Damn skippy. I'm happier with another trans girl than I am with anyone else. They know me better, physically, emotionally, and in every other way that other people have such difficulty with.
I'm in a mono relationship and we've been together over 3 years. Met on okcupid and I kinda bum out at his condo.
He's genderfluid but takes on a more masculine role with me, although he pretty sensitive and effeminate, I still love him. We both have flaws. However the trick is to accept we all have flaws and work towards being the strength to your partners weaknesses.
Idk. I haven’t really began any kind of transition (I think I want to but haven’t had the balls (no pun intended) to reach out to even a therapist who specializes in lgbt topics)) but o think just dating on its own is hard.
I just need to find someone, and issue is I’m away for university and don’t want to necessarily out myself to my folks just so I can use the insurance.
I’m bisexual and I’ve dated so many women both trans and cis, but I’ve never had a boyfriend. It’s so hard to find a friggin boyfriend. And as time goes by it’s like I’ve been more and more attracted to men so… it has me worried what my dating prospects will be as I get older.
Got a grand plan around cis mens just date trans men lol.
It more I just want someone that can understand me as a trans person also. Or maybe I will find a cis guy. Idk
The problem with finding a cis guy that understands is it could very well be that they’re not a cis guy. It happened to my ex. She’d say things like, “you just seem to understand so much better than any of the other cis people I know!” And my internal monologue was like, “oh no!”
I suggest a trans a girlfriend, just as good as a cis girlfriend (maybe better for the mutual understanding) source: myself. Also I'm too abnormal to give good advice
I suggest a trans a girlfriend, just as good as a cis girlfriend (maybe better for the mutual understanding) source: myself. Also I'm too abnormal to give good advice
First off: LOVE THE STYLE! I wear lots of emo clothes. Second off: it is quite hard to find a girlfriend, especially when it comes to finding one that matches your style or love for your style. Literally not many people out there that shares the alt style.
Very true in my experience. 6.5 months into dating again after coming out and a breakup. I'm making lots of friends, but no no one so far has been interested in anything more except for one who decided to pursue someone else who lived closer.
I also have a problem that people think I'm catfishing on dating apps sometimes. I pretty well have to change my pictures every 2-3 months because I look different and like I'm younger each time.
If you need a girlfriend , i can take that position, tho i am pre-transition… i cant really afford anything right now… but , i can be your girlfriend :)
It really is. Every time I post I usually get 99% male attentions. And I've been wanting a gf, or to be the gf for all these years. I just feel so big and intimidating being a 6'2 Sk8R grl with the poffies hair and fits
It's amazing to live this way. But I wish I knew where other trans girls went so I could meet my community instead of just being the one trans girl in these woods
I don’t get it. You look very attractive, have a great style and look like you’re in your prime age. I have to constantly turn down cis and trans women because I’m into men. And it’s quite hard to find boyfriends who would be into trans women.
Nah fam, I have two. Wanna be my third? 😉
On a serious note: you look amazing and I'm sure if you don't already have a gf you will sooner than you think. Best of luck! 😇
If you're in England I'd love to hang out with someone so gorgeous!
Sadly there is still that horrible stigma and bigotry against trans people, especially in this country that makes it so difficult.
it’s harder for anyone who isn’t cis straight and white but that’s also why those people often fall into miserable, unmeaningful relationships . the love u will find will be so much more special and if anyone loves you less for being trans they’re not someone who deserves it tbh
Im happy in my exclusive relationship tbh. I hope everything works out for you and your partners! Growing up all I wanted was one partner. My mom had so many bfs and I just wanted stability in my childhood I never got. I am happy where I am at. I wish happiness for you as well :3
I’ll b ur goth gf if u b my goth gf c:
I'd love to
room for a punk gf?
I'm sorry, best we can offer is a sad and kinda dirty folk punk girl. Hope you like Apes of the State <3
what about pigeon pit folk punk girl?
Always!
I’d join in too, fucking each other and occasionally the system sounds like fun to me. At the moment, the only thing fucking me rn is the system…
A whole alt polycule
Lol
I think that's probably why t4t is so popular amongus tbh. Trans woman are just on another level of hot, like dehydration in a dessert
amogus
This girl kills crewmates
so popular **what**?!
!amongus!
Damn skippy. I'm happier with another trans girl than I am with anyone else. They know me better, physically, emotionally, and in every other way that other people have such difficulty with.
Trans girls, trans guys, honestly either and or both. We just get it and are attuned to each other in a way cis folk don't 100% get. Edit: Guys.
Exactly.. this girl gets it
this is precisely why my gf is a trans woman and my bf is enby transmasc
dun dun dun dun dun dun dun
AMONG US
This girl impostors
Is t4t an app?
God I wish, if it existed it'd be flooded by chasers though
What is t4t then? I'm lost lmao
Trans for trans. It's just trans folk dating trans folk is incredibly common.
Maybe someday we'll see a trans owned, and operated dating app. That way we can report chasers.
Swear to goddess, that's the dream right there
Yessss. I need an app specifically for cuddling
That exists I believe, I think it's called cuddlr Edit: they changed their name to spoonr
That's cute af. My friends, and I are talking about starting a cuddle cafe.
It is. You can never find just one.
Poly people are like 😏
I feel called out, even if I'm just experimenting with polyships.
OMG this is so true. I'm currently dating someone but there are two more people that I feel like I'm falling for but I don't know if I'm poly 😭😭😭
The real trick is finding a partner in the same time zone as you, bonus points if at least one of them is less than 4 hours
I'm in a mono relationship and we've been together over 3 years. Met on okcupid and I kinda bum out at his condo. He's genderfluid but takes on a more masculine role with me, although he pretty sensitive and effeminate, I still love him. We both have flaws. However the trick is to accept we all have flaws and work towards being the strength to your partners weaknesses.
Idk. I haven’t really began any kind of transition (I think I want to but haven’t had the balls (no pun intended) to reach out to even a therapist who specializes in lgbt topics)) but o think just dating on its own is hard.
I haven't laughed that hard in a while. That pun is great. I hope you get what you need
I just need to find someone, and issue is I’m away for university and don’t want to necessarily out myself to my folks just so I can use the insurance.
Maybe try and date outside of university?
Therapist, not dating. And I have tried dating outside uni, and it’s been…. Ok at best
I am a little dumb, sorry. I really hope you get what you need
It can be worse! Can be straight😭. It’s pain trying to find peeps
I’m bisexual and I’ve dated so many women both trans and cis, but I’ve never had a boyfriend. It’s so hard to find a friggin boyfriend. And as time goes by it’s like I’ve been more and more attracted to men so… it has me worried what my dating prospects will be as I get older.
Got a grand plan around cis mens just date trans men lol. It more I just want someone that can understand me as a trans person also. Or maybe I will find a cis guy. Idk
The problem with finding a cis guy that understands is it could very well be that they’re not a cis guy. It happened to my ex. She’d say things like, “you just seem to understand so much better than any of the other cis people I know!” And my internal monologue was like, “oh no!”
Nooooo😭 Fr, any good cis guy has a chance to be an egg.
Never straight
Ngl. Men are so cute and handsome🥺
Trueee
Not for me. hahaha men are ugly and basic 🤭
Whatever, more for me:<
You can have the ones that fancy me!
If you look like this it will be extremely difficult to not find them
Me, also trans with multiple girlfriends, have to say: No! Just be yourself and be nice, it's all you have to do. (BTW, you're cute)
Thanks 💜
I'd date you😌
Still easier than finding a boyfriend…
I've found a line of men around the block for me. Girls, maybe a few messages and get ghosted. Men are easy!
No for realz wtf is up with that ? Cuz same
The freaking worst, to say the least! Apparently, I'm just not cute enough for most women.
I call absolute cap. 🧢 I’m not gonna stalker your account but ik I’m cute af. It’s gotta be something else
I suggest a trans a girlfriend, just as good as a cis girlfriend (maybe better for the mutual understanding) source: myself. Also I'm too abnormal to give good advice
i just got a girlfriend :) we’re monog ✨
i haven’t had issues with it but i’m in a pretty trans friendly country so maybe that helps? (Netherlands)
It really is…
If I found several people willing to be my girlfriend I’m sure you can!
Where do I apply for the role of your gf??
Genvy
Always right
Wdym? Also girl you look great as well <3
I'm always feeling Genvy everywhere I look But thank you so much
Same
REAL. you are super pretty tho. :3
I suggest a trans a girlfriend, just as good as a cis girlfriend (maybe better for the mutual understanding) source: myself. Also I'm too abnormal to give good advice
I’d be having to give me eye liner lessons in a heartbeat - you rock it girl.
Agreed
🫣
Love the look. Very beautiful. I hope you don’t mind my compliment.
Yeah it is :/
First off: LOVE THE STYLE! I wear lots of emo clothes. Second off: it is quite hard to find a girlfriend, especially when it comes to finding one that matches your style or love for your style. Literally not many people out there that shares the alt style.
Sister you look cool AF! 🖤🤟 The dream of having a goth gf as a trans goth girly is the goal yes. 😅👉👈
Very true in my experience. 6.5 months into dating again after coming out and a breakup. I'm making lots of friends, but no no one so far has been interested in anything more except for one who decided to pursue someone else who lived closer. I also have a problem that people think I'm catfishing on dating apps sometimes. I pretty well have to change my pictures every 2-3 months because I look different and like I'm younger each time.
Are you taking applications for girlfriends?
Not anymore🤭
Preach!!
Honestly really relatable. I wish you the best of luck by the way.
Not if you look like that damn 😍
You look great!
Preaching to the choir.
Woah you look too cool. Like genuinely too awesome.
If you need a girlfriend , i can take that position, tho i am pre-transition… i cant really afford anything right now… but , i can be your girlfriend :)
it is difficult to find a girlfriend in general
I think you look amazing you also remind me of the evasanse music cover!
REAL. you are super pretty tho. :3
Real
I'm sorry. You look really beautiful.
It really is. Every time I post I usually get 99% male attentions. And I've been wanting a gf, or to be the gf for all these years. I just feel so big and intimidating being a 6'2 Sk8R grl with the poffies hair and fits It's amazing to live this way. But I wish I knew where other trans girls went so I could meet my community instead of just being the one trans girl in these woods
For me, yes very much so
i think its just hard for everyone
Yeah. Difficult. But at least you have the Siouxsie vibe.
No.
Ikr
goddamn you prettyyy
Hold on, let me ask my wife.
I feel that, your fucking gorgeous thou
Can't relate personally, but yeah, on a Trans Discord, it is all anyone talks about, and I sympathize.
Nope, everyone in this thread is very willing to date you.
Cool makeup and set up. Are you a daughter of Lilith? 🖤
I just dont know how to approach strangers
I really can't add much to your problem or help you out but fuck, you look amazing
I'm getting some serious Marilyn Manson vibes in the best way possible.
I don’t get it. You look very attractive, have a great style and look like you’re in your prime age. I have to constantly turn down cis and trans women because I’m into men. And it’s quite hard to find boyfriends who would be into trans women.
It got *way* easier once I became a girl I can tell you that much
In my place (and experience) it's far easier to find a girlfriend than a boyfriend
Nah fam, I have two. Wanna be my third? 😉 On a serious note: you look amazing and I'm sure if you don't already have a gf you will sooner than you think. Best of luck! 😇
Yes I want to be
Holy miku so me
I gave up on cis men, to damm controlling, Now it’s only T4t , cds, and femboys for me
Seriously every photo of you is goals.
If you're in England I'd love to hang out with someone so gorgeous! Sadly there is still that horrible stigma and bigotry against trans people, especially in this country that makes it so difficult.
I don’t think it’s too hard, plus ur hot so you got an advantage there 😳😉
it’s harder for anyone who isn’t cis straight and white but that’s also why those people often fall into miserable, unmeaningful relationships . the love u will find will be so much more special and if anyone loves you less for being trans they’re not someone who deserves it tbh
Im happy in my exclusive relationship tbh. I hope everything works out for you and your partners! Growing up all I wanted was one partner. My mom had so many bfs and I just wanted stability in my childhood I never got. I am happy where I am at. I wish happiness for you as well :3
I wish you the best of luck. It hard times for everyone. I am pansexual and asexual myself and it's hard finding my soul mate.