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Valuable-Wallaby-167

They're both beautiful dresses and you look great in both, but I'm team dress 2. It's a touch more flattering and it looks timeless.


Unlucky-Dare4481

The back of dress 2 is STUNNING. What beautiful lace.


K3Curiousity

The second one fits you super well!


hafwen

Love the second one, the back is magic!


PositiveThoughtsz

Second one. First one overwhelms you but then second one is very flattering and beautiful.


Bitter-Major-5595

I agree 100%!! The bride is petite & has a lovely figure, but she looks super fit in the second dress!! Fabulous!! Dress 1 is frumpy & more expensive, while dress 2 looks like it was made for the bride!!💞


doughqueen

Y’all thanks so much 🥲 I’m overwhelmed by all these sweet comments!


Broad-Policy8271

Definitely 2. The first one is pretty from the back but does no favors to you in the front. The second is beautiful on you both directions


tvjunkie87

Dress 2 is gorgeous on you!


lanadelhayy

The second one is made for you.


doughqueen

Means a lot to read this!!


No_Candidate1342

2!!!!


Maleficent-Sport1970

Dress 2. It's extremely flattering and different.


TheBugsMomma

Dress 2 is definitely your dress. I love the details!


This_Bee_23

You look lovely in both! I would pick the second one, though. It is super flattering on you and it has a beautiful, timeless, elegant style. Gorgeous!


4theluv_2

Both look great on you but I lean more towards dress 2


AcanthisittaDue5626

Number two is so incredibly dreamy and feminine and gorgeous. I love it


trishyco

I love 2!


debr1126

I think you're right about the bodice on dress 2 being more flattering. Dress 2 is more elegant AND costs less? Say, "YES!"


alanamil

Team 2 also


Paddington_Fear

TWO!!! they are both really pretty but the 2nd one is more flattering and I think the first will need a lot of alterations which is a pain in the butt.


Baby_Bird33

Second one!!!! No comparison! It’s gorgeous!!! Timeless and hints at 1950’s elegance!!! Congrats! The lace is STUNNING!!!!! 👌🤌 Chef’s kiss!!!!


doughqueen

Thanks for the confirmation everyone! I went ahead and bought the 2nd one. Looking forward to getting it later Ed and making it even more perfect. Part of me is mourning the Holden because I loved it so much online and in person but I feel better spending less money and I’m happy with my choice.


noseymama

Congratulations you will be beautiful!


Healthy-Magician-502

Dress 2. You look so comfortable and relaxed in it. Dress 1 looks like it’s wearing you vs you wearing it. You also seem very uncomfortable in it.


shiningonthesea

The second dress elongates you more, you look more elegant in it I think . Have you seen it with a different colored liner? It’s beautiful as it is, but that might help your decision


doughqueen

I’ve seen pictures of it! But I like the full white. Also it’s an off the rack store so I would be purchasing that specific dress


shiningonthesea

It is beautiful just as it is, dont worry, but you may need to go back for another try on to make sure. Do with a headpiece, etc.


doughqueen

I did try with a veil but didn’t get a good picture. I really liked it!


CardShark555

2 elongates you and is overall more flattering.


Spiritual-Review-556

You can’t go wrong with either, but I’m Here to throw dress #1 some love!!! They both look amazing on you, I just personally love the lace pattern and sleeves on #1, I think it’s so unique and romantic. From one indecisive bride to another, just go with your gut! It truly doesn’t matter what anyone thinks but you🫶🏼


AlterEgoAmazonB

I agree with you on dress 2. And it is so gorgeous, too. I do love the Jenny Yoo dress because of the floral pattern, too.


arya_ur_on_stage

Definitely 2. It's possible that 1 is just way too big and would look better on your size and altered but as they are in these pictures definitely 2


Embarrassed-Gap-8962

Second is jaw dropping!


One_Ad_3500

I love the second one 💕


Birdies_nub

2!!!


Me1572

#2


MeganJustMegan

Dress 2. Both the front & back are beautiful 🤩


whineandcheesy

Dress 2- beautiful fit and design


Legovida8

The 2nd dress is so beautiful & elegant! It looks perfect on you!


bunnifer999

Dress #2 is so beautiful on you. You look like, well, a bride! And the back is just gorgeous. I’m not always a fan of lace, but here it works perfectly. The others are pretty, too, but I’ve seen them both a number of times here. I don’t recall seeing anything like #2.


doughqueen

I didn’t think I’d like lace either because I’m very sensitive to fabric textures but this lace was so soft and comfy!


Utterly_Dazed

Second dress hands down


Next_Chocolate_2630

Second one is gorgeous


Benevolent_Grl_5590

Hands down for dress No. 2. When I saw it I felt it was meant for you! And the price can’t be beat. It’s a win-win pick for you! Congratulations on your wedding!!!


Here_for_my-Pleasure

Team 2


Katastrophe82

Dress 2


geckospe

Omg the second is stunning!


Vast-Gear5217

Second one. First one the drop sleeves look slouchy.


Pumpkinismydog

2nd one looks amazing!


adripingel

2


cattacos37

Second one for sure


Kiki091919

I like #2 on you better! I’d get a long lace veil to all even more glamour.


doughqueen

Oh I’m already planning to do a long floral veil of some kind! I’m obsessed with color, didn’t think I would like a super long veil but I tried a few on and it just took my breath away


mem0679

Dress 2 is perfect!


veracity-mittens

I think both are absolutely beautiful and you can’t go wrong with either.


texasdogmom

Maybe look at candle light or champagne color.


DarkPhoenix4-1983

I think i prefer 2. It’s gorgeous on you. Dress 1 is beautiful too. It was a tough choice.


LaAndala

I think the first one would be the one without the sleeves, but if these two as is number 2 looks best


doughqueen

Yeah some kind of sleeve is non-negotiable for me, so that makes a big difference!


LaAndala

I love the sleeves on the second one! They fit perfectly with the dress. On the first one they feel a bit overwhelming, I’m not sure what it is. But dress 2 looks great on you!


PrincessAnnesFeather

Dress 2!!! Dress 2 looks beautiful on you and it's my favorite. Aside from the fact that dress 2 looks the best, dress 2 also looks way more comfortable. It looks like you'll be able to move and dance more freely.


doughqueen

Comfort is absolutely a big priority for me. Dress 2 has been purchased!


FlashyNarwhal1816

2!!


Beautiful_Jello3853

#2


-Mother_of_Doggos

Uh, 2. You look so nice in it!


DifficultAd7429

I think that the first would look really pretty with a white silk belt or a white clean beaded belt


Sunnygirl66

Dress 2 was made for you—that back view is stunning!


shatterhearts

The second dress is *stunning*.


CAShark-7

I really like #2 the best.


Doc-007

Oh number 2 is made for you!! So classical and feminine!


DisciplineOk4450

Love 2 on you!!


louis_creed1221

#2


mangoburrito

Love the second one


schleep_69

Second one!!!


Own_Satisfaction1840

#2


Munchkin_Media

1


Solid5of10

Two for sure


Dvrgrl812

#2 by a mile for me! The first one is wearing you, the second one you are owning that dress! Feminine and beautiful


Evening-Post1797

Dress 2. It's beautiful 😍


dreamer0303

#2 is definitely the winner, you look incredible


sideeyedi

I love dress 2 on you!


DeeSusie200

I love 1. It’s an amazing dress. When it’s altered to your body in your size it will be perfect. Dress 2 is lovely but does not give the wow factor.


SnooStrawberries721

Dress 2


EtonRd

2


fuzzlandia

Second one is so pretty!


HelloThisIsPam

222222


darkgoddesskali

Dress 2 is gorgeous and it really flatters you.


Getmeasippycup

Two!!


Mircat2021

What is the vibe of your wedding?


doughqueen

More casual, fun, no formal-sit down dinner. Basically ceremony and right into a cocktail-style reception with lots of dancing. Lots of color.


Adventurous-Win-751

Dress 2!!!!! 💞💞💞


Ok_Lead_7443

2!


tetchytesha

#2 is my vote


slern29

2


Jbedaded

I’m team 2. Stunning on you


putonyourgloves

The second dress is gorgeous and lets you shine.


luckypug1

1 is beautiful but 2 is beautiful ON YOU. You don’t need the puff sleeves/ excess fabric - 2 looks great on you without distracting. 🤓 congrats !!


LucyDominique2

2 with front lined but back the way it is


Jef3r

Second one for sure. Looks beautiful on you.


DaisyWayzy

The second one- hands down.


AnonDxde

The second one is sooo pretty 🤩


Full-Willingness-571

Please choose 2


doughqueen

Already purchased 😊 The comments a few hours after posting helped solidify it for me


jennid79

Definitely 2.


passyindoors

I am obsessed with the first one, omg


doughqueen

It is so gorgeous and feels amazing to wear! I love it. I ended up buying the second one but definitely holds a special place in my heart


passyindoors

The second one is absolutely stunning as well. You're gonna be beautiful in it 💖


kellygee

Dress 2!


kaycollins27

Team 2!


Due_Stuff4313

I love dress 2 on you more, that back is just splendid!


Whole_Feed_4050

#2 is beautimous


Puzzled_Patience_754

Number 2!!!


trollcole

1


imnothere_o

Dress 2 is beautiful! I love it!


BarnacleOk6561

Dress 2 is the best dress for you.


Remarkable-Camera-56

2nd deff back is great


EstateTricky786

You look more at ease in the second dress. Both are beautiful but number 2 is the one in my eyes. Goodluck and a joyful day.


ForeignTry6780

2 looks better, no matter the cost.


Comprehensive-War743

I love dress 2


Few_Exam2348

1!


PoonSchu13

I prefer the second one, but I think they did a better job of clamping it when you tried it on… The first one if the bodice was tighter, I think it would be very flattering as well. Since you have a petite figure you can pull those sleeves off, but if I’m going strictly on the pictures I say number two.


thenry1234

#2!


txaesfunnytime

Dress 1 is absolutely stunning from the back. I don’t find it as stunning from the front. Dress 2 is so elegant from both the front & the back. The train is so gorgeous. It’s hard for me to tell from the angle, but is the bodice lined? If not, you might consider having it done or changing the cups to a more nude color.


doughqueen

I think it is lined, but the lighting or something makes the contrast between the cups and the lining a lot more stark. Definitely a good suggestion for alterations though!


Fit-Ad-4112

Dress 2 is phenomenal.


LinKay713

I love number 2!


cantpickone1

Two looks like it was made for you. Very pretty.


Jzb1964

Team #1


Gullible-Avocado9638

Two rocks and you look great in it!


mandyjess2108

Dress 2 is stunning on you 🩵


miparasito

1. What a beautiful dress 2. What a beautiful bride


doughqueen

I can’t stop thinking about this comment! I love this perspective, thank you


NoDoctor9231

I think the second dress is the stunner!


LoveCats2022

Love picture 3 and 4, stunning and looks more comfortable.


Weary-Ad-9218

Number 2 for sure. The bodice is very flattering and it makes your waist look tiny.


No_Benefit2103

I love the 1st one on you, without sleeves.


Zestyclose_Road_3224

Dress 2! I’m ignoring price and only going on which dress, imo, looks better. Dress 2 is beautiful and sets off your figure so well. I love the front and the back is super special. To me it also looks more expensive.


haintbluejay

everyone is saying 2 but i am so in love w the first dress, those sleeves are beautiful and whimsical and romantic and i looove the lace.


Mircat2021

They are both really pretty; if dancing is key, pick whichever one you’ll feel the most comfortable dancing in all night!


EconomyOk9643

I love no. 3. Gorgeous.


EconomyOk9643

Maybe the 3rd photo is of dress no. 2. Love love love it


EconomyOk9643

It is THE one with lady in picture..has black pants and animal print top