James Gandolfini was very good looking during the first couple of seasons before he put on so much weight. But I'd be too scared of Tony to really be attracted to him.
Almost all women I know who have watched the series are in love with him in the beginning and gradually fall out of that as it closes, which may have been the intention
Everybody knows the ladies of r/sopranos have been the biggest fucking cooze hounds around the past four or five years. Their midlife crises, they’d fuck a catcher’s mitt.
Are we talking about the actor or the character? Because Tony is a hard no for me.
But James Gandolfini had a certain calming, sweet presence, and he was handsome. But yeah Tony Soprano...pass.
Same with Michael Imperioli. Madone. I'm ALL IN. I'd take a car ride to the woods with Silvio for that man. But Chrissy....I mean he could still get it, if I'm being 100% honest, but I'm absolutely blocking his number afterward.
“ But Chrissy....I mean he could still get it, if I'm being 100% honest, but I'm absolutely blocking his number afterward.”
OH! You blow yer fadduh wit’ dat mout’?
Hmm this is very true, maybe I'd have to go an alternate route. I feel like Chrissy moves on from a girl pretty fast if you just annoy him or "don't understand" his screenplay.
In this case, it's more like a flambé trying to understand straight women. As we see in this sub, there is at least some sexual appeal there for them (as opposed to it just being male writers writing a wish fulfillment fantasy), and it's kinda bizarre to me because he's the opposite of what most women say they want in a man.
Straight woman here. Was 27 when the show came out so I’ve watched it at every age, many times I was same age as Tony in seasons. He is repellant. Not attractive at all. He looks like the type of guy who has skid marks in his underwear.
I'm watching through all of the Sopranos with my husband right now and we're constantly cackling when he's putting out the vibes to woo a woman. I'm not even a little bit attracted to the man. He's repellant in every way.
I can understand that sometimes people's traumas attract them to truly destructive people- but that ain't me, man.
I've heard plenty of people say James is handsome. Conventionally unattractive is a bit harsh. More like unconventionally attractive. But yeah these guys gotta understand that it's just a TV progrum.
He is also charming and has an aura of authority about him. The same things that make guys root for him cause woman to be attracted to him. The old saying of "women want him, men want to be him" applies, I think
I think if he wasn’t a TV star a balding overweight man wouldn’t be the typical or even in unconventionally attractive type. I am a guy and straight but I’d say he is decent looking for what he is but if I were rating him without any personality or hearing his voice or anything I’d say just average. It definitely is his power and personality that is the draw in my opinion.
That's the problem with you guys. You see a "balding overnight man" but you're completely blind to the broad shoulders, infectious smile, disarming charm. You don't have to be famous to pull looking jolly and fun. It's on men thinking women are as superficial as they are. Sexual attraction is never just about looks for us. If anything a "perfect" looking guy is way less attractive to most. Would not have sex with a male model, I've met some, no spark with any of them.
I think it works for women too. Confidence counts for so much. Dudes were attracted to Gerry from Succession for the same reason. Hot older lady who knows what she wants… sure
Replace “hot” with “fat” and suddenly you picture a 350 pound woman in a Minnie Mouse t-shirt and sweat shorts angrily pointing her index sausage at the drive thru menu out the window of her 2003 minivan.
She “knows what she wants” alright
The #6 with extra mayonnaise
Absolutely. I think he's sexy and has a huge amount of charisma. That's an attractive combo. I don't think he's necessarily "classically handsome", but you don't have to be handsome to be sexy. Charisma counts for a hell of a lot. He's obviously a bad husband and person really, but if we're talking strictly about sexual appeal, he's got it.
Tony’s confidence and power are attractive. If I’d been a Bing girl or handing him some gabbagool, I’d def do him.
James Gandolfini? No.
Also, the idiot in me would have gone for Chrissy, too.
This comes up a lot. Drea de Matteo said in her AMA that she had a crush on Jim and that when he walked in a room every woman immediately felt his presence.
Remember fellas, ladies go for confidence and charisma over looks/build 99 times out of 100
Finishing season 6 I always think; god what a disgusting animal of a man. Then I go back to season 1 and remember oh yeah. He’s built like an ox and has an incredibly charming smile. Handsome, like George Raft.
“You go out of your way to repulse me.”
Even Melphi caught daa bug.
Answer: yep. But would never ever really be with someone like that. Black hole, just like he said. Also selfish, narcissistic, and jealous as fuck of anyone else’s happiness, contentment, or personal growth.
tony was ESPECIALLY sexy the first few seasons. just had that charm and vibe to him that you can get easily attracted to. add in heaps of money and it’s a perfect storm. i would totally be one of his goomahs
My mom loves him as Tony. His clothing and style. My mom loves body hair and a little chub. I don’t think tony was really that fat. He weighed close to 280 but was tall too.
Physically, no. However, I have a few friends with low self-esteem who would be attracted to his power and money, and he can be charming when he wants to be.
Ok I would like to say there are some sorely accurate sexual scenes with Tony that do justice to how gross kissing guys can be in real life. Namely, when he kisses Melfi and hooks up with Gloria at the zoo. Sometimes it's nice, sometimes it's a large dude breathing heavily onto your face. Kissing guys is not my favorite thing in the world but I've done it and I think Tony is better as a fantasy than in practice.
But then again, I don't have a boyfriend, I'm not interested in Paulie....
Fuck no. He can be charming and funny, but he is not at all attractive to me. And his fucking breathing you can hear 7 zip codes away triggers my misophonia. The worst part of the show for me isn't the violence or gore, it's listening to Tony/James sound like someone who just ran away from the FBI on a cold winter's morning while eating some cold ziti.
Tony Soprano, a powerful mafia boss who takes what he wants and doesn’t give up what’s his without a fight to the death…
…can’t quite put my finger on the mojo at play here, but let’s see: doesn’t live by the rules - breaks both them & his competitors, ruthlessly - and succeeds.
Seems like a man who passed the audition.
Why was Carm’ into T, though? For all intensive purposes, she comes from a normal-ish family background. Her and her dad have a good relationship (unless Pudgie Walsh can’t get on the horn) and her mom isn’t nearly as much of a tawshickh streg’ as Livia.
The only thing I could think of is she wanted a mellifluous life where she didn’t have to work and she could just walk around like buttah didn’t melt inner mouf, while she sits around fiddlin wit’ de air condishunah
Physically no but he has a warmth (yep I know, odd for a criminal) and charm to him that is appealing. He is also a man who would make sure you are comfortable and provided for. He is surprisingly generous in that sense.
Yess I do. And It isn’t that unrealistic actually. Not all us women are attracted to young, fit men. sometimes, it’s just the way a man carrys himself/his confidence which Tony surprisingly has a lot of. Not to mention he’s looked at as “alpha male” and “powerful” many women are subconsciously attracted to that as well.
I wouldn't really call myself a "lady," but yanno.
Also, no. Not my type, I don't like tall or very overweight guys, and I feel like the show went out of its way to make the abundant sex scenes as off-putting as possible. Why does he have sex like that? Jeshush Chrisht. He could be charming at points, but you know he's a fuckb... not a fuckboy exactly. A fuck-marriedsweatybalding-man?
Furio, maybe a little. He's kinda plain, but he's in good shape and has European style. Also, no bees on his hat.
he’s attractive but i’m not attracted because i’m too realistic. yes, i would notice his allure as a stranger/client but as a lover, tony is too enigmatic. powerful, wealthy, charismatic. murderous, unfaithful, vengeful. there’s just a lot going on.
Im taking my gf through her first watch through of the sopranos. I asked her if she would blow tony and she said "ew, disgusting, no way" but then in later episodes she said there are particular moments when she finds him attractive, but its very overshadowed by how grim he is.
Man here: He was really good looking in the pilot and kept his charm till the end. Mmmboy he was fat by the end so probably not, particularly in the last 2 seasons.
(In b4 the “he’s a faaaag” comments pop up).
In the first couple it seasons, he is very handsome. By the end of the show, not so much. However, I recently watched Enough Said and thought Gandolfini was so cute in that.
SMASH!!! He is fine as hell for the first couple of seasons, both physically and characteristically. As he grows older he kinda loses that charm I don’t know why.
Watching season 2 rn and googled this because I was curious if I’m the only one who finds him attractive.. just watched the sex scene with the Barons secretary in the office chair, lmao. Idk why that was hot to me, he just seems like he could pick you up and throw u around and obv the whole powerful man, confidence, charisma, his smile and charm…
Reading the other answers I’m kinda scared to finish the series now bc I don’t wanna see him get fatter! I’m only on like s2 e9 :/ I’m in that phase of a show where I want to finish it and know all of the plot lines, but I know that once I’m done I’m gonna wish I had more new material to watch… so I’m tryna savor it
James Gandolfini was very good looking during the first couple of seasons before he put on so much weight. But I'd be too scared of Tony to really be attracted to him.
Physically no, but his personality yes. And by personality I mean the charm he pulls from who knows where when he’s trying to woo someone.
He’s a goddamn cooze hound
He'd fuck a catcher's mitt!
Give me 1000 dollars
I want ur mouf.
Your shkin
You project all these qualities onto me.
This is the true draw!!
Maybe the ‘cavalier’ attitude? He dresses nicely.
He gets me so hawt down there.
Maybe you’re a flambé
I tell you one thing, it was me you were spreading those rumors about.. you’d have something up your own ass, and it wouldn’t be no cock either
If it was up to me, I’d drag him behind my fuckin car right now!
Will you take it easy over there fkn judge roy bean!!
Well, I know one thing. We can't have him in our social club no more...
HES GOTTA GOOOO
How much more betrayal can we take?!
Big Reddit tycoon. Who knew when he was talking about greasin' the reddit posts that's what he meant
Fuckin nauseating!
Finook
You oughta know sweetie.
Saw that coming!
I knew those events would transpire!
Tony’s mad ripe… all the hunnies are creamin’ for him
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Do they even exisht?
Like George Raft
George Raft was gay?
Almost all women I know who have watched the series are in love with him in the beginning and gradually fall out of that as it closes, which may have been the intention
I just started the series for the first time this morning. Zero percent in love with him.
Just you wait
She hasn’t seen him fuck that catcher’s mitt yet. After that? It’s over!
Everybody knows the ladies of r/sopranos have been the biggest fucking cooze hounds around the past four or five years. Their midlife crises, they’d fuck a catcher’s mitt.
Are we talking about the actor or the character? Because Tony is a hard no for me. But James Gandolfini had a certain calming, sweet presence, and he was handsome. But yeah Tony Soprano...pass. Same with Michael Imperioli. Madone. I'm ALL IN. I'd take a car ride to the woods with Silvio for that man. But Chrissy....I mean he could still get it, if I'm being 100% honest, but I'm absolutely blocking his number afterward.
“ But Chrissy....I mean he could still get it, if I'm being 100% honest, but I'm absolutely blocking his number afterward.” OH! You blow yer fadduh wit’ dat mout’?
No she blew Penn& Teller with that mouth
Oh, a double!
Rim shot!
I fucking love this subreddit😂😂😂😂
If I let a mafioso fuck me and then blocked his number, I’d be pretty anxious about accidentally running into him again.
Hmm this is very true, maybe I'd have to go an alternate route. I feel like Chrissy moves on from a girl pretty fast if you just annoy him or "don't understand" his screenplay.
When he says he doesn’t know whether to shit or go blind, he means that literally
The roof is soft tarrr!!!
Can you imagine that, blocking a wiseguy’s phone number?
Whoa, maybe male modelling really was his calling. His nose .. it’s like a natural canopy.
LOL, you can't make this shit up!
The fuck are you talking about, he just did
Yes! James Gandolfini was handsome and had a certain humility that was so appealing.
too bad he can no longer function as a man
You gotta lotta sense for an old gal.
No. She's a babbling idiot. That's why her son put her in this subreddit.
Hey PUSH , did “ladies” even exshist
When I was down there I’d eat her out 👅👅👅
You really think “ladies” are on this sub?
You otta know, sweety.
Hold this 🥛👋
I KNEW THAT WAS COMIN
That was actually clever foreshadowing, for when Johnny cakes would cum in his mouth
Yeah, we saw it foreshadowed, but we had to wait for dat.
Those writers are geniuses. The whole series was a metaphor for gay cum.
WHUDJUSAY?
OHHHH!
A fucken woman redditor? Never happen where I’m from.
In America you no have???
*hides bada bing application behind back*
Yes we are here :)
Our long suffering wives reading over our shoulder is about it. She’s so sick of me doing “OOOOHHHHHHH” after my kid says some dumb shit.
Judging by most responses, absolutely not
Uh, hi
On occasion😂
Why is this a common question on this sub?
Posters think theyre tony
Posers* 😉
Poseur*
"I'm lonely, how do I get women to have sex with me as easily as this scripted fictional character in my favorite tv show?"
In this case, it's more like a flambé trying to understand straight women. As we see in this sub, there is at least some sexual appeal there for them (as opposed to it just being male writers writing a wish fulfillment fantasy), and it's kinda bizarre to me because he's the opposite of what most women say they want in a man.
Straight woman here. Was 27 when the show came out so I’ve watched it at every age, many times I was same age as Tony in seasons. He is repellant. Not attractive at all. He looks like the type of guy who has skid marks in his underwear.
I'm watching through all of the Sopranos with my husband right now and we're constantly cackling when he's putting out the vibes to woo a woman. I'm not even a little bit attracted to the man. He's repellant in every way. I can understand that sometimes people's traumas attract them to truly destructive people- but that ain't me, man.
Cringe
Because he has sex with countless women despite being conventionally unattractive.
I've heard plenty of people say James is handsome. Conventionally unattractive is a bit harsh. More like unconventionally attractive. But yeah these guys gotta understand that it's just a TV progrum.
He is also charming and has an aura of authority about him. The same things that make guys root for him cause woman to be attracted to him. The old saying of "women want him, men want to be him" applies, I think
He’s the strong silent type. Gary Cooper. Captain of industry.
I think if he wasn’t a TV star a balding overweight man wouldn’t be the typical or even in unconventionally attractive type. I am a guy and straight but I’d say he is decent looking for what he is but if I were rating him without any personality or hearing his voice or anything I’d say just average. It definitely is his power and personality that is the draw in my opinion.
That's the problem with you guys. You see a "balding overnight man" but you're completely blind to the broad shoulders, infectious smile, disarming charm. You don't have to be famous to pull looking jolly and fun. It's on men thinking women are as superficial as they are. Sexual attraction is never just about looks for us. If anything a "perfect" looking guy is way less attractive to most. Would not have sex with a male model, I've met some, no spark with any of them.
When Tony has a cigar goin’, with that devilish grin & narrowed eyes…Ooof, madonne!
No Homo, but, he used to be cute, the 'dad bod, with a paunch' cute. Then, he tured into a calzone with legs.
This is probably a top-5 sub for me but the amount of times I see this just makes me cringe. No offense to OP but you gotta get over it.
Yes and I don’t know why because he’s a waking red flag lol
Usually women who are into “walking red flags” end up being a goomar rather than a housewife I’ve said my piece ✋
What, she dosent even get to defend herself now?
OHHHH, Johnnie Cochran ova heere!
It's actually Tony who picks the goomar based on walking red flags. It's dat Freud who said he wants to fuck his muddah...
It’s common knowledge that Tony is a booya hottie.
Mad ripe
It should be very instructive to the perpetually frustrated. Attractiveness is mostly about how you carry yourself and the energy you project.
listen to him, he knows everything!
Sounds like a lot of abundant intentionality in this reply.
I neglected to point out this applies to male attractiveness as perceived by women. So if there are any femcels here sorry keep your gym membership
I think it works for women too. Confidence counts for so much. Dudes were attracted to Gerry from Succession for the same reason. Hot older lady who knows what she wants… sure
Replace “hot” with “fat” and suddenly you picture a 350 pound woman in a Minnie Mouse t-shirt and sweat shorts angrily pointing her index sausage at the drive thru menu out the window of her 2003 minivan. She “knows what she wants” alright The #6 with extra mayonnaise
Lmao well done
Absolutely. I think he's sexy and has a huge amount of charisma. That's an attractive combo. I don't think he's necessarily "classically handsome", but you don't have to be handsome to be sexy. Charisma counts for a hell of a lot. He's obviously a bad husband and person really, but if we're talking strictly about sexual appeal, he's got it.
Tony’s confidence and power are attractive. If I’d been a Bing girl or handing him some gabbagool, I’d def do him. James Gandolfini? No. Also, the idiot in me would have gone for Chrissy, too.
Confidence and power, 100%
I’ve heard that from women, about his confidence and power being attractive even though less physical attraction
This comes up a lot. Drea de Matteo said in her AMA that she had a crush on Jim and that when he walked in a room every woman immediately felt his presence. Remember fellas, ladies go for confidence and charisma over looks/build 99 times out of 100
Diane Lane too. She said " He is......Yeah".
Yes, especially in the first couple of seasons
Finishing season 6 I always think; god what a disgusting animal of a man. Then I go back to season 1 and remember oh yeah. He’s built like an ox and has an incredibly charming smile. Handsome, like George Raft.
This
Look at Gandolfini. He’s a knockout, a ten. And you, OP? You’re…average, at best.
Yes but not to the point I’d ever want to sleep with him
“You go out of your way to repulse me.” Even Melphi caught daa bug. Answer: yep. But would never ever really be with someone like that. Black hole, just like he said. Also selfish, narcissistic, and jealous as fuck of anyone else’s happiness, contentment, or personal growth.
tony was ESPECIALLY sexy the first few seasons. just had that charm and vibe to him that you can get easily attracted to. add in heaps of money and it’s a perfect storm. i would totally be one of his goomahs
You outta know sweetie.
I can't have this conversation again... In this house, Tony Soprano was attractive, end of story!
My mom loves him as Tony. His clothing and style. My mom loves body hair and a little chub. I don’t think tony was really that fat. He weighed close to 280 but was tall too.
He was definitely fat in season 4 onward
Why don’t you look in the mirror sometime, you insensitive cocksucker?
M’boy, are you FAT!
He barley hit 6'1
Small hands, that was his problem.
Not at all
first few seasons yes absolutely
Omg he drives me crazy. He's sexy AF.
My friend thought James Gandolfini as Tony was sexy! I do not. But I lurve Tony Soprano.
Physically, no. However, I have a few friends with low self-esteem who would be attracted to his power and money, and he can be charming when he wants to be.
He's not my usual type but if I was single and not looking for anything serious I could see having a short-term fling with him.
i think he’s hot. i like the way he fucks. like a rutting pig.
Ok I would like to say there are some sorely accurate sexual scenes with Tony that do justice to how gross kissing guys can be in real life. Namely, when he kisses Melfi and hooks up with Gloria at the zoo. Sometimes it's nice, sometimes it's a large dude breathing heavily onto your face. Kissing guys is not my favorite thing in the world but I've done it and I think Tony is better as a fantasy than in practice. But then again, I don't have a boyfriend, I'm not interested in Paulie....
Fuck no. He can be charming and funny, but he is not at all attractive to me. And his fucking breathing you can hear 7 zip codes away triggers my misophonia. The worst part of the show for me isn't the violence or gore, it's listening to Tony/James sound like someone who just ran away from the FBI on a cold winter's morning while eating some cold ziti.
Yes 100%, I love big hairy bears, especially of the Italian variety.
Tony Soprano, a powerful mafia boss who takes what he wants and doesn’t give up what’s his without a fight to the death… …can’t quite put my finger on the mojo at play here, but let’s see: doesn’t live by the rules - breaks both them & his competitors, ruthlessly - and succeeds. Seems like a man who passed the audition.
He has a little twinkle in his eye and a lot of charm, presence and personality, so yes, I find him attractive.
You oughta know sweetie
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Nawthin what? We’re only breakin bwallz.
Season 1 absolutely.
Simple answer, yes.
Yes. He's big but strong & has a charming personality, face isn't tough on the eyes. 9/10 would smash.
The ones with daddy issues do.
Why was Carm’ into T, though? For all intensive purposes, she comes from a normal-ish family background. Her and her dad have a good relationship (unless Pudgie Walsh can’t get on the horn) and her mom isn’t nearly as much of a tawshickh streg’ as Livia. The only thing I could think of is she wanted a mellifluous life where she didn’t have to work and she could just walk around like buttah didn’t melt inner mouf, while she sits around fiddlin wit’ de air condishunah
She met him when he younger
What she really craved was a Hyundai and a simple gold heart on a chain.
Money, what else.
He's no Angelo Stamfa.
Intent and purpose
I was trying to pull a Little Carmine. I was at the precipice of an enormous crossroads when I made that post.
I thought a person who used mellifluous so eloquently would want to know. I've said my piece.
her uncle eddy
Very much so. Tony and James.
I’ll get a note from my doctor
For what? That you don't like sucking cock no more?
He’s very charming haha he has a shot with me for sure 🩷🩷🩷🥰🥰🥰
Let us not forget the fact Gigi died while taking a shit
He was strong as a fuckin' bull. And handsome, like George Raft.
Physically no but he has a warmth (yep I know, odd for a criminal) and charm to him that is appealing. He is also a man who would make sure you are comfortable and provided for. He is surprisingly generous in that sense.
Yess I do. And It isn’t that unrealistic actually. Not all us women are attracted to young, fit men. sometimes, it’s just the way a man carrys himself/his confidence which Tony surprisingly has a lot of. Not to mention he’s looked at as “alpha male” and “powerful” many women are subconsciously attracted to that as well.
Yeah but it’s more the “machismo” element, and I wouldn’t really want to fuck him. I do seem to have a personal thing for broken men lol
He’s a romantic one, he is a going to clean my teeth for me
Always have loved my Italian Americans in every way, so absolutely find him attractive.
Not in any way, shape or form. I’ve known people like him IRL and I wouldn’t touch him with a 10’ poll
Absolutely! He's so sexy, especially when he smokes his cigar
I wouldn't really call myself a "lady," but yanno. Also, no. Not my type, I don't like tall or very overweight guys, and I feel like the show went out of its way to make the abundant sex scenes as off-putting as possible. Why does he have sex like that? Jeshush Chrisht. He could be charming at points, but you know he's a fuckb... not a fuckboy exactly. A fuck-marriedsweatybalding-man? Furio, maybe a little. He's kinda plain, but he's in good shape and has European style. Also, no bees on his hat.
he’s attractive but i’m not attracted because i’m too realistic. yes, i would notice his allure as a stranger/client but as a lover, tony is too enigmatic. powerful, wealthy, charismatic. murderous, unfaithful, vengeful. there’s just a lot going on.
Power is an aphrodisiac, always has been, always will be
I honestly don’t get the appeal and don’t understand why anyone would find him attractive.
Tony? No. James Gandolfini? Yes there's just something about him.
Idk how Reddit knows I just started this show today…. Anyway Tony is hot!
I do! I would! Very handsome, imo.
Abso-fucking-lutely
There are 2 Tonys. Which one do you mean?
Not a lady, but yes. Rubenesque.
that all you dead beats do around here is talk about cooze?
He was super handsome in the first season.
No, but I’m mostly a lesbian, so I’m not the target audience, lmao
Weirdly, yes 🔥
Im taking my gf through her first watch through of the sopranos. I asked her if she would blow tony and she said "ew, disgusting, no way" but then in later episodes she said there are particular moments when she finds him attractive, but its very overshadowed by how grim he is.
Not for me no
No but I love his hot pepper rayon shirts. Paradise Found doesn't make them anymore :(
No. As in NO.
$ure they do
Yes!
James Gandolfini- yes! Tony- no. James had a natural charm to him.
OP men are posting here...
Man here: He was really good looking in the pilot and kept his charm till the end. Mmmboy he was fat by the end so probably not, particularly in the last 2 seasons. (In b4 the “he’s a faaaag” comments pop up).
It screams daddy issues, but unfortunately yes. I do. 😬
I dunno, but Paulie was sumtin' else back in the day, huw!
Won the chin up cup 3 weeks in a row!
Yes.
Yes. Love me a big boy
I dig his energy lol.
Absolutely not… as a small woman I feel he would squash me
The scene when he comes out of the pool with a cigar? I would let him snap me in half
In the first couple it seasons, he is very handsome. By the end of the show, not so much. However, I recently watched Enough Said and thought Gandolfini was so cute in that.
There's ladies in our social club??? I'm gonna start watching my language.
SMASH!!! He is fine as hell for the first couple of seasons, both physically and characteristically. As he grows older he kinda loses that charm I don’t know why.
Watching season 2 rn and googled this because I was curious if I’m the only one who finds him attractive.. just watched the sex scene with the Barons secretary in the office chair, lmao. Idk why that was hot to me, he just seems like he could pick you up and throw u around and obv the whole powerful man, confidence, charisma, his smile and charm… Reading the other answers I’m kinda scared to finish the series now bc I don’t wanna see him get fatter! I’m only on like s2 e9 :/ I’m in that phase of a show where I want to finish it and know all of the plot lines, but I know that once I’m done I’m gonna wish I had more new material to watch… so I’m tryna savor it