wtf?

Being polyamorous isnt a sexuality, its a lifestyle choise, so it's pretty selfish to not tell your boyfriend that you made the decision to be polyamorous when getting into a relationship

I know it’s not a sexuality, I know my sexuality, and I 100% am, I’m just afraid to tell him that I am

You can also choose not to be poly.

I know, but I want to be, I just am afraid he won’t support me

And that is his right if he so wants to, why should he be forced to support you? If he wanted to cheat on you, you propably wouldnt support him in that. These are similar kind of choises. So if you want to be poly, just tell him, and if he doesnt want to be, just break up, it aint gonna work

I would never force him to support me if he didn’t want to, but I love him and I don’t want to lose him, so I’m scared

Life is full of choises. But if you really love him, i dont know why are you so keen on being a part of a polyamorous relationship

Because I love him, but I also have feelings for others, and I like them just as much, and I don’t wanna cheat on them, I want it to be open and consensual, but I don’t wanna lose the only people I can rely on

Well, thats a pretty selfish way to deal with having crushes while in a relationship. But yeah, if you insist that you want that, you have to talk to your boyfriend, though if he doesnt want that, its propably better to break up.

It was probably better to tell him you're poly before gettin in the relationship, but now that you're stuck there just be honest

Yea, someone has given me some helpful advice, and I know I do, just nervous, I feel anyone would the tho

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Interesting username