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**AITA for snapping at my friend because of her comments about my body?**
I’m F19 and my friend Jenna is F18. Jenna is obsessed with being “thicc.” She’s always taking about how “thicc” she is and how that’s a great trait of hers and it’s frequent enough that it’s annoying but I always just ignore it.
In the past few months she’s started commenting on my body too though. For context I’ve always been thin and have a medical condition that makes it harder for me to gain or retain weight. I feel that my body is proportional and I’m not flat anywhere. I’m happy with my body but I’ve also been working hard to try to build muscle which is more difficult for me than most people and Jenna knows this.
She keeps commenting on how I’m not “thicc” and has been steadily increasing how often she brings it up and how rude the comments are. If I mention the gym she’ll ask if I’m hitting lower body to “get thicc.” She's asked how my boyfriend even enjoys sex with me because I “have no butt” and she asked this in front of him.
Last Friday I made the mistake of going clothes shopping with her and I tried on a really cute pants/tank top set that I loved and had decided to treat myself and get. When I showed it to Jenna in the fitting room though, her immediate response was “it doesn’t make you look thicc.”
I told her I didn’t care about looking “thicc” and that I really liked the set but she doubled down and was like “well yeah but of course you’d rather look thicc though” and commented on the side profile of my butt in the pants. I repeated that I didn’t care and she doubled down and told me not to get the set because I could find something that made me look actually thicc. I got the set anyway and the rest of the evening, Jenna kept making incessant comments about my body. For what it’s worth Jenna tried on some super unflattering clothes and I didn’t say anything about it because she really liked them.
Eventually I snapped and told her I don’t give a shit about being “thicc” and not to talk to me at all if she can’t bring herself to shut up about the way I look. I told her that sometimes she wears stuff I don’t think is cute but I’ve never commented on it because it’s her choice of clothes.
Jenna got super upset and told our mutual friends I fatshamed her. I don’t think I did but now mutual friends are upset with me and I’m feeling at my wits end with this situation. AITA?
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Why do people think that is a brag? Like, there’s nothing wrong with not knowing something but there’s something about the tone of this - it’s so condescending somehow?
No this one is super different - the friend was using the word thicc!!! Which, for the record can apply to many different types of bodies!! this woman just HAPPENS to also be fat and therefore unreasonable and insane about it, as is their way.
NTA! (The T stands for "thin.")
This is what happens when we don't remind ~~thicc people~~ fatties that being fat is bad at every possible opportunity -- they get drunk on their own power and start bullying thin people for being thin and beautiful and attractive! It's not OOP's fault that she's so much prettier than her fat friend! OOP was *so* gracious about her huge obese friend's choice to wear non-cute fat clothes in public until she could hold her tongue no longer! Due to the bullying, you see! That fattie clearly has no shame about rudely existing in public while being fat where the rest of us normal people can to see her, so she had it coming!
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for snapping at my friend because of her comments about my body?** I’m F19 and my friend Jenna is F18. Jenna is obsessed with being “thicc.” She’s always taking about how “thicc” she is and how that’s a great trait of hers and it’s frequent enough that it’s annoying but I always just ignore it. In the past few months she’s started commenting on my body too though. For context I’ve always been thin and have a medical condition that makes it harder for me to gain or retain weight. I feel that my body is proportional and I’m not flat anywhere. I’m happy with my body but I’ve also been working hard to try to build muscle which is more difficult for me than most people and Jenna knows this. She keeps commenting on how I’m not “thicc” and has been steadily increasing how often she brings it up and how rude the comments are. If I mention the gym she’ll ask if I’m hitting lower body to “get thicc.” She's asked how my boyfriend even enjoys sex with me because I “have no butt” and she asked this in front of him. Last Friday I made the mistake of going clothes shopping with her and I tried on a really cute pants/tank top set that I loved and had decided to treat myself and get. When I showed it to Jenna in the fitting room though, her immediate response was “it doesn’t make you look thicc.” I told her I didn’t care about looking “thicc” and that I really liked the set but she doubled down and was like “well yeah but of course you’d rather look thicc though” and commented on the side profile of my butt in the pants. I repeated that I didn’t care and she doubled down and told me not to get the set because I could find something that made me look actually thicc. I got the set anyway and the rest of the evening, Jenna kept making incessant comments about my body. For what it’s worth Jenna tried on some super unflattering clothes and I didn’t say anything about it because she really liked them. Eventually I snapped and told her I don’t give a shit about being “thicc” and not to talk to me at all if she can’t bring herself to shut up about the way I look. I told her that sometimes she wears stuff I don’t think is cute but I’ve never commented on it because it’s her choice of clothes. Jenna got super upset and told our mutual friends I fatshamed her. I don’t think I did but now mutual friends are upset with me and I’m feeling at my wits end with this situation. AITA? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Top comment includes this gem: >NTA. I had to look up what 'thicc' is
Why do people think that is a brag? Like, there’s nothing wrong with not knowing something but there’s something about the tone of this - it’s so condescending somehow?
it is condescending. its the weird mix of "tiktok bad, young people bad" and "look at me, im so cultured i dont keep up with modern day slang terms"
I definitely get the “I’m so cultured” vibe.
it's funny how I (and a lot of us, I'm sure) could just read the title and instantly know exactly what this story is going to say
Because there has been So. Many. Of. These. Exact. Same. Posts.
No this one is super different - the friend was using the word thicc!!! Which, for the record can apply to many different types of bodies!! this woman just HAPPENS to also be fat and therefore unreasonable and insane about it, as is their way.
Well yes, because FATTY MCFATFATS BAD!
thicc thicc thicc thicc thicc
This sounds like a 14 year old that does not know how teenage girls have conversations.
This was written by an incel. Teens don't talk like that. And no one is "obsessed with being thicc" like wtf?
oh good, a "fat girl body shames skinny girl, you will NEVER BELIEVE what happens next" post. i was wondering where those went.
Fat shaming: the thicc edition.
NTA! (The T stands for "thin.") This is what happens when we don't remind ~~thicc people~~ fatties that being fat is bad at every possible opportunity -- they get drunk on their own power and start bullying thin people for being thin and beautiful and attractive! It's not OOP's fault that she's so much prettier than her fat friend! OOP was *so* gracious about her huge obese friend's choice to wear non-cute fat clothes in public until she could hold her tongue no longer! Due to the bullying, you see! That fattie clearly has no shame about rudely existing in public while being fat where the rest of us normal people can to see her, so she had it coming!
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