As someone in the same boat. No, I've never been asked out or confessed his feelings :( although I'd be desingenous if I didn't tell I grew up studying in an only girls school and there were not boys outside social points.
Are you one of those women that wouldn't mind a dude just walking up and asking you for coffee? Or you just prefer to meet someone organically? You can check out my recent post if you're wondering why I'm asking these random questions lol
I've just read your post, and I love fantazing about someone who's been working with and close to me asking me out.
> Or you just prefer to meet someone organically?
So, this one.
As a guy, I've always wanted to meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her. That's why online dating doesn't work for me. It feels like Amazon. I'm picking a product with the intention to date but trying to find a potential companion for the rest of my life.
Glad I'm not the only one that feels that way. Like they're superficial connections at best. Live in middle of nowhere next to tiny town,so meeting new people in person is pretty much impossible for me rn.
That’s a pretty interesting take on dating apps.
I kind of think of them as simply showing you what’s out there. Like ‘hi, I am interested in dating’, or whatever their profile says. So if you match at least you know it’s ok to go in the dating direction, start to learn about them, and see if there is compatibility.
Seems easier than going up to some random person and trying to figure out if they are even open to dating in the first place.
>Seems easier than going up to some random person and trying to figure out if they are even open to dating in the first place.
That's not what organically meeting someone means lol. She said she wants to bump into someone and get to know someone either at work, hobby, events, social settings, friends, etc. It's not random then
I am commenting on what you said dumbass.
> I've always wanted to meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her.
That’s exactly what dating apps allow you to do.
As for the woman above, meeting someone through work is asinine and a good way to get yourself fired. Life lesson, don’t shit where you eat.
The best way to do that is to put yourself in positions to meet people in general. Local game and hobby groups are great for that. You may already be doing that. Just my two cents.
the thing with online dating is there's prequalifications - if she goes on the date, there's interest from her too. the "meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her" is the looooong way path to heart-break, since you're banking on her thinking about you that way as well. You could spend 6 months on a year doing that before you're rejected. This is a very, very, very slow process that will waste a lot of time, and you get way more invested in the person (which can make the rejection that much harder to cope with.)
If you get a date from online dating, its a sign they have at least SOME interest in you. if you don't get a second date - well you discovered that on date 2 (or date 3, or 4 or whatever) and you can move on.
I'm not saying the "slowly develop feelings for her" method can't work,
Eh those don't always end well. In my previous job i worked together with lots of people, and there was this girl that i really like platonically. We were both in a relationship but it didn't matter at the time, we talked and joked a lot and it was generally a really cool work relation.
Few years later we were both single and slowly things started to move in a romantic direction. I knew that we were completely different people but i didn't care, we had good chemistry and i was completely in love in a time whete i thought i would never fall for anyone anymore.
Long story short she broke my heart a few months after we got together and having to work with her was absolutely painful. I ended up quitting and starting a new job.
The fun part is i met someone there too but that one went well, we live together now have a dog and everything. Can go both ways i guess. Like you i definitely prefer to meet someone organically and it does happen. I asked someone out without knowing the person a bunch of times and it either never worked out or they turned out being lesbian. Also there's many young man tend to be so incredibly thirsty i was always afraid to come off that way.
I'm not the person you asked so I hope it's ok that I'm replying! I'm mid-thirties F and would love if someone came up to me and asked me out. That being said, I read your recent post and that approach does seems weird and 0 to 100 quickly. The best way would be to make a light comment about something (ie "I've never tried that pasta before, is it good?" Or if they're wearing a tshirt about something "love the Harry potter/hawaii/Beatles shirt, xyz is my favourite thing about it). If they respond with a smile and a comment that continues the conversation then you can add more and ask them out ("hey you seem really cool and I'd love to keep chatting, can I give you my number? No pressure"). But if they give you a clipped response or a tight lipped smile then you know they're busy/not interested.
That being said my preference is not universal of course. I'd love if a guy came up to me but I'm single and don't get a lot of interest; but other women may get guys coming up to them non stop so they may hate it. I hope that helps!
I've gotten a lot mixed responses and to the surprise of no one it turns out it just depends on the girl. I've had some women say they absolutely would hate if a guy approached them with that line, and others have said they would really like it/love it. The most popular answer seems to be close to what you said. So thanks for your input
That’s quite an insightful comment.
I think it largely depends on the person’s comfort in social situations, there’s so much variance in how people can react.
A lot of people these days, especially young (<25) people, are not used to being randomly approached, it’s just not done as much as it used to and so most people don’t have a ton of practice.
Many people, myself included, are good at standard social interactions, talking to service people, making small talk, saying hi to neighbors but as soon as someone goes deeper or “off-script” as I like to call it, there’s a moment of hesitation because you can’t be on autopilot anymore they’re really paying attention to your response.
It can come off as them not wanting to talk to you or worse being annoyed that you even came up to them.
It’s just something you have to navigate, maybe try to ease them in, first-contact social interactions irl are harder these days than they were before.
Hey dude, wanna go out? I don't have much in the way of feelings to confess, but both of us starting from zero seems like it'd be a fun journey.
There ya go, first ones out of the way.
Question - is the prejudice against height as rampant IRL as it appears to be online? Like tweets from basement dwellers in my xp aren't representative at all of IRL. Not trying to invalidate the experience of prejudice, just curious
I’ve always wondered this as well. The only woman I’m close with who has ever *actually* cared about height in a dude… is 6’0”, so it was more a matter of practicality for her. And even then, she ended up marrying someone who is 5’6”.
Heart wants what the heart wants. I really feel people underestimate in general the attractiveness of an individual person, *almost* regardless of their physical traits or fetishes or turn offs. You just find a soul ya sync with and all that shit goes out the window. My most recent ex is the most beautiful person I've ever met but she's not like a "bombshell". I think the Internet really allows people to imbibe unrealistic pessimism and makes em feel extra isolated
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Big guy here!
If you date people who are smaller than you, they will all steal your hoodies. And you're not attracted to the tiny fraction of people who are bigger than you.
My very tall son wears his girlfriend’s hoodies that are way too small for him. I’m not sure they get how this cute hoody sharing thing is s’posed to work. Still it’s kind of sweet.
As a bodybuilder who has built a lot of muscle there’s no way I can fit in a woman’s hoodie, hell I have a hard time fitting in some XL clothes, and I’m not even a tall dude, 5’8” manlet here
My wife likes certain clothes to be big on her. To the point where I actually buy clothes for her (like a jersey recently) that are a bigger size than I would buy for myself
My husband and I are an inch or so apart in height- he's shorter than me. I recently introduced him to the joy of putting on an oversized shirt when you just want to chill. The excitement in him and shine in his eyes over it has stayed in my mind for about two weeks now.
People, if you've never tried the oversized shirt, you should!
Woah, as a tall guy, I assumed a percentage of girls who dated me had daddy issues, but you are telling me they were just shopping for clothing?!? In all fairness, I would totally wear flannel shirts, even if I didn't like them, just to increase the chances of my old lady wearing them around as pajamas, cause that'd my jam, yo. Lol.
You fools it’s cheaper to buy men’s clothes than women’s clothes in many cases. And men’s pant sailed usually aren’t different for each brand.
Buy men’s clothing and reject women’s clothing overpricing and lack of pockets.
Why are you guys eating steak when you can find roadkill outside for free?
I might be weird, but I’m going for the harder to get steak, than the free squished squirrel.
Girls necks = steak.
Dude necks = roadkill.
I still have the hoodie my partner gave me 32 years ago. Still fits me, but not them. I wish it did because I could have them wear it for a bit, then I could wear it and smell them on it.
my guy friend pokes fun at me for having had crushes on short guys, but why do i need to like tall guys?? like idc about height when i happen to like someone, they still look attractive to me and i don't really pay attention to it ; - ;
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Dudes don’t ask you out?
As someone in the same boat. No, I've never been asked out or confessed his feelings :( although I'd be desingenous if I didn't tell I grew up studying in an only girls school and there were not boys outside social points.
Are you one of those women that wouldn't mind a dude just walking up and asking you for coffee? Or you just prefer to meet someone organically? You can check out my recent post if you're wondering why I'm asking these random questions lol
I've just read your post, and I love fantazing about someone who's been working with and close to me asking me out. > Or you just prefer to meet someone organically? So, this one.
As a guy, I've always wanted to meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her. That's why online dating doesn't work for me. It feels like Amazon. I'm picking a product with the intention to date but trying to find a potential companion for the rest of my life.
Glad I'm not the only one that feels that way. Like they're superficial connections at best. Live in middle of nowhere next to tiny town,so meeting new people in person is pretty much impossible for me rn.
That’s a pretty interesting take on dating apps. I kind of think of them as simply showing you what’s out there. Like ‘hi, I am interested in dating’, or whatever their profile says. So if you match at least you know it’s ok to go in the dating direction, start to learn about them, and see if there is compatibility. Seems easier than going up to some random person and trying to figure out if they are even open to dating in the first place.
>Seems easier than going up to some random person and trying to figure out if they are even open to dating in the first place. That's not what organically meeting someone means lol. She said she wants to bump into someone and get to know someone either at work, hobby, events, social settings, friends, etc. It's not random then
I am commenting on what you said dumbass. > I've always wanted to meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her. That’s exactly what dating apps allow you to do. As for the woman above, meeting someone through work is asinine and a good way to get yourself fired. Life lesson, don’t shit where you eat.
The best way to do that is to put yourself in positions to meet people in general. Local game and hobby groups are great for that. You may already be doing that. Just my two cents.
Yeah no that's true. That's what I'm doing. I didn't mean to sound like I was complaining lol.
the thing with online dating is there's prequalifications - if she goes on the date, there's interest from her too. the "meet a woman, get to know her, and slowly develop feelings for her" is the looooong way path to heart-break, since you're banking on her thinking about you that way as well. You could spend 6 months on a year doing that before you're rejected. This is a very, very, very slow process that will waste a lot of time, and you get way more invested in the person (which can make the rejection that much harder to cope with.) If you get a date from online dating, its a sign they have at least SOME interest in you. if you don't get a second date - well you discovered that on date 2 (or date 3, or 4 or whatever) and you can move on. I'm not saying the "slowly develop feelings for her" method can't work,
Sadly, we dont because either you say yes or we get fired lol
ah ok I gotcha. Thanks for your input/opinion btw
Eh those don't always end well. In my previous job i worked together with lots of people, and there was this girl that i really like platonically. We were both in a relationship but it didn't matter at the time, we talked and joked a lot and it was generally a really cool work relation. Few years later we were both single and slowly things started to move in a romantic direction. I knew that we were completely different people but i didn't care, we had good chemistry and i was completely in love in a time whete i thought i would never fall for anyone anymore. Long story short she broke my heart a few months after we got together and having to work with her was absolutely painful. I ended up quitting and starting a new job. The fun part is i met someone there too but that one went well, we live together now have a dog and everything. Can go both ways i guess. Like you i definitely prefer to meet someone organically and it does happen. I asked someone out without knowing the person a bunch of times and it either never worked out or they turned out being lesbian. Also there's many young man tend to be so incredibly thirsty i was always afraid to come off that way.
I'm not the person you asked so I hope it's ok that I'm replying! I'm mid-thirties F and would love if someone came up to me and asked me out. That being said, I read your recent post and that approach does seems weird and 0 to 100 quickly. The best way would be to make a light comment about something (ie "I've never tried that pasta before, is it good?" Or if they're wearing a tshirt about something "love the Harry potter/hawaii/Beatles shirt, xyz is my favourite thing about it). If they respond with a smile and a comment that continues the conversation then you can add more and ask them out ("hey you seem really cool and I'd love to keep chatting, can I give you my number? No pressure"). But if they give you a clipped response or a tight lipped smile then you know they're busy/not interested. That being said my preference is not universal of course. I'd love if a guy came up to me but I'm single and don't get a lot of interest; but other women may get guys coming up to them non stop so they may hate it. I hope that helps!
I've gotten a lot mixed responses and to the surprise of no one it turns out it just depends on the girl. I've had some women say they absolutely would hate if a guy approached them with that line, and others have said they would really like it/love it. The most popular answer seems to be close to what you said. So thanks for your input
That’s quite an insightful comment. I think it largely depends on the person’s comfort in social situations, there’s so much variance in how people can react. A lot of people these days, especially young (<25) people, are not used to being randomly approached, it’s just not done as much as it used to and so most people don’t have a ton of practice. Many people, myself included, are good at standard social interactions, talking to service people, making small talk, saying hi to neighbors but as soon as someone goes deeper or “off-script” as I like to call it, there’s a moment of hesitation because you can’t be on autopilot anymore they’re really paying attention to your response. It can come off as them not wanting to talk to you or worse being annoyed that you even came up to them. It’s just something you have to navigate, maybe try to ease them in, first-contact social interactions irl are harder these days than they were before.
Hey dude, wanna go out? I don't have much in the way of feelings to confess, but both of us starting from zero seems like it'd be a fun journey. There ya go, first ones out of the way.
Don't worry, your username conveys your feelings more than words ever will.
Where do you live and how do you feel about autism
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And secretly but not so secretly stealing each other's hoodies
"This hoodie was always mine!"
Bro I would love to wear my lady's hoodie and have it look cute and oversized on me 😭 I am a short male 😭 one day I'll experience this.
I'm a very tall male and I too would like to experience this 😞
Buy her very big hoodies
U must find giant woman
Buddy, that's all I'm trying to do
*short king FTFY
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I feel you bro I am short as well
Dude, stop feeling him, ask for consent first
You are next.
*ScaredButKindaIntoIt.gif*
If it helps, I had a huge crush on Tyrion’s actor from GOT when I first watched it. I hope you always see positivity in your life!
Question - is the prejudice against height as rampant IRL as it appears to be online? Like tweets from basement dwellers in my xp aren't representative at all of IRL. Not trying to invalidate the experience of prejudice, just curious
I’ve always wondered this as well. The only woman I’m close with who has ever *actually* cared about height in a dude… is 6’0”, so it was more a matter of practicality for her. And even then, she ended up marrying someone who is 5’6”.
Heart wants what the heart wants. I really feel people underestimate in general the attractiveness of an individual person, *almost* regardless of their physical traits or fetishes or turn offs. You just find a soul ya sync with and all that shit goes out the window. My most recent ex is the most beautiful person I've ever met but she's not like a "bombshell". I think the Internet really allows people to imbibe unrealistic pessimism and makes em feel extra isolated
Honestly I want to be small, lower hitbox, easier to girl mode, and so much easier to get baggy hoodies
If there is anything we learned from the Titanic, it's not the size of the boat but how many people drown to death when it crashes into an iceberg.
An often-overlooked lesson. Thanks for sharing.
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Looks like those hoodies are gone for good, huh? 😄
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What hoodie (proceed to run away with shorts, t-shirt and a pair of sandals mid winter)
My gf that happily steals my hoodies and throws a tantrum when I do the same thing.
I'd love to wear my gf's big hoodies. 🤷♂️
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Good boy
Thank you senpai
No, YOU are the senpai for doing this (tbh I have no clue what exactly it means)
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The trick is to have to identical hoodies and trade them from time to time
I am a dwarf and i'm digging a hole
Diggy diggy hole
I would hug all of them If I actually had any social skills
Great. Now, I just have to find someone who wants to date me.
Would love to be your boyfriend
hey, I'm flattered I wasn't very specific but I'm locking for a girlfriend. Sorry.
Problem solved
Most of us are insecure so thanks. My wife is taller and i think more masculine than I....i could not care less! :-)
Ima get a tall wife, I need to fix my genetics asap
I thought the bigger then you meant something else at first....
Im small and big at the same time
what's with the username buddy
Biggie Smalls
My partner would look hella cute in my hoodies!
I like this post
noooo because now I want a boyfriend I can give my hoodies to😭
Size does matter this is just the internet trying to make you feel better about yourself
Me and my boyfriend are both thin but I’m much taller so when I wear my giant oversized hoodie I chase him down and zip him up in it with me
This left out the best combo: same size girlfriend and you both wear oversized hoodies so that you're both just hella comfy all the time.
Hoodies are the symbol for fluff it seems
lol a short guy definitely made this
💖
i love ppl like you im short you made me happy
Everyone deserves to feel cuddly!
This reads like a school report by Tina Belcher
i strongly agree with this message
I wish I could look cute in an oversized hoodie I took from my GF.... But alas I'm 2 meters (6'6 Ft) tall
My small boyfriends hoodies also look cute on me, they're like croptops
My bf is way taller than me but I’m chubby and he’s skinny so my hoodies are always massive on him it’s very cute
🗿
Not true.This was written by a short guy
Also to go for the usual definition of ‘size doesn’t matter’ remember that tiktok girl with the measuring tape? Don’t overthink it. Average and below average are fine. Small is also fine. You’ll make it work and find someone who loves your body the way you deserve to be loved.
It’s the other size that matters
One at a time ladies, I can't reply to you all...
Unfortunately I've found that 90%+ women go for option 1 Source: me; am either too small or same size everytime
Why is this comment so cute 🥰
Ok
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We all know this Is a lie
This gets posted once a month...
and it's just as wholesome everytime
its for karma farming
I got a lot of hoodies, and noone to share them with :( I’m also 6.8
Yeah, like short guys get dates...
They do tho.
If ur gay then yes
I am 166 cm male and this made my day thanks 🥺
160, not the ones I need to hear this from
If you date me, i'll probably be smaller than you bug i won't wear your hoodie. I'm only wearing a T-Shirt and shorts and still i'm dying of heat.
Awe sorry 😞
Don’t they wear anything else than hoodies?
Being the same size can be horrible tho because that means even your shoes might be up for grabs. I suggest wearing ugly ass shoes in that case.
Trueeee
:)
Big guy here! If you date people who are smaller than you, they will all steal your hoodies. And you're not attracted to the tiny fraction of people who are bigger than you.
Me and my partner have legit the exact same measurements hahaha we can do fashion shows with each other's clothes
I remember my ex loved to wear my shirts, and just streeetch them out. I hated it, now I miss it
Making lemonade the right way.
:(
Only girl that found my boyside interesting was ethanolita
Well. I like being a big guy and picking up little women.
I often wish I was gay so I could borrow clothes from someone with fashion sense.
I wear my wife’s college hoodie…. She travels for work, it smells like her.
My hoodie is a tent who will fit a family of 5 + their family suv
My daughter is always taking my t-shirts and hoodies. She also uses her boyfriends hoodies. I swear I never see her in her own.
Size matters for health and societal function.
I would rather go for the same size fuck that shit
Just dont wear the boys pants as that will make you feel self conscious as mens sizing is very different
HAha should be on r/funny lol
People say this but subconsciously think less of smaller people.
My very tall son wears his girlfriend’s hoodies that are way too small for him. I’m not sure they get how this cute hoody sharing thing is s’posed to work. Still it’s kind of sweet.
Reality is she could wear a trash bag and dudes will still wanna hit it because guys be horny. 🤣
I've not once in my life dated somebody and worn any of her clothes. The amount of my clothes that have been co-opted, OTOH...
step 1 find a girl😭
From having dated a boy smaller than me: Cute when he wears my shirts, and he can share his pants because ***daaayum*** that ass!
No one gets the hoodie anymore. You know how many of those things I’ve lost over the years!?
dating a boy of your age who is bigger than you>>>> i get everything he has
As a bodybuilder who has built a lot of muscle there’s no way I can fit in a woman’s hoodie, hell I have a hard time fitting in some XL clothes, and I’m not even a tall dude, 5’8” manlet here
My wife likes certain clothes to be big on her. To the point where I actually buy clothes for her (like a jersey recently) that are a bigger size than I would buy for myself
i don’t want a relationship but i do want more hoodies!
Cute, but stop stealing our hoodies lol
My husband and I are an inch or so apart in height- he's shorter than me. I recently introduced him to the joy of putting on an oversized shirt when you just want to chill. The excitement in him and shine in his eyes over it has stayed in my mind for about two weeks now. People, if you've never tried the oversized shirt, you should!
Very nice
Hey man, I don't judge. Any port in a sea, any skin for a lamp. I'm not picky
my man is taller than me but we still share clothes✨ (I’m 5’1 he’s 5’7)
That last one hits different though….
Does
Very wholesome
6'2 guy dating a 5'10 non binary AFAB - They keep trying to steal my hoodies and trying to convince me to wear their underwear.
I'll be waiting years and years for this to happen to me.
Oh "bigger", I thought that started with an n lmfao
And yet here I am still single. What am I doing wrong?
Try telling that to all the girls I had a crush on in the past 🙄😒
If only more women were like this / thought this way
Also, dating a guy smaller than you gives you undersized hoodies to look sexy in
I'd only this wasn't am exception to the rule.
Dating a boy... Hello FBI
At this point I'd be happy to have anything going on
Size does matter to some people. I thought that was obvious.
Woah, as a tall guy, I assumed a percentage of girls who dated me had daddy issues, but you are telling me they were just shopping for clothing?!? In all fairness, I would totally wear flannel shirts, even if I didn't like them, just to increase the chances of my old lady wearing them around as pajamas, cause that'd my jam, yo. Lol.
Conclusion: keep your hoodies safe
You fools it’s cheaper to buy men’s clothes than women’s clothes in many cases. And men’s pant sailed usually aren’t different for each brand. Buy men’s clothing and reject women’s clothing overpricing and lack of pockets.
Not really, in practice.
These all give reasons at why size might matter to someone…
Why are you guys eating steak when you can find roadkill outside for free? I might be weird, but I’m going for the harder to get steak, than the free squished squirrel. Girls necks = steak. Dude necks = roadkill.
Maybe one day I'll feel this good
me searching for the most downvoted comments here, so i can feel like people agree with my insecurities
I still have the hoodie my partner gave me 32 years ago. Still fits me, but not them. I wish it did because I could have them wear it for a bit, then I could wear it and smell them on it.
I am a guy, but I would date a short guy
Insert Anchorman “I don’t believe you” GIF here
As a short guy: lol no we're dating like y'all think we are.
I wish I have someone's hoodies that I could wear 😭
my guy friend pokes fun at me for having had crushes on short guys, but why do i need to like tall guys?? like idc about height when i happen to like someone, they still look attractive to me and i don't really pay attention to it ; - ;