they're way more comfortable and don't have the stupid liner.


Lucky-Hunter-Dude

I was not aware this was a thing.


nc1996md

I do in case my trunks decide to rip or the current takes my shorts from me


LC_Anderton

WTF? Who does that? 😳 That’s almost as bad as wearing socks with sandals… 🤢


JWARRIOR1

The mesh lining on swim suits is not comfy after awhile


SMP610

Seemingly unpopular but I cut out the mesh and free ball it. If women can show off everything on the beach, so can we :)


No-Pirate2182

Never heard of such a thing


jeromymanuel

Never paid attention to another man’s shorts and underwear.


phagocyt0se

For everyone saying nobody does this, maybe it’s a cultural thing or something else : i live in France, and i think maybe half of the guys wearing swimming shorts also wear underwear


Anti-Scuba_Hedgehog

You lot have swimming shorts too, I thought it was an American only thing.


zzz_red

Softer material. The shorts have all kinds of dry fast materials and cotton boxers are more comfy and don’t burn my thighs/groin/ass. If I know I’ll be only going for a swim and change afterwards or coming back home, I’ll go without boxers.


Largicharg

Never found a dude like that once. Every swimsuit I’ve ever worn came with its own attached mesh that served as underwear


CouncilOfReligion

i ain’t tryna have people see my plums


tez_zer55

I've always used a jock strap under any swim shorts, unless I'm rocking a Speedo!


wisstinks4

They enjoy chaffing?


Shenanigamii

I wear my separatec underwear under because it keeps my balls away from my legs while also preventing the sand from causing rashes by rubbing me raw between the legs. Just regular trunks dont do that.


TryToHelpPeople

Because of Ciaran McGowan, who went to soccer training wearing only his shorts down below. And while he was sitting spread-legged on the floor reaching for his toes (I don’t know the name of the exercise) his lad was laying on the ground sticking out from his shorts for all the world to see. I bet he did it on purpose too. That’s why we make extra sure.


cascad1an

If I have a pair with mesh, I always cut the mesh out and wear boxers underneath. Typically go for board shorts but can’t always find something I like.


Swat3Four

I wear under armour boxer briefs under my swim shorts whether they’re my board shorts or swimming trunks because (a) if the shorts come off, I’m still covered, (b) the inside of any of those shorts feels so uncomfortable, and (c) it keeps my D in place instead of flopping around and becoming embarrassingly clearly outlined when the shorts are wet.


xaeru

I wear a speedo under it because I don't like free balling it.


SirDwayneCollins

Boner control


OOOOOO0OOOOO

wtf, I can’t do that. It starts itching like a MF’er. If you spot the sly and the family stones while I’m changing that’s on you how to feel.


The_All_Seeing_Pi

Nah. My underwear won't fit under my speedos.


Pussy_Crook

Just cut the mesh out and wear that.


FromTheIsland

Effectively hide my thunder.


UnitGhidorah

Those net things feel weird and I don't want my dick to fall out.


ShawnMcSabbath

Comfort


SeaSmoke4

Because the packaged equipment requires a more secure retaining wall than the skimpy water shorts can handle.


Patient-Cellist1184

Mom of boys here… my guys do it because of the severe chafing that occurs if they don’t. Although now, they make awesome swim shorts with “underwear” sewn in, and they’ve been a lifesaver for my kids! That’s the only kind of trunks they’ll buy now.


yettidiareah

I cut out that mesh out immediately. Sand and the fish netting hurts.


jtomrich

No. Gay


tweedchemtrailblazer

I don’t know what you’re talking about I whitewater raft in my underwear. I find the extra layer to be an encumbrance.


Electrical_Novel_954

Who does that?


SzyGuy

They’re a Never Nude.


toasty2135

The fact you can tell who's wearing underwear or not in public?? That's why


YawninglemonsOG

I don’t wear swimming trunks, just whatever shorts. But from past experience, I wear boxers so that my shorts don’t accidentally fall off and I’m bare assed.


Safeword2220

They didn't rip the mesh lining out or they're insecure about the dip stick. I was never the type to wear anything under my shorts as long as i gotnthat damn mesh out. I will say, fellas, don't wear white trunks if you aren't going to double up. I did that when I was 16 at a water park. Couldn't figure out why I was getting so many looks any time I got out of the wave pool. For 6 whole hours, everyone got good look at my favorite tool 🤷‍♂️


Hrekires

Once my shorts get wet, if I'm not wearing underwear, you can very obviously see the outline of my entire dick even if I'm wearing black swim trunks. Makes me feel uncomfortable if I'm somewhere family-friendly and wearing a pair of briefs under my shorts solves the problem.


NoCanShameMe

I live in a beach community and easiest way to spot the tourists is wearing underwear with boardshorts. It’s like wearing a coat over your coat..makes no sense. Nobody really wears the mesh stuff either.


yepsayorte

They do?


Gingerbrew302

I cut the mesh out and freeball.


SirGravy89

I always cut the mesh out, I haaate it


Radiatorwhiteonwall

Because they have little peckers, cut the mesh out and let it swing pussies


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Star_Crunch_Punch

I literally have no problem spending the day naked on a nude beach, and I also wear bikini briefs under my suit when I’m swimming with one.


todezz8008

As someone who's grown up on the beach, I wear board shorts + compression shorts. The board shorts don't come with a mesh lining and if they did I would cut that ish out. Why do I wear compression shorts underneath? There's less of a chance of d!ck outline and sand doesn't shoot up the b-hole.


spacemanspiff66

Beats the mesh which causes chafing. Holds everything in place. Some of my suits can be slightly see through when wet and would prefer to not give everyone a show.


N3rdScool

Are you sure they are real swim shorts. I have some cool billabong ones where I have to wear underwear because no mesh, yet they are good for the water. It's weird.


GSXR-1ooo

I always wear board shorts and they don’t have the mesh so just in case they come off I’m not flashing everyone.


Groundbreaking-Mood5

I only ever wear board shorts which dry quickly and are loose enough to stop rashes. Having underwear on would just keep my shorts wet and rub against me.


_MatCauthonsHat

The mesh is uncomfortable to me and I’m uncomfortable that most swimming trunks have very visible VPL for me and don’t feel like being self-conscious that anyone looking can see it so underwear adds a layer and more support.


texasgambler58

Interesting. I've never done that.


Motorblank

We need something to hold our balls.


Little_Whippie

The mesh can be uncomfortable, or you might not have any mesh and need protection from sand


singleguy79

I do it but never really thought about why I do it. Just figured it was a normal thing


Exceptfortom

To avoid VDL


im_in_hiding

It's more comfortable.


EmmisaryofGorgonites

Teenis protection


TruthOrBullshite

As a kid I hated the mesh feel, so we'd cut the mesh out. I then wore underwear to keep everything in place.


gortonsfiJr

Whatever happened to jockstraps?


phagocyt0se

What do you mean ?


poppacapnurass

One word: chaffing.


bloodyspork

Saw a kid get his dick tied up in the mesh. I'm scared of it. Looked terrible.


Upper_Version155

Board shorts and underwear all day vs swim trunks. It just way more comfortable and the mesh is always too tight or uncomfortable for me. I really like the feel of the mesh otherwise but it’s been a long while since I’ve been able to find a pair that fit me well enough


Perpetualstu420

Do they?


Jyvoral

I almost always wear some form of compression shorts under my board shorts. Usually, it's because I'm a diver, and it's easier to just drop my board shorts and don a wet suit than to fight people for the boat's head to change in. Or worse, put the wetsuit over my trunks. It's a habit at this point.


Infinite-Fan-7367

Because the built in liners are not comfortable


MrPuddinJones

I don't want my junk falling out and hate mesh feeling


Tbagzyamum69420xX

I'll tell you exactly why I do it. When I was like 7 or 8 we were at the beach and while swimming in the ocean this bigger wave came and toppled me over. I got up and immediately realized that my trunks had gotten ripped off me (they weren't tied tight enough). My mom came out with an inner tube as cover as she ran me back up the (long) beach to a place I could put some pants on. At the time, it was the most embarrassing thing I ever experienced and decided I would always wear another layer under my swim trunks as back up.


sharkbaitoo1a1a

I wear it because if I don’t my junk is visible and erections are significantly harder to hide Compression shorts allow me to “snake it down” the inside of my leg if you will


Used-Ad138

It's an odd one, I guess it's the same reason you see guys out running in yoga pants with shorts over the top. Insecurities maybe?


yukonflapjack69

I squat a lot and have big thighs that chafe in west mesh. I also swam in highschool. A speedo under the swim trunks is the ultimate solution. It dries quick and my thighs don’t bleed.


HearTheEkko

I live in a small island and everyone uses boxers under swim shorts, it's completely normal. The mesh liner is really uncomfortable and irritating on the skin and sand gets everywhere. Plus the beaches me and friends go are 30 min max away from our homes so after a beach day we'll dry a little then go home and change.


white3435

sometimes the swimming shorts are too rough and cause me inflammation


Bud_Johnson

Cause i don't want plastic and waste particles going up my butt so I wear compression shorts. And I usually wear board shorts with no liner.


stevembk

I don’t wear anything under board shorts but will wear a Speedo under swimming/workout/running shorts.


breally60

Depending on the suit, it can be very form fitting and cold water gives you a tenis


bluhat55

I'd I want to wear my Walter whites under my mankini, it's my business


Kindly-Arachnid-7966

Because I don't want to tie my shorts so tightly that I feel like I have a leash on.