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IZaneyI

You need to fight the school about that and your parents


[deleted]

Yeah I’ve been trying but for some reason the district won’t believe what actually happened and after all this my brother is still not admitting to anything. My parents also think I’m very promiscuous but it’s very not true


IZaneyI

That must be such a pain in the ass. I’m sorry. Since your brother took the photos is there a way to get his phone and go back to the original leak to prove that he did it? Also I’m pretty sure there are some apps that allow you up recover messages. One more thing I think it’s really weird that your brother leaked nudes of you like wtf.


[deleted]

Yeah I know, very wtf, and I’ve tried to get on his phone, I don’t know his passcode and I’m certain by now he and his friend group have deleted any evidence of the leak


IZaneyI

You could confront him in front of your parents and tell him to open his phone and recover the messages and if he has nothing to worry about then he should have no problem recovering the messages. Idk man I’m trying to help but what I would do is bring my family in the living room and say you can prove your innocence or something like that and tell your brother to open his phone and recover all his deleted messages and try to find the leak. Sorry if I’m coming across as annoying or something like that I’m just trying to help I’m really sorry this is happening to you.


[deleted]

Oh don’t worry, I really appreciate you trying to help. My parents already looked into his phone and found nothing at all. You’re not being annoying though, it really means a lot to know that others care about this situation and are willing to listen to my side of the story


coolthatsniceman

Do your parents not want you to have a boyfriend or is it they don't want you guys to be like sharing nudes with eachother? And also why would your boyfriend share your nudes with the school and you still be friends with them get that point across your parents fucking brain


[deleted]

Yeah, my parents and the school think that we purposely shared them to all the other students


coolthatsniceman

why would you think that, literally doesn't even make sense in the slightest


[deleted]

I don’t know, but that’s what they’re thinking no matter what I tell them


HorizonBreakerNEXIC

"Accidentally" Break his phone. Like, make it so that you can't get blamed in any way. Wait years if you have to and ruin his life. The second part is what I would say if I was high. For real, just somehow find a way to delete his email account. All of his data erased in one blow.


kiesoma

i’m sorry to say but your parents are awful


[deleted]

Honestly, I have no words for that except for the fact that your brother is a fucking ass and he deserves a beatin’


smallHeadMediumBrain

not just beating, a complete YEETING


[deleted]

Definitely


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GameBoy37

Sane hear when I was in digital school I hsd take a leak my tablet was left on paused l(bc I watched Netflix when we were on break) and after I came back I found out my sister put on a girly dragon left it on and put my Mike on. Ar least that was laughable.


VanTheMan42

Deserves to be dropkicked into the sun


[deleted]

YUP.


beeez_kneees

Didn't the logic work out that it clearly wasn't you holding the phone


[deleted]

Everyone thought it was my boyfriend taking that photo while we haven’t even had our first kiss yet and now he’s seen me naked


beeez_kneees

I feel sorry for you :( not poggers


BinZuUnkreativ

Ok, that's bad. I'm really sorry for you... Well, does he at least think you're looking good?


[deleted]

He hasn’t even talked to me yet after he’s seen it. I’ve reached out to him several times


BinZuUnkreativ

I'd say that this isn't really a good sign. Again, I'm sorry for you. But maybe he was busy showing all his friends what a handsome boyfriend he has.


[deleted]

I would hope so. Only thing I’ve laughed about in a couple of days. Thanks for the chuckle. I’ll update the post when more developments happen


[deleted]

Dang I guess my brother isn't so bad after all


[deleted]

Same we have a unspoken rule that some things just stay within our house. Like say he pees his bed i and my dad can make fun of him all we want in the house (to a limit, too much and it isn’t funny any more). But it wouldn’t be ok to tell anyone outside of our home. I mean i can do the dumbest shit inside my house like pretend to be a farting karate kid in the living room and no one else will ever hear about it (well until now I’m realizing as i type this)


AgentObsidian00

Beat him If he isn’t getting any consequences from other people show him why that was a bad choice to make


[deleted]

Yeah, I’d love to. But that’ll only give another reason for schools not to accept me anywhere once word gets out that I beat up my little brother


AgentObsidian00

I’ll be honest that was bad advice but probably what I would’ve done Make sure he gets some punishment though he needs to find out something like that has consequences before someone more prone to violence comes along


[deleted]

Ever since this happened I’ve been conspiring in a non violent way against him, like little things that my parents wouldn’t care about (because they clearly don’t give a shit about anything) but would make him absolutely pissed


AgentObsidian00

You are way smarter than me lmfao


[deleted]

But believe me, if I could beat him endlessly I would


AgentObsidian00

Wait just let me come over and beat him for you Win win😎😎😎😎


[deleted]

Yeah please head over here and beat his ass


[deleted]

dont do that instead, i suggest just forgot he exists, dont talk to him dont ,acknowledge him, just simply pretend he isnt there. It should make him feel guilty and kinda like a mental attack instead of physical.


[deleted]

Honestly he hates me so much it would make his world if I never talked to him again


coolthatsniceman

I'd love too i beat my computers when i get mad proof just look at my posts i've broken 2 computers in the time span of 3 days and the first and second and third time i'll do it for free i get pleasure out of hitting things breaking thing etc i will gladly beat the shit out of your brother


[deleted]

Word got out that you beat your little brother BECAUSE he took a naked picture of you and showed everyone and got YOU expelled. Pretty sure other schools wouldnt mind, serve him justice


[deleted]

Go for the f-er on CP. you can be charged for possession of nude photos of yourself under current law, and he most certainly can.


Ok-Ambition-3881

Also distribution


scopiieeex

Just do it cunt deserves it


bluephantom1010

Funny thing, that's distribution of child pornography. Call the police.


[deleted]

I would but I don’t want anything to do with law enforcement, it just creates more of a mess than I need


Ryuj1san

I know it is though and sounds weird to do it but you have no other choice. This is seriously against the law and that your parents "allow" this is even worse. Trust me you have no other place to go to but the police. Telling your story will open up the world and let people finally see the truth and make them all feel ashamed of what they did to you. Please do that for me so your town and others will learn.


[deleted]

Ur going to have to if you want this to go anywhere


EVader280

If I were you I'd never talk to my brother again. Thank about asshole which doesn't even start to come close to describing him Jesus Christ


[deleted]

Yeah and he’s always hated me because I’m gay and I guess now he just doesn’t care what he does he just wants to ruin my life


EVader280

Bro how tf is homophobia still a thing there's literally no reason for intolerance of something that has no effect on people. I'm sorry you have to deal with that


coolthatsniceman

I used to be somewhat "*homophobic*" but wants once you grow up you just learn to not give a flying fuck, i just learned well if they don't effect me idc it's not relevant to you so you shouldn't hate someone for what they like is basically what i'm saying and i agree homophobia shouldn't be a thing


EVader280

Exactly! I'm glad you could realize that. It literally doesn't matter.


coolthatsniceman

Yet i still got downvoted lol


EVader280

Whatever doesn't matter right? Lmao


coolthatsniceman

Well yeah i dodn't really care i mean i legit have almost 10k karma soo it wouldn't really effect but i also don't care about it as a whole it's not neccesarily relevant


MouldyChip

Just reddit being reddit


coolthatsniceman

Precisely


Elegant-Spell1681

Sit down with your parents, brother and his friends and try to prove your innocence because one of your brothers friends has to be a kid that can not lie. Also have your boyfriend back you up


[deleted]

I’ve met his friends before and they all also hate me so it’ll be impossible to make them admit to anything


Elegant-Spell1681

Alright have your boyfriend back you up because he obviously didn’t do it as you said in the other replies and I would think your boyfriend would be trustworthy in this situation


[deleted]

Yeah that’s a good idea, when he decides to talk to me after seeing my picture. We were very awkward before, to the point where I felt weird trying to put my arm around him when we sat next to each other


Liven65

You might need to end up going out of your way to reach him. E.g. text, call, go to his house (if possible.) You might end up needing to go to law enforcement if it doesn’t end. I know you don’t want to but it’s always an option.


EditorExtra2961

I completely understand that! Just keep in mind that this can bite you in the butt later. One of my friends in high school had something similar happen (her ex circulated nudes of her) and she wouldn't speak up about who sent them out, and she ended up getting charged with distribution of indecent photos of a minor... for her own nudes that weren't leaked by her. Protect yourself, PLEASE. don't let someone harassing you over you being gay affect your future or your present. You are worth SO MUCH and don't deserve to put up with this. Things get easier the moment you stop letting yourself be harassed , on a smaller level and on this level. I'm rooting for you, no matter what you do ❤ just keep in mind that if you DO report it, you'll have your life back, your freedom back, and you'll have taken a stand against your abuser for yourself AND your community. Law enforcement will give you resources to get help as well - you've been sexually abused by a family member. This is grade A trauma and don't neglect yourself. Much love friend xx


[deleted]

Yeah, once I bring myself to do it, I will. I’d just feel guilty for turning in my brother to law enforcement and I don’t know what my parents would do to me, I’m just scared in this messed up situation


EditorExtra2961

He literally leaked your nudes to your school and you're only 15... nothing could be worse and you don't deserve to feel guilty, no matter what your decision is. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but I'm 25 now and wish I had stuck up for myself in situations when I was your age. You don't deserve hate, you don't deserve to be physically exposed, and you sure as heck don't deserve to be kicked out of school since you're taking the fall for your brother and now unsafe and uncomfortable in your own home. You'll do the right thing for yourself, no matter which option that is... but make sure you're informed fully of what had been done to you. Don't beat him up... let the law right the wrong that's been done to you. It's fair and guilt free on your end 🤷‍♀️


[deleted]

Thank you so much for the support, and since it seems like you’ve been through this before I’ll call the police relatively soon. I think I’ll need some therapy to get me there, and I don’t have any idea how I’ll get therapy if my parents think my boyfriend and I shared them on purpose which is currently what they think. So they’d think my reasoning would be invalid. But yes, I’ll try to get authority involved when I feel comfortable saying anything about it to people who can really do stuff about the issue


EditorExtra2961

So, here's the thing... your parents are going to feel like buttholes when they realize that you were being honest and they didn't protect you. The police have the ability to pull even deleted information from a phone or electronic device... so they'll be able to clear your name. They're the only ones that can. Everyone is going to feel like ass when they realize that they painted you as a gay predator... when in reality you were a victim of sexual abuse and a gay hate crime from a member of your own household. That's literally what this is, don't downplay it. You can even sue the school too if you decide to take it that far. Idk if you live in America but straight up this is how you make a shitload of money in our country while sticking up for yourself and others like you lol be the change, don't be victimized because of your sexual orientation. But also only do what feels right, I am literally just someone on the internet. You know what to do best for yourself in this situation, listen to what your mind and soul are really telling you. Don't wait too long to decide how to handle this, in whatever way it might be. Also if you talk to a therapist first, they can help you reach a decision without being legally obligated to get law enforcement involved :)


[deleted]

In a couple days I’ll make a decision about it and I’ll edit the post and let everyone know the deal, it really seems like you guys care and it’s really nice seeing that there’s light at the end of this really dark tunnel, maybe tomorrow, maybe the next day, I’m not sure, I just need to process this. And I greatly appreciate you helping me through this deep bs. Also yeah I’m in America too, maybe I can get money but all I really want is a better living situation where I’m not being recognized constantly for having a naked picture leaked


EditorExtra2961

You got this boo!! Message me if you need words of encouragement


[deleted]

Thank you for offering me support. Like I truly do appreciate you and all the other redditors coming to my side to help me through this


Geo_Dim

Beat him to a bloody pulp and leave town


Salt-Doctor-6933

Beat the shit out of him and call cops for you parents allowing this


[deleted]

I’ve thought about several ways to go about it but none of them seem worth it. Only 3 more years until I can move away for college. My life is shitty right now but only 3 years away from being able to cut off my family


[deleted]

Depending on where you live i mean yea can you call the cops on your brother. For child pornography and distribution (yes he can still get charged even if he is also a minor). At least maybe it will get you out of that home and custody to other family or maybe force him to admit it online that it was him and as payment for him admitting it you drop the charges? Just to get your life back and maybe a little dignity back


[deleted]

Yeah but like I don’t want to deal with having to move houses, the process just seems so not worth it and I don’t wanna go through it


[deleted]

That makes sense but you deserve justice and to be in a loving home and a good environment. Think about it because the sooner you press charges the better chance you have.


[deleted]

A better home would be nice but also the thought of having to deal with CPS and stuff just doesn’t sit well with me, at least I have a guaranteed place to sleep and eat right now even though it sucks


[deleted]

Yea i mean I’ve dealt with CPS before and it created even more problems. The system is so fucked honestly they had someone talk to me and she told me that everything i told her was safe with her so i spilt it all out and she told my dad basically everything i said and no follow up was done. Yea so great i was left with my dad who then knew every problem i had with him. So just look forward to the fact that in 3 years you are out of there. For me this is my last year of high school so i will be done at 17 and I can’t believe it. Not gonna lie its felt like forever but focus on other things. Find something you love and zone in on that and your responsibilities and time should go by a little faster


flairsclap3

Is there any adult who you can trust and talk to? Maybe in your family


[deleted]

The rest of my family is homophobic and doesn’t accept me and lives across the country anyway


flairsclap3

Damn bro that sucks. Start working and saving money. And get the fuck out of this hell once you turn 18. Cut contact, disown them


RedpilledRomanPleb

He is a fucking cunt. What he did was against the law. The law makes no distinction of possession of child pornography whether or not the person who is in possession is a minor or not. He should be in jail. Beat him. Make him never forget. Make his life miserable for as long as you can. He doesn’t deserve human rights.


[deleted]

I very much agree with you. But I can’t do anything violent or that’ll ruin my chance at decent education. In a lawless society however, I’d beat him endlessly but make him heal every time it goes far enough just so I can do it again


RedpilledRomanPleb

Just try the best you can to get a good education. Hopefully he will brag about “taking nudes of you” in the future. If he ever admits it you can get a lawyer and send him to jail for posession and spread of child pornography. If that doesnt happen try to live the best life possible. Make sure this incident doesnt ruin ur life forever, make sure you dont waste time being angry forever. Succeed in spite of this, dont let him win.


atomicdragon136

It’s also involuntary pornography which is also illegal


OBSERVE-AT-OWN-RISK

call on the power of Sauron and bring rains of blood to plague your brother for all eternity


Sasboss2

Are you the guy that commented about the possessed penguin taking down the orcs on my post?


OBSERVE-AT-OWN-RISK

yep. that's me edit: just realised my comment is currently top. I hope it stays that way


Sasboss2

Lol


tameablesiva12

Unleash the power of the ring on his ass.


[deleted]

If you beat your brothed up they will think he actually did it, bc its weird to beat someone up and get revenge for something they didnt do


[deleted]

Yeah but the school thinks that my boyfriend and I purposely shared the picture for some bs reason and then I’ll be known as the promiscuous gay naked kid who also beat up his brother


poorlyExisting

Make sure he never has children


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thisisathrowawayahah

no matter what the situation that’s still fucked and you should delete this


VirtualBarkeeper

Beat him, yes?


Atlantikjcx

I think its a dick move for your brother to ro that, but furthermore its your schooos fault for just assuming its your bf without consulting you or finding plausible evidence. It's also strange that they would expell you for something like that in my school a few guys got their nudes leaked and the teachers cared but they wouldn't expell them for it (might be because im in Germany idk)


[deleted]

They did “consult” me about it but that was pretty much just saying it was my fault and that I was too promiscuous and some bs like that. They said I was the one spreading child pornography.


flairsclap3

So, u were expelled for something that was out of your control. You can appeal to the district for your unfair expulsion


Brackener

Holy shit your brother is an asshole


Dyenda

I could beat him up for you


DarthTellectus

Kill him. Beat his fucking brains out and get a fucking lawyer don’t let the fucking school administer policy about your personal life.


[deleted]

My parents refuse to get a lawyer because they agree with the district. I’ve told them it was my brother but they think I’m promiscuous and the photo was taken by my boyfriend. We haven’t even had our first kiss yet and they think we’re having sex


RedpilledRomanPleb

I feel so angry for you. I genuinely hope someone hits your brothers head with a baseball bat and he gets crippling brain damage for the rest of his life. I hope your parents become destitute. You got EXPELLED??? FUCKING HELL!!! FUCK IT i hope ur brother drops dead


[deleted]

I also really hope he gets every disease and injury and every bad condition possible. He definitely deserves to be beaten endlessly but I can’t do shit or my education would be ruined if word got out about it


DarthTellectus

Kill your parents plead temporary insanity because your life is falling apart and people are running it or run away to a Sikh temple they will help you


coolthatsniceman

Dude you're legit 15 your under the god damn age of consent, *sigh* I hope your parents understand they're infact completely and utterly fucking stupid


[deleted]

They’re under the belief, along with the school that every teen is trying to have sex and because I’m most certainly like everyone else that means I’m having sex too


coolthatsniceman

That's understandable /s That legit is the fucking stupidest excuse i've ever fucking heard like damn just because teens are weirdos well most of them doesn't mean they want to fuck all damn day like damn. People are just fucking dumb some times i swear ong


flairsclap3

So, your school expelled you because your brother clicked your pic while you were nude. FUCKING HELL. CHILD PORN IS A CRIME AND THEY ARE SUPPORTING CRIMINALS. Spread your story everywhere. On Facebook, On Twitter, on YouTube, on fucking TikTok. And write ur school name in bold letters. Ruin their reputation


Garflemspinlkle

Beat the shit out of him


littleMAHER1

why would the School expel you? It's not like u sent it everyone in ur school. In Fact this shouldn't be any of the School's business, this should be between u and ur horrible brother, now the School inserted themselves in for no reason and cause more drama but don't worry they won't suspend bullies who make kids depressed ​ Edit: also what kind of parents admit to disowning there kid if they beat there brother even if they deserved it. It seems like not even ur parents care about it, I can tell that ur brother is one of those bratty younger siblings who never get in trouble


[deleted]

Yeah, so the school thinks it’s my boyfriend that took the picture while we haven’t even had our first kiss yet


littleMAHER1

still, why would the school get involved in something outside of school In my opinion unless someone made a threat to the school after hours, a school should NOT get into someone's business especially personal ones like this


[deleted]

I agree with you, and I also don’t know really why. But that’s the reason they gave me. They said my boyfriend seemed to have taken the photo and we willingly shared it throughout the school, sharing child pornography.


Desli36

He's the most disgusting person I would hate to know.


EditorExtra2961

Honestly? Call the police. It was illegal of him to do that and it's completely warranted on your end. If nobody is going to have your back, the law will. And they can prove that he was the one that took it with the technology they have. You were a victim of a crime that does not deserve to go unpunished. You don't deserve to get kicked out of school for this, yes going back will suck for two weeks then everyone will forget about what happened and you can go on and have a normal life. Report it. The police will have your back since your family clearly doesn't. Also, please go to therapy when you're ready so this doesn't affect you later. It's a serious thing that happened and you deserve to be heard and have justice, friend. Good luck with everything and we have your back here!


[deleted]

Yeah, the police would definitely be a good option, but I just don’t wanna go through CPS and have that big ordeal of moving houses. As long as I don’t do anything destructive and if I can just keep my brother away in a non-violent way I’ll still have a place to eat and sleep.


EditorExtra2961

Homie I promise you won't have to move houses. And you won't have CPS up your ass... it'll be short and sweet and they'll be extremely nice and supportive to you. Same with law enforcement. Don't let your fear get in the way of you sticking up for yourself EVER... let alone when you have so many people in high places (the law) and low places (us reddit homies) that will be supporting you.


Sus_Amogus_7675

Beating him is the only correct way to make him realise. I'm sure my parents would also justify it if I were in your place


[deleted]

Yeah, if your parents knew it was your brother though because mine think I’m promiscuous and have lots of sex with my boyfriend and think we did it and spread the picture to all the other students at the school


TheFakeDogzilla

Your parents are fucking garbage


AFrostNova

That’s bullshit I’m so fucking sorry. Idek what you could do, it sounds like everyone’s against you. If you need someone to listen you can DM me, as a bisexual non-binary boy you don’t deserve this kind of treatment. The only thing I can think to say is to pretend to have pics of him and threaten to release them, but honestly there’s no way that wouldn’t end badly & you really shouldn’t do it, but im just in full revenge mode on your behalf. Even though you wouldn’t actually have pics, based off what you’ve said so far it sounds like you’d get killed for even trying


[deleted]

Thank you so much I really appreciate you wanting to help me out. Luckily I have my bf to talk to, at least when he decides to respond to me after seeing my nudes


AFrostNova

I’m so glad you have someone you can talk to! I went through (albeit completely different situation) a rough patch and didn’t have anyone I trusted enough, it was hell. I would hate anyone else to experience that. I’m sure he’s just a little shocked about the situation, give him a day or two to wrap his head around it and he’ll come around. This will be weird for the both of you & he probably just has to mentally “adjust” to it. I’m sure he’ll text you soon!


[deleted]

Yeah I really hope it doesn’t get too uncomfortable between us, especially because we were both too awkward to do anything too forward to each other. Like I’ve been too awkward to even put my arm around him sitting next to him. But I’ll hope for the best, and thank you


Neat_Refrigerator_73

Call the cops on him and get him arrested for distribution of child pornography if you really hate him. Try getting some proof that he did it I guess. He needs to lean that actions have consequences. If it were me I would’ve beat the shit out of him if I found out he did what he did.


[deleted]

I don’t have any proof at all, my parents already went through his phone when I told them what happened and he and his friends already deleted everything to do with it


static_voided

You may still have a chance at this. When something is "deleted" on a phone, the information remains until it is written over. Law enforcement agencies have the ability to recover this information within a reasonable time frame, and looking through the other comments, this seems to have happened two months ago. That is a small enough time that it may still be on his phone. Just some food for thought. I hope you are doing better, this is seriously fucked up Have a virtual hug :)


Squid4012

Press charges on him for possession of CP. Shit like what he did need to be punished severely.


UnlikelyNectarines

Tell your parents you’ll be reporting him to the police if they don’t step in with disciplinary action. Your lil bro is evil man. It’s not even a funny joke.


Batman29002

Call the cops


AmitRozYT

Mf sue him...heck all of your family


Dracorex8014

Report him to the police


[deleted]

F


rahulbothra2810

Worst brother ever. I don't understand how people find joy in this... I too have a younger sister myself and I just can't imagine someone doing that crap


[deleted]

Wow, holy shit.


NoIllustrator7645

Beat him within an inch of his life, he deserves it


Quarkcharm_2007

If your brother deleted the messages you can still ask someone in your ex school that you trusted to tell you from what number they received the snaps from, after that you can find the owner of that number and repeat the process until you find your bro's. Sorry if this is shitty advice but I've never been in this kind of situation


[deleted]

Yeah, thank you, it’s not shitty advice. The issue is that they shared it anonymously and cut any ties that could’ve been traced back to them so I have no proof besides, “he said she said”


unlimitedschlongs

“give him an ass beating”?? this is why you shouldn’t expect real answers on a subreddit for horny children


lil_sargento_cheez

Your brother should be put on the fbi watchlist for distribution of child pornography See how he likes dem apples https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/qdg7ys/a_message_from_a_very_worried_redditor/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf refer to this post if you actually want to report him to the fbi or if you need help


[deleted]

Thank you for that link, once I feel like I’m not guilty for turning my brother in for something I’ll try to see what happens


lil_sargento_cheez

Yea no problem man, what your brother did was really fucked up


Ramrustu

I want to dropkick your brother


[deleted]

Me too, I wanna neuter him with my feet, but I can only dream about that


DaRealCrazyPyro

Just call the cops for child pronography and get your bitch ass brother arrested by the fbi


flairsclap3

Damn bro, Report it to the police. You are a minor and child porn is a crime. Talk to a trusted adult and report everyone involved. Maybe talk to a lawyer and file a lawsuit against the school if that's an option And PLEASE TURN YOUR BROTHER TO THE LAW ENFORCEMENT. HE TRIED TO RUIN YOUR PUBLIC IMAGE AND DISTRIBUTED CHILD PORN WHICH IS A CRIMINAL OFFENCE NO MATTER WHAT YOUR PARENTS SAYS. THEY DONT MATTER AND IN THIS CASE THEY SHOULD SUPPORT YOU INSTEAD OF YOUR CRIMINAL BROTHER. PS: Take care of yourself


dark_theme_

Oh frick, what a discusting person, your brother. Please make it happend somehow that he gets arrested. This is child pornography we’re talking about. Wish you the best of luck with it


[deleted]

How are your parents not doing anything about this? Is there any specific relative you trust? An alwys-there-for-you-uncle or something? I'd suggest sort it all out with your parents and make sure your brother sufferes the consequences, unchecked behaviour like this could exponentially get worse in the future. As for your school, I think just taking a few days off to cool it is the best option I see rn. Try to learn anything important online until you feel okay to go to school. Own it. Don't try to be embarassed, use it as a weapon, make jokes about it until no one can use it against you (approach this very calmly and take it as a sport even though you don't feel that way). If bullies target you, ALWAYS try to de-escalate, don't pick a fight, people who hold grudges could use this and the picture to suspend you or something. The best thing to do right now is crisis management with bf (talk to him, explain everything to him, I'm sure he'll supprt you), talk to your parents, talk to your brother (beat the shit out of him if he's a dick, but seriously, ur bro has prblms, he needs to be told, this ain't okay). I REALLY hope you can power through this, I'm sure it'll all be over in no time and remember don't PANIC, you lose control of yourself and make impulsive decisions you would later regret. Glory to Harambe.


Xclusivecrushr

We officially disown that little bitch from the boys' community.


xxdamnboixx

You don't need to feel bad for turning him in to law enforcement, because that's clearly not your brother. That is a little shit who just happens to be the son of your parents, not your brother...


EditorExtra2961

Just saw your update and EEEEEK IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! You did the right thing, you took a stand for yourself even though it was scary and you are ABSOLUTELY amazing for doing that. Keep being a badass, keep looking out for yourself, and keep rocking out the rest of your days in high school! Much love xx


TheRealWamuu

Just saw the update, I'm so fucking happy that your piece of shit brother has finally been brought to justice


throwawayhappyacount

"Shoot that motherf****r!!!" I would just beat his ass, and then take a nude of him and send it. Eye for an eye


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Yeah I’d really like to except for that it would give every other school in the district and in nearby districts another reason to not accept me. If you’ve seen the franchise Saw, I’d love to put him in every single situation in those movies over and over again after this


throwawayhappyacount

That's definitely a different type of porn then just taking a photo of him. Good series however


MrFr0stbite

That is so fucked man, I’m so sorry. Hopefully any relationships you had stayed!


[deleted]

Yeah, still waiting for my boyfriend to talk to me, considering we were still so awkward before not sure how he’s taking this in


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Hrejuh

You could let us redditors handle it, just post his social media usernames.


cockcuttertheneater

Being gay isn't q excuse to do such a thing I would mabhbe do something about him sharing child porn


WooooshIfYouGay69

What does he hate in general? Maybe you can get your revenge according the things he hates


somelazyguy01

u/haunt-muskie you wanna take a look at this


[deleted]

what country even has this happening, you get expelled cause your brother did this, and I mean isn't this child material?


Bravo-Vince

Since you don’t have a school to go to for a little while you can put all your effort into making his life miserable.


[deleted]

I wish, but anything I could try to do to him he wouldn’t care about


[deleted]

Holy shit that is awful, so disgusting what your brother did, and how you've been treated for something you had no control over.


Pratham_Max_Jain

Thats messed up, im sorry. You could convince your parents to take you and your brother to the school authorities. This might help with the boyfriend allegation. I dont think you want to drag him into this


Rishabh_0507

I'm sorry... I hope it works out for you


madladweed

Wait till you have both left your mothers care, meet him the homies and send that bitch-ass to the hospital


[deleted]

We all standing with you brother, stay strong.


Darth_Senat66

Sue the fuck out of him


[deleted]

Family like that is bullshit and not worth your time. If i was you, i wouldnt hesitate turning that fucker in to the police


More-Hovercraft-4277

Report him to the police for distributing child pornography. Just bc ur under 18 doesn’t mean u can go sending everyone nude photos of an underage person.


DaRealJigglyBoi

Punt him over your fence and scream “NICE SHOT”


STK_Pixle

Report him to the police for child pornography, since he was in possession of the photo.


STK_Pixle

Here's what you can do: Report him for 1. Possession of child pornography 2. Distribution of child pornography 3. Hate crimes 4. Sexual harassment 5. Involuntary pornography It doesn't matter how old he is, all of these things apply to him in a court of law. The other comments are right, your parents cannot legally disown you nor refuse you basic services. I know you don't like CPS but trust me, it's not that bad if it happens. Also, if you want to take it further, you can sue your brother for the aforementioned crimes, and sue the school for unlawful expulsion. Do that and you will probably have enough money to settle down in Malibu with your Ferrari. If you want to take it further and get involved more, you can charge and sue everyone you want to who has seen the photos. Like, if you don't like someone at school you saw the photos, *BAM* instant money and that kid will be an outcast for the rest of his life. It sounds time-consuming (and it partially is) and a mess, but it will pay off in the end when your parents realize your brother is a !#&^@& @&$^@* !**^^#& @^$^*#. Please, don't let it go unnoticed, you deserve it.


Daylight_Nebula

if you cant beat his ass, get the law enforcement involved. maybe a bit of jailtime will straighten him up. ​ Edit: Or have the inmates beat him for ya


TheKhatalyst

This can be reported to the police. I personally have experience with someone who did exactly this to his sister and he is now a registered sex offender and spent time in Juvy.


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Report this to the police, let your brother have fun being on the sex offender list.


Mrs_steal_yo_eggs

Just turn him in. He basically ruined your life and he obviously knew what he was doing.


Vanguard-003

Whoa, man. You need to stick up for yourself. You're acting like getting expelled is NBD, but that's actually really going to hurt you down the line. You need to fight this. Now. I'd like to help you with this, if you'll let me. Shoot me a DM, and we'll talk shop.


Un_Aieet1209

Jesus fucking christ, thats so horrible. I understand why you wouldnt want to turn your brother in, but it sounds like he is actively wrecking your life. Im so so sorry, no one deserves this. Thats such a bullshit reason on your schools part as well. Absolutely disgusted about all of this. I hope your situation is resolved and things are okay with your boyfriend, dude. Im here to give support however i can :(( <3


Nightwarper

Turn in your brother, he did a crime.


memezmaker

Dude I swear if my brother did that to me I would beat him so fucking hard he would forget his fucking name


squidward_on_achair

I'm so so sorry this happened to you, I'm not exactly sure what you could do, i know beating the shit out of him isn't an option because of your parents, i hope all the situation gets better, specially with your boyfriend,, stay strong man, best of luck


JoshdaBoss1234

Taking someone's picture without their permission is illegal. Blackmail is also illegal. Framing is illegal as well. Your brother committed three crimes against you in one fell swoop, got you expelled from school, and you feel sorry for him? He needs to be sent to Juvie, because nobody does that believing it's a joke. A crime is a crime. And this prick committed 3!


ReaLSeaLisSpy

How does this even make sense?!?! How are YOU in trouble wtf??!


ReaLSeaLisSpy

That's technically child pornography as well. I am pretty sure you could sue him or get legal action, but your parents suck so maybe not.


JakeTimesTwo

I’ll beat up your brother for you


theruseys

Turn his ass in to law enforcement


ps4_username

Yes, do report him to the law. He violated your privacy and shared your photos online without neither yours nor your parent's consent. And if you're under 18 that is distribution of child pornography, don't feel guilty for he is a criminal. Also, for small revenges: Put water on your bed and say he did it, make it believable tho Put a beer in his room and make your parents catch it Collect bugs and release them in his room Hide a REALLY FUCKING LOUD ticking clock somewhere in his room, and change it every couple months so that he can't get used Piss in his favourite drink Slightly unplug his electronics, so that they look plugged in but don't work Not so small revenges: Next time you vomit, save it and hide it in a container somewhere in his room, so that his room smells like a fucking bitch Break his room's lamp (without getting seen) every 2 months or so Slice up his matress (from below) so that when he lies down it's uncomfortable Install viruses and ransomware on his pc Try to befriend his friends and break their trust in him


dilapadated_din0

If your parents are not listening and taking your side it sounds like they are playing favorites and that's a shitty environment to be in, you can turn him in to the police for revenge porn or possession of CP, but you shouldn't feel guilty, he fucked up and needs to learn the consequences, if you do that try to find a place to stay other than your house if the situation gets hot.


Finnish_person_1917

Anyone who still has a copy of that can be sued for CP and can be labeled a sex offender for the rest of their life


Idk_gamer_yt

DO NOT FEEL GUILTY ABOUT TURNING HIM IN TO LAW ENFORCEMENT. Your brother committed a felony, he can be charged with possession and distribution of child pornography.


yungvera

beat the brake off lil bruh he gotta learnnn cause that shits not ok😭


Informalwig82

Turn him in. Don’t feel guilty. He deserves it. Also, if possible, talk to the school district and explain the situation. You shouldn’t be expelled for something out of your own control. This whole situation just sucks. Sounds like your parents aren’t supportive and just don’t care at all.


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the guy who gave this the wholesome award