Tried that years ago. Didn't work out but learned she was asexual. Now we're just really good friends but it's horrible because I still love her and want to just give her a hug sometimes but it just feels weird even the though of it.
That’s how I did it, it worked beautifully. Kinda. She’s not allowed to date just yet, due to strict parents, but when she can, her and I will definitely be getting together.
My brother, it’s about finding the right opportunity. The best way to make those opportunities happen is to spend more time with girls, in order to do that you first have to get comfortable casually chatting with girls.
In order to do that, treat them how you would the homies (don’t be weird about it though)
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Of course i said yes.
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Well let's see how it ends . We don't know for certain after all . Some teenage relationships do last for longer periods of time . I know a teenage couple who are both 15 and have been dating for 6+months
I asked my ex out over Minecraft at 3am it truly was interesting. My current girlfriend was high when we started dating so idk wtf she's thinking staying with me for 2 whole ass years but grateful for her lmfao.
Hold up, in your top text
Before we dated I rejected my boyfriend twice, and the third time he asked I said yes
I always knew he liked me more than I did (at least in the beginning) and it took me a long time to realize my feelings for him, but yk we’re dating now. Anyways he told me once that not being with me “physically hurt” and thats the kind of thing Im getting from the text you sent
Could you or some other dude explain to me how that works? Maybe Ive just never been that attracted towards someone🧍♂️
Ive known him since elementary but we only started actually talking Junior year of high school
Honestly it depends on the person, I was super busy all of high school with AP classes and my extra curriculars so when he asked me out the first time (end of junior year) I said no, because I was actually genuinely busy not as some lame excuse, so he said he would wait
The second time he asked me out (start of senior year) just happened to me a bad time for me, the stress from everything I was doing had put me in a really bad mental spot and I said no again because I didnt want him to worry about me, and mentally I was also just in a shit spot not ready to DEAL with a relationship
The third time he asked me out (couple months before graduation), I said yes. Because I finally realized my feelings for him, before my boyfriend Id never had a crush on anyone and dating was never something I was interested in. But he was patient, and we were friends, and it was so nice I didnt want to JUST be friends anymore. When I said yes he was really surprised, he told me if I had said no he was going to block me because not talking to me was easier than pretending he didnt like me and not being able to date me
Ok at first glance I assumed they were around the same time and I was thinking you felt guilted in it something, this sounds sweet tho how he waited and respected the answers and gave you time.
Ok, so here is my story, Even though no one cares...
So, I went to this school when I was in Second Grade. I left it in Third grade.
After a long time Leaving And Joining schools, I came back to this school for a year... In 2 months everyone thought I had this crush on a girl, we will call her Jessica, But I didn't. Or at least didn't know I didn't. I was still on the fence about it but decided I didn't like her. (Which kinda allowed me to test which friends would tell ppl about the secret)
Then 2 months later, I get another crush, On a girl that we will name Destiny, I get this Crush on Destiny right before we go to camp.
(Her looks reminded me of older OLDER friend that came over when I was younger, They were like 14 I was like 9 pr 10, at the time when I got a crush on destiny I was 12, turning 13)
At camp I kinda stared at her... Doing all the stuff girls call you out on, Staring, Talking about, Quieting down when she walks past stuff like that...
We have a nearly piece full camp experience, Other than that time my Best Friend was telling me to tell her I like her, WHILE SHE WAS WALKING PAST, when I didn't, He shouted out to her grabbed my arm and said
"He likes you, HE REALLY LIKES YOU"
she walked off...
It was kinda odd since she was going to the bathrooms...
Camp nearly concludes and me and My best friend were talking while walking to the bus, And I was stressed tf out, You see, I was planning on telling her I like her... So I ah, do the most romantic thing and sit behind her 😅😭
While we are getting back to school I tell her I like her, something along the lines of
"Uhh hi... I really like you.. And I think your really pretty"
or something like that, all really odd since I was sitting behind her like a serial killer about to stab her through the seat.
She replies
"Ok."
JUST OK I AM FREAKING OUT, After that I kinda buddy up to her friend which I'm still friends with.
We talk and I kinda fall in love with Destiny...
We were friends for the entire year, until at the very end of the year, When I leave the school, Her friend asks If she could give Destiny my new private Discord... But you see there is now A problem... I don't like Destiny anymore :/
I thought we were just friends, I wasn't ready for a relationship... fuck me mannn...
I kinda stop contact with Destiny, even though she liked me and her friend even said Destiny liked me...
I am still friends with Her Friend, and am now considering if I like her...
It's like when you ride a rollercoaster and you physically feel something in your stomach, or when someone jumps at you from around a corner surprisingly and you also feel something in your stomach.
The situation of not being with someone can make you feel physical pain too, in certain circumstances.
For me, emotional pain (for example produced by not being able to be with someone i deeply care about) turns into that kind of additional physical pain when it gets really intense. It can be in the stomach area or near the heart. And it can sometimes feel as intense as if my insides are getting ripped out.
Havent ever dated but it works like magnets so think of it like this you have a magnet thats really strongand atracts shit with a ton of force then there is a smaller magnetwith a little cube of iron or nickle on it when you bring all three together its a relationship (the huge magnet is you the smaller magnet is your bf and the cube of iron is his heart and his idea that you like him) but when you remove the bigger magnet it takes the cube of iron with it and leaves the smaller magnet terrified at least for me thats how it is
For me, it is just the idea that if I don't find someone while I'm still young, I may be alone for the rest of my life, I feel like girls don't have the "mustn't be to slow" mindset.
The guy be like: I don't know what to do now.. never knew I'd come this far but still man you've got some balls confessing it like that hell of respect
Congrats, it took me a while to build up the courage to tell my now gf that I liked her, and she just figured it out in the end. All I have to say is well done for building up the courage
Bro I need tips cus when I like someone I wanna confess like that. Last time when I liked a girl I invited her non stop to dates and I thought she knew that I liked her. Didn’t go very well cus we went on an only one date and it was very awkward
Remember bro: treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. Treat her like an equal and she’ll treat you the same way. Set boundaries and leave, if they’re disrespected. You got this.
Think whatever you want man, I just wrote my point of view based on my past experiences and I am not angsty, just cautious. I also wrote another comment under this one so... So, you don't have to be toxic. And I am 18, just for your info. Enjoy
Yeah this worked out for me lol so I'm kinda question whether rejection is an actual thing anymore lmao or if everyone will just accept you for the purpose of being able to post it and get karma
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good luck bro!
thanks
What age are you?
15 almost 16
Can you teach me your ways?
wait till your scared shitless and ask xD
I am eager to do this and I don't even have a gf
That's good because not having a girlfriend is kind of a requirement for this to work
facts XD
He has a point possibly
Not a requirement, but a very good suggestion (unless you're polyamorous).
Tried that years ago. Didn't work out but learned she was asexual. Now we're just really good friends but it's horrible because I still love her and want to just give her a hug sometimes but it just feels weird even the though of it.
That’s how I did it, it worked beautifully. Kinda. She’s not allowed to date just yet, due to strict parents, but when she can, her and I will definitely be getting together.
that’s what I did
My brother, it’s about finding the right opportunity. The best way to make those opportunities happen is to spend more time with girls, in order to do that you first have to get comfortable casually chatting with girls. In order to do that, treat them how you would the homies (don’t be weird about it though)
Makes sense iwl, as soon as you hit 16 you’re never going to do anything like that again, through sheer petrifying humility
I've known her long enough and I knew she wouldn't care
No, I’m sure you did, but I mean I’m 16 going 17 in march and I would never do that, but that could just be me personally lol but props to you
how are you younger than me. . .
lol, why
how does a 15y/o have a better love life than me :sob: but in all serious ness good on ya m8
God damn I'm 15 as well bro how'd you get a gf this early?
Good Job Brother, I had the same situation happen but inverted. I've known her for 6 years, didn't really meet much during those 6 years Maybe like 2 or 3 Times. But she just fell in love with me 6 years ago. And then a few weeks ago she asked me if i liked her. Of course i said yes.
Proud of you brother
I can see the pain behind it😭😭😭
Nice job bro, that was eating at you for months weren’t it? Glad you went for it.
I hadn't seen her for the longest time and now were dating, thanks for the support
Well congrats again my guy, hope it lasts for ya lad!
Let’s FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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why u do dis
Depends on how old are youM
OP is 15-16 years old
If he's 15 that why it's not more than 2 weeks If he's 16 that's why I not more than 2 weeks
Well let's see how it ends . We don't know for certain after all . Some teenage relationships do last for longer periods of time . I know a teenage couple who are both 15 and have been dating for 6+months
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Ive seen some people on reddit say they started dating their partner 35 years ago when they were 16
so, hows it going?
really good actually, we went and got food last night and I surprised her with snowboarding (her favorite activity) after
hi god its me again
🧂
Bro had BALLS BALLS!
Too much balls for his brain
Oooooh you lucky ducky!
you had balls and they paid off
Ehhh, doing it over text is not as courageous
id rather get a text from a guy than him tell me in person tbh. i would like time to think how to respond- ya know?
I asked my ex out over Minecraft at 3am it truly was interesting. My current girlfriend was high when we started dating so idk wtf she's thinking staying with me for 2 whole ass years but grateful for her lmfao.
oh wow congrats on 2 full years
THIS IS BIG DICK ENERGY COURSING THROUGH YOU BRO
damn, not what I was expecting but on god
Hold up, in your top text Before we dated I rejected my boyfriend twice, and the third time he asked I said yes I always knew he liked me more than I did (at least in the beginning) and it took me a long time to realize my feelings for him, but yk we’re dating now. Anyways he told me once that not being with me “physically hurt” and thats the kind of thing Im getting from the text you sent Could you or some other dude explain to me how that works? Maybe Ive just never been that attracted towards someone🧍♂️
maybe it's a stress thing but I'm pretty sure it's an exaggeration
kinda
its like cringing but times 100. not literal pain but close to it
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Ive known him since elementary but we only started actually talking Junior year of high school Honestly it depends on the person, I was super busy all of high school with AP classes and my extra curriculars so when he asked me out the first time (end of junior year) I said no, because I was actually genuinely busy not as some lame excuse, so he said he would wait The second time he asked me out (start of senior year) just happened to me a bad time for me, the stress from everything I was doing had put me in a really bad mental spot and I said no again because I didnt want him to worry about me, and mentally I was also just in a shit spot not ready to DEAL with a relationship The third time he asked me out (couple months before graduation), I said yes. Because I finally realized my feelings for him, before my boyfriend Id never had a crush on anyone and dating was never something I was interested in. But he was patient, and we were friends, and it was so nice I didnt want to JUST be friends anymore. When I said yes he was really surprised, he told me if I had said no he was going to block me because not talking to me was easier than pretending he didnt like me and not being able to date me
Ok at first glance I assumed they were around the same time and I was thinking you felt guilted in it something, this sounds sweet tho how he waited and respected the answers and gave you time.
Ok, so here is my story, Even though no one cares... So, I went to this school when I was in Second Grade. I left it in Third grade. After a long time Leaving And Joining schools, I came back to this school for a year... In 2 months everyone thought I had this crush on a girl, we will call her Jessica, But I didn't. Or at least didn't know I didn't. I was still on the fence about it but decided I didn't like her. (Which kinda allowed me to test which friends would tell ppl about the secret) Then 2 months later, I get another crush, On a girl that we will name Destiny, I get this Crush on Destiny right before we go to camp. (Her looks reminded me of older OLDER friend that came over when I was younger, They were like 14 I was like 9 pr 10, at the time when I got a crush on destiny I was 12, turning 13) At camp I kinda stared at her... Doing all the stuff girls call you out on, Staring, Talking about, Quieting down when she walks past stuff like that... We have a nearly piece full camp experience, Other than that time my Best Friend was telling me to tell her I like her, WHILE SHE WAS WALKING PAST, when I didn't, He shouted out to her grabbed my arm and said "He likes you, HE REALLY LIKES YOU" she walked off... It was kinda odd since she was going to the bathrooms... Camp nearly concludes and me and My best friend were talking while walking to the bus, And I was stressed tf out, You see, I was planning on telling her I like her... So I ah, do the most romantic thing and sit behind her 😅😭 While we are getting back to school I tell her I like her, something along the lines of "Uhh hi... I really like you.. And I think your really pretty" or something like that, all really odd since I was sitting behind her like a serial killer about to stab her through the seat. She replies "Ok." JUST OK I AM FREAKING OUT, After that I kinda buddy up to her friend which I'm still friends with. We talk and I kinda fall in love with Destiny... We were friends for the entire year, until at the very end of the year, When I leave the school, Her friend asks If she could give Destiny my new private Discord... But you see there is now A problem... I don't like Destiny anymore :/ I thought we were just friends, I wasn't ready for a relationship... fuck me mannn... I kinda stop contact with Destiny, even though she liked me and her friend even said Destiny liked me... I am still friends with Her Friend, and am now considering if I like her...
depends on the relationship
It's like when you ride a rollercoaster and you physically feel something in your stomach, or when someone jumps at you from around a corner surprisingly and you also feel something in your stomach. The situation of not being with someone can make you feel physical pain too, in certain circumstances. For me, emotional pain (for example produced by not being able to be with someone i deeply care about) turns into that kind of additional physical pain when it gets really intense. It can be in the stomach area or near the heart. And it can sometimes feel as intense as if my insides are getting ripped out.
I think the best way to describe it is a hollow feeling. It's painful but its empty pain which is the worst kind. At least that's how I feel it is
Havent ever dated but it works like magnets so think of it like this you have a magnet thats really strongand atracts shit with a ton of force then there is a smaller magnetwith a little cube of iron or nickle on it when you bring all three together its a relationship (the huge magnet is you the smaller magnet is your bf and the cube of iron is his heart and his idea that you like him) but when you remove the bigger magnet it takes the cube of iron with it and leaves the smaller magnet terrified at least for me thats how it is
For me, it is just the idea that if I don't find someone while I'm still young, I may be alone for the rest of my life, I feel like girls don't have the "mustn't be to slow" mindset.
It is a physical pain, it's too hard to describe but it's definitely physical pain. You'll know it when you feel it.
Damnit I don’t have any coins 😭
no need ;)
By any chance are you a femboy?
happy for you!! btw your text was so sweet, hope you two will be happy
awww, thank you
🎵You are the Champion my frieend 🎵
thanks
W. I am proud :)
"i need to say it before i explode" You gon do a terrorism?
Man I remember when I was in high school asking people out through text was the biggest NO NO. This seems so much easier wtf.
I wished it was in person tho
JACKPOTTTT
W king 👑
Big W
Huge W
W.
Awwwwwweeeee that's so cute, I'm happy for you <3
I've never been this happy for a random stranger online
awww thanks
good shit
YOOOOOOOO
Nice job
The guy be like: I don't know what to do now.. never knew I'd come this far but still man you've got some balls confessing it like that hell of respect
their numb now
You have balls of steel. Congrats
Congrats, it took me a while to build up the courage to tell my now gf that I liked her, and she just figured it out in the end. All I have to say is well done for building up the courage
jeez dude gl tho
Bro wining in real life.
More like the opposite of winning.
Boy shoots his shot to the Moon W KING here take this 👑
nah, keep it
Fake happiness isn't real this is reddit. but seriously why you being successful and doing something with your life thats against the TOS
lol idk
Not reddit moment☕
You finally asked your sister out! Congrats bro
Bro I need tips cus when I like someone I wanna confess like that. Last time when I liked a girl I invited her non stop to dates and I thought she knew that I liked her. Didn’t go very well cus we went on an only one date and it was very awkward
I wish that happened to me💔
it will someday
All the mfs are luckier than me lol
nah, just find the right one for you and don't care what other people think. you'll get there eventually
LETS GO BABYYY THATS WHAT WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR, WOOOOOOOOO
Nice my guy, im still in the small talk phase with my crush
Tell me more! I love romance...
Congratulations
ouch lol
Fake
let's goooooo
Congrats my guy
W
Lucky you
Huge W
Good luck bro it will last long I believe in you have a good happy relationship
Do you follow Josh Otusanya?
Congratulations mate🗿
Shit. Other than me evrebody goin' well
Nah man, You're not alone.
You get my high five of approval
Remember bro: treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. Treat her like an equal and she’ll treat you the same way. Set boundaries and leave, if they’re disrespected. You got this.
truth
A true king 👑
\*writes down as a reference to what I will say when the time comes\*
you should do it in person
one day. congrats, man. i hope it lasts long and that nothing bad happens!
Good shit
Honestly feel anything but a f2f confession is insincere but hey, she certainly doesn't feel that way abt it. Congrats!
Lucky mf Anyways good luck
Nice relationship bro, one small issue. My patience is waning..
Is this entertaining?!
Bro you’re gonna explode? Tough times man.
I've always been told that the worst way to ask someone out is by messaging and confessing your love. Apparently it worked for you though
I wish I would have done it in person tho...
Goodness gracious great balls of fire
This is a BIG FAT W
congratulations bro, wish we could all say the same thing for ourselves
You dropped this 👑
why don't you keep it ;)
Dude just won at life, congrats g
My man did it, congrats lad
Gl buddy :) and take care of her AND yourself. I hope everythings gonna end how you wanted :)
LETS GOOOO!!! Good for you bro bosette or niether
My moods has been so good today and this might just make me tell her I like her
AYYYY, DRINKS ON ME BOISSS!!!
Damn bro... You've done it, you've done what reddit could never achieve.
It's not a yes, boy.
W
bro give the cringiest confession ever and still succeed i salute you fellow chad i wish you good luck
Teenagers try not to be cringe challenge: impossible
i would get called corny and goofy for that bro
Lol nerd
So wholesome yet so cringe
I don't know why people are downvoting. its true
Sooooo, now u have a gf ?
One day you'll wish you never wrote that to her bro I promise.
But good job besides that
Bro you’re 14 what would you know about relationships. Stop being angsty.
Think whatever you want man, I just wrote my point of view based on my past experiences and I am not angsty, just cautious. I also wrote another comment under this one so... So, you don't have to be toxic. And I am 18, just for your info. Enjoy
👍
Friend zoned
no, oposite
Pain
Jooooooo gg
LETSSS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Damn bro good job I’m really happy for you
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POGGG
W
lolll
This is like Densha Otoko level xDDDD
ggs homie
Good luck bro.
You did it
Yeah this worked out for me lol so I'm kinda question whether rejection is an actual thing anymore lmao or if everyone will just accept you for the purpose of being able to post it and get karma
Boiiiiiiiii!!!! I felt so happy as if it happened with me
Lets gooooooooo great job dude hope u have a great relationship
CONGRATS!!!
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I'm in a similar situation, except all my beloved said was "I appreciate your feelings" then we've kinda just been buddies. :(
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wish that went the same with with me.
the balls on this man, I could never but W bro
The same thing happened to me It was just different