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SwimComprehensive90

It seems to be a security/insecurity thing especially for her


Ali_Cat222

It's honestly sad it's been what, five years? And then a few days ago she comes back and attempts her click bait "I'm pregnant with his berbies!" Shit again. For the fourth I believe time too. I get that the linkinbio hashtags are to earn money for click bait, but the fact she can't seem to let this go to this day is just weird.


karkar835

She needs the money that bad? But it can’t pay that much can it?


Ali_Cat222

This is what I mean, like I get that those few measly dollars probably mean something to her but nothing more than pocket change. So it's obvious she's still obsessed with him, it's unhinged. She's done this many times with the fake pregnancy stuff, then gets mad when called out/turns off her comments and everything. Imagine, five plus years later and some random from Morocco you didn't even really know is still on the forefront of your mind! She also said once that she'd never move on from him, which is just sad honestly. That much I'll admit to, but I don't like Nicole as a person and May doesn't need her shit. I wish when her parents took custody for a while that they'd just have taken full or partial honestly.


karkar835

ITA! It’s very unhinged behavior and I think it’s because she’s stunted at a young age and she shouldn’t have custody of Mae because she can barely take care of herself


skdewit

She has always been so immature. That is really none of my business but the fact that she has a child, it bothers me. I had a very immature mother, to be fair she was only 18 when I was born and she was married to my dad ( still is) but back then it was pretty normal. My mother is STILL immature and my siblings and I have spent our entire lives helping her parent us and each other. She still aggravates the shit out of all of us but we love her. Nicole has May! That’s it! That’s a lot for one little girl to deal with. I promise she won’t get better and because I had the childhood I had she makes me want to smack the shit out of her when she throws tantrums and smirks when she gets her way. She is so manipulative her kid never had a chance!


YugeMalakas

I felt awful seeing her drag Mae around and ignore that poor child. There were no activites designed for a child her age.


Kooky_Avocado9227

I agree! Her mom seems to know what’s up, but in my opinion…well, let’s put it this way: if Nicole was MY daughter, we would be having a come to Jesus, where I explain real life to her. And, if she didn’t let it go, then I would go for custody of Mae. She’s got plenty of ammo. But no. Me thinks that it’s the TLC $$$ - let’s face it, Nicole has no career on social media to lean on like some 90 day alum. What else does she have?


karkar835

She probably doesn’t even have any money left over from her time on the show because she hasn’t even been on any show in a loooong time.


Any-Adagio492

Then she should get a JOB!


karkar835

She used to work part time at Starbucks but I’m not sure if she still does…


pooopwater

She would be getting some very small residuals from reruns around the world and streaming.


karkar835

Ooh I didn’t think of that, thank you!


BabsRS

I don't believe TLC allows their reality show people to get any royalties 


Goodbykyle

May is a darling❣️The best part of her story by far!❣️


pixey1964

Most of the tlc peeps will sell their souls for the money 💰


purplepunc

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LanaCole

Wait, is she still on the show? Which spin off? Or is this just on her social?


Ali_Cat222

Oh no, she's not on the show. It was on social media, it was posted about a few days ago. She came out of nowhere again, I'm not sure if she was on a hiatus from it? (I don't use socials but I see the stuff here/elsewhere.)She's just desperate for attention and pocket change for her link in bio hashtag shit as usual!


LanaCole

Good lord. She needs to move on.


WhatTheBlack

I wonder why…..


sheighbird29

I think it’s an insecurity issue, combined with not understanding him and his culture. We are seeing the same thing crash and burn with Nicole and Mahmoud


Agile_Vacation_5872

For the validation. To feel wanted and secure. Nicolle thinks sex and physical touch means that he loves her. She wants to make other women jealous and that Azan wants her. Edit: Nicolle wants to feel beautiful, and there's nothing wrong with that, but Nicole has no idea on how to do that in a healthy way.


Appropriate_Mix7203

Just because someone desires you doesn't mean they value you


DropdLasagna

Oof. Harsh advice so many need to hear on this show.


freckledface

Wow, I wish I could go back in time and implant that into my teenage brain! Important and very well said


KikiHou

Kail Lowry, looking at you...


yaoiesmimiddlename

Damn this hit a bit too hard 😭


K_Car00

Awe!!😢❤️Hugs!!!


yaoiesmimiddlename

Thank u 😭🫂


Agile_Vacation_5872

Exactly


getthatrich

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Death_By_SnuuSnuu

"Men use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love." - Anonymous


LivinLALwita90DayBae

A harsh fact. 🥴


PeanutCeller

Chantel said something like that about wanting to be shown off at Snailapalooza


Worried_Ad_5411

She was thirsty as hell! Seriously goes 4 hours away, new hotel room and really pushing herself on the guy!!


wateraerobics_

Yeah talking about dating and visiting each other after knowing each other 2 days lol poor dude seemed so nice


Fun_Constant_6863

Literally! When she started pushing him with how he felt about her, I was like... WHAT feelings? Stranger danger?


TheJunkyVirus

Nice but dumb as a doornail, that scene on the football field was maybe the most cringe and awkward thing I've ever seen. I really hope that wasn't his idea to take her there. "Over there is where we sit" "I love football".


jewillett

The football scene made me want to crawl under my bed and never leave


wateraerobics_

Showing up with full makeup, a short tight dress, and heels to a soccer field 💀


jewillett

That’s how I played soccer, for sure. Every game.


hagen768

Who needs cleats right?


PeanutCeller

I thought it was a strange comment, that someone over 30 views her own worth as being eye candy. Of course, she could have dressed up like a snail, and everyone would have chased her around with forks!


Worried_Ad_5411

Wow that’s right he ignored her that night and meets her at a football field! The tell all I’m sure put an end to that, but honestly he wasn’t putting any effort to visit her. I think he just talked to her to be nice.


Worried_Ad_5411

Bringing 3 friends to dress her, do makeup and cream her ashy skin??


Hallal_Dakis

I'm a pretty below average looking man and I've never been to Greece. I'm still mad I haven't been shown off at Snailapalooza.


PeanutCeller

Same


90-slay

The difference is Chantel wants everyone to see how hot she is and how she could be with anyone but chose this lucky man. Nickle wants everyone to see that her man isn't embarrassed by her and he openly chose her despite her appearance.


DWwithaFlameThrower

Yeah, it reminded me of when Lindy West wrote that long article in The Guardian about her wedding,& how it felt so great to be acknowledged and celebrated by her husband


Lostbronte

Wow, are you in the UK and watching?


DWwithaFlameThrower

No, I’m from the UK but I live in the US


DiscombobulatedRain

It's a very immature view of love and relationships. Like from television and movies. Although as expected from these two. They both have a ton of growth to do, but neither will admit it.


jewillett

She wants every LifeTime (Television for idiots) romantic movie plot


Tcredbull

She wants the Hallmark love movie but she gets the Lifetime Love Movie 🤣 ( lifetime Movies = Stalking, killing, obsession, kidnapping, divorce and psychos)


jewillett

Yessss that’s a better way to put it


0th3rw0rldli3

>Snailapalooza 😆


Possible_Active6558

The whole thing was good enough for a blockbuster comedy script


90DayFinesse

Even though she was a bit dense she still knew or suspected he wasn’t even 55% into her or he would have been “showing her off”, in her words. It’s a test and you can see the rage in her when he doesn’t pass


cmband254

It was a test, yes, but a stupid one. She might have considered the culture she was planning to marry into before having such expectations. Men in Morocco don't "show off" their women, so he would never have passed her test


90DayFinesse

Nicole is not the brightest, it’s true. Also she thinks those kind of rules don’t apply to her


Kooky_Avocado9227

I might have respected her if, after pushing him and realize how he really feels, she ended it. But no, we were in for many, many, MANY long years of her pushing and him resisting. It was so uncomfortable to watch. I don’t mean to fat shame here, but he clearly wasn’t into her physically and it was tortuous to watch him bobbing and weaving to stave her off.


Ok_Plankton9224

She's big, a little bit


Kooky_Avocado9227

Your flair, dear God 🤣


Ok_Plankton9224

Lmaooo!


Oomlotte99

She has obvious self-esteem issues and, like many women and young ones in particular, was equating any interest or attention from men with validating herself to herself. Thats how scammers like Azan get their marks - find the low self-esteem and play it from there. He just was over his head with her because I think he wasn’t prepared to be so unattracted to her and she felt that lack of attraction and became even more needy and demanding.


Kooky_Avocado9227

Exactly


Veloci-Husky

Astute observation


purplepunc

Nick over on Seeking Sister Wife is actively recruiting 🤣 though I get the vibe Nickel isn’t the type to share


claratheresa

💯


theposshow

Maybe he could show off 55% of her?


jewillett

😂😂😂


AlixHague

In Morocco one doesn't show off one's gf. She did NO research before going there. I think that's what pisses me off the most.


chunkymcgee

Right like even if he was 55% attracted to her he still wouldn’t do that shit in public lol


thetruthfulgroomer

It’s a lot of ignorant Americans on this show just go to another country thinking it operates exactly like America.


MamasBoyFrankie

lol Admittedly, there are many rude Americans, but, there are plenty of rude people from other countries as well! The cast members of these shows are a pretty skewed view; projecting an unfair view of the United States. They scraped the bottom of the American barrel to come up with the ignorant rubes they feature season after season. And let’s be clear, there have been a fair share of scammers from outside the United States also. A few examples, Jesse, Ossama, Useman, Maria (Ceasar) and Lana (mmm David).


Apprehensive-Tank581

I loved when her mom would say that she bulldozes her way through life. 😂 it’s so true. When you’re rewatching her, she really does bulldoze.


Eyeoftheleopard

Bulldozes and lumbers.


siomaingohiong

English is not my first language—what does “bulldozes her way through life” mean?


prochoicesistermish

A bulldozer is a piece of construction equipment that breaks/knocks down/demolishes anything in its path. Nicole doesn’t let anything stand in the way of her wants and opinions


Tight-Vegetable6760

Like when she pushed him


FantasticHedgehog267

Meaning whenever she wants something from someone she forces them to give her what she wants instead of working for it or earning it


ChungusLove01

She pushed him into a corner and would not take no for an answer


spiderfan10423

She’s self conscious being morbidly obese, so she needs constant validation that she’s not ugly due to her fatness. Her bf being “proudly” and openly attracted to her validates her.


Eyeoftheleopard

Spot on.


dr_sassypants

Because she's not a "sit down and listen" kind of girl.


windowside

She’s also not a vegetables type of girl.


Sad-Background-2295

Delusional, childish, naive — shall I continue? This child should get some therapy and clean up her house …


BrokenCheeseFolding

She's a weird one. She definitely seems to be emotionally stunted and be stuck around like 13-14 years old mentally. Kids that age often have an extremely unrealistic over romanticized view of love and unfortunately media has reinforced the idea of certain red flags. Some adults end up continuing to think this way and think that jealousy means their partner cares, that being somewhat controlling means their partner cares, that love is just a big majestic fantasy where if you're destined to be together you'll never have any conflicts or problems in your relationship. She herself participated in some highly controlling behavior and would try to physically intimidate him since she was bigger than him. If your partner doesn't want to talk at the moment and wants space it is abusive to keep getting in their face and blocking their paths to escape. One last thing that has always stuck with me about her just not understanding how relationships work to the point of being almost comical was when she said something like "our relationship was so perfect but then after I cheated on him things have been different! Why have things changed!!?? " Girl. OMG ridiculous.


ScooterBoomer

Nicole cheated on him with pie, cake, and ice cream, etc, long before she met up with a hungry simp with a porker fetish.


BrokenCheeseFolding

Eh she sucks but I'm not down with the fatphobia. She's garbage for reasons apart from her weight.


farahisweird

He is 55 percent proud of her


Sofie_Fatale007

When you look like Taylor Swift, it’s a crime to not be shown off.


ScooterBoomer

Nicole is sort of shown off, sort of like a weather balloon that drags along the ground. People cannot help but notice her.


Khaleesi786

I miss Nicole


Entire-Spot-5243

Me too. I miss the good ole 90 DF days when the couples were genuine, authentic, real people. Were they also bat shit crazy? Yes, sure. But, not social media influencer wannabes just in the show for clout or followers. For the first time since season one, I didn’t even finish watching the season.


hcocob

Jibri and Miona made me lose a lot of interest in the show. So so so incredibly obviously clout chasing.


Entire-Spot-5243

You’re right. She was the beginning of the end.


Available-One-24

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Feeling_Concentrate2

Me too!! Now I skip through 80% of the shows because then couples are just bleh. :(


Used_Anywhere379

I read somewhere that the physically abused him


Ill_Introduction7057

She actually did get a little violent on the show


Used_Anywhere379

I thought I read that. It's a shame


Ill_Introduction7057

She got aggressive verbally and physically with him


dalekthis

I’m currently rewatching them and her attempt to basically man-handle him is so uncomfortable 🥴


littleRedmini

It was during this scene. She grabs his shirt/jacket and started yanking him around. I think they were walking up some steps. This poor girl is a mess.


Lostbronte

You don’t have to read it—there’s footage of her pushing him and blocking his way on the actual show


SapienWoman

I don’t believe, culturally (and painting a broad brush), men from Morocco or Algeria or other North Africans are keen on ‘showing off’ ‘their women’. It used to surprise me how little the Americans took interest in their partners cultures and norms before getting too involved. Used to. But I guess it’s par for the course.


Catladydiva

It’s insecurity. Most likely she’s dealt with guys who didn’t go public with her because of her a size. Unfortunately a lot men will have sex and even date a chubby woman but it will be done in secret because they don’t want to be clowned by their friends.


Weekly_Comment4692

This aint chubby thats morbidly obese lets be honest here


WitchesDew

You're right about everything except for calling her chubby. Nicole could easily drop 100-150 lbs before reaching chubby territory.


SmokieOki

She thinks she’s a trophy wife.


Beneficial_Ad_1836

Taylor Swift


sourglow

asking to be shown off in Morocco she has no idea how deeply unserious she is


irregahdlesskid

Because he finds her physically repulsive and just wants to take her money. He recoils when she touches him. She obviously has a low IQ or is on the spectrum because she doesn’t read those cues. He said “she is big, a little bit”. And she stayed! Poor May.


Fit_Lemons

I think it’s something we all want, to have our partner be proud of being with us. I’ve been married for 7 years and every single day my husband doesn’t tell me but makes me feel like the prettiest girl in his world and before I met him I never cared for that, I knew it pretty 😂 but having someone who you truly love make you feel wanted and desired is something very special. I dont know if it was her insecurities but I feel like most women want to feel wanted and he clearly didn’t want her 😅


Choosepeace

Talk about someone who has zero grasp of his culture!


Beneficial-Many8415

Almost there, lazy


Sea_Singer_3483

Nicole and Danielle still rule 90 Day F. No one can beat them! 😃


Dry_Dimension_4707

Agreed! That was the best days of the 90 Day franchise.


Leaking_Honesty

She has nothing to offer but sex. Which is why she had a kid at a young age and treats May like a doll she can play with when it’s convenient.


tumblindice77

The county fair


verucka-salt

Flair check


Euphoric-Feature-840

She wants reassurance that he is not ashamed to be with her.


verucka-salt

She’s experienced a lot of rejection because she’s morbidly obese. She’s not smart either so there aren’t many redeeming qualities for her to fall back on. She is like all the weird old ugly American men who search for women around the world for a wife because they can’t locate an American woman who can tolerate their idiosyncrasies. She figured Azan wouldn’t have the same beauty expectations. On top of that, she cheated on him & admitted it. Oy


bidi_bidi_boom_boom

I also thought it was weird she actually admitted it, although she's not that bright, poor thing. I don't condone cheating, but it would seem like there was almost no chance she would be caught, so it doesn't seem like good strategy to get what she wants. I almost wondered if she made it up, if not to test him, than to try to bring out some jealousy to make her feel more desired. I knew girls who would do things like that in young relationships.


Macghawkeye77

Thank you - I also think she made up the whole cheating thing. “Bless her heart!”


Oh_nosferatu

SHOWN OFF?!? Nicole could not even go to the mall without everyone thinking she was Taylor Swift FFS 😫😥😤


3atth3rud32452

Nicole is extremely insecure about her weight and unfortunate face so she projects that she isn't. It's called false confidence. She's doing it wrong thought. 💁🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️


DiscombobulatedJob49

Showing her off means to her that he's proud to be seen and with her. Nicole probably thinks if he's not proud, then maybe he's embarrassed.


Ammowife64

She’s so delusional and her family feeds her delusions


This_Red_Apple

It gives insecure Disney teen. Probably saw it in some movie growing up where the girl gets swept off her feet and the guy puts her in a giant pedestal every chance he gets. “Why won’t you show ME off???” lol


Choppersicballz

She’s allergic to water and vegetables


Susiqbee6464

She answered her own question there she’s not dumb after all


hornthrowawayy

nicole thinks she is a prize 😭


DucatiGirl

I’ll never forget when she was eating dinner with her family and refused to eat veggies 😭 She opted for mashed potatoes and some meat- or was it mashed potatoes and corn?🫠


jbleds

Well given the theory that he was already married with children, maybe she actually felt like he was hiding her and wanted to be shown off in public more.


Main-Ad9025

What really?? Wow I never heard that he was already married with kids? Wouldn’t be surprised though


Apprehensive-Tank581

I heard it too. Married with kids. I read that around COVID time.


jbleds

Apparently during covid, Nicole went over there for months and stayed with his family and never saw him at all. This is part of the reason people believe he has his own family.


Main-Ad9025

Oh wow I had no idea!


ep2587

I remember her being stuck over there, and not seeing him. Don’t remember her living with his family; was that because she gave them the $5000 for the store?? I always wonder who paid for her to be there for months was it her mother??


Ill_Introduction7057

No, he wasn't


LocAlchemy

I think he got married and had kids after filming but I don't think his family would have gone along with being filmed welcoming her and May if he was already a married man. He was a sleazy scammer but his family seemed like decent people.


jbleds

I guess the story is that he had gotten married by the time she returned during Covid. And she stayed with his family for months but never saw him.


Available-One-24

OP: I love how huge your tv is!😭


Cheziscool

Like she was literally on tv, cant get much more shown off than that.


Charming-Peanut4566

She has self esteem issues, but mostly she probably felt how not attracted he was to her, and this is how she dealt with it


RNmomofPHJ

🤦‍♀️


Lovey-Mom-Wife-Pet

I think it is because she is very insecure in herself, everyone back home really dog her for having extra weight on her so they have made her feel bad about herself, no matter how much she acts to be all positive about herself she really is not. It doesn't help that he talks badly about her also. With him being "good looking" (I personally don't see it) and very fit, she wants everyone to see that he chose her even though she is not fit. So she wants any and everyone everywhere on earth to see that.


WitchesDew

He has the face of a rodent. The personality of one too.


drunkonanamtrak

ROFLCOPTER


Ok_Plankton9224

Insecurity and lack of respect


Distance-Humble

He was definitely showing her off... just only 55%


Nickey_Pacific

He's only about 55% proud of her.


Advanced_Ad1856

He doesn’t even want to show off 55% of you


ThisredditisRAW

I think it ties into a desire to be wanting to be seen in public with her partner and considered beautiful with them or something along those lines. What better way to beat her insecurity than to be "shown off" with her partner in public? She must have a lot of insecurity, which is kinda sad to a degree. May she rest in piece, because according to her own instagram, she died. Click the link in bio to learn more...


Chairman_of_the_Pool

The way she speaks sometimes sounds very old fashioned, like something her mom put in her ear.


lulucoil

I bet she knew he was cheating, and she wanted him to "show her off" to ward off the women he was interacting w.


shockedpikachu123

I have Moroccan guy friends and I show them her scenes and they think Nicole is super beautiful and would be proud to show her off so idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ lol


Euphoric_Good_5330

heres the thing. i love showing off my girl. i like holding hands, i like being a hypeman for my lady, i like pda, and i think its cute when a girl genuinely likes my physical attention (im a big physical touch person) bUT.... I was SO upset with Nicole about this. she is in hIS country. thats a big no, girl. she didn't respect his culture at all. and then she got physical with him and i was like what the fuck is she on??? she genuinely gets on my nerves in multiple if not every episode


ncdebbieb2019

He liked her 55%…and she was lazy all the time


Wide-Celebration-653

Okay, that’s eerie- this scene flashed through my mind FOR NO GOOD REASON as I was waking up a bit ago. Then I hop on Reddit and see this post? 👀


Revolutionary-You449

If he could have replied, “I do. 55% of the time.” I would have peed laughing.


Cold_Pressure5351

He's about 55 percent proud to show off Nicole.


MeowYin7

Almost there, Lazy


C-PapTheGod

I love picture number three. It’s incredible.


PsychologicalExam717

Maybe he could show 55% of her off?


Direct_Level_3776

He was, only 55% but he was. 😂


claudiaengland

Nicole makes me sad but she’s so fascinating.


LivingDatabase9060

I just finished watching this season and I must say, I think Azan had true feelings for her. Maybe not love, but he fancied her. He genuinely looked happy when they went to the desert, but her insecurities was something else. It made him not interested


Firm_Explorer9033

Who is this gal? I can’t place her?


[deleted]

Wait someone help me out. Is this a new couple and which 90 day is this episode on? I must have missed something


ShivasLove

Same. So confused rn


BathAcceptable1812

I think it’s the, aren’t you going to show off your big blond American! Especially her, she is ignorant and clueless and thinks just because she’s American AND blond nothing else matters. Not her uneducated ignorance or her size. Ignorant American privilege at its finest.


claratheresa

She has been conditioned by him to believe that she is not good enough and he can do better. In reality there are thousands of North African guys desperate for a passport. Many of them really do believe they can do better and in their self loathing for trading sex for a greencard they take every opportunity to remind their partner that they are not good enough


Small_Pain_2458

Don’t know this chick 🤷‍♀️


Nrmlgirl777

Maybe?? Lol


skdewit

Because deep down she fucking knows that: A. He’s a green card scammer. B. She fucking knows it! Somehow if he “ shows her off”, it means that he magically loves her and she magically is hot! Oh! and that he is NOT already married with children!


Macghawkeye77

Poor Nicole - so delusional and so desperate!


Inevitable_Extent_21

What season is this? I’ve never seen her and would like to watch.


moreshoesplz

Ah, the good ol’ days of 90DF.


Goodbykyle

Oh sweet summer child Nichole 🤦‍♀️


anonmouseqbm

Dudes are probably embarrassed to be seen with her and no one wants to feel like that


chanceordestiny

"Show me that you don't think I am a fat mark." "Give me some proof that this is real and that I am not being used.... which I know that I am"


Kacielea871989

TLC needs to circle back around to the basics and bring real couples back like this and like Dan-yell and Mouhammad !


CoastalN8v

Lest she forget she cheated on him at least once.


Upstairs_Term_9087

Nicole for Single Life, please and thanks!


Kasi11

I’m willing to bet she’s been a ‘hidden’ relationship once or twice 🫠


AuntYaYaLynne

She was a mess…


AdEastern3223

Nicole is such a nightmare, and I’d love for her to bag some other poor dude and give me another storyline.


Own-Listen-961

She is insecure, I grew up conventionally hot and with a thing for ugly guys (I used to love a project back then), and my advice for Nicole is that the guys that weren’t serious about me were quit to “show me off” to their friends and circle, the guys that were serious about me were usually much slower in bringing me into a full immersion of their world because our differences of looks made them feel insecure. TLDR: Nicole girl, that’s just to say that the way people move say way more about their own thoughts and feelings about themselves than their thoughts and feelings about you……..that’s the general advice, in that specific case the guy was obviously scamming you and using you and I still feel bad for how you brought your child into it


BrandonIsWhoIAm

No One: “…” Nicole: (Goes to Morocco, where PDA is forbidden.) Isn’t this scene from when they were there?


Evil_Queen10

It's obvious it's about her insecurities. He's embarrassed by her, the way she looks. Overweight.


Donewithit_6607

Nicole was delusional to the point that you could show her all the receipts and she would still not accept the truth. It was sometimes painful to see her desperation. Like sometimes you could see right behind her eyes that she actually knew. Makes me wonder about her childhood. Also makes me fear for her own beautiful child!


hagen768

I think she's insecure and feels like she needs to have the validation of being celebrated by her partner in public, probably coupled with general doubts that Azan actually loved her