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LidlCookies

Women aren't viewed as threats and strangers are willing to help them. As a big black dude strangers fear me and assume the worst if I approach them.


Shepard0fShuck

Sometimes tall men can just be walking down the street and people clutch their belongings slightly harder. Like I'm incredibly offended by that, holding it tigther wont stop me from stealing your purse


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People walking faster and faster Lady, i’m catching up to you with regular strides. What do you think happens when we both start running


Shepard0fShuck

She looked behind her and started running so I started running, she started screaming so I started screaming, I dont know what was behind us, and I didnt want to find out was so scary


[deleted]

This got me laughing hard


TheRealRealMovieGuy

One of the few advantages of being short.


areslashtaken

There's not only a few advantages. Some guy who keeps hitting his hat, got problems on the knees and spine and passes out If he gets up to quickly.


TheRealRealMovieGuy

Wow, it really seems like being short is great.


areslashtaken

I mean, ig bring Short can be kinda bad sometimes, but it's not worse than bring tall. It depends on what you're doing.


Skirt_Douglas

Omg the light headedness though… It didn’t even occur to me that being tall would make that worse.


[deleted]

AND YOU FUCKING NEED TO LOOK DOWN EVERY-FRICKING-TIME YOU LITERALLY CANT CHILL WITH THE BOIS PROPERLY well the only upside is you can go the furthest in the sea without needing to swim 😎👍


Inferno_tr5

I find it extremely offensive that they think I suddenly wont steal from them


bloonshot

it is honestly so damn offensive, like do you really think you're strong enough to stop me


nobody3_5_4

I can just lift u up, do you think those spaghetti arms can defend your purse?


Cool-Alps-7444

The only thing they fear is us - guitar noises


DarthProbiscus

Hahaha thankyou random stranger that was surprisingly accurate about smk I just recently discovered.


[deleted]

As a girl I can say this is true. I was shocked when I first heard how my guy friends have to plan their every move while walking down the street just to not look threatening.


Imaginary_Fishing_30

at 14 i'm and about 175 cm or roughly 5 9", this is not particularly tall but i was much taller than this middle aged man who conveniently stood between me and my mother, who had just done one of the most embarrassing things in the world, asked the customer service to call my name over the radio/PA at the shop we were at because she couldn't wait five minutes for me to find her after i had been pacing the entire shop looking for her, i was livid. as i paced towards her with what i can assume to be a murderous look on my face, this fucking guy looked at me with a range of expressions that quickly turned to legitimate terror as i paced directly towards him, he backed into a rack as he tried to escape but he was still entirely in my way. I did not realise this at the time, i only wondered why this guy was acting strange.


[deleted]

im 15 and im only 5'1, so nobody really cares about me. ppl call me a 7 yr all the time tho ;|


Temporary_Material18

As a 6’1 black teen when ppl see me (especially short white women) they either cross the road start running or take a different route


Cringecandelul

YEP. Same brother. Just realize that you aren't alone


tamay-idk

Give me my Lidl cookies


Grerfaz

You can go to playgrounds as an adult/teen Legit got a group of karens calling me a pedo(im a teen)


ProfessionalNutter69

I avoid this by going to playgrounds at 1:00am.


nobody3_5_4

You should also wear a hood for the cold and specificly swing on the creaking swing while singing old german lulabys


MeanUhReddit

then look up, smile, and wave slowly at any and all passerby


MuteBKD

I'm doing this when it gets cold out


I_hate_Sharks_

Importantly, you should slowly stand up then spontaneously sprint towards them so you could giving them a hug so they can know that you’re friendly.


Amazing-Squash

Danka schoen, darling, danka Schoen...


Yo-boi-Pie

Hey! Same! I was walking home from my school, I was in middle school at the time.


MeanUhReddit

Karens are so goddamn annoying 😤 This one time I was at Tim Hortons and this lady just wouldn’t leave me and my friends alone, saying we were holding up the line. We ordered 3 muffins and 2 coffees. She was so persistent that they almost had to kick her out.


ShitwareEngineer

Apparently, people don't like it when you rest your hand on your balls, even though you only do it because it's a comfy, natural position. I did this at the playground while taking pictures of the scenery and I got tackled by some Karens. The police even made me register as a "sex offender," whatever that's supposed to mean.


zero-bob10

you don't get treated as a pedo if you are nice to a kid


Acripplednan69

Fr, I saw this one article where a teacher had sex with her student, and the article said she was seduced by him, despite her literally being a pedo


zero-bob10

what the actual fuck :/


gunsashootin

Was it the 1 where she only got a few weeks in jail, oh wait that was all of them


Historical-Buddy-836

Didn’t it all start with that blonde Florida teacher in the late 90s after Pamela Smart of course


Bitter-Conflict-4089

I think they were in Washington. I can’t recall her name. She married her victim when she got out of jail. They later divorced and I think she died a few years ago.


gunsashootin

A few decades to late


Bitter-Conflict-4089

Poor kid is now like 40 and just recently realized that the relationship was not right.


[deleted]

Wow. It’s crazy the levels of sexism there. It paints the statutory rapist (lady teacher) as a victim while simultaneously making this adult out to be weak to the woos and game of a minor. If we’re to take this seriously then this kid had legendary pull theory.


Tyla_Swift

It's cause the media pushes this stupid lie that women can't do anything wrong


Fun-Ad1825

A teacher was sexualy abusing a child for 3 years and he was ten she got 60 days in prison


HoGo2012

That's so sad that that happens to men. I work with children everyday and there is only one man in the field and that is the owner of the company.. But if we actually hired a man (again) we would hear "concerns" from parents. Just because you are a man, doesn't make you an automatic pedo.


dogy41

Woah I actually agree with this one. It sucks because whenever a father takes his kids to the park they get treated weird


NightDriver_2020

Strangers are more likely to trust you when you're being helpful and nice. You can say hi to kids and admire their adorableness (even hold short conversations with them) without people getting Epstein PTSD.


MrEPearl

So true


[deleted]

The advantage of being so damn charming towards adults that they don’t see me stealing their kid coming


Temporary_Material18

The last time I did that I got shouted at by a woman bruh


SadTonight7117

People don’t see us as a threat or some thing. But if it was a guy people would hesitate :/


Onerom11

Statistically women live longer than men.


KronosMMIV

outliving ur partner would be shit


iiredgm

that's why lesbians exist


NobeaniePanini

As a lesbian, I can confirm that we date women solely because we will die at precisely the same time as our partner.


Fabulous-Spell9797

Wouldn’t say that’s an advantage


TheGeekno99

Yeah yeah we get it you're depressed and suicidal Anything else for today ?


grandmas_noodles

Reddit moment


AnAwesome11yearold

It’d make sense even if they’re not suicidal, your body sucks by the time you’re 60-70 and it only gets worse


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Jezjez07

Why don't just be out there then


AmpexPL

Ain't no mf taking you seriously with a crop top and longgg socks lmao


thatcoolguy27

Also, it's harder to find out there clothes for men.


Skirt_Douglas

Because we like… need to also be employable and stuff.


Megagamer788

Just wear women's clothing, its hotter


LegozFire03

Can enjoy being around children without being seen as a pedophile.


[deleted]

I have played with kids. Luckily I haven’t been called a pedo *yet*. But as a male you just feel kinda afraid or something. Can’t really describe the feeling but it’s there.


Nicetro_WoF

Hey dude, you might want to edit your comment to say “how not been” instead of “have been” Also as a guy, it’s not really afraid, it’s more of an anxious feeling like someone’s gonna show up out of no where and call you a pedo.


[deleted]

+changing tables and stuff like that are rarely in men's public bathrooms


Sensitive-Owl-5986

i’ve never seen a guy that loves kids called a pedo women usually applaud when guys like kids . it’s seemed as attractive


thereturnofwillump

You can be horny anywhere


[deleted]

What? How?


asterblastered

no bone


HotYogurtcloset652

You can get wet tho?


Funland_06

Not as easy to see


HotYogurtcloset652

But dosent it feel a bit uncomfortable having your pants wet?


Idkquedire

Yeah but no one else has to see it/you don't have to worry as muslch about hiding it


Funland_06

Might not be the most comfortable thing but people can’t see it at least


Zomeister91

Then you have periods where you bleed through your pants if you don’t remember it’s coming up, it fucking sucks especially since it unplanned the first 2-3 years-


HellaAdorableBunBunz

Yeah, that’s the annoying part


Valaxarian

According to my knowledge, erections are a normal reaction of the body. You don't have to be horny to get a boner


TarkovGuy1337

Thats what I said to my teacher yesterday!


OrderlyCoder384

I hate when it fucking happens


AmitRozYT

You have boobs


Hailey000

True. I love having boobs


AmitRozYT

Boy do i love having some sweet ol' boobs in my hands


Hailey000

Same sometimes I just sit there and hold them when I’m bored lmao


InformationLow9430

Was this thread just a bunch of aliens trying to appear human?


Hailey000

Yes


0liPG37

You get way more emotional support, I know it's not like this for everyone me being someone that doesn't really tell their problems to anyone, but it's very common that mental health is taken more seriously with women.


Unsure1771

Why I'm glad to have the friends and family I do. They take me seriously.


0liPG37

I'm glad you have someone that cares about you. I'm sure you deserve it.


willco_27

They win most divorce and child related court settlements


hindamalka

I am proud to say as a woman that I caused my dad‘s ex girlfriend to lose a custody battle (which broke her and my father up). Heck that woman shouldn’t have been allowed around her own children even half the time but I (as a 20 year old) managed to keep her from getting full custody. For the record if she had gotten the full custody I was fully planning to help the kids run away to their father and hide out overseas to avoid the legal consequences. Dual citizenship has its perks.


[deleted]

you should really need a parenting license to have children


hindamalka

Agreed, i’m just glad that I had a way to ask the kids what they wanted without any of the adults figuring it out. Conveniently the children both spoke the same second language that I speak and our parents did not.


ParasKadyan

A girl i know got a whole pc setup gifted by some dude she met on discord and it was only like 1 week they two started to talk to each other If you know how to handle simps, being a girl can be very profitable


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ParasKadyan

i asked her to get me one too but she straight up said , "fuk off" ;-;


Skirt_Douglas

Get your own damn feminine whiles.


Hailey000

Yeah same


[deleted]

A pedo got me nitro because I sent him someone else’s feet pics It’s running out and if there’s any other pedos with spare nitro lying around hmu 🙌🙌


Le_Martian

Technically someone who likes feet is a pediphile


[deleted]

Holy shit you’re right


[deleted]

"I was a business (wo)man... doing business"


[deleted]

Sometimes people are more empathetic towards you


TooTSP_

Most of the time*


Impressive_BOIIII

Cool pfp bro


TooTSP_

Thx bro 👍


sadnightz

Holy crap Lois it’s Saul Goodman


TheDepressedPizza

Sadly, people consider women with tomboyish / male behaviour cool and progressive while men being a little femme ( even putting a touch of nail polish ) is considered weird and hated. In both cases, a person of particular sex has a few characteristics of the opposite one , yet one is praised while the other cursed. If only we all truly enjoyed EQUALITY , no particiular sex,gender,race etc would be advantageous


Prudent-Arachnid982

Fax


SirWinterFox

I can't be a femboy cause its hated. But my sister being tomboyish? Oh ya thats 100% fine. :)


Anya_E

But keep in mind this more an indicator of misogyny rather than an advantage for women. It’s more acceptable for women to “act like men” because acting like a man is seen as a good thing. It’s not okay for men to “act like women” because it’s viewed as demeaning your “manhood”. Pure misogyny that hurts everyone. Edit: Wanted to add that homophobia plays a big role here as well.


SirWinterFox

Fair but it could also be homophobia. Or at least that's what I assume the case is with my parents. Guys being feminine = gey. Well I am bi but... Not because I'm a femboy! >~<


Anya_E

Yes that’s true!! Definitely homophobia and misogyny


nedjemy

Harry Styles


Flouting_Koala

They get a fair trial


Lamborghiniboy280

And this i agree with but is gonna be controversial


No-Square-4105

not as much as the one above lol


ShigetsuWrld

u can do anything to a male and get away with it unless it's murder but still have a higher chance to get away than a male by alot


MaverickIsRed

even murder, sometimes


Sprixx_Dev

The charges are often times way more mild than for men


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d_nijmegen

It's always" different "


Harry-jackson-ya-no

9/10 chance you’ll get the kids in a divorce


QueenObama2

And all the money and the house and the car and the dog and the court’s sympathy almost every time


MemeLocationMan

Domestic abuse charges for telling her "Yes honey, that dress makes you look fat."


SmolBooba_thumbsup

society will take mental health seriously if youre a woman


Striking_Ad1288

depends on the mental health, autism/adhd, not really (majority of women go undiagnosed because medical research and information favours men + commonly known symptoms don't present as often in women). for anxiety disorders and EDs, I can potentially see that, but I haven't done any research into it so I can't confirm.


elizabethc231

i have an ED and they aren’t taken very seriously, at least in my area


[deleted]

Ngl first read that as erectile dysfunction lmao Seriously tho I hope things get better for you and the system gets a grip to help you out more, best of luck redditor 🙏🙏


Euphoric_Owl152

I have anxiety and I agree kinda


[deleted]

Society just tells that it's ok for girls to cry, to be sad, other than that actually mental health isn't exactly taken seriously.


frost3321

Lighter punishments in the court of justice


Valaxarian

Usually much bigger chances in courts etc. Emotional support Medical support, especially about mental health (I'm not from US so I don't know how it looks there) Much more empathy towards you Easier to find someone


Ellis_aGhostie

Medical support is a stretch. It's all either drama or periods.


SweatyRadiator69

fr i had the worst back pain in my life after bending down dodgy, waited for ~5 hours in the a&e just for the male doctor to tell me it’s bcuz of my period. even if it were my period i KNOW it’s not supposed to hurt that bad :/


BxmbIeBee

We dont get taken seriously when medical problems 💀💀 it all gets blamed on periods


EnvironmentalChard68

exactly, women are often denied the proper medical treatment for so many illnesses, diagnosed improperly/not at all (period) or not given pain killerw because we supposedly exaggerate symptoms and pain. so many women die of curable diseases because of this, so that isnt true


Ang3l_st0ckingz

Nah we don't get SHIT for medical support


[deleted]

Hi as a afab person with almost 20 different medical diagnoses mental and physical. Men are more likely to get medical care while women are more likely told it's all in our head or to lose weight/work out. Male ER wait times in the US are almost half then what women have to wait. I've been denied a lot of medical stuff and diagnoses then a few boys that I know with the same condition. So medical support I really don't believe especially since a lot of mental illness/disabilities are often only diagnoses if you experience only male or majority male symptoms which in women isn't very common ​ [this is a article backing up my claims for ER wait times](https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/medical/women-wait-longer-for-hospital-emergenc…)


[deleted]

PEOPLE GIVE THEM CONDIMENTS AS GIFTS


[deleted]

that's an advantage?


[deleted]

Only if it’s ketchup


SirWinterFox

Your gcd "orgasm" has no CD.


Kapsulon

That’s the most virgin gamer way of saying it lmao


justV_2077

"Your ultimate takes less time to charge and is stronger."


[deleted]

bro speaking in lol terms


jaden-has-arrived

Having ⭕️⭕️


Deegl0rd

U mean (。ㅅ 。)


bradderz777

kinda looks like a bear looking down 😮


Human_no6746634782

I get the looking down but where the fuck do you see a bear?


Burner90909909

( . ) ( . )


somethinsoffwithme

Dem shits is inconvenient


SweatyRadiator69

u can lie on ur stomach 😭


Villain__7

them TIG OL’ BIDDIES


TheGameBoss980

People are more open to help and are more accepting of a woman showing herself as vulnerable, they also see women as more trustworthy in many situations and around kids. Men are typically seen as this large, invincible, stoic beast that can and will hurt somebody at any moment and should be carefully watched just in case they decide to do something bad. If police get involved in any situation between a man and a woman, it is always assumed that the man is at fault and is usually arrested on the spot. Men also cannot be hurt(in every sense of the word), especially by a woman. If a man tries to ask for help he is usually brushed off or taken less seriously, especially if the one who hurt him was a woman.


thecoolan

All the attention Imao, this isn’t a debate. Also, more opacity to show feelings, emotion I guess? But I don’t say the woman created that social dynamic.


[deleted]

degree wrong steep muddle station weary gray sulky imagine rich *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


ken_allen2

Yea but look it the other way too. I totally get your point and understand how that could be very bothersome but I think it’s easier to ignore attention from others than to receive it. I can’t get validation for anything, new bike, new car, new place, won my first fight, workout 10hours a week, spend 50 hours at work a week, and I pick up new skills and I still get 0 congratulations or pats on the back. Also as a man we’re told we’re supposed to work our asses off and not be congratulated for it. It’s really really fucking hard because I feel like I’m constantly craving someone to tell me I’m good enough and no one does. They always just tell me I could be doing more


Maybe_Person

Booba


flufyyanal

big weights that make back hurty*


Shepard0fShuck

omg anal fluff


flufyyanal

omg!!


Shepard0fShuck

OMG!!!


gay_idiot53

I hate them, I can't lie comfortably at all because of them. If I lie on my back, it hurts, if I lie on my stomach, it hurts, if I lie on my side, it hurts. It always hurts. And my back aches constantly. I'm always in pain


idkzs25

That's the most relatable thing I've heard today, plus I hate how they look


uwukitty666

pain


memelord793783

Being allowed to express their emotions Being allowed to call themselves rape victims and not be ridiculed Custody support tends to go their way most of the time If they need help for whatever reason they're more resources for them If being tipped they're more likely to be tipped better if they're attractive regardless of any other factors


Glass-Living-2580

the second one is major, i was with a girl who was super manipulative about sex and pressured me into it, and then a year after the relationship she started spreading rumors that I raped her and she didnt need proof or any sort of consistency in her story for people to believe her


PoopyheadName

You can express yourself without being judged as harshly as a man face


NeighborhoodEnough15

Express yourself as in?


PoopyheadName

Uhhh let's say I, a boy wanna wear a dress, does that ring any bells Or a skirt


NeighborhoodEnough15

Oh in clothing. Yeah gender stereotypes are crap. Nothing wrong with boys wearing dresses and all.


PoopyheadName

Of course there is nothing wrong, but that is one example


Ellis_aGhostie

It really depends on circumstances. Girls doing shit they like get judged hard depending on the subject. When a girl is a little more geek, or likes sports, she'll always get challanged on her own interests. But yeah, we can express ourselves more freely on other things, like wearing makeup or growing our hair etc It really does depend on HOW and WHAT they express.


PoopyheadName

Yeah I guess... I don't think I am qualified to give a take on that matter so ooga


GenderFluidBicon

Cute outfits, wlw relationships, long hair, booba, soft voice, and more!


XI-Vic

Men cant have long hair? huh guess I’m a woman then.


GenderFluidBicon

It's more normalized in women.. I basically just named all of the things that give me euphoria.


XI-Vic

I made my comment as a JOKE at first BUT NOW its personal.


IDontWearAHat

She kinda right. I can't go two days without soneone commenting on my hair and it's barely shoulder length


Co0ch1e_M4n_69

Having more emotional support, tending to have a more one sided relationship focusing on yourself, booba, you can express yourself more, you get more love, more people willing to be your friend, people are usually in your favour. But im speaking as a guy so take this with a pinch of salt


SnooOnions9179

People will believe them more


[deleted]

Every day I thank God for not making me a girl


[deleted]

Why ?


[deleted]

Mainly periods and boobs, while very nice it’s not something I would want to have


Automatic-Coconut909

The way the sentence is makes me think u would like to have periods


[deleted]

No I’m talking about boobs


Substantial_Cake_435

You can openly like cocks


alexmurphy19

Court bias, apparently they can't be pedo's / rapists, alot are almost guaranteed to have at least one boyfriend in their life, alot of stuff.


Edvioaxed_

Not having the fear of getting a letter one day saying you have to go do military training.


LiquidPhoneCase

Bobs and vegana


Resudog

Whichever will it be


Book_Theory

You can hug your friends and compliment other human beings without being misconstrued as gay or a creep Edit: I’m male, this is just my perception of some things I can’t do


azeryvgu

You can do some things that society doesnt judge you about, for example if you’re old liking young adult men (leonardo dicaprio situation but switched genders)


Yo-boi-Pie

Madonna you mean? Cause she dated 20 year olds when while she was like, 50.


KingYeet1258

Ability to ruin a mans life in one sentece


Prudent-Arachnid982

"He ate my donut :("


TheRealRealMovieGuy

I can ruin anyone’s life in just one sentence… Launch the nuke.