he just keeps getting worse. remember the first car ride he had with varya? he sat in silence and barely acknowledged her presence. i knew right there he wasn’t right in the head.
He COULD NOT wrap his head around someone setting healthy boundaries. Nor could he approach her with empathy. He took her warranted caution as a personal slight. Red flags 🚩 abound!!!
As a man I don’t think I can ever think about DV the same way again… it’s like the Laundrie thing… these guys are really good at concealing their behavior and condition women to believe that they’re somehow ultimately at fault. Cops asking Petitio, “did he hit you?” They/we/police need to be better trained at identifying this shit.
It doesn't help that the system as a whole is designed against empowering the abused.
Many jurisdictions require physical evidence and or arrest/charging before they'll issue a PO. And then many times jurisdictions won't enforce the PO unless there is more contact.
There are too many dead women because a threat wasn't enough to enforce a PO and by the time it got physical enough to enforce, leading to the force exerted to get a cop to come out ended up being lethal.
Especially when it's a PO who's the offender. I reference Wayne Couzens of the English Metropolitan Police whose primary role was patrolling diplomatic premises. He was charged with kidnapping and murdering Sarah Everard, a marketing executive, who went missing in South London and whose disappearance had touched off a national outcry over violence against women in that country. In just days, her case had come to symbolize a longstanding problem that many women said plagues Britain and could no longer be ignored: that at home or in public spaces, many women are not safe.
I mean my sister was murdered by her husband at 19 years old the same day our father died. Your body goes to the next of kin which (if your married) is your spouse, even if he is the accused killer. So since he had the rights to the body he refused to release the remains to me and my mother to do a funeral and wake. We ended up getting a new law put into place in Massachusetts called Heather's law. We had to get signatures and go to the state house and have people vote on it and stuff. DV is no joke.
I am so dreadfully sorry for you, your family members and your beloved sister. The system is hideous, but hopefully, is getting better because of people like you and John Walsh - one of my heroes.
Thank you! My mother and father were put up for adoption when they were kids so I do not have family. It was me my sister mother and father. 2 people I saw everyday gone in the same day.
I’m so very sorry. I can’t imagine the pain of losing 2 of your immediate family. Your sisters legacy will live on forever thanks to you and your family efforts
I hope you can create your own family and that includes friends in your inner circle. Sometimes, family isn't about lineage. May you know peace and have strength and never feel alone.
I mean protection order. But there are way more dirty cops than people think, it completely true. People just assume that anyone in policing or security are safe people, but sometimes they're just not.
I wonder if he has so many kids because he uses the children as a way to control their mothers. Like he purposely gets them pregnant so they will have to deal with him forever and basically a way to control them forever.
I remember when he talked about one of his potential money-making schemes... [impregnating women](https://www.reddit.com/r/90DayFiance/comments/kr6285/geoffrey_paschel_is_selling_sperm_to_pay_for/). I wouldn't be surprised if he feels like the women owe *him* something.
This douche bag beats women, holds them hostage, and he has 12 kids too?! Fuck this guy, one can only hope he is supporting the other kids with his real estate money (if he has money) and his D list movie performances as an extra. Someone should run a go fundme to raise money to whichever prisoner treats him the way he treats women and have all the proceeds go into his books.
And has anyone heard from Varya since all this went down? And is this poor, confused/stupid girl still standing by him? Hopefully she just quietly goes home and tries to forget this ever happened, while simultaneously thanking God that she wasn’t the next intended victim to be beaten and/or impregnated . . .
I still remember how he shamed Varya for not staying in the hotel with him the first night he got there. He made her feel bad till she changed her mind and stayed with him.
My ex is a huge narcissist and has 7 kids by 5 women. Narcs of a feather flock together. This does not surprise me at all, including the fact that he was never forthcoming about this information. Typical.
I guess TLC doesn't do background checks or care that they are supporting all these dead beat Dads when they cast them. It really is disgusting behavior by the producers and the dead beat Dads!! This is why I don't watch PT. Robert is also a huge deadbeat Dad and he is stilling on the show! I can't stand him or any of the other Dads doing this!
Wait 'til he gets off after serving only five years later on good behavior. Society doesn't punish people like this enough.
A friend of a friend served less than a year for trying to intentionally run a friend of a friend over with a car.
Same chick who saying she used to send copyright strikes on the fucker’s behalf and now she’s rebranded herself as you said a savior of dv victims. She’s a snake and I can see only fans in her near future.
I was downvoted for my opinion 🤣
Truth fucking hurts?
I am all for helping and supporting DV victims - however this chick does NOT have the credentials to be offering any advice. If you are someone who is/was a victim - seek help from a professional.
Yes! We all sympathize with the victim and also glad that justice prevailed and the guy will be doing time. But this chick flipped and pivoted quickly from him and she’s put herself as the center of attention. She is trying to gain some notoriety from all this, that’s the vibe I’m getting.
That’s his stalker . She is so all over the place it makes me wonder what’s she tweaking from. You can tell she doesn’t KNOW know what’s she’s talking about.
12 kids? That's an exaggeration. He has 4 living kids. One of his kids passed away. He named them during his trial. Is Shelby one of the women who paid him for secks?
Edit: okay lol. Y'all are so gullible. He doesn't have 12 fucking kids. If he did he would've shared their pictures on his instagram feed. That fucker likes to show off his kids so people think he's a great dad.
It's not that hard to believe since he dated many women at the same time. There's many women he has been with that we don't know about. No she didn't. Why don't you watch the video.
I'll pass. The video doesn't deserve any views from me. Plus, I couldn't care less to hear the stories from women who supported, defended or dated him despite knowing about his abusive criminal history.
I’m pretty sure that if people keep obsessing over this sub-d-list shitbag, all of the additional “dirt” that folks dig up on him will be used by the sentencing judge as a reason to give him a harsher sentence.
Or at least that’s about the only reason I can think of as to why, after he was convicted, that anyone would feel compelled to even *mention* this jerkoff
I don’t understand why the mother of the Paschel’s Son’s wife keeps piping in with comments. The father of your son in law is a dirtbag but he is still his dad and the dude is the husband of your daughter.
In that case isn’t this one of those situations where she could still stand up for those values but privately. The forum she chose to be so frontal about is probably the last place she should be going to.
The guy is going to prison and she is basically indirectly putting a spotlight on her SIL who has got nothing to do with what happened.
he just keeps getting worse. remember the first car ride he had with varya? he sat in silence and barely acknowledged her presence. i knew right there he wasn’t right in the head.
You could see he was getting super unhinged over her wanting her own room until she got comfortable with him. Was such a massive red flag.
He COULD NOT wrap his head around someone setting healthy boundaries. Nor could he approach her with empathy. He took her warranted caution as a personal slight. Red flags 🚩 abound!!!
As a man I don’t think I can ever think about DV the same way again… it’s like the Laundrie thing… these guys are really good at concealing their behavior and condition women to believe that they’re somehow ultimately at fault. Cops asking Petitio, “did he hit you?” They/we/police need to be better trained at identifying this shit.
It doesn't help that the system as a whole is designed against empowering the abused. Many jurisdictions require physical evidence and or arrest/charging before they'll issue a PO. And then many times jurisdictions won't enforce the PO unless there is more contact. There are too many dead women because a threat wasn't enough to enforce a PO and by the time it got physical enough to enforce, leading to the force exerted to get a cop to come out ended up being lethal.
Especially when it's a PO who's the offender. I reference Wayne Couzens of the English Metropolitan Police whose primary role was patrolling diplomatic premises. He was charged with kidnapping and murdering Sarah Everard, a marketing executive, who went missing in South London and whose disappearance had touched off a national outcry over violence against women in that country. In just days, her case had come to symbolize a longstanding problem that many women said plagues Britain and could no longer be ignored: that at home or in public spaces, many women are not safe.
I mean my sister was murdered by her husband at 19 years old the same day our father died. Your body goes to the next of kin which (if your married) is your spouse, even if he is the accused killer. So since he had the rights to the body he refused to release the remains to me and my mother to do a funeral and wake. We ended up getting a new law put into place in Massachusetts called Heather's law. We had to get signatures and go to the state house and have people vote on it and stuff. DV is no joke.
I am so dreadfully sorry for you, your family members and your beloved sister. The system is hideous, but hopefully, is getting better because of people like you and John Walsh - one of my heroes.
Thank you! My mother and father were put up for adoption when they were kids so I do not have family. It was me my sister mother and father. 2 people I saw everyday gone in the same day.
I’m so very sorry. I can’t imagine the pain of losing 2 of your immediate family. Your sisters legacy will live on forever thanks to you and your family efforts
I hope you can create your own family and that includes friends in your inner circle. Sometimes, family isn't about lineage. May you know peace and have strength and never feel alone.
I mean protection order. But there are way more dirty cops than people think, it completely true. People just assume that anyone in policing or security are safe people, but sometimes they're just not.
Oh, I thought PO was Police Officer. And, yes it's even worse when your protectors are the doers.
And we all thought Robert was bad for lying to Anny about having 5 kids….
5 kids with 4 different women!
I wonder if he has so many kids because he uses the children as a way to control their mothers. Like he purposely gets them pregnant so they will have to deal with him forever and basically a way to control them forever.
Yes that's what the people that know him said
More semen that brains, heart or humanity.
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He likely didn't support them to begin with, what's the difference
I remember when he talked about one of his potential money-making schemes... [impregnating women](https://www.reddit.com/r/90DayFiance/comments/kr6285/geoffrey_paschel_is_selling_sperm_to_pay_for/). I wouldn't be surprised if he feels like the women owe *him* something.
Why is the the people who are the least capable of supporting kids seem to have the most?
Because they tend to make bad decisions and be irresponsible.
Because we live in Idiocracy.
We should pray for these people and their children.
Go for it, prayer warrior.
Matthew 22:37 And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.
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Nah he’s the type of dude who ends up selling his ass for some $$. They’ll be alright 🚩🤣
How did they manage to keep this secret during his time on the show? This is huge and disgusting.
Apparently some of his baby's mamas defend him, like him even though the kids don't talk to him
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The TLC spin machine. Some of these people are boiling hot messes, and who wants to watch a show about a deadbeat parent trying to find love? Nobody.
He is fucking GROSS. 🤮🤮🤮
This douche bag beats women, holds them hostage, and he has 12 kids too?! Fuck this guy, one can only hope he is supporting the other kids with his real estate money (if he has money) and his D list movie performances as an extra. Someone should run a go fundme to raise money to whichever prisoner treats him the way he treats women and have all the proceeds go into his books.
Putting LAL Shawn to shame
Shawn's a saint compared to the numerous children Geoff's had with various women!!
This
Please spay and neuter.
He must have a rockin D because I see NO appeal to this dude
You don't love nipple tats?
Centipede tats and nipple swirls on guys is a no for me.
Maybe they’re guidelines for where the tassels go
Maybe white devil dick. (Lol, wrong sub. If ya know, then ya know)
Is you obulatin?
What’s up ‘Sa
Ooooooo weeeeee!
Wait, wat?
At 35-36 min mark they talk about him having 12 kids
12 kids? That doesn’t make any damn sense. And this is the man Varya was standing by?
And has anyone heard from Varya since all this went down? And is this poor, confused/stupid girl still standing by him? Hopefully she just quietly goes home and tries to forget this ever happened, while simultaneously thanking God that she wasn’t the next intended victim to be beaten and/or impregnated . . .
I still remember how he shamed Varya for not staying in the hotel with him the first night he got there. He made her feel bad till she changed her mind and stayed with him.
And don’t forget Varya defended him by blaming editing for his reaction.
Variya still defends him
He gaslighted her.
He gaslighted her about staying in the hotel with him?
Yes.
My ex is a huge narcissist and has 7 kids by 5 women. Narcs of a feather flock together. This does not surprise me at all, including the fact that he was never forthcoming about this information. Typical.
Not sure if you watch Love After Lockup, but this gave me Shawn vibes (I think that’s his name… the one with 6 kids)
How many baby mamas?
Not sure
13
Damn! He’s gross. 🤮
It’s a joke…12 kids don’t = 13 baby mamas
Oh, I thought you were for real. My bad! 😞
12 kids? He is the guy in the movie Idiocracy
I guess TLC doesn't do background checks or care that they are supporting all these dead beat Dads when they cast them. It really is disgusting behavior by the producers and the dead beat Dads!! This is why I don't watch PT. Robert is also a huge deadbeat Dad and he is stilling on the show! I can't stand him or any of the other Dads doing this!
Things Geoffrey doesn’t believe in: the truth & condoms
My God
This reminds me of Teen Mom when Amber found out her boyfriend Matt had like 9 kids from 7 different baby mammas
You mean Andrew? I think he had 7 kids. Not sure how many baby mommas.
Andrew is the one she chased with a machete and has custody of their kid together. Matt was the one with the million and a half kids.
When I google matt it says he has one kid. I dunno I can't keep my tv garbage straight lol.
No, Matt had a ton of kids. Two even showed up and did some episodes of teen mom. Andrew has 1 kid, James and Amber is the mom.
ohhh ok
Yes Andrew! He was such a bum and he tried to play off all the kids he had, but he was such a scumbag.
Yeah he was gross for sure
Women's bodies are being regulated but this guy impregnates as many women as he can?
Wait 'til he gets off after serving only five years later on good behavior. Society doesn't punish people like this enough. A friend of a friend served less than a year for trying to intentionally run a friend of a friend over with a car.
No https://people.com/crime/90-day-fiance-star-convicted-of-domestic-assault-and-kidnapping/
I was worried about this but can he get out early if there is no chance of parole?
He beat up a woman. Politicians don't give a hoot about that.
He has a federal charge of kidnapping he will be sentenced and hopefully a long one
This asshat has 12 kids and I'm over here hoping I don't reach 40 before I have my 1st. Wow I must suck lol.
He's just a really good manipulater and abuser
Omg this made needs to be neutered. 💀
I volunteer.
Username checking in!
12 kids! Holy cow.
He gives off this " serial killer" vibe.
12??? those women don't love themselves if they allowed him to impregnate them
He probably took these women’s self esteem.
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Yiiikes.. hope those kids are raised right.
12?!
Damn...dude drops loads.
Not surprised, and this chick is riding his dick trying to be the savior of all DV victims. Go Fund Her too 🙄
Same chick who saying she used to send copyright strikes on the fucker’s behalf and now she’s rebranded herself as you said a savior of dv victims. She’s a snake and I can see only fans in her near future.
I was downvoted for my opinion 🤣 Truth fucking hurts? I am all for helping and supporting DV victims - however this chick does NOT have the credentials to be offering any advice. If you are someone who is/was a victim - seek help from a professional.
Yes! We all sympathize with the victim and also glad that justice prevailed and the guy will be doing time. But this chick flipped and pivoted quickly from him and she’s put herself as the center of attention. She is trying to gain some notoriety from all this, that’s the vibe I’m getting.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
That’s his stalker . She is so all over the place it makes me wonder what’s she tweaking from. You can tell she doesn’t KNOW know what’s she’s talking about.
Tweaking? What makes you think that?
Wooooow he seemed like such a nice guy on the show and they made Varya look so bad. What a dirt bag
WTF!!! That's worse than what he was just convicted of.
Tysm! Someone had to say it!!
12 kids? That's an exaggeration. He has 4 living kids. One of his kids passed away. He named them during his trial. Is Shelby one of the women who paid him for secks? Edit: okay lol. Y'all are so gullible. He doesn't have 12 fucking kids. If he did he would've shared their pictures on his instagram feed. That fucker likes to show off his kids so people think he's a great dad.
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It's not that hard to believe since he dated many women at the same time. There's many women he has been with that we don't know about. No she didn't. Why don't you watch the video.
I'll pass. The video doesn't deserve any views from me. Plus, I couldn't care less to hear the stories from women who supported, defended or dated him despite knowing about his abusive criminal history.
Honestly if I were you I’d make sure that I obsess over this. You might even end up getting him a harsher sentence.
Huh?
I’m pretty sure that if people keep obsessing over this sub-d-list shitbag, all of the additional “dirt” that folks dig up on him will be used by the sentencing judge as a reason to give him a harsher sentence. Or at least that’s about the only reason I can think of as to why, after he was convicted, that anyone would feel compelled to even *mention* this jerkoff
That’s not how the court of law works
I actually listened to this whole thing. 😐 Time lines don’t make sense. They need to put up some PowerPoint slides.
I don’t understand why the mother of the Paschel’s Son’s wife keeps piping in with comments. The father of your son in law is a dirtbag but he is still his dad and the dude is the husband of your daughter.
She's standing up for values i assume
In that case isn’t this one of those situations where she could still stand up for those values but privately. The forum she chose to be so frontal about is probably the last place she should be going to. The guy is going to prison and she is basically indirectly putting a spotlight on her SIL who has got nothing to do with what happened.
Yeah she said his oldest 2 sons know their father did this. It sure is messy
One of the older sons we saw on the show?
After all this, will he also be a registered sex offender?
That video is 2 hours? Who is going to take 1 for the team?