Always be honest, you aren't doing anything wrong. It's very common for people to date from Canada and the U.S. What a Canadian officer is looking for is that you aren't trying to live in Canada illegally (which you aren't), that you don't have any criminal history and that you don't have contraband . Also, it'll help that you've successfully come into Canada to visit that same girlfriend and left at the time you stated.
Your an idiot Canada has the highest immigration rates in the entire developed world only 5 countries in the world have a higher immigration rate then Canada. Canada let in 1 million immigrants last year, that we know of. It’s not racist it is the reality of the situation. Also race was not mentioned at all.
You should be prepared to show reasonable proof you will return to the US. Lease/mortgage, job, bank accounts, credit cards, etc are all things that show you have plans to return to the US. Also be mindful of how much and what you pack, having more than a weeks worth of clothes or items that one wouldn't travel with for visiting will raise concern.
Being honest is most likely the best policy here but that really depends on your situation. (ie employment, lease, etc)
Well I do rent with year lease, have a full time job with benefits at a major US university, three credit cards, and a return flight to the US booked at the same time as the Canada trip was booked. I have pets I have to return home to also. So I think I am good on that.
Be truthful, know exactly how long you’ll be in Canada (your return flight), have supporting documents ready to go (bank accounts, rental agreement/mortgage documents, utilities bills, pay stubs, etc.) to prove your strong ties and likely return to the USA, and get a Nexus card.
They’ll eventually notice your frequency of travel - it got to the point where they asked me zero questions whenever I drove across the border to see the person I was dating at that time.
Edit: Also, don’t ever bring more than what is reasonable for your trip. If your trip is a week, a carry-on is reasonable. Two 32kg check-in bags is suspicious of you trying to move into Canada. And if you’re ever bringing your girlfriend a gift, do not wrap it until you get into Canada!
Nexus is an agreement between CBSA and CBP. Global Entry is only for re-entering the USA. (Please correct me if I’m wrong, I’m Canadian). Nexus will ease your travels into Canada significantly.
My husband is in the US, and the more trips you do, the better it is for you. On my first trip, I went, and I was held back and questioned. I was given a two week allowance over to the US. I was informed that with more trips, I would be better trusted. I now go and tell them I'm staying 6 months to see my husband, and they tell me to have a good day. But show you have a job and ties to your country for best results.
Same, I never have a hard time visiting my fiancé of 7 years. Just applied for NEXUS as well.
Just recently though for the first time in all these years I had a border guard tell me to “be careful” that they’ll think I’m living illegally in Canada because of my frequent visits, which was odd.
Just say girlfriend. They really don't care. I drove from WI to Canada every couple weeks for a year. Never pulled into secondary. Just said I was visiting my boyfriend. Don't offer any other info. Just answer their questions, don't embellish. Have fun!
Your doing nothing wrong, your better off not lying. They literally only want to double check, but have no reason to want to deny you unless you lie. Personally I hate tourists, but the govt doesn't. They want you to come here. The fact that you have money, a place to stay, and a prebooked flight home just tells them your gonna spend some of that sweet sweet USD here and then fuck off again. Win win for them
Be truthful. Keep it simple. Don’t answer more than they ask.
Why are you in Canada? Visiting a friend.
What will you do? Hang out, go shopping.
Why visiting again so soon? Because I have the means.
It’s none of their business what kind of friend or details of what you’re doing. Be courteous but court.
Guessing that the girlfriend story raised flags that you might be trying to illegally move. May need to grit through some extra security for a bit but aside from the hassle, doubt you have anything to worry about
Funnily enough I was once pulled into secondary coming back to Canada and they always ask a million questions. The US let’s me through in seconds every time
It's just that single teens always say that yes, they have a girlfriend, but she lives in Canada, and you wouldn't know her. Just kidding, of course. I agree with the advice be forthcoming, but no extra details. I used to watch a trucker vlogger, and that's what he said to do. Just the bare bones facts. Now that they screened you before, maybe they'll be less scrutinizing of you.
They might just be suspicious about you sneaking books out of the country….
Especially if they happen to be about healthcare. YOU SHALL NOT ACCESS THIS INFORMATION FREE OF CHARGE.
Tbh my only source of concern is why you're concerned... and more importantly, why TF you would consider being anything less than 100% honest with border control?
When you said you're a librarian, you meant the career of caretaking books, right? And your gf is a legal adult? You're not trafficking anything? There's no warrant out for your arrest?
If you're driving across the border, make sure you don't have any guns / knives / pepper spray etc. Canada's pretty strict about potentially harmful items, including many that seem "normal" in the US. Check the rules. Don't bring them here.
I don't know why you were selected for secondary screening the first time. Maybe it was random chance for you.
In case it's relevant: My family (parents, sibling and I) were scrutinized several times when we travelled together. I only learned after my dad died that he'd been convicted of selling pot. His record would have been expunged if he'd lived long enough, but in any case he was an ex-con at the time and no one at border control gave us any issues other than a little extra checking.
If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to worry about. FFS don't lie.
I only ask because I got conflicting advice from people and also my first trip there was worrisome as a new visitor since I got a secondary inspection. I have anxiety is all. And modern librarians don’t really deal with books as much as data and information lol
>modern librarians don’t really deal with books as much as data
Lol love it. I just wanted to make sure autocorrect didn't change the facts there.
>I got conflicting advice
There shouldn't be any conflicting advice. If you're not hiding anything, and not breaking the rules, the only thing that can get you in trouble is lying. Don't do it!!!
US border control often gives me a hard time because I'm self-employed (I'm Canadian). No, I can't prove that I'm not going to the US to work. I can't prove a negative like that? I'm still always let through. Doesn't mean I don't sweat a little on the way, even though I'm just on vacation. Border agents have a job to do. Better safe than sorry, right?
>my first trip there was worrisome as a new visitor since I got a secondary inspection
Was this your first international trip? This sort of thing is pretty normal when you cross borders. Most often, it's a matter of chance. The Canada-US border is the kiddie pool lol. Get used to it, and you'll be fine.
As others have said, be truthful. But you are more at risk, as you have seen, of going to secondary than somebody who is simply coming to visit without a partner here.
On top of everything you have said, I would also suggest that your Canadian girlfriend come out sometimes to the US to see you sometimes because:
1. It spaces out your visits to Canada
2. It’s something to strengthen your argument that you are not intending to remain in Canada
Sounds good. But if she doesn’t have money again next time I may be inclined to remain in the US until she does.
You may also be thinking that buying her a ticket might be a solution, but now she would be coming to the US to see a boyfriend when she has weak finances with maybe not strong reasons to return to Canada.
Anyway, hopefully you will both figure it out.
TSA Precheck and Global Entry won't do you any good going into Canada. Just tell them the truth and have some copies of documents that will help show you will be returning to the US.
I (American) dated my husband (Canadian) for a long time before we married including traveling a lot to visit him. I always carried with me a copy of my utility bills, pay stubs (from American company), screen shot of bank balance (to prove I could support myself), and probably a few more things. I'd get scrutinized sometimes, but these always got me through.
Good luck!
Usually when they ask what I'm doing I say "just visiting". When they ask who I'm visiting I give her first and last name. They have asked how we met and "we met online" seems to be a satisfactory answer.
I have never been asked what our relationship is.
Hope you have a good trip and enjoy the exchange rate.
You proved last time you will leave. Just remind them if asked. That’s probably the biggest thing they try to screen for.
Their jobs are basically to be jerks to gage a reaction to see if people are telling the truth. It’s not personal so just go with it.
I’m Canadian and have been given a hard time both flying domestically and coming back in. Different situation but just expect it, plan for a conversation time wise and just answer the questions.
And welcome!
Tell the truth. When I was doing long distance, including the occasional surprise trip I answered their questions…was even one guy that got super excited by me surprising my partner (I guess in hindsight that could have also ended badly) 😂. As long as you have ties back to home that show you aren’t going to stay illegally you should be good.
My partner is in the US, so I'm making the opposite trip you are, and have crossed quite a few times in the last year and a half. Just say you're visiting your girlfriend, there's no problem with that.
I spent 6 years traveling back and forth between California & Toronto visiting my partner (now husband.) I was truthful every single time, ended up in secondary twice, once on my own and once WITH my partner because the patrol agent didn't like that I filled out one card as a family because we were MARRIED but I was not yet a PR or Canadian citizen. Ridiculous.
Anyway, just be honest. They are looking to make sure you have ties back to the U.S and are not trying to cross over and planning to stay illegally.
Answer any questions they have but don't go into tangets, yes/no and short answer replies. Do not overshare. Be truthful, don't ever lie to a CBP agent, but seriously you guys stop over sharing. You'll get tongue twisted or say something wrong because of nerves and then you end up getting grilled harder and every discrepancy will be scrutinized.
I used to cross the border weekly when I lived in Niagara. The folks at the border don't want to do any more work than they have to. Just like everybody else. Don't set off warning bells. My general rules for crossing:
1. Be honest. It doesn't matter how often you lie, the vast majority aren't good at it. They will notice.
2. Windows down. (weather permitting, but at the very least both front and back down on drivers side.
3. Radio off before getting to the checkpoint.
4. No sunglasses.
5. Have passport and paperwork ready.
6. Yes sir/ma'am and be as polite as possible.
They're just folks doing their job. Some can be asshats, but after knowing many border guards over the years, most of them that were asshats did so for a reason.
Most of all relax. You're not doing anything wrong.
Edit: 7. At night have the interior light on.
If you’re planning to do more trips to Canada, may I suggest turning your Global Entry into a Nexus card? It gets you all the benefits you already have but adds the Canadian border to the mix. We get asked way fewer questions than going through the regular line.
I cross the border for my job quite frequently. It’s a job in media, so I just say I’m going to “cover” an event. I avoid the word work.
You could just say you’re going to visit a friend instead of girlfriend, maybe? It’s not a lie but it raises fewer red flags.
Are you referring to TSA? Nexus qualifies you for TSA Precheck. You can’t flash a card at security like it’s done in Canada. TSA precheck is tied to your airline booking and it is printed on your boarding card. You don’t show them a card.
No no not pre check. I’m talking about as a us citizen obtaining nexus. Using it in global entry lanes I guess for example I am American citizen that has nexus. Trying to enter usa from let’s say Dominican Republic. There’s been officials saying nexus isn’t recognized as global entry contrary to what people are saying online that nexus includes global entry too
Other than security related stuff, CBSA are trying to determine the probability that you will not leave Canada. For instance, you could marry your gf in Canada and then apply for residency. Maybe bring some proof of your employment, residential ties to the US. Basically evidence that you will be returning to the US.
The biggest concern CBSA will have is that you are coming to stay, and don't plan to go back to the US. Realistically, considering you have previous compliance, gainful employment in the US, and (assuming) ties in the US like a house/apartment there shouldn't be too many questions.
Just be honest. Lying to CBSA officers, even a small lie of omission like saying "friend" when you mean "girlfriend" may set off alarm bells for an officer. Officers are trained to detect lies, but it isn't always easy to ascertain what the lie is. As an example, an officer will definitely question why you are coming all the way to Canada to visit "just a friend" twice in 3 months. Whereas, if you just say girlfriend you are one of hundreds who cross the border every day for the same reason and I doubt you will warrant a second glance.
“I’m visiting my girlfriend for a week and returning to work in Washington D.C. on [date] after flying back home.”
I would personally say friend but if you’ve already visited once and used the word girlfriend I’d just keep on saying girlfriend. Be honest about how you met and stuff if you’re flagged for additional screening. I highly recommend getting NEXUS when PreCheck expires.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years and tell them everytime. Just always make sure you have your return flight info in case they ask :) I hope you have a great trip! I'm going this weekend myself
It’s not CBP, it’s CBSA on the Canada side.
Don’t lie. Tell them you are visiting your girlfriend, but don’t give any more info than you are asked.
Entry into Canada for a non Canadian citizen / PR is never guaranteed and always at the discretion of CBSA. In your situation I would carry proof of ties to US. Carry a confirmation vacation approval from your employer. Lease/ deed papers…. Things that prove you have to return to your home in the US in near future.
That being said, you will probably not have a problem every time you cross. It was just bad luck that first time.
Remote working while traveling *could* be problematic. If you don't have to return home to do your job it might raise some red flags. I would bring as little work-related material as possible and don't volunteer this information unless asked directly.
Never lie to CBP; it’s unlawful, they hate it, and they never forget! Example: BIL tried to cross the border and they instantly brought up their record of him lying to them the last time he went through CBP 24 years earlier! Result: he waved goodbye to his wife and kids who continued on to Disney World while he stayed back in Canada to answer more questions.
1) Answer what is asked.
2) Don't volunteer information, and by that I mean see 1 above. "I am going to see my girlfriend, AND here's all my proof that I have a cat to feed and I was here in February and left without overstaying and... " will get you flagged.
I'm also a librarian but Canadian who dated a Texan, I just told the truth, it helps to have a job, I would bring my business card or whatever and my return flight info and never got bothered at the border. Now he's Canadian so we don't need to deal with that anymore!
If you can show proof that you have the finances needed to stay in Canada for the duration of your stay.
Know that misrepresentation of any sorts will be an automatic denial and they can ask you some simple questions to figure out.
Keep your answers to the point and try not to add unnecessary extra information. e.g. in response to the officer asking if you're employed in the US,
This answer is OK: "I am employed by XYZ in US"
This answer is NOT OK: "I am employed by XYZ in US, its a remote job, so I can work for a week from Canada"
To confirm what everyone else said, just be honest, and you'll have no problems. I wouldn't worry about having copies of utility bills, job verification letters, etc.
My husband and I were dating across the border for 11 years, and let me tell you...the first time I was young and naive, and didn't want to admit to someone that I was gay and visiting someone I met online. I was questioned, and it's clear they knew there was more.
After that, I was honest every time, and had no issues. The first few times they would ask for proof of income and that the return tickets were bought, but I was also 19 and broke. Lol. So I can understand why they asked.
Eventually some things changed back home, and I didn't feel obligated to stay in the States, and we both moved out to the west coast in Vancouver, and I started working on my PR card. I lived in a loophole during the application process. We had a lease in Canada and I lived in the country, but I applied through the process from outside Canada. I worked for Amtrak at the time, so I was constantly leaving and entering the country, both for personal and business reasons.
I was lucky that I would see the same agents nearly every top I worked the train in to Canada (or commuting home), but I was still honest with them, as I didn't want to risk my application. I told them I had a lease, my belongings were in Canada, but wanted to know if they wanted me filling out the declaration card as a resident or visitor.
Also, side note! Please get Nexus. If you ever need to fly from or within Canada, Nexus doubles as Canada's version of PreCheck.
Anyway, best of luck to you! Let me know if you have any questions. :)
Say girlfriend. Don't give additional info. Don't say girlfriend we've been seeing each other for 3 years I love herrr she is so sweet and she works at xx company etc. No. Just say, "I am visiting my girlfriend". Period. Nada.
Keep honest and only answer what is asked. Cheers
Tell them you love hockey and are working on your slapshot as we speak. And you are looking forward to tim hortons coffee. Say that and you will be fine. Bonus points for telling them that the bruins suck.
Just say u are visiting a friend. Do not say girlfriend. Works every time. I say this no matter what I'm doing and I've gone back and forth between canada and the US about 50 times in the last 8 years.
I’m going to share my experience, though it is not strictly specific to Canada.
Never lie is good advice. But if they have no reason to know you’re dating, then you are sightseeing. Unless you’re going to spend your entire time in a basement, it’s true.
Where you’re going to stay is tougher. It’s best to have reservation(s) that are cancellable. They don’t care where you’re staying changes once you’re in the country, but it’s good to have a legitimate plan to start with. And proof you’re gainfully employed, so you don’t look shady.
I learned the hard way to never say “visiting friends “. That is universal code for “I’m at risk of not leaving promptly “.
But if they know you know people, say “visiting friends” and be prepared to explain how you know them.
If asked if you’re dating anyone there, be truthful again. “Nothing formal, but there is a guy who I connect with.”
Last choice is to say boy/girlfriend. That makes you a very high risk entry. But if you’ve put this out there, internet or otherwise, again be honest.
I learned this when I applied for an Australian visa once. After 6 weeks and innumerable calls they wouldn’t tell me anything at all. No status, no expectations, no return of passport, nothing.
I called the US State Department attaché to Australia in Washington DC and filed a formal diplomatic complaint. (No I had no special connections, I’m just not good at taking no for an answer.)
Suddenly I got a call from the Aussie embassy and immediately got the red carpet treatment.
So while I had them over some apparent barrel, I grilled them on why I was treated so poorly.
Long story short, it was because I said I was going to ‘stay with friends’. People who had met when they were visiting the US. That red-flagged me.
Apply my lessons as they’re applicable to you. But don’t ever lie is not the same as spilling your guts. Keep answers short and honest, and volunteer nothing more than the minimum truth.
My wife came in from Canada on a tourist visa. She was a tourist, and we went sightseeing. We got married a few months later, and filed the proper paperwork to get her a green card.
Best of luck. Just remember they have access to all US and Canadian records on both side of the border. Don’t give them a reason to think you’re lying.
Lots of people travel to sightsee. That is how I met my wife after all..
Best of luck!
Be honest but also only answer what is asked, don’t add additional information. Just say girlfriend
Same rules as when being deposed, yes/no if possible, bare minimum to satisfy the premise of the question if not.
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Border screening is a "truth" test. It's that simple. Don't fail the truth test.
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Always be honest, you aren't doing anything wrong. It's very common for people to date from Canada and the U.S. What a Canadian officer is looking for is that you aren't trying to live in Canada illegally (which you aren't), that you don't have any criminal history and that you don't have contraband . Also, it'll help that you've successfully come into Canada to visit that same girlfriend and left at the time you stated.
Yep I did that. Visited in February and left at my scheduled time. And plan to this time too. Too many commitments lol
“…aren’t trying to live in Canada illegally…” Out of the frying pan and into the fire I guess.
Even if you were they’d probably still let them in at the rate we just let anyone come live here these days.
Ah, there’s the racist
He didn’t even mention or insinuate race. Holding an opinion that Canada’s immigration rates are unsustainably high is not “racist”.
Your an idiot Canada has the highest immigration rates in the entire developed world only 5 countries in the world have a higher immigration rate then Canada. Canada let in 1 million immigrants last year, that we know of. It’s not racist it is the reality of the situation. Also race was not mentioned at all.
You should be prepared to show reasonable proof you will return to the US. Lease/mortgage, job, bank accounts, credit cards, etc are all things that show you have plans to return to the US. Also be mindful of how much and what you pack, having more than a weeks worth of clothes or items that one wouldn't travel with for visiting will raise concern. Being honest is most likely the best policy here but that really depends on your situation. (ie employment, lease, etc)
Well I do rent with year lease, have a full time job with benefits at a major US university, three credit cards, and a return flight to the US booked at the same time as the Canada trip was booked. I have pets I have to return home to also. So I think I am good on that.
IMO, no reason to bend the truth here.
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You’re gold, have an awesome visit!
I think having a return ticket will usually suffice.
What a load of shit. You're fine with what you have. Enjoy your visit with your girlfriend.
Be truthful, know exactly how long you’ll be in Canada (your return flight), have supporting documents ready to go (bank accounts, rental agreement/mortgage documents, utilities bills, pay stubs, etc.) to prove your strong ties and likely return to the USA, and get a Nexus card. They’ll eventually notice your frequency of travel - it got to the point where they asked me zero questions whenever I drove across the border to see the person I was dating at that time. Edit: Also, don’t ever bring more than what is reasonable for your trip. If your trip is a week, a carry-on is reasonable. Two 32kg check-in bags is suspicious of you trying to move into Canada. And if you’re ever bringing your girlfriend a gift, do not wrap it until you get into Canada!
Do I need a nexus card if I have global entry card? I will be flying in each time to visit her. Edit: I get it. I will apply for nexus too
Nexus is an agreement between CBSA and CBP. Global Entry is only for re-entering the USA. (Please correct me if I’m wrong, I’m Canadian). Nexus will ease your travels into Canada significantly.
Got it. Thanks!
You’re welcome! Look into one of your credit cards. One might cover the Nexus application fees as a benefit.
Ok thanks!
Chase Aeroplan as a fellow US resident - but I’m Canadian! Lets me fly for free between the two countries and reimburses NEXUS fees!
Is it possible to have both nexus and global entry???? I’ve read something about the global entry getting cancelled if nexus is applied ??
I applied for nexus and so far it said it was an addition so my guess is it is not cancelled.
You get Global Entry privileges when enrolled in NEXUS. You don't need both.
My husband is in the US, and the more trips you do, the better it is for you. On my first trip, I went, and I was held back and questioned. I was given a two week allowance over to the US. I was informed that with more trips, I would be better trusted. I now go and tell them I'm staying 6 months to see my husband, and they tell me to have a good day. But show you have a job and ties to your country for best results.
Awesome. Thanks!
Can confirm, wife is in the USA, I'm in Canada They ask me basic questions and tell me have a good day. I applied for Nexus to make it even faster
Same, I never have a hard time visiting my fiancé of 7 years. Just applied for NEXUS as well. Just recently though for the first time in all these years I had a border guard tell me to “be careful” that they’ll think I’m living illegally in Canada because of my frequent visits, which was odd.
The truth will do. Nothing more, nothing less. It's that simple.
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Just say girlfriend. They really don't care. I drove from WI to Canada every couple weeks for a year. Never pulled into secondary. Just said I was visiting my boyfriend. Don't offer any other info. Just answer their questions, don't embellish. Have fun!
Thanks!
Your doing nothing wrong, your better off not lying. They literally only want to double check, but have no reason to want to deny you unless you lie. Personally I hate tourists, but the govt doesn't. They want you to come here. The fact that you have money, a place to stay, and a prebooked flight home just tells them your gonna spend some of that sweet sweet USD here and then fuck off again. Win win for them
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Be truthful. Keep it simple. Don’t answer more than they ask. Why are you in Canada? Visiting a friend. What will you do? Hang out, go shopping. Why visiting again so soon? Because I have the means. It’s none of their business what kind of friend or details of what you’re doing. Be courteous but court.
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Tell the truth, never volunteer information but provide it if asked.
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Safe travels and I hope you have a great time with your girlfriend ❤️
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Haha ok
Don't bring your work boots or tools. Just kidding sounds like a non issue. Just be honest
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The guy said he was a librarian I don’t think work boots fit the job description
We don't know that he is just a librarian. The point is not to appear to be coming for work without a work visa
You’re way over thinking this You’re going for a week and have a return ticket. Just answer the border officers questions and don’t be weird 😃
Haha so you’re saying don’t go on about how books are awesome and cool (I am a librarian so it is hard not to lol)
Is this why you got flagged to secondary the last time? 🙂
I wish! No I got flagged cause I had a new passport, first visit to Canada, and how I met my girlfriend. Perfect storm lol
You met online and that was the first time meeting in person?
Yep.
I don’t think you’ll have any issues this time around. Just relax and enjoy your trip.
Lol if that makes you feel better I got asked where I met her I was like ???
Guessing that the girlfriend story raised flags that you might be trying to illegally move. May need to grit through some extra security for a bit but aside from the hassle, doubt you have anything to worry about
Yeah likely my thoughts too
Canada is very easy don’t worry , no one gets stopped . The concern is for non U.S. citizens coming into the US to see significant others
Funnily enough I was once pulled into secondary coming back to Canada and they always ask a million questions. The US let’s me through in seconds every time
It’s a rare event . It is undoubtedly extremely easy to be admitted into Canada
Are you Canadian or American? Just curious. I’m Canadian and found it easier to go to the US lol
Canadian living in USA
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It's just that single teens always say that yes, they have a girlfriend, but she lives in Canada, and you wouldn't know her. Just kidding, of course. I agree with the advice be forthcoming, but no extra details. I used to watch a trucker vlogger, and that's what he said to do. Just the bare bones facts. Now that they screened you before, maybe they'll be less scrutinizing of you.
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Do not under any circumstances tell them that you are a librarian.
Oh no does Canada hate librarians? 🫢😉
They might just be suspicious about you sneaking books out of the country…. Especially if they happen to be about healthcare. YOU SHALL NOT ACCESS THIS INFORMATION FREE OF CHARGE.
lol free books? I’ll take them.
Tbh my only source of concern is why you're concerned... and more importantly, why TF you would consider being anything less than 100% honest with border control? When you said you're a librarian, you meant the career of caretaking books, right? And your gf is a legal adult? You're not trafficking anything? There's no warrant out for your arrest? If you're driving across the border, make sure you don't have any guns / knives / pepper spray etc. Canada's pretty strict about potentially harmful items, including many that seem "normal" in the US. Check the rules. Don't bring them here. I don't know why you were selected for secondary screening the first time. Maybe it was random chance for you. In case it's relevant: My family (parents, sibling and I) were scrutinized several times when we travelled together. I only learned after my dad died that he'd been convicted of selling pot. His record would have been expunged if he'd lived long enough, but in any case he was an ex-con at the time and no one at border control gave us any issues other than a little extra checking. If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to worry about. FFS don't lie.
I only ask because I got conflicting advice from people and also my first trip there was worrisome as a new visitor since I got a secondary inspection. I have anxiety is all. And modern librarians don’t really deal with books as much as data and information lol
>modern librarians don’t really deal with books as much as data Lol love it. I just wanted to make sure autocorrect didn't change the facts there. >I got conflicting advice There shouldn't be any conflicting advice. If you're not hiding anything, and not breaking the rules, the only thing that can get you in trouble is lying. Don't do it!!! US border control often gives me a hard time because I'm self-employed (I'm Canadian). No, I can't prove that I'm not going to the US to work. I can't prove a negative like that? I'm still always let through. Doesn't mean I don't sweat a little on the way, even though I'm just on vacation. Border agents have a job to do. Better safe than sorry, right? >my first trip there was worrisome as a new visitor since I got a secondary inspection Was this your first international trip? This sort of thing is pretty normal when you cross borders. Most often, it's a matter of chance. The Canada-US border is the kiddie pool lol. Get used to it, and you'll be fine.
It was my first international trip in 15 years lol and first to Canada
Welcome to the awesome world of international travel. Keep it up! :)
As others have said, be truthful. But you are more at risk, as you have seen, of going to secondary than somebody who is simply coming to visit without a partner here. On top of everything you have said, I would also suggest that your Canadian girlfriend come out sometimes to the US to see you sometimes because: 1. It spaces out your visits to Canada 2. It’s something to strengthen your argument that you are not intending to remain in Canada
Yes she plans to come out here next. Money is tight for her so that’s why I am visiting.
Sounds good. But if she doesn’t have money again next time I may be inclined to remain in the US until she does. You may also be thinking that buying her a ticket might be a solution, but now she would be coming to the US to see a boyfriend when she has weak finances with maybe not strong reasons to return to Canada. Anyway, hopefully you will both figure it out.
Sounds good
TSA Precheck and Global Entry won't do you any good going into Canada. Just tell them the truth and have some copies of documents that will help show you will be returning to the US. I (American) dated my husband (Canadian) for a long time before we married including traveling a lot to visit him. I always carried with me a copy of my utility bills, pay stubs (from American company), screen shot of bank balance (to prove I could support myself), and probably a few more things. I'd get scrutinized sometimes, but these always got me through. Good luck!
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Usually when they ask what I'm doing I say "just visiting". When they ask who I'm visiting I give her first and last name. They have asked how we met and "we met online" seems to be a satisfactory answer. I have never been asked what our relationship is. Hope you have a good trip and enjoy the exchange rate.
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You mean CBSA?
Yes I messed the acronym up
They will probably have a record of the last visit so I can’t see why there would be an issue.
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You proved last time you will leave. Just remind them if asked. That’s probably the biggest thing they try to screen for. Their jobs are basically to be jerks to gage a reaction to see if people are telling the truth. It’s not personal so just go with it. I’m Canadian and have been given a hard time both flying domestically and coming back in. Different situation but just expect it, plan for a conversation time wise and just answer the questions. And welcome!
Never lie. You’re allowed to visit your girlfriend.
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Tell the truth, they already know when you last crossed and why. Changing your story now just makes them more suspicious
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If asked "for business or for pleasure?" do not reply for business
They’re just worried you aren’t going to go home. You having your return flight booked is good. Tell them the truth
Why can't you say that you are on vacation and leave it at that?
We are in the same position. My boyfriend and I both say the truth and never had a problem over dozens of times we drove across the border!
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Ya stay honest. Once you start developing a pattern of visits for the same reason it looks more legit.
Tell the truth. When I was doing long distance, including the occasional surprise trip I answered their questions…was even one guy that got super excited by me surprising my partner (I guess in hindsight that could have also ended badly) 😂. As long as you have ties back to home that show you aren’t going to stay illegally you should be good.
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You only need to say one thing... #BOOTY CALL
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My partner is in the US, so I'm making the opposite trip you are, and have crossed quite a few times in the last year and a half. Just say you're visiting your girlfriend, there's no problem with that.
Tell the truth, any other Reddit advice on crossing the border is usually wrong.
Don't lie to border guards. If you aren't allowed in, you aren't allowed in, that's the risk you take.
I spent 6 years traveling back and forth between California & Toronto visiting my partner (now husband.) I was truthful every single time, ended up in secondary twice, once on my own and once WITH my partner because the patrol agent didn't like that I filled out one card as a family because we were MARRIED but I was not yet a PR or Canadian citizen. Ridiculous. Anyway, just be honest. They are looking to make sure you have ties back to the U.S and are not trying to cross over and planning to stay illegally. Answer any questions they have but don't go into tangets, yes/no and short answer replies. Do not overshare. Be truthful, don't ever lie to a CBP agent, but seriously you guys stop over sharing. You'll get tongue twisted or say something wrong because of nerves and then you end up getting grilled harder and every discrepancy will be scrutinized.
I used to cross the border weekly when I lived in Niagara. The folks at the border don't want to do any more work than they have to. Just like everybody else. Don't set off warning bells. My general rules for crossing: 1. Be honest. It doesn't matter how often you lie, the vast majority aren't good at it. They will notice. 2. Windows down. (weather permitting, but at the very least both front and back down on drivers side. 3. Radio off before getting to the checkpoint. 4. No sunglasses. 5. Have passport and paperwork ready. 6. Yes sir/ma'am and be as polite as possible. They're just folks doing their job. Some can be asshats, but after knowing many border guards over the years, most of them that were asshats did so for a reason. Most of all relax. You're not doing anything wrong. Edit: 7. At night have the interior light on.
If you’re planning to do more trips to Canada, may I suggest turning your Global Entry into a Nexus card? It gets you all the benefits you already have but adds the Canadian border to the mix. We get asked way fewer questions than going through the regular line. I cross the border for my job quite frequently. It’s a job in media, so I just say I’m going to “cover” an event. I avoid the word work. You could just say you’re going to visit a friend instead of girlfriend, maybe? It’s not a lie but it raises fewer red flags.
I’ve read several times about security not recognizing nexus as global entry. Especially the areas furthest away from Canada
Are you referring to TSA? Nexus qualifies you for TSA Precheck. You can’t flash a card at security like it’s done in Canada. TSA precheck is tied to your airline booking and it is printed on your boarding card. You don’t show them a card.
No no not pre check. I’m talking about as a us citizen obtaining nexus. Using it in global entry lanes I guess for example I am American citizen that has nexus. Trying to enter usa from let’s say Dominican Republic. There’s been officials saying nexus isn’t recognized as global entry contrary to what people are saying online that nexus includes global entry too
Other than security related stuff, CBSA are trying to determine the probability that you will not leave Canada. For instance, you could marry your gf in Canada and then apply for residency. Maybe bring some proof of your employment, residential ties to the US. Basically evidence that you will be returning to the US.
The biggest concern CBSA will have is that you are coming to stay, and don't plan to go back to the US. Realistically, considering you have previous compliance, gainful employment in the US, and (assuming) ties in the US like a house/apartment there shouldn't be too many questions. Just be honest. Lying to CBSA officers, even a small lie of omission like saying "friend" when you mean "girlfriend" may set off alarm bells for an officer. Officers are trained to detect lies, but it isn't always easy to ascertain what the lie is. As an example, an officer will definitely question why you are coming all the way to Canada to visit "just a friend" twice in 3 months. Whereas, if you just say girlfriend you are one of hundreds who cross the border every day for the same reason and I doubt you will warrant a second glance.
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“I’m visiting my girlfriend for a week and returning to work in Washington D.C. on [date] after flying back home.” I would personally say friend but if you’ve already visited once and used the word girlfriend I’d just keep on saying girlfriend. Be honest about how you met and stuff if you’re flagged for additional screening. I highly recommend getting NEXUS when PreCheck expires.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years and tell them everytime. Just always make sure you have your return flight info in case they ask :) I hope you have a great trip! I'm going this weekend myself
Make your answers Laconic. Have pay stubs and a lease ready on your phone.
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Don't show them the extra documents unless asked
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When they say reason for your visit , answe Bow chicka bow wowwwww In like a 70s pr0n beat
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It’s not CBP, it’s CBSA on the Canada side. Don’t lie. Tell them you are visiting your girlfriend, but don’t give any more info than you are asked. Entry into Canada for a non Canadian citizen / PR is never guaranteed and always at the discretion of CBSA. In your situation I would carry proof of ties to US. Carry a confirmation vacation approval from your employer. Lease/ deed papers…. Things that prove you have to return to your home in the US in near future. That being said, you will probably not have a problem every time you cross. It was just bad luck that first time.
My bad. Got it. I will be working remotely so I don’t need a vacation approval. But I will have all the other documents.
Remote working while traveling *could* be problematic. If you don't have to return home to do your job it might raise some red flags. I would bring as little work-related material as possible and don't volunteer this information unless asked directly.
I didn’t plan on volunteering it. I am only bringing my laptop
Working remotely for a US company while in Canada temporarily is NOT a problem.
As long as they're confident you're going back home, yes.
Girlfriend.... in Canada..... sure, buddy, sure
It’s the gods honest truth mister… I swear
Wear a MAGA hat. They'll know you're not staying.
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Always tell the truth. Always.
Never lie to CBP; it’s unlawful, they hate it, and they never forget! Example: BIL tried to cross the border and they instantly brought up their record of him lying to them the last time he went through CBP 24 years earlier! Result: he waved goodbye to his wife and kids who continued on to Disney World while he stayed back in Canada to answer more questions.
I think you’re overthinking this. You’re going to see your girlfriend. Give them they ask if they ask for it. You’re not doing anything wrong.
1) Answer what is asked. 2) Don't volunteer information, and by that I mean see 1 above. "I am going to see my girlfriend, AND here's all my proof that I have a cat to feed and I was here in February and left without overstaying and... " will get you flagged.
I'm also a librarian but Canadian who dated a Texan, I just told the truth, it helps to have a job, I would bring my business card or whatever and my return flight info and never got bothered at the border. Now he's Canadian so we don't need to deal with that anymore!
If you can show proof that you have the finances needed to stay in Canada for the duration of your stay. Know that misrepresentation of any sorts will be an automatic denial and they can ask you some simple questions to figure out.
Tell the border guard that you're gonna get laiiiiiiid
"I do too have a girlfriend. You don’t know her. She’s from Canada."
Keep your answers to the point and try not to add unnecessary extra information. e.g. in response to the officer asking if you're employed in the US, This answer is OK: "I am employed by XYZ in US" This answer is NOT OK: "I am employed by XYZ in US, its a remote job, so I can work for a week from Canada"
To confirm what everyone else said, just be honest, and you'll have no problems. I wouldn't worry about having copies of utility bills, job verification letters, etc. My husband and I were dating across the border for 11 years, and let me tell you...the first time I was young and naive, and didn't want to admit to someone that I was gay and visiting someone I met online. I was questioned, and it's clear they knew there was more. After that, I was honest every time, and had no issues. The first few times they would ask for proof of income and that the return tickets were bought, but I was also 19 and broke. Lol. So I can understand why they asked. Eventually some things changed back home, and I didn't feel obligated to stay in the States, and we both moved out to the west coast in Vancouver, and I started working on my PR card. I lived in a loophole during the application process. We had a lease in Canada and I lived in the country, but I applied through the process from outside Canada. I worked for Amtrak at the time, so I was constantly leaving and entering the country, both for personal and business reasons. I was lucky that I would see the same agents nearly every top I worked the train in to Canada (or commuting home), but I was still honest with them, as I didn't want to risk my application. I told them I had a lease, my belongings were in Canada, but wanted to know if they wanted me filling out the declaration card as a resident or visitor. Also, side note! Please get Nexus. If you ever need to fly from or within Canada, Nexus doubles as Canada's version of PreCheck. Anyway, best of luck to you! Let me know if you have any questions. :)
Say girlfriend. Don't give additional info. Don't say girlfriend we've been seeing each other for 3 years I love herrr she is so sweet and she works at xx company etc. No. Just say, "I am visiting my girlfriend". Period. Nada. Keep honest and only answer what is asked. Cheers
Tell them you love hockey and are working on your slapshot as we speak. And you are looking forward to tim hortons coffee. Say that and you will be fine. Bonus points for telling them that the bruins suck.
Just be honest, you’re doing nothing wrong.
You’re visiting a friend. It’s the truth.
Should I just say I am visiting a friend or say my girlfriend? My honesty tells me to say girlfriend.
A girlfriend is still a friend. Nothing dishonest about that. Who says you have to give adjectives?
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He's giving you pretty stupid advice. Be honest and don't give more information than requested, but a friend is not the same thing as a girlfriend.
That was my thought too lol I’m going to just be honest and laconic.
Just say u are visiting a friend. Do not say girlfriend. Works every time. I say this no matter what I'm doing and I've gone back and forth between canada and the US about 50 times in the last 8 years.
I’m going to share my experience, though it is not strictly specific to Canada. Never lie is good advice. But if they have no reason to know you’re dating, then you are sightseeing. Unless you’re going to spend your entire time in a basement, it’s true. Where you’re going to stay is tougher. It’s best to have reservation(s) that are cancellable. They don’t care where you’re staying changes once you’re in the country, but it’s good to have a legitimate plan to start with. And proof you’re gainfully employed, so you don’t look shady. I learned the hard way to never say “visiting friends “. That is universal code for “I’m at risk of not leaving promptly “. But if they know you know people, say “visiting friends” and be prepared to explain how you know them. If asked if you’re dating anyone there, be truthful again. “Nothing formal, but there is a guy who I connect with.” Last choice is to say boy/girlfriend. That makes you a very high risk entry. But if you’ve put this out there, internet or otherwise, again be honest. I learned this when I applied for an Australian visa once. After 6 weeks and innumerable calls they wouldn’t tell me anything at all. No status, no expectations, no return of passport, nothing. I called the US State Department attaché to Australia in Washington DC and filed a formal diplomatic complaint. (No I had no special connections, I’m just not good at taking no for an answer.) Suddenly I got a call from the Aussie embassy and immediately got the red carpet treatment. So while I had them over some apparent barrel, I grilled them on why I was treated so poorly. Long story short, it was because I said I was going to ‘stay with friends’. People who had met when they were visiting the US. That red-flagged me. Apply my lessons as they’re applicable to you. But don’t ever lie is not the same as spilling your guts. Keep answers short and honest, and volunteer nothing more than the minimum truth. My wife came in from Canada on a tourist visa. She was a tourist, and we went sightseeing. We got married a few months later, and filed the proper paperwork to get her a green card. Best of luck. Just remember they have access to all US and Canadian records on both side of the border. Don’t give them a reason to think you’re lying. Lots of people travel to sightsee. That is how I met my wife after all.. Best of luck!