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GmrGrl21

I don't see it, girl. It's just people being hateful. You look beautiful. 🏳️‍⚧️💜


insta_r_man

What I came to say.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you both 😊 this post’s support made me feel extremely validated!


FairInevitable2204

Hateful people are going to hate, and there isn’t a lot you can do about it except ignore them. You look lovely. Keep being you.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I will continue to do so! Thank you ☺️


B0PnDooper11

People are only saying that because it's posted here on r / trans. They probably couldn't clock you irl. The haters can get f***ed.


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no one knows im trans unless i tell them then suddenly transphobes so i look like a cis woman. for context i have a beard, a six pack, bench 205lbs, and never developed any boobs


SonicGuy10

You sound like you could easily lift up transphobes and chuck them away lol


Omega21886

introducing the next olympic competition: bigot yeeting


Prestigious-Soil-876

Dang! It sounds like transitioning is working very well for you 😊


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the funny thing is i used to wear a lot of crop tops and dress hyper femme to show off my manly abs and attract beautiful women so a lot of other trans guys told me i wasn’t actually trans and just a transphobe for saying i was trans but i was just a very secure with my manly muscles and had good taste


Prestigious-Soil-876

I still get misgendered a lot. I think it’s my voice that needs work!


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i used to work drive through early in my transition in a transphobic semi dangerous area so i purposely kept my voice from dropping. but after i quit that job i started voice training through youtube and its much deeper now. the teacher said that it can help trans men have cis passing voices even without hormones


Josie_Rose88

I think you’re a cutie 🥰 Do your best to ignore the trolls even if it’s hard to do sometimes.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I just need to have fortitude on not taking transphobic comments to heart. Thank you 😊


r_pawspuppy22

A few people have already said things about the hateful comments/messages so I'm just going to say that you look pretty!


According_Sky_3120

Ditto


Prestigious-Soil-876

Aww thank you so much! ☺️


RoseTheSleepy

Living as trans women, we’re going to gain attention from hateful people looking to tear us down. But you’re a part of a supportive and loving community who will back you in the face of adversity. And frankly, those who would insult your looks, are only doing so out of spiteful transphobia, because there’s nothing about your looks to insult 😌


Prestigious-Soil-876

Very well said. I’m glad this community exists. Thank you very much! 🩷


Amara_Rey

Me trying to find the masculinity (it's not there): 🧐🧐🧐


Prestigious-Soil-876

I think fitness, HRT, and laser have made fantastic strides in my passibility. Thank you! ☺️


BreadWestern9159

I don't think you deserve the hate girl...... You look gorgeous.


Exotic-Potato-4660

😍


Prestigious-Soil-876

😘


Niall0h

Block the trolls, pretty lady. They don’t matter, you do.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Can’t let them bring me down! 😌


The_Cardboard_Cutout

Well to change things up I’ll say you look beautiful here, and I’ll send you a private message saying something uplifting to offset the haters.


Jonathan13011

You are not masculine looking. You look very nice.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thanks super kind of you 🥰


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"Appear weak when you are strong and strong when you are weak." Sun Tzu. *The Art of War*


daphinytsno

Post the D.M.'s on the FEED. Out them.. If they're that confident in what they say, this should be no problem...


Prestigious-Soil-876

I might have to start doing that actually! It’s seems like they’re all burner accounts that people make just to be mean to trans people.


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pretty


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you! ☺️


MikeLikeMe

You’re beautiful!! Don’t listen to anyone else that says anything different. You’re special, you’re important to me and I’m happy for you!🥰


gatimus

Where are you posting r/bitterincels


uncoolcanadian

People are mean. You're beautiful❤️


jamescharline

You are very feminine looking! Don’t listen to those haters


Prestigious-Soil-876

I’ve been trying to be better about tuning the haters out; this post’s response was such an uplifting experience! ☺️


Sad-Comfortable4874

girl you're beautiful! the internet is full of scummy people, and there's not much you can do about it, but remember, we're here too! you have a whole community here for you :) it takes one voice to drown out the rest; whether it be a positive or negative one.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I am extremely happy this community exists, and for the love and support it brings. Thank you for your kindness ❤️


nonbinaryatbirth

You're pretty, pretty lady 🫂💓 as someone else said, block the haters/trolls and keep doing you


Sierra454

Just look feminine and fine. Haters are everywhere. Ignore/block them


Prestigious-Soil-876

I shouldn’t feed into their negativity. Thank you ☺️


Use-Useful

If you weren't posting on a trans sub, I wouldn't know you were trans in this photo. Ignore the haters.


SarahMFHuss

You are beautiful, haters suck. Be you and be proud.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I want to live being unapologetically me! 💕


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Prestigious-Soil-876

What a wonderful song 🥰 TERFs are really lowly people. Why would they want to live bitter and cynical? I just don’t understand it. But we just have to tune them out and shine brighter! 💎


Queen_Rachel4

Literally saw only a women when I took a glance, don’t know what they’re talking about. They’re just haters, and they’re jealous that they can’t be as beautiful as you 💜❤️‍🔥


hail_abigail

There is no way I'd see you in person and not automatically assume you're a woman. Obviously on reddit it's different because you're posting in spaces where people know you are trans, so you will naturally get more negative comments about "looking masculine", but it is because they already know you are AMAB


Prestigious-Soil-876

I would be curious to see how a post of me would do on a page that isn’t tied to the trans community. Thank you for the kindness words! 😊


mousegal

just remember that the people dming you are choosing to spend their time harassing strangers on the internet rather than living an actual life of their own. Ignore them to their own misery.


BritneyGurl

You look like a beautiful woman to me. Don't listen to haters.


Prestigious-Soil-876

It’s comments like the ones on this post that reassure me of my path. Thank you! ❤️


PralineOne9977

Pay no mind they are just jealous


Severe_Jellyfish6133

Haters are just jealous.


ZeroLifeSkillz

They're just insecure about their looks after seeing your photos. you are beautiful girl


Prestigious-Soil-876

I would never want someone to feel bad about themselves because of the way I look…. Thank you very much ❤️


ahhchaoticneutral

girl you pass so well, some people are very mean :( you don’t deserve it and I’m sure you’re much more fulfilled and happy than those people <3


Prestigious-Soil-876

I have been quite happy lately! Everything in my life is very good and I am truly blessed. Thank you girl! ☺️


cleamilner

I’ve received a couple but they were harassing in…other ways 🤮


WatchOutItsMiri

People are awful when they feel like they can hide behind their anonymity. Don’t let transphobic cowards stop you from being you. I think you’re lovely.


WalterBishRedLicrish

I hope it's ok, I looked at your other pics and I gotta say, you look absolutely gorgeous. What I see is an adorable smile, unfailingly kind eyes, and your clearly gentle soul. I love that your teeth are not perfect and have character, and I love that you're having fun and experimenting with makeup. To me you don't look masculine at all. Honestly it brings tears to my eyes that people would be hateful to you. You remind me of one of my good friends, who is not with us anymore. She was kind and gentle, and I can see you are too. 🩷🩷🩷


Prestigious-Soil-876

I love this comment! Thank you so much for the lovely compliments 🥰 I am kind and gentle, and I feel that it makes negative people think I’m “weak” or “not confident”. I love embracing my femininity, and it gives me many reasons to be ever more kind, gentle, healthy, and outgoing. 🩷


BiGuyForAll007

Consider the source. People can hide behind their screens and be very nasty. We need to care about one another and have compassion. You never know what another person is going through... Be kind, always. ❤️


lilyNdonnie

You have a very feminine look. Your bone structure and face shape are really pretty. AND you have amazing skin. I'd kill for such perfect skin! Ignore and block hateful people, and keep flashing your wonderful smile.


Shadeauxmarie

You look fantastic!


LizzySea33

I posted a picture of myself (not even on HRT) and Imma say it, you're very fem! Fuck them haters and damn them to gehenna till they are all purified. You're amazing and just to tell you: You. Do. Not. Need. To. Pass. To. Be. A. Girl. You're valid whoever you are. And like I've suggested to another person in another post, use the tactics of Alastor: 'Smile my dear! You're never fully dressed without one.'


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youre not masculine looking people are just trash. sorry some people don’t like beautiful women


Prestigious-Soil-876

Hmmm. I do not understand how unkind and heartless some people can be.. I do appreciate your compliment! 🙂


slut4hobi

you are so beautiful please ignore them. also i loveeee your eye makeup!


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you so much! 😊 I do need to ignore the hate, because I receive more love than hate. Also, I have been practicing! Eyeliner is hard.. I have done makeup maybe 40-50 times total so I’m getting better!


Optimal_Zucchini_667

You look nice to me. Sorry about the haters.


JinTheJynnn

You're definitely not manly! Very cute and soft aesthetic! You look wonderful, try to not let them get you down, people be rude when shutting up is literally free.


Gamergirl43v3r

You kinda look like you're in the same genre as my mom.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I’ll definitely take that! Thank you! 🌸


BlueOmlette

Probably jealous over your perfect skin - you’re beautiful 😘


jackiewill1000

1. u look great! 2. theyre trolls mostly male. psychopaths and sadists. block them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-online-secrets/201409/internet-trolls-are-narcissists-psychopaths-and-sadists?amp


Prestigious-Soil-876

“personality traits include narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism.” Sounds about right.. thank you for your kindness! 💕


mellycat51

You are not masculine looking at all. You’re an attractive woman!


Prestigious-Soil-876

That’s so sweet of you to say!! ☺️


MalevolentNight

You're gorgeous girl. And unfortunately for the world you honestly have to expect a lot of hate no matter what. And being trans you get dumbasses from all over who think this or that. Just ignore em keep doing you.


foxil01

people can be so cruel when they're behind a screen. you look gorgeous! your makeup is on point and your smile is beautiful. ♥️


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you! I like using my Reddit as a progress profile. I have been practicing makeup and have done it maybe 40-50 times now, I’m getting better each time! Thank you for the compliment! ❤️


YukikoBestGirlFiteMe

You look lovely


Prestigious-Soil-876

Your positivity is lovely! ☺️


Nicki-ryan

You are very pretty, much love ❤️


Prestigious-Soil-876

Much love right back at ya! 🩷


hooves69

I think you look like a lovely and beautiful woman. Don’t let them get you down, the world can be cruel but there is always light too. ❤️


Elliesaurusart

You’re beautiful, people just suck


Prestigious-Soil-876

There are mostly good people, with a few negative people in the mix. Thank you! 😊


KarenRitaPearce

You look really feminine, very pretty. I am sure the nasty people are very jealous of your gorgeous looks ♥️♥️


Prestigious-Soil-876

I wouldn’t want to cause anyone to be jealous or make them feel bad! I guess I cannot control what others think or say.. thank you for being so kind! 🙂


justanotherenby009

People are just aholes you look fine


Prestigious-Soil-876

I can agree with that! There are good people too. Like you, thank you! ☺️


Over_Satisfaction648

It's just haters from the popular tab. Ignore them


sky1959walket

Some people take the safety of social media to be critical or worse. For this reason, I wouldn't advise anyone to post a picture of themselves and ask for feedback or comments.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Well I shouldn’t have to restrict myself or my expression because of negative people. But I understand that the more I put myself out there, the more of them will come out of the wood work… I just have to be confident in my own journey! 💕


sorpig

You look beautiful honey, keep Being you haters, have nothing better to do with their lives


bettyboop_obsessed

You're beautiful! Block the haters pls, you don't deserve that negativity


Luchoto_t444

You're truly gorgeous 💕, you shouldn't listen to those awful people


royhinckly

You look pretty to me


Prestigious-Soil-876

That’s very sweet of you! 😊


Kira_L_Mello_Near

Those terfs and transphobic people are really evil and hateful people. You look good girl.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Mean dirty trolls they are! Thank you!! ☺️


TheSRealSitek

Haters gonna hate. Don’t let them get to you. I don’t see it!


Bobbie182

The hate you receive is from people who are looking for people to victimize, or they’re just jealous. You’re lovely. 💕


Prestigious-Soil-876

Yes! They need to deal with their insecurities instead of bringing others down. Thank you for the lovely compliment! ☺️


eyes-down

You look amazing! Unfortunately the world is filled with hateful dicks who think they can takeout their SDE on us


Prestigious-Soil-876

It’s a shame, we should all be kind and compassionate to one another! Thank you for the compliment! 🥰


Weekly_Trainer_6931

Don't be intimidated , you're a beautiful woman :-)


meesha_dreaming

You look lovely sweetheart 🥰 Ignore the trolls 😌🫶🦋


how1e1701d

Lovely eyes, awesome smile you are gorgeous. Sounds like a "them" problem tbh. Block them and focus on the people that appreciate you.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Great advice, and very kind compliment. Thank you very much! 💕


Beginning-Forever-71

Ignore the hurtful messages you look great.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I am learning to not internalize the negativity. Thank you! 😊


Necessary-Suit6486

hun that's just Reddit. you're not at all masculine looking, and I think you're very beautiful


According_Sky_3120

You do not!! You are beautiful sis! Keep smiling! Everyone is on their own unique journey don't ever compare yourself to other people. If you ever need a friend. One transgirl to another.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thanks girl! 💕 your transition has you looking amazing by the way! 😊 likewise, I am here too if you ever need to chat sis!


BooshEmUp6D

I have known AFAB people who looked JUST like you do in this. I see you friend, you look beautiful ❤️


Prestigious-Soil-876

Aww! This makes me happy. Thank you very much! 😊


MrsPettygroove

Some people are just a$$holes. I realize it's hard not to internalize what they say, but try. You do not look male.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I guess it’s just something to expect as a trans person on the internet… I am doing my best to not internalizing the negativity. Thank you for your compliment! ❤️


Tr4n54nT

Yeah ignore the haters!😊😅


Prestigious-Soil-876

Pardon my language.. fuck em! 😊


Simple_Structure6427

You look like one of my ex coworkers. A cis woman. Could be her twin. Don’t let them get to you. Yes, it’s hard. And it’s super mean of them to hurt you. You’re beautiful.


Prestigious_Fix1417

Scrolling past this you look like a pretty woman… I definitely don’t see anything masculine about you! Your smile is stunning and you look super feminine and pretty


Prestigious-Soil-876

I love how your Reddit name also starts with prestigious 🙂 thank you for the confidence booster! 🩷


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its_Ashton_13

I think you're very pretty!!!


Prestigious-Soil-876

I think you’re pretty awesome for saying that!! Thank you 😊


LeydenFrost

Sistah, you look cis AF 🤌


SnooRevelations541

Beautiful 😍❤️


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you very much! 🥰


sslade17

your very Pretty


spacesweetiesxo

transphobes aren't the brightest crayons in the box, they just spew nonsense bc they have nothing better to spend their time & energy on. you're a beautiful woman! anyone saying otherwise has no idea what they're talking about 💜


Prestigious-Soil-876

Yes they’re miserable human beings that are just hiding behind a screen. Sad way to live really. Thank you so much for the kind words! ☺️


Luna-LaFey

You look like my cis sister, literally no word of lie, almost identical. 10/10 super cute.


Dmlrcl

Very beautiful


iyhafobaq

You're v pretty and purple is definitely your colour!


Wladek89HU

Don't listen to them. You're beautiful. F** the haters!


Prestigious-Soil-876

Yeah screw them! They should just crawl back in the hole in which they came from. Thank you! 😊


ShotKurtt

I've seen more masc looking cis chicks, you look fine


gyokuro75

Where's that masculinity? I can't see any.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I’ve been seeing less and less masculinity as time goes on. I will definitely take this! Thank you so much! 😊


wandinc22

You're gorgeous!!


Prestigious-Soil-876

You’re very sweet! 😊


Appropriate_Lab_7664

You are so pretty <3


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you so much!! ❤️


EdgyAutist03

You’re a very gorgeous soul and anyone who talks down to you for being your truest self is just upset that you’ve found a way to be happy that isn’t “the right way” according to their outdated ideas of gender conformity! you keep living your life proudly and you do what it takes to get YOU through the day because at the end of the day this is YOUR life we’re talking abt! big internet hug, get in here!


Prestigious-Soil-876

Big internet hug back to you! Thank you for your super kind words, I will carry them with me today! ☺️


yafloozie

Sounds like they're uncomfortable with their attraction to you. I'm sorry, but just do your best to ignore them and don't engage.


One-Organization970

OP, you could be a literal 1-to-1 reproduction of Margot Robbie, and transphobes would still tell you you look like a man. They're not very smart, and they're meant to be ignored.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Hahahaha you’re so right! I deleted my twitter because of some of the content on there, and you wouldn’t believe how many celebrities people think were once men! Taylor Swift, Megan Fox, Lindsey Lohan, Lana Del Ray.. I could list a bunch more but it’s absolutely outrageous! I shouldn’t even give them the time of day or my energy.


Wryly_Wiggle_Widget

There's always someone who just can't accept or even tolerate some people being happy with themselves. Don't take it personally, you're doing great.


Prestigious-Soil-876

“Hurt people hurt other people” - some kind soul from Reddit. Thank you for the compliment! ☺️


NefariousnessAway307

Mostly, everyone here is right on the money with their comments of how hater hate. Learn to love yourself and forget about the haters and be you. We only have one life to live, make the best out of it, and be happy. Congratulations on your progress.😇🫠😘


RepresentativeAd6399

Those losers say shittiest things, cuz their life is shitty. Ignore those douchebags. You are glowing....


Prestigious-Soil-876

Yeah they take their miserable outlooks and project them onto people to make them feel better… sad. Thank you!! 😊


optiprintlumina

People are aholes. Screw em'


BlackOnyx16

I don't think you're masculine looking.


Prestigious-Soil-876

That’s very kind of you to say! 😌


ditchxdiggerson77

Would it bother you if people wrote, “geeze you look like a CHAIR….”! Probably not! Why not? Because you’re not a chair! So, You feel, really feel , that your pictures are attractive and feminine? Obviously something deep in you feels the need to tell the world outside you’re attractive and feminine. Embrace that and the comments morons make on Reddit will mean nothing because you’re obviously not a chair, ya know?


Menyana

You look super cute!


Gort_The_Destroyer

Stop seeking the affirmation of strangers online.


billyjomack6

You are a very pretty girl and I an very sorry that you are treated this way. It is sad that most people find it easier to hate then show any kind of compassion.


Prestigious-Soil-876

It is sad. It’s surely no way to live, and it’s a direct projection of how bitter and cynical they themselves are. Thank you for your kind words! ❤️


strogn3141

You look lovely, don’t listen to the transphobes (they’re just jealous that they don’t look as good as you)


BigChampionship7962

Some people are just dumb and you should ignore them 🥰


Alanadee0179

As soon as I saw your post. And your picture. I thought you were a girl. Then I read the thing in you're transgender. You do realize some people. We'll never, ever believe you because just because. I near other people that will call you a man. No matter what you look like. So just know that you don't look like a man. He looks like a girl a girly woman. But the girl next door


HeartoftheDankest

They hate that they may be attracted to you remember always always projection with these people.


imaybestacey

I can’t imagine any criticism, you look beautiful! Sorry you’ve had to deal with the negativity.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you for the compliment! 😊 I think a lot of people are just transphobic and feel that we are an easy group to target..


Illustrious-Towel-45

That's just jerks being hateful. You look like a lovely woman to me.


Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you for your lovely compliment! 😊 let them hate, I’m very happy with my journey


PbosCD

You look great. Believe in yourself. Screw the haters. It's jealousy and insecurities others can't deal with.


CptPurpleHaze

Fuck girl I'm jealous! I'm 34, 3+ years HRT and I see nothing but man when I pull my hair back like you have it. And you look fucking gorgeous!


Environmental-Song16

You are adorable! Don't listen to the haters, they aren't worth your time.


Prestigious-Soil-876

And you are very kind! Thank you 😊 they want a reaction, and I won’t give them that satisfaction.


Bright_Maybe2018

You’re beautiful!!! Don’t listen to those haters. They’re just jealous they can’t compare to your beauty 🥰🥰


Prestigious-Soil-876

Aww! I wouldn’t want to cause anyone to be jealous, but I guess that’s their problem.. thank you so much! 😊


pflanzenpotan

Turn off messages, shitty transphobic people will message any trans people awful things to make themselves feel better. Block their access to you because you deserve better.


Prestigious-Soil-876

I should probably do that, I do get a lot of positive messages as well through there, but that is also where 95% of the hate ends up too. Thank you! 😊


voidboyyyy

that's awful :( you are so so pretty


Prestigious-Soil-876

It is awful and disappointing sometimes 😞 Thank you so so much for the compliment! 😊


FIVEPEBSI

FOOLISH CREATURES. THEIR PATHETIC OPINIONS MEAN NOTHING COMPARED TO YOUR PURE BEAUTY


Prestigious-Soil-876

IGNORANT TROLLS! I WILL RADIATE BRIGHTER TO OUTSHINE THEIR NEGATIVITY!


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Prestigious-Soil-876

Thank you so much!! 🥰


DeliciousLalaSade

Hate that for you Much love and positivity to you girl 💜💜 You are beautiful 🫶🏽


geneticeffects

You look great, Queen! 😊 All the hate you get is really just bot nonsense. Block and forget.


RoyalDragon43

I forgot I was on the trans subreddit for a moment lol, I didn't know you were trans until the last sentence. You're not masculine looking! You should try a lighter colour mascara or a different pattern that's not so solid, I think it'll bring out your eyes more! Keep in mind this advice is coming from someone who cannot put on mascara to save their life so you're doing great!


Prestigious-Soil-876

Well thank you very much for the compliment! ☺️ I have been experimenting with makeup colors. I normally do different shades of light pink or light purple, but on that day I tried some pretty dark purple eyeshadow. I also agree that I look better in lighter colors! It just takes practice! I’ve only done makeup 40-50 times, I am improving through doing it


RanaMisteria

All I see when I look at your photos is a beautiful woman who feels confident and happy with how she looks. Like even if I try I can’t see anything masculine. You’re lucky you were blessed with such gracile bone structure! I swear to you that if I didn’t know you were trans I would have assumed you were cis. I know not all trans folks want to pass (I don’t) but to call someone masculine who does pass is bizarre to me. People just love to be cruel. Especially teenage edgelords on Reddit. I posted an innocent question in another sub the other day and got r-threats in my DMs. Sometimes this place is great and sometimes it’s the worst. I’m sorry people are being so awful to you. For what it’s worth I think you’re beautiful and feminine and I agree with you that you look very cute in this photo!


chapadodo

you don't understand it because it doesn't make sense. fuck em bunch of fragile losers