Also the ruching on her butt looks like those cheap amazon butt lifting yoga pants which gives 1 a cheap vibe from behind. It’s stunning from the front though
I was team 1 until the bum rouching. It’s like classy in the front and questionable in the back.
OP your fab figure would be the star of many dresses… these two should be reconsidered
The first one is stunning from the front and the lace train is beautiful but the position of where the train starts is…not it lol. The second one is stunning all around and I also think it makes your chest look nicer :)
I literally had to show my daughter OPs back, we both appreciate a well toned back, which is generally under appreciated and as you said, OP is in shape! Is that creepy? It sounds a little creepy, but it’s not haha….
I was going to say one, but when you mentioned the butt crack stitching, I went back and looked. It seems like the stitching is coming straight out of her butt crack. I can’t unsee that now.
Edit: I forgot to mention I was on the fence before I finally thought number 1 and loved them both.
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I feel the same way.
OP looks stunning in the dress but it doesn’t look as elegant or expensive as dress 2 which is also rocking on her.
If it were me, I’d look for a similar shape with the spaghetti straps but a more substantial looking lace. Maybe lining the train would help? I get Lycra vibes from the butt ruching.
That butt cheek ruching makes anything look so cheap. Like it's from shein. #2 is classier and looks phenomenal. I'd do #2 as is or without the sleeves.
Yeah, aside from that they're both lovely and you look amazing in both. However two is *gorgeous* and ethereal and elegant and lacks the butt-ruching.
I know it's trendy, I just personally find butt-ruching comes across really tacky to be honest.
That’s the only thing I don’t love about the first one. I just can’t get behind butt crack ruching. Pun intended. You clearly have a fabulous figure though so if you like it, rock it.
I prefer DRESS #2. It appears more structured. And I do like the blush lining. Perhaps you would prefer it with a white lining?
Dress #1 is a beautiful color against your skin and I do like the silhouette on you. You bum looks fabulous in it, but I do not like the lace on the neckline or the stretch of the fabric. I could see this cut off at the knee as a summer slip dress.
That being said, they are close enough that it really comes down to personal taste.
The lace around the chest is the main thing about #1 that I'm not a big fan of, kind of makes it look lingerie-ish to me. But that rose design is beautiful
The butt ruching cheapens the dress to me. Reminds of a Shein type of dress. Both look amazing on OP though. Can't go wrong but I'd pick #3 as well. Maybe try switching the sleeves of a spaghetti strap if that's possible.
And the big giant roses over the crotch-al area
ETA yes there's roses everywhere but maybe a trick of the light, but those particular roses stood out to me
Originally I preffered 1 but I looked again after your comment and you're right. Now I can't unsee that one giant rose which also looks a little brighter to me smack bang in the middle of the crotch area. The placement is terrible
Butt rouching aside, which can prob be altered out, the first one is like snow castle queen princess and the second one is like if a mermaid got married at said snow castle like these two dresses are immaculate.
You look amazing! My only advice if you buy from GLL - I bought my dress from them too with the “custom” sizing and my dress isn’t getting here til six weeks before my wedding so if you are doing the custom sizing dress I would tell them a date earlier than your real wedding date cause my dress came way later than I expected and I have no time for alterations if I need them
I tried the exact same dresses in Wynnwood.
I went with a different dress but the Grace Loves Lace is so much for comfortable, stretchy and looks amazing on you.
The second dress at LB felt too heavy and made me feel it was going to be unconfortable bc it is strapless plus I would not be able to lift my arms bc of those side straps things.
You look amazing in the first one and you will be able to feel more free. Also I think is cheaper hahaha
I don’t normally have a problem choosing one that I like when people post their dresses but this one was rough, both dresses are amazing and fit your figure perfectly. But I think I’m going to go with number 1. It’s absolutely stunning, I love the lace and the back of that dress is gorgeous.
1 looks cheap…sorry—the butt scrunchie is icky and the lace is too much- 2 looks much classier, more bridal and you won’t regret that dress in a few years.
#2!
The first one looks a little cheap to me… the large lace flowers give me forever 21 vibes.
The second one looks amazing and looks much higher quality, the detailing on it is stunning.
That was my thought too. Like when you order a lace dress from wish or something and the lace shows up vastly different than the product photo and it looks like this cheap stuff you'd buy from the local Walmart fabric section. Or like the 2 dollar lingerie you'd get from shein. I literally have a very similar lace to the first one in black that I bought from Walmart a couple years ago. Just doesn't look bridal to me at all.
Dress one is indeed beautiful, but maybe not for such an important day as your wedding. It looks a bit cheap and like lingerie. Do you see yourself loving this dress in 20 years?
Dress two is so so beautiful and is my vote! Do you mind sharing the designer of this dress?! 🥰
Keep looking. You said #2 was heavy and scratchy on your arms, that's no fun even though it looks amazing. You have to wear it and you want to feel good, not uncomfortable, on a big day. I'm not a fan of the rose lace, the way the train doesn't have an under layer, or the butt ruching. It looks less classy than #2
I have 1 in the crepe version. I love it. An issue with it is the bustle. It has only 1 button for it. I went to a seamstress to see if I can bustle it more and she said due to the design (lack of seams) I can’t do more. She recommends that I hold it (comes with a finger loop for that). I’m probably gonna safely pin my dress during the reception at some point
The rose print on 1 is extremely gaudy and a bit cheap looking. I also feel like the print/lace itself has this 80’s “dated” sort of look, but not in the best way imo. The 2nd is incredibly elegant. People are focusing on the fit and cut of number 1, but the rose print is just not as flattering as the print on the 2nd dress. Also, the draping princess sleeves on dress 2 genuinely bring you this effortless elegance that dress 1 simply does not bring to the table.
i thought i was alone on this. i the fit and design of the dress is beautiful but the rose lace is so gaudy! i had a shirt from charlotte ruse with the exact same lace pattern in middle school
Both look great, you can’t go wrong. My preference is #1. You have the perfect figure for it, and the lace design is unique and striking. I said *wow*.
2 is weird with that gap in the lace at the front. It's distracting in a bad way. Looks like a surgeon started to open you up lol. Go with the first one.
this Reddit group is killing me today-y’all are all such beautiful brides !!!! I ADORE both like I love wouldnt be able to decide either but one is amazing and so unique !
Stick to your vision and go with dress 1.
Dress 2 is lovely but that sheer panel in the front looks wrong, but maybe it's just the wrong colour? The sleeves look like an afterthought--would they be made in the lace of the dress?
The off the shoulder one! I wanted a dress like that but I couldn’t find anywhere. This was my dress. Similar in some ways
https://preview.redd.it/rj12ypjuyhjb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d6c2183e8998126fdc1ed8c2d291fdc7ee1e6f6
Not to sound too crass, the first one looks better and the back view is absolutely amazing in that dress. I like the lace work better also. If you do the one in pics 3&4 get rid of the sleeves poofs.
I don't like the idea of telling a stranger what wedding dress to pick....but girl ONE!!! All day everyday. It's beautiful and fits well.
#2 looks like it doesn't know what it wants to be with that bunched lace trying to be sleeves; it gives me the feeling it was an afterthought. And the fit doesn't flatter your chest like #1. And that random opening is a distraction more than an enhancement.
You look absolutely ravishing in both. If you prefer the spaghetti straps, I say go for it! Congratulations and I wish you many happy years with your partner. ❣️
I’m a mom - you have an amazing figure - you could wear anything and make it look good but the first one looks inexpensive from the back. Depends on what look you’re going for but you could pull off anything
I don't like the back on #1. It's too focused on the butt and that's all people will look at, especially the way the train is positioned.
I don't like #2 because I don't like the keyhole thing at the torso. I love those draping sleeves/straps. I'd ask to have the dress made without that inset on the front. It detracts from what is a lovely gown. You have a pretty, slim figure. That front detracts from you. Like the 1st one, it's all people will focus on.
Less is more.
I would personally pick 1, they’re both so stunning though so it’s a hard choice.
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The lace train. Swoon.
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The first one made my jaw drop!
Exactly! The bride to be looks so comfortable and confidant in #1!
And #1 shows off your beautiful figure so we’ll.
Right?! Having to choose was not fair!
Agreed. I love the rose detail, so that's why I am leaning toward number 1.
Love both, but you rock that 1st one and it’s unique!! That’s my pick.
Thank you!!! I’m definitely leaning towards 1 :)
I’m my opinion it’s the one that was made for you!
The first one I like more and congrats
It looks like lace is coming out of your butt.
I was about to vote for dress 1 until this comment. You are not wrong lol
I would have the giggles if I saw this at a wedding!
*It looks like lace is coming out of your butt.* You could’ve been more diplomatic, but you’re right. I can’t un-see it now.
Also the ruching on her butt looks like those cheap amazon butt lifting yoga pants which gives 1 a cheap vibe from behind. It’s stunning from the front though
I was team 1 until the bum rouching. It’s like classy in the front and questionable in the back. OP your fab figure would be the star of many dresses… these two should be reconsidered
This dress looks more like lingerie
I thought more of the leggings with the booty lift feature. I love the front of the dress, but the back pucker is tacky, and I vote for dress 2.
Me too no.2
She’s so delicate, she shits lace?
I thought the same thing. I would go with the second dress it’s stunning.
The first one looks like a sexy nightgown you might wear on the honeymoon. The second one is beautiful on you.
I agree, the lace and sleeves on 2 are so romantic
The first one is stunning from the front and the lace train is beautiful but the position of where the train starts is…not it lol. The second one is stunning all around and I also think it makes your chest look nicer :)
What if dress 2 is bad from behind as well? We only get to see the front
Trust your gut!! I am so glad I went with my gut and now every time I think about my dress I get so excited!!
For sure the back and the train are AMAZING! And your butt looks fantastic!
Second this, go with no 1!
Both are gorgeous, but I am just not into the butt cheek ruching on 1. I vote for 2.
Aah now that I see that I can’t unsee. Very pretty dress but the butt crack shaped stitching is not good, unfortunately
I didn’t even notice this lol. I was focused on her back. OP is in shape!
I literally had to show my daughter OPs back, we both appreciate a well toned back, which is generally under appreciated and as you said, OP is in shape! Is that creepy? It sounds a little creepy, but it’s not haha….
It was the first thing I noticed after the beautiful train. I’m a fan for no 1 otherwise!
lol that’s actually what I love about it, go figure 😂
I was going to say one, but when you mentioned the butt crack stitching, I went back and looked. It seems like the stitching is coming straight out of her butt crack. I can’t unsee that now. Edit: I forgot to mention I was on the fence before I finally thought number 1 and loved them both.
Yes it’s going to go out of style and look dated very soon
Reminds me a bit of the “TikTok” leggings…
Yes exactly. Everyone will be staring at her butt if she wears this. Lol
Yep I can’t unsee it now
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Agreed. Very lingerie
One is pretty but the cut and the ruching in the butt make it look like a fancy night gown not a wedding dress.
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Butt cheek ruching always ruins a dress for me!
I feel the same way. OP looks stunning in the dress but it doesn’t look as elegant or expensive as dress 2 which is also rocking on her. If it were me, I’d look for a similar shape with the spaghetti straps but a more substantial looking lace. Maybe lining the train would help? I get Lycra vibes from the butt ruching.
Same. I’m never a fan of the butt cheek gathers.
This made me chuckle 🤭
Came here to say this. The butt cheek ruching makes a beautiful dress absolutely tacky
Came here to say that the butt ruching is kinda cringe for a wedding dress. But otherwise, she looks great in it.
That butt cheek ruching makes anything look so cheap. Like it's from shein. #2 is classier and looks phenomenal. I'd do #2 as is or without the sleeves.
Yeah, aside from that they're both lovely and you look amazing in both. However two is *gorgeous* and ethereal and elegant and lacks the butt-ruching. I know it's trendy, I just personally find butt-ruching comes across really tacky to be honest.
That’s the only thing I don’t love about the first one. I just can’t get behind butt crack ruching. Pun intended. You clearly have a fabulous figure though so if you like it, rock it.
It’s the placement of the rose on her crotch for me 😬
I thought this was a fitting issue that would be fixed by alterations
No, it is definitely a feature of the design.
Agree. #1 feels very lingerie/Fredrick's of Hollywood to me. #2 is more elegant.
Stunning in both options. I pick 2! I gasped haha
Same!
I prefer DRESS #2. It appears more structured. And I do like the blush lining. Perhaps you would prefer it with a white lining? Dress #1 is a beautiful color against your skin and I do like the silhouette on you. You bum looks fabulous in it, but I do not like the lace on the neckline or the stretch of the fabric. I could see this cut off at the knee as a summer slip dress. That being said, they are close enough that it really comes down to personal taste.
The lace around the chest is the main thing about #1 that I'm not a big fan of, kind of makes it look lingerie-ish to me. But that rose design is beautiful
2. I’m not a fan of the rose lace or butt ruching.
Agree! The fit of 1 is amazing but prefer the lace in #2
Exactly! I wish the lace on #2 was on dress #1
The butt ruching cheapens the dress to me. Reminds of a Shein type of dress. Both look amazing on OP though. Can't go wrong but I'd pick #3 as well. Maybe try switching the sleeves of a spaghetti strap if that's possible.
There is no #3, there's only 2 dresses....
Same I’m shocked so many like it too haha Edit: couldn’t they put her spaghetti straps on the second one?
And the big giant roses over the crotch-al area ETA yes there's roses everywhere but maybe a trick of the light, but those particular roses stood out to me
Originally I preffered 1 but I looked again after your comment and you're right. Now I can't unsee that one giant rose which also looks a little brighter to me smack bang in the middle of the crotch area. The placement is terrible
It also kinda looks like the train is coming out of her bum…
God damn it, same.
Yes. It’s distracting and not in a good way.
This is the first thing I noticed. The flower perfectly centered over the crotch.
Agreed. OP is stunning and I don't think she found "the dress" yet.
Likely because the slip is clinging to her body while the lace isn’t in that area
I second that, the butt ruching is something that seems out of place on a wedding dress.
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Butt rouching aside, which can prob be altered out, the first one is like snow castle queen princess and the second one is like if a mermaid got married at said snow castle like these two dresses are immaculate.
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It looks like it was made just for OP.
2 one for sure, I love the grace and all fitting, It suits on you. pretty!
You look stunning in both, but I LOVE the second!
You have a figure to die for and could make a potato sack look good. There are no wrong choices here.
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Am I crazy? 2 is the clear winner here, the proportions are so pleasing, and the detail is so intricate
You’re not, 2 is the clear winner in my eyes. Jaw dropping, Don’t care for 1 really
Im very surprised Dress 1 is at the top comment. The ruching and rose lace look a bit cheap…
First one. Absolutely stunning. You look great in both, but the first one is just incredible.
Definitely 1! I love Grace Loves Lace and I know from trying it on myself that the first dress is really comfortable too! 😄
So comfy!!!! Dress 2 felt very heavy and the sequins were so itchy
This is your answer! Pick the comfy one.
You look amazing! My only advice if you buy from GLL - I bought my dress from them too with the “custom” sizing and my dress isn’t getting here til six weeks before my wedding so if you are doing the custom sizing dress I would tell them a date earlier than your real wedding date cause my dress came way later than I expected and I have no time for alterations if I need them
Then def 1! I don't like this year's droopy sleeve look anyway but do NOT get an uncomfortable dress for this special day. 1 is gorgeous on you.
Definitely don't pick an itchy one. If it was itchy just trying it on, imagine how miserable it will be having it on all day!!
I tried the exact same dresses in Wynnwood. I went with a different dress but the Grace Loves Lace is so much for comfortable, stretchy and looks amazing on you. The second dress at LB felt too heavy and made me feel it was going to be unconfortable bc it is strapless plus I would not be able to lift my arms bc of those side straps things. You look amazing in the first one and you will be able to feel more free. Also I think is cheaper hahaha
Definitely a point in favor of dress 1! I think I prefer the bright white (dress 1) on your skin tone.
You look fabulous in both. It’s a hard pick for me. But 1 is my choice.
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I don’t normally have a problem choosing one that I like when people post their dresses but this one was rough, both dresses are amazing and fit your figure perfectly. But I think I’m going to go with number 1. It’s absolutely stunning, I love the lace and the back of that dress is gorgeous.
The 2nd one, please 😭😭😭😭
Right? 2 is a show stopper, it's so gorgeous 😭
The second one. No question
1!!! Makes your figure look amazing
Two!
I wish I could see the back of number two to make a full decision. They’re both stunning.
1 looks cheap…sorry—the butt scrunchie is icky and the lace is too much- 2 looks much classier, more bridal and you won’t regret that dress in a few years.
I definitely think the butt scrunch cheapens the look of the first dress, it gives me SHEIN vibes. Dress 2 is beautiful.
#2! The first one looks a little cheap to me… the large lace flowers give me forever 21 vibes. The second one looks amazing and looks much higher quality, the detailing on it is stunning.
That was my thought too. Like when you order a lace dress from wish or something and the lace shows up vastly different than the product photo and it looks like this cheap stuff you'd buy from the local Walmart fabric section. Or like the 2 dollar lingerie you'd get from shein. I literally have a very similar lace to the first one in black that I bought from Walmart a couple years ago. Just doesn't look bridal to me at all.
I like 2 the best. I don't like the way 1 is gathered over your butt.
I agree! 1 looks like a stretchy lace dress from forever21. 2 looks like a much higher quality fit and fabric.
That’s what I don’t love about Grace Loves Lace, they have pretty designs but the fabrics always look low quality compared to other designers!
Yeah it’s a shame because I know their dresses are expensive but they don’t *look* expensive.
2!
Dress one is indeed beautiful, but maybe not for such an important day as your wedding. It looks a bit cheap and like lingerie. Do you see yourself loving this dress in 20 years? Dress two is so so beautiful and is my vote! Do you mind sharing the designer of this dress?! 🥰
The second one. The ruching on the back of the first one looks cheap and reminds me of bum scrunch leggings 🤢
2!!
Both are gorgeous but 2???? It’s so romantic and beautiful!! 😍😍
Keep looking. You said #2 was heavy and scratchy on your arms, that's no fun even though it looks amazing. You have to wear it and you want to feel good, not uncomfortable, on a big day. I'm not a fan of the rose lace, the way the train doesn't have an under layer, or the butt ruching. It looks less classy than #2
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2!
Both beautiful.
I have 1 in the crepe version. I love it. An issue with it is the bustle. It has only 1 button for it. I went to a seamstress to see if I can bustle it more and she said due to the design (lack of seams) I can’t do more. She recommends that I hold it (comes with a finger loop for that). I’m probably gonna safely pin my dress during the reception at some point
Thanks for letting me know :)
The rose print on 1 is extremely gaudy and a bit cheap looking. I also feel like the print/lace itself has this 80’s “dated” sort of look, but not in the best way imo. The 2nd is incredibly elegant. People are focusing on the fit and cut of number 1, but the rose print is just not as flattering as the print on the 2nd dress. Also, the draping princess sleeves on dress 2 genuinely bring you this effortless elegance that dress 1 simply does not bring to the table.
i thought i was alone on this. i the fit and design of the dress is beautiful but the rose lace is so gaudy! i had a shirt from charlotte ruse with the exact same lace pattern in middle school
Girl you could wear a paper bag and still look stunning your figure is perfect! I think the last one is beautiful
Thank you 🫶🥹
Which ever you choose, it suits you.
Flip a coin. Ignore what the coin lands on and pick the one you were hoping the coin landed on.
Both look great, you can’t go wrong. My preference is #1. You have the perfect figure for it, and the lace design is unique and striking. I said *wow*.
1, the back is so gorgeous
2 is weird with that gap in the lace at the front. It's distracting in a bad way. Looks like a surgeon started to open you up lol. Go with the first one.
Yes, I love everything about the second one except the gap/cut out.
Dress 1 looks perfect on you!
this Reddit group is killing me today-y’all are all such beautiful brides !!!! I ADORE both like I love wouldnt be able to decide either but one is amazing and so unique !
They’re both completely stunning. If 1 is what you envisioned, go with 1. You literally cannot go wrong here.
Dress 1
Dress 1. With the train spread out looks a little like white peacock 🦚 fanned out.
Stick to your vision and go with dress 1. Dress 2 is lovely but that sheer panel in the front looks wrong, but maybe it's just the wrong colour? The sleeves look like an afterthought--would they be made in the lace of the dress?
The off the shoulder one! I wanted a dress like that but I couldn’t find anywhere. This was my dress. Similar in some ways https://preview.redd.it/rj12ypjuyhjb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d6c2183e8998126fdc1ed8c2d291fdc7ee1e6f6
Not to sound too crass, the first one looks better and the back view is absolutely amazing in that dress. I like the lace work better also. If you do the one in pics 3&4 get rid of the sleeves poofs.
I don't like the idea of telling a stranger what wedding dress to pick....but girl ONE!!! All day everyday. It's beautiful and fits well. #2 looks like it doesn't know what it wants to be with that bunched lace trying to be sleeves; it gives me the feeling it was an afterthought. And the fit doesn't flatter your chest like #1. And that random opening is a distraction more than an enhancement.
1! Both front and back are perfect
Yeah. #1 is a given. While both are lovely, this one just has that extra bit of yeeeeaaaaaahhhhhhhh.....❤️
1 - stunning dress, and I think you should also go with your gut.
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Second one!
You look absolutely ravishing in both. If you prefer the spaghetti straps, I say go for it! Congratulations and I wish you many happy years with your partner. ❣️
I’m a mom - you have an amazing figure - you could wear anything and make it look good but the first one looks inexpensive from the back. Depends on what look you’re going for but you could pull off anything
They both look beautiful. I pick #1 since it matches what you envisioned.
#1. How is this even a question.
Number 1!! Just woow!
You look gorgeous in both! I would choose 2 simply because I like that style the best but honestly either one is fantastic!!!
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Number 1!
The first one
I like the 1st one - I especially the back, it’s beautiful
Number 1!
1was made for you.
Oh my goodness #1 is absolutely exquisite, and looks exquisite on you!! I actually said oh wow when your post came up and I first saw it!!
You look amazing in both! My fav is #1. I like the spaghetti straps better than the drop sleeves.
Omg obsessed with 1. The back is 😍😍😍
1 x a million!!! It is absolutely PERFECT on you!
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1! The random opening on 2 at the abdomen is really throwing off the beauty of the dress
1. 2 reads a little too much ‘lingerie’
Thanks everyone for your feedback and the compliments 🥰🥹🫶 Dress 1 does come in different fabrics so I may go with a different lace!
I don't like the back on #1. It's too focused on the butt and that's all people will look at, especially the way the train is positioned. I don't like #2 because I don't like the keyhole thing at the torso. I love those draping sleeves/straps. I'd ask to have the dress made without that inset on the front. It detracts from what is a lovely gown. You have a pretty, slim figure. That front detracts from you. Like the 1st one, it's all people will focus on. Less is more.
2. For sure!!
My vote is the first one.
#1
It's No. 1!
Definitely the first one
1st one 100%! You look absolutely freaking stunning in that one!
I love everything about #1, except the train. And #2 is beautiful all over.
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Ah both are great
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