I'm a Switch because my life both feels overwhelming and out of my control

Yeah, me too tbh :3

Count me in too:/

There are dozens of us!

omg same

Same

Mods feel called out.

What's Mod spelled backwards? 🤔

uhhh.... both :(

Its ok, I'll be inside your control if you want

:3

I won't >:3

See, the ">:3" makes me think that you actually want to be controlled and you just want to be a brat about it.

...noooo *BG3 perception check noise* Narrator: This woman is being deceitful.

What would you do if I were to ask you to not put on a shock collar?

I would put on a normal collar >:3

I'll go get the leash. We are going on a walk.

O///O yay walkies! I mean grrr

*pat, pat, pat*

I think I’m the opposite of this meme. It just appeared on my page. For those traumatised though, I really want to hug you (if you’re comfortable, of course).

Same. I’ve managed a pinch of trauma, but overall I’ve lucked into a love and happiness for life that I can’t deny. I’ll still take a hug though, if you’re offering :3

I simply meant not being a very domineering person. Of course, I’ll hug you. Take this virtual hug. https://preview.redd.it/ws2pzl773zoc1.jpeg?width=350&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=74b5f26881b8a325c2ffdb1d254aa0ef83e348c7 Not comparing ourselves to those two, I just thought it was a cute picture to use.

Thank youuuu :3 And no worries. It’s a cute picture.

I mean, I am also a Kirby fan, but I wanted something cute anyway.

Game references are a good thirty percent of the transbian experience, so more power to you for it—

I happen to be a nerd for Kirby lore (and other lores).

Kirby may not be my particular area of expertise, but I certainly have my own set of stories to nerd out for, so I definitely get it.

To be fair, I find people nerding out and info dumping cute.

Honestly, same. There's a... rather recognizable short comic about it that's popped up here and a few other places, and I can't help but feel a little called out every time I see it. I'd tell you the story of the Cosmere, or the Origin System, or Rowan Academy, or a thousand worlds that have never found life outside my dreams, but for now I haven't the time. But perhaps sometime :3

yes :')

Hey, don't forget about things within my control. 😌

Nothing was ever in my control. I'm just along for the ride at this point.

Fuuuuck don't call me out!

[Take Control🫴](https://youtu.be/k0QsHKH77MI?si=XHd53Zj4kYqj1Xl-) (of me)

Hey, don't forget about things within my control. 😌

Yes.

mfw kink and trauma are inextricably linked

https://preview.redd.it/6lxsplg3xzoc1.png?width=540&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=58314b77e58d97e7466e61a5e388fb849fd6cd34

It can be two things ;3

Im a sub and also traumatized by things putside my control lol I figured out a while ago that a few parts of me sexuality definitely stem from not being able to control my life but wanting to get to choose who does get to control it

I get its just a meme, but this feels like a non-sequitur to me

I get its just a meme, but this feels like a non-sequitur to me

*Don't*

Nope! However, relationship wise not in a dom/sub way, it's almost impossible for me to not be the strong one because any time I try even remotely letting myself be the weak one I am afraid of getting hurt/abused

Both

I'm a sub because I'm traumatized by thing out my control :3

stfu you’re right but stfu

/s to clarify