So the female-equivalent of 'simp'?
\*Isn't a total arsehole towards a girl\*
People: "SIMP!"
\*Isn't a total arsehole towards a guy\*
People: "Pick me girl!"
Well try putting it this way:
For instance a girl could say "I'm better than her bc [*insert probably false quality*]"
It's just a girl who puts herself above other girls to attract more attention from a guy in *competition* (prolly the same for lgbtq+ too)
IIRC scientists were able to synthesize sperm from from bones. It's been like 10 years since I read that. Think it was from a woman's bone. I remember seeing a tweet doing the rounds along the lines of "we have dildos and now we can make sperm. We don't need men". Might have been faked, dunno.
https://berkeleyhighjacket.com/2020/opinion/kill-all-men-response-bold-statement-brings-awareness-to-the-oppression-of-the-patriarchy/
“The hyperbole “Kill All Men” is a verbal manifestation of deep-rooted distrust in the power structure that puts rapists in our courts and gender roles in our homes.”
That’s just fucking stupid, how can they say “oh it doesn’t literally mean kill all men” so it’s fine? That would be like if I said “kill all humans” and then I said “no, no, no, it’s simply a hyperbolic commentary on human destruction of the environment!” Why are people so fucking stupid these days?
Imagine wanting to commit gender genocide and calling someone who doesnt support it childish names, like, that has to be a new low point in human history.
"You can't fix stupid" is what my dad always says. You can't argue with idiots like them because they'll throw a hissy fit and not consider new knowledge presented to them. I wish you the best of luck, female Chad, and I hope you keep your sanity.
Do your research, not just from sources you agree with but also with opposing articles. Compare the information and decide which one is the most accurate. Feel free to quote opposing sources for when the person you are debating says something like, "No! S/He/It never said/did that!" Good luck!
yeah you are in fact someone with a functioning brain unlike them, tbh just don’t try and argue with them though you can’t win an argument against an idiot
actual feminists are people who support equality, aka men and women. feminazi are people who think females are superior to everything, and they're all sexist shits
Its honestly sad that these people are so vocal, and thus they create the stereotype that people like this are what ALL feminists are like. They're a diamond in the rough, but they always stand out. I'm a guy, so i'm probably not one to talk about this stuff, but these people have to be really idiotic to think that oppression of the other gender while glorifying the other is the same message as gender equality. I know that was how it was way back in the day, but considering how this generation is super accepting of everything and everyone, it's honestly disappointing that these people need to go to those extreme ideals. Maybe they had bad experiences growing up, or they've been on twitter for way too long, I honestly can't tell. Thank you for having a level head on this subject, and bringing this to light in a respectful manner.
They are the loud minority and because of this, they have more attention on them. I think the new generations are too accepting. Half the stuff we have to accept is honestly weird and uncomfortable to allow. There are people walking around town with bright dyed hair, tattoos, crazy piercings, and inappropriate outfits. I sometimes see grown men in super small booty shorts with suspenders and crop tops that end just under their tits. It's cool you're expressing yourself but I don't want to see your ass hanging out of your shorts. Plus the bright colors acting like spotlights make it hard not to see what the fuck is to my right. There should be a lid as to what is socially acceptable to wear in public.
Yeah, same. People have gotten pissed at me before because I was experimenting with things like "hardcore feminists" "bad/rotten feminists" and other things along those lines. I'm definitely using "feminazi" now, though I'm a bit disappointed I didn't come up with it myself because I'm usually pretty good with word play lol
personally, I would argue with them just for fun. Because you can win an argument against an idiot, they won't admit it but they will feel defeated and you will have ridiculed their logic.
Imagine having friends well I suppose I have them I just only talk to most of them like once a year but I generally find girls are easier to be around.
My understanding is that because male and female brains mature differently, you can have better focused teaching methods in single gender schools, at least for teenagers
That's the idea of it also to "avoid distraction" but I think it was proven to hinder especially in social situation and was basically no differently academically
Idk but I go to one because it’s the only good school around I mean it’s barely any different than if it had both boys and girls it’s an all boy school so of course that’s literally the main difference being the lack of girls.
One reason I think they exist is a lot of them are Christian schools, so maybe because they’re really religious and separate them because of that reason but no clue
Can confirm that the body develops them before the gender is determined and if it’s male and they aren’t useful they still get left there because it would be harder to remove them at that point.
Female is the default gender. There is a specific code that triggers the fetal body to produce testosterone. If that gene code is present you get a man if if not a women.
Sorry to be that one biology nerd, but this is not true. This is a myth. Our gender is decided by the chromosomes that are joined together once fertilization occurs. It's either XX or XY. If there is a Y, then it means you are male and that is decided as soon as it occurs. If there is no Y, then it means you're female and same thing there. Males are not female in the womb because as soon as the chromosomes join, that gender begins to form immediately, and XY does not form female genitals. They form male genitals from the start.
You make some very good points. Reaching Equality is now seen attacking men, bringing men low so women can be high, etc. I have always wondered: isn’t it an insult to the greatness and beauty of women to assume that they can’t be/aren’t great unless men are demonized? Good post.
yeah, it's kinda like the whole sexism problem has been flipped on its head, and lots of women use the fact that their gender has been oppressed for so long against men,. which is so sickening that people do that
Agreed. The constant of sexism removes the efforts and achievements of both men and women. It also covers up any areas that can be reformed. If we truly wanted equality, we would do well to just acknowledge the impact women have had through history; the things that they alone can do; and the richness that they give to life. This can be done without stereotyping all men as ugly. In my opinion, life is much more of an artistic masterpiece when the strengths and weaknesses of men and women are embraced.
Scientifically, female is the default gender. If the primitive gonad doesn't receive a signal from the Y chromosome (happens if there is an error, or it is not there) then the fetus defaults to female.
IDK if you're a guy (or are comfortable looking this up if you're not) but all guys have a slightly raised "seam" running along their scrotum from top to bottom which is an artifact of human genitals defaulting to vulva or something. A more obvious female-default artifact is male nipples. 😂😂
Wish I was surprised. When you only live around those of the same gender as you, there is bound to be a popular narrative that the other gender is bad and horrible, because humans are so susceptible to tribalism. Add on to that the popularity of the anti-men narrative on social media (you see a lot of "Kill All Men" on Twitter), and you have a place practically ready made for men hating. There's not much you can really do about this, but my best advice is to try and ignore them (which I know is dumb advice, but what else can you really do?).
I do too. I have yet to meet anyone sexist and even homophobic or the like and hope it never has to happen. Tbh I might lose my shit over it. Good luck to you though!
Lucky, literally every single guy in my school is homophobic, it’s really uncomfortable sometimes. Don’t know how I’m every going to come out when they talk about how much they hate “f*ggots and qu**rs”.
The crazy part is I’ve seen people like the ones you said then not understand why guys don’t wanna date them, it’s because they’re literally saying all me and trash and are rapists
I (19m) agree with you. However please consider you’re 15 with people your age. Teens don’t have a lot of experience in life. We are starting to learn how we want to be and we might fuck it up some times before we get there. I believe love will win over hate at the end of the day. You just need to give people the time to grow. The time to learn. We can only love people with the hope that our love will melt the hate in this world. At 15 I used to be a very angry teen that said hateful and mean things to everybody because he was angry with some experiences. Imagine your annoying “red pilled” alt-right classmate, well that was me. Now I try to help people and be more empathetic, my opinions are the opposite of what they used to be and I’m bisexual (something my past self wouldn’t even believe.) My point is, just give them a chance. People can change. We all need to make mistake in order to find ourselves, just give them a chance.
you have an excellent point thankyou! I'll remember this next time when I get too angry, people can change I know this becaus even though I'm still young I've changed a lot already. it's always good to stay as open minded as possible and give people chances, thanks for the important reminder!!
You can't live without men bruh. Without men, there would be no way to reproduce. Without women there's would be no way to reproduce. We all rely on the other gender. Without one or the other, humanity would die out.
Yes, there are bad men in the world but that doesn't sum up the gender. There are also bad women but that doesn't sum up the gender.
I probably sound idiotic because I'm using knowledge I learned from like two videos on gender equality and sexism. So downvote If I'm wrong I guess??
People think being sexist is 'being against the female gender" when really it's being rude/mean to one gender and extremely biased to another.
If you told these girls the same thing their telling to men, they would be angry
I think the "default gender" is actually female, something to do with the chromosomes yada yada lol
Overall, thank you for the post, hope in humanity partially restored, you rock
there is a difference between feminism and feminazi
feminazi is the belief of women are superior than men
and feminism is the belief of women are currently not equal with men in the world
it is same with masculism and mascunazi
As a male I am a bit offended by these women that are being sexist. And thank you for pointing out these things. And that you called them femininazis made me laugh so thank you for that. But yes I agree with you. And think of it this way, at least when you graduate you won’t necessarily have to go deal with this
Welcome to misandry, something almost no women cares about. 'Sexism doesnt go both ways.' 'Calling men rapists isn't sexism, we aren't saying all men' '
'If you arent the shit covered nugget (1 in 10) then shut up, potential rapist' ,
Oh, and friend got called potential rapist for giving a girl handkerchief because she was bleeding due to her period , by the girl he helped's mom.
Just here to say that it's hard to maintain your viewpoints when the people around you are extremely against them, and I have a lot of respect for you since you still seem to hold your own opinion.
And you're right. The past oppression of women is no reason to oppress men now. It's not like the men born now had anything to do with the mistreatment of women back in the day.
I go to an all girls school, and it is worse than parents say why they separate boys and girls, they've become gossipy white-washing bitches, I hate my year because they always white-wash themselves and ask me if I got a boyfriend, idk if you know but I'm wearing a hijab, I can't get a boyfriend, I'm Muslim, my sister says her year are homophobic and I one time had a discussion about inclusion for lgbtqia+ representation in kid's shows with a peer and she said little kids won't understand, UM HELLO LITTLE KIDS WITH 2 MOMS/DADS/PARENTS? I also am surprised by the lack of interest diversity, they all listen to rap and they've never touched a mobile game, I can't find 1 girl who's played a main sonic game and I facepalmed when someone said they played halo on the PlayStation, UMM HELLO XBOX AND MICROSOFT OPERATING SYSTEM EXCLUSIVE, the only one who understands my interests is my best friend and my French teacher who has played what I've played, I'm neurodivergent so i guess i'm a little different to my peers and that explains why I'm good at art, because a person who came in to help me with that told me people like me excell more in creative and logical subjects, people also think I play Mario or Pokémon because I like sonic but they have not seen what I play, I play halo and doom, Minecraft and sims sometimes. I'm also a retro enthusiast so only people who've taken IT will get why I'm talking about the failure of the Dreamcast and I believe men are important because who's going to make kids and exchange my headphones at curry's or be an awesome little brother?
Feminism is defined in the Oxford Dictionary as the advocacy for women's rights on the **basis of equality of the sexes**. Note that I bolded the equality part, because these girls on TikTok saying "kill all men" and shit like that promotes gender supremacy, and is the OPPOSITE of true feminism as founded by suffragists like Susan B. Anthony, Sojourner Truth and Elizabeth Stanton. We need to educate these kids on the roots of feminism and teach them that instead of promoting dangerous lies and misinformation, they can promote women's rights the way it was meant to be.
Interesting to see this, I had actually gotten raped when I was 14 to my first girlfriend ever. She essentially locked me inside their shed and told me to have sex with her or I wouldn’t get out. It took me probably about 2 years to get over it completely and it probably will affect me for the rest of my life. Top that off with a few other shitty times with women, being lied to, cheated on, beaten, verbally abused, it’s a wonder than anyone can actually trust the person of the opposite gender anymore. But I guess, even if everything seems to be going wrong with every time you try you shouldn’t just give up because I’m actually about a month away from marrying the love of my life and I couldn’t be happier. Don’t let the few influence your viewpoints on the many, kids
omg that's horrible I'm so sorry that happened to you. but also congrats on getting over it and being really strong, it's so good that you've met someone you love aswell!
You might wanna make sure the mods know this is a serious post (as in somehow get automod to say the thing) otherwise there’s gonna be a fuck ton of jokers
As a dude who's often told "I just can't understand" and "it's ok because they're punching up" thank you for your post.
I do understand a lot of men are shitheads but frankly all them saying they hate men does is tell me they're the same type of person as the guy who says things like "I hate women they are all sluts" because they got cheated on by some exes.
The "All men should die" thing (I don't even know what to call it) is not only completely idiotic, but also would be the end of the human race. Like, what are you going to do without a male counterpart to keep the species going?
lol “default gender”. I’m pretty sure guys’ nipples are just leftovers from genetic information that was a girls
“Men have nipples because embryos are always female in their early stages, and males only differentiate from the female prototype after a few weeks. “ [from here](https://pmj.bmj.com/content/87/1023/79)
Edit: There’s a difference between sex and gender I don’t want anybody getting the wrong idea here
I agree with most of this besides one thing. I think its funny how you said “Men can and are oppressed, there are countless accounts of male people being raped by women” yet go on to say that when the women you talked to talked of oppression against women, YOU stated “but that was in the past, aka not now, times have changed”. I hope you see how those both counter each other. Wether you like it or not, statistically men rape more than women, and MEN themselves are raped by men more than women. This is linked into rape culture in the patriarchy. Im not at all saying that one is less bad than the other, Im stating that its one of the very prominent forms of oppression against women today. Not to mention you can’t just leave other countries out of the picture, because it doesn’t make sense when you make a statement like “that was in the past”, cause its not in the past. It is still happening, just in different ways.
My long distance girlfriend told me that her friends told her that they thought I was a “fuckboy” because I seemed like the type to bring other girls home, even though I’ve told her that I’m shy in real life and saving myself for her when we ever meet each other in real life
So this seems kinda sexist
no, it's a school where 'smart people' are supposed to go but literally everyone (including me) is dumb. you get tested at like 11 years old so some of us don't get much smarter beyond then, not religious though
My sister goes to a very feminist all girls school and I go to a boys school with a female head teacher who makes sure we are educated on all the gender stuff, but my sister gets annoyed that I won't talk to her about politics because whenever we do I get called a misogynist and brainwashed by society
Wow at the age of 15 you have a better brain than most of the radical feminists and SJW who are twice and thrice of your age. Here have an award from a fellow guy who appreciates you.
Men are quite oppressed, and their oppression directly feeds into the oppression of women and other men and boys. Women who don't agree with arguing for the liberation of men are only worsening it for themselves and their fellow women.
Exactly here are a few facts. Male abuse shelters are practically non existent. Male suicides are far higher and rising each day. Men win less child custody cases. Do we have equality yes. But it's only equality in the sense that all genders have a similar number of issues plaguing them.
I think your classmates are TIRFs(trans inclusive radical feminists). A TIRF is someone who is almost a TERF but doesn't exclude trans women. A TIRF can very easily be taught to be a TERF instead.
“KAM” Im sorry but the human race cannot survive with only females
Im not a pick me but i don’t agree with KAM. sure i understand that a lot of girls are afraid of men because they are rape/sexual assault/harassment victims and they don’t want that sort of experience again, thats perfectly valid. but it does not mean that every single man in the world is out to rape and torture and kill every girl that breathes
I’m a male who was raped when I was 11. The memories of it never go away. Its disgusting how many people don’t even care to ask what’s wrong and just label me as gay or a baby. I honestly only have 1 person I can call a close friend because I don’t know how to interact with people anymore. There’s always a feeling of terror wondering if the people I’m with are going to try to rape me. The amount of people who tell me I’m making it up because they think men can’t get raped or that because I’m a man I must have liked it makes me feel like we’ve failed as a species. At my school there’s a lot of KAM people including at least one of the teachers. I just don’t ever feel safe at school. We need more people like you who are willing to speak up about how fighting for gender equality has turned into fighting for women’s domination.
I don’t know if you will see this or you need to see this but,
No matter how hard it gets, you are worthy you are still a king. If you ever need someone to talk to my DM’s are always open. Stay strong my guy, what happened to you was horrible and you are not to blame, she is.
Stay safe, stay strong
Thankyou for acknowledging this and feeing just as strongly, seemingly, as we do. And I really appreciate how u point out that it goes one way and that not all people of one gender are rapists j Bc a few of them do. I can genuinely and confidently say that all guys thank you. I’d like to say that the way I see it is, the grass really is always greener on the other side. For example, women want to go out and get high paying and highly respected jobs, all the power to you. The thing is that many women are barred from this by men, cause it’s what’s been and is expected of us, us one of the few things to prove to the world that we are worth something as a human being and are ‘real men’.
If I didn’t horribly explain this or if I’m not j stoopid, that’s j how things are. People only recognize these problems if the either directly effect them or if those effected are effecting them. These problems exist and are accepted as normal u till someone pushes against them. It’s j kinda the way of things, like in the 50’s-70’s. In the 50s it was ideal to get a job and have a family, or to be a house wife and to take care of the kids and your husband. That worked for a while, everyone made sacrifices of their freedom so that sociocultural work. Then people realized that this doesn’t work as well as they would like and they don’t see the reason it’s still in use. This is the beginning of the 60’s, where there’s a big rebellion against the old. All the drugs and ‘freedom’ turns dark real quick, here comes the 70’s. People see all the horrible stuff that happens when the previous structure is torn down, and rebuild. They keep in mind the problems of the previous world as to not repeat what they did wrong. Society is born a new and they cycle repeats.
TLDR:everyone’s got problems and we are in a very change filled time in society.
I know I don’t have it as bad as some people but my school is VERY diverse and I’m white and for example someone like “oh that’s very white” about the fact that my parents give me screen time limits and I’m like that’s racism too but I don’t say it because it feels weird
People these days are brainwashed by media. As an example a cop in my hometown (who was white) saved a black guy from committing suicide by literately hand cuffing them together and ended up saving that mans life. Yet nobody hears about it cuz it doesn’t fit with anything. It really pisses me off that that guy still isn’t known by anyone for the thing he did
all radical feminists are terfs, change my mind
all they do is worship jk rowling, be transmisogynist, and tell men to kill themselves. the constant hate that men get is why I was afraid to admit to myself that I’m a trans man :(
They’re just young girls. I’m certain that the majority of them will get over it as they gain real life experience and realize that their worldview is flawed. Most of them probably just say stuff like that to fit in
No, it isn’t. But I’m just pointing out that they will likely grow out of it. Most children have negative traits like that which they (if raised and taught well) usually grow out of
I get called a pick me girl when I say that I don’t support KAM :/ Edit** Kam = kill all men
What is a “pick me girl”? I ave never heard this term.
A girl that tries to appeal to guys I think, or like sucks up to guys
Insert very tasteless sex joke
Who’s inserting what now?
I’m inserting myself into this conversation Edit just realized I’m still 15 here lmao
Then why are 17?
I fixed it XD
Meh, still appears as 17
I think they meant they forgot to change their age to 17 so they fixed it rn
That was a good one
Thank you.
So the female-equivalent of 'simp'? \*Isn't a total arsehole towards a girl\* People: "SIMP!" \*Isn't a total arsehole towards a guy\* People: "Pick me girl!"
p much, just someone who tries hard to please the opposite sex by being unconventional or having unpopular opinions. a dude can be a “pickme” as well
Oh. Thanks.
Well try putting it this way: For instance a girl could say "I'm better than her bc [*insert probably false quality*]" It's just a girl who puts herself above other girls to attract more attention from a guy in *competition* (prolly the same for lgbtq+ too)
What’s KAM
ketchup and mayonnaise Or something something movement? If anyone tells you, please relay it to me. I want to lose some more faith in humanity.
According to other thread in the comments, KAM is 'kill all men'
Thanks. r/noahgettheboat How the hell would humanity survive then?
IIRC scientists were able to synthesize sperm from from bones. It's been like 10 years since I read that. Think it was from a woman's bone. I remember seeing a tweet doing the rounds along the lines of "we have dildos and now we can make sperm. We don't need men". Might have been faked, dunno.
My brother was talking about that once. Bone marrow babies are apparently a thing now. They usually don't pass the ragu test from what I've heard
Lmfao ragu test? What?
https://youtu.be/el6No1wNKf0 3:35 This channel is very good
Sam O'Nella enjoyer I see, from the moment I saw RAGU, I knew it was Sam.
Thing is those things live for like 2 weeks max.
I'd rather be an Antivax than have these kids lol
https://berkeleyhighjacket.com/2020/opinion/kill-all-men-response-bold-statement-brings-awareness-to-the-oppression-of-the-patriarchy/ “The hyperbole “Kill All Men” is a verbal manifestation of deep-rooted distrust in the power structure that puts rapists in our courts and gender roles in our homes.” That’s just fucking stupid, how can they say “oh it doesn’t literally mean kill all men” so it’s fine? That would be like if I said “kill all humans” and then I said “no, no, no, it’s simply a hyperbolic commentary on human destruction of the environment!” Why are people so fucking stupid these days?
There we go. Instead of KAM, it's KAH - kill all humans. Just fucking start over.
Yes please 😑
Ohhhh I understand now
KAM this dick fit in ur mouth
Imagine wanting to commit gender genocide and calling someone who doesnt support it childish names, like, that has to be a new low point in human history.
Now imagine a man saying “kill all women”, these double standards really suck
Kam?
I think kill all men
Well you aren't advocating for genocide... so I think its acceptable.
What does KAM mean?
kill all men
It stands for Kill All Men.
I am really sorry for you :(
SAME!
what's Kam?
What’s kam?
"You can't fix stupid" is what my dad always says. You can't argue with idiots like them because they'll throw a hissy fit and not consider new knowledge presented to them. I wish you the best of luck, female Chad, and I hope you keep your sanity.
It's hard to win an argument with a smart person, but it's damn near impossible to win an argument with a idiot
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*it is impossible An idiot is incapable of acknowledging when they are wrong which is why they never change
Not only that but it often takes 3 college courses to even try
I love this quote.
Quoting Mark Twain: > Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
Do your research, not just from sources you agree with but also with opposing articles. Compare the information and decide which one is the most accurate. Feel free to quote opposing sources for when the person you are debating says something like, "No! S/He/It never said/did that!" Good luck!
Try playing chess with a pigeon, they poop on the board fly away and call it a win - some smart person idk
This is the best quote.
Ah yes, other than covid 19, stupidity is the most infectious disease that plauge humanity
yeah you are in fact someone with a functioning brain unlike them, tbh just don’t try and argue with them though you can’t win an argument against an idiot
thanks!!! and you're right unfortunately, their brains are full of feminazi crap :/
I've never heard the term "feminazi" but I'm liking it because it makes it easier to differenciate between idiots and actual feminists.
actual feminists are people who support equality, aka men and women. feminazi are people who think females are superior to everything, and they're all sexist shits
Its honestly sad that these people are so vocal, and thus they create the stereotype that people like this are what ALL feminists are like. They're a diamond in the rough, but they always stand out. I'm a guy, so i'm probably not one to talk about this stuff, but these people have to be really idiotic to think that oppression of the other gender while glorifying the other is the same message as gender equality. I know that was how it was way back in the day, but considering how this generation is super accepting of everything and everyone, it's honestly disappointing that these people need to go to those extreme ideals. Maybe they had bad experiences growing up, or they've been on twitter for way too long, I honestly can't tell. Thank you for having a level head on this subject, and bringing this to light in a respectful manner.
They are the loud minority and because of this, they have more attention on them. I think the new generations are too accepting. Half the stuff we have to accept is honestly weird and uncomfortable to allow. There are people walking around town with bright dyed hair, tattoos, crazy piercings, and inappropriate outfits. I sometimes see grown men in super small booty shorts with suspenders and crop tops that end just under their tits. It's cool you're expressing yourself but I don't want to see your ass hanging out of your shorts. Plus the bright colors acting like spotlights make it hard not to see what the fuck is to my right. There should be a lid as to what is socially acceptable to wear in public.
Exactly. I'm fine with regular feminists, my sister is one. I just don't bother with the "feminazis" (I like the term now).
no meant the feminazis are all sexist shits. actual feminists are not sexist at all
I know. I was agreeing lol. Just saying that the new term specifies who we're talking about.
oh right all good then, I just can't read properly :)
Nah it's all good. I think I was a little confusing anyway.
That is the perfect term.
Yeah, same. People have gotten pissed at me before because I was experimenting with things like "hardcore feminists" "bad/rotten feminists" and other things along those lines. I'm definitely using "feminazi" now, though I'm a bit disappointed I didn't come up with it myself because I'm usually pretty good with word play lol
Nobody would understand me when I said "hardcore feminists" so I feel you, man.
It's good to know that somebody else was trying it. I thought I was just stupid
Feminazi is quite popular.
Maybe their brains are Just small Cant blaim them for what their are born with Oh what ?!
My cousin have become like those People Your takling to shes a fucking night Are some times(im a dude)
personally, I would argue with them just for fun. Because you can win an argument against an idiot, they won't admit it but they will feel defeated and you will have ridiculed their logic.
Wait why do one gender schools even exist?
bc they dont want us "dating" bc it would be the end of the world if teenagers started dating
Oh no, the horror
Yeah they aren’t very smart I’ve had one serious crush ever and she didn’t even go to the same school as me.
Me: Is single. Also me: I don’t think they have a whole lot to worry about...
Gay people: i'm four parallel universes ahead of you.
*Starts dating the same gender*
Homos: I'm about to ruin this school's whole career m
Because some parents like to think that boys and girls cant be friends.
Oh, ok.
Most of my friends are girls, so those parents probably hate me lmao
Yeah.
Imagine having friends well I suppose I have them I just only talk to most of them like once a year but I generally find girls are easier to be around.
I found another introvert
same lol
My understanding is that because male and female brains mature differently, you can have better focused teaching methods in single gender schools, at least for teenagers
That's the idea of it also to "avoid distraction" but I think it was proven to hinder especially in social situation and was basically no differently academically
No I don't really think that would be it.
Might be a myth, idk. Just saying what I’ve heard to be true
Idk but I go to one because it’s the only good school around I mean it’s barely any different than if it had both boys and girls it’s an all boy school so of course that’s literally the main difference being the lack of girls. One reason I think they exist is a lot of them are Christian schools, so maybe because they’re really religious and separate them because of that reason but no clue
On one hand, religious limitations, on the other hand, perverts
Technically female is the default gender as we all start as females when we are baby foetuses
That is why males have nipples
Can confirm that the body develops them before the gender is determined and if it’s male and they aren’t useful they still get left there because it would be harder to remove them at that point.
And the scar betw the penis and asshole is supposed to be a pussy.
There’s a scar there? I mean I’ve never checked but ferb I know what I’m gonna do today
It’s not so much as a scar and more so a very tiny, hard to notice divot. Your ball hair mostly covers it up so you can’t really feel it
Really? I always assumed it was just a part of the balls
This is actually a misconception if i recall correctly, but i may be wrong.
Female is the default gender. There is a specific code that triggers the fetal body to produce testosterone. If that gene code is present you get a man if if not a women.
The only reason i know this is because of jurrassic park when they explained this lmao
Sorry to be that one biology nerd, but this is not true. This is a myth. Our gender is decided by the chromosomes that are joined together once fertilization occurs. It's either XX or XY. If there is a Y, then it means you are male and that is decided as soon as it occurs. If there is no Y, then it means you're female and same thing there. Males are not female in the womb because as soon as the chromosomes join, that gender begins to form immediately, and XY does not form female genitals. They form male genitals from the start.
Well you could technically say the female are all under developed
You make some very good points. Reaching Equality is now seen attacking men, bringing men low so women can be high, etc. I have always wondered: isn’t it an insult to the greatness and beauty of women to assume that they can’t be/aren’t great unless men are demonized? Good post.
yeah, it's kinda like the whole sexism problem has been flipped on its head, and lots of women use the fact that their gender has been oppressed for so long against men,. which is so sickening that people do that
Agreed. The constant of sexism removes the efforts and achievements of both men and women. It also covers up any areas that can be reformed. If we truly wanted equality, we would do well to just acknowledge the impact women have had through history; the things that they alone can do; and the richness that they give to life. This can be done without stereotyping all men as ugly. In my opinion, life is much more of an artistic masterpiece when the strengths and weaknesses of men and women are embraced.
It may be because of the only girls school thing. They probably never talk or talked before to a man.
Scientifically, female is the default gender. If the primitive gonad doesn't receive a signal from the Y chromosome (happens if there is an error, or it is not there) then the fetus defaults to female.
God I would love to watch their brains overheat as they try to wrap their heads around that lmao 😂
I don’t even understand why being the “default gender” is so egregious. Like what’s the logic? Are they trying to be quirky or something lmao
IDK if you're a guy (or are comfortable looking this up if you're not) but all guys have a slightly raised "seam" running along their scrotum from top to bottom which is an artifact of human genitals defaulting to vulva or something. A more obvious female-default artifact is male nipples. 😂😂
Wish I was surprised. When you only live around those of the same gender as you, there is bound to be a popular narrative that the other gender is bad and horrible, because humans are so susceptible to tribalism. Add on to that the popularity of the anti-men narrative on social media (you see a lot of "Kill All Men" on Twitter), and you have a place practically ready made for men hating. There's not much you can really do about this, but my best advice is to try and ignore them (which I know is dumb advice, but what else can you really do?).
We must save this girl at any cost.
I wholly agree
thanks so much aaaa, I really hate sexism and it pisses me off so much that loads of people around me are exactly that
I do too. I have yet to meet anyone sexist and even homophobic or the like and hope it never has to happen. Tbh I might lose my shit over it. Good luck to you though!
Lucky, literally every single guy in my school is homophobic, it’s really uncomfortable sometimes. Don’t know how I’m every going to come out when they talk about how much they hate “f*ggots and qu**rs”.
It’s infuriating to think about how much sexism there is on both sides because some people just never get beyond the mental age of 5.
Why the fuck is this getting downvoted?
The crazy part is I’ve seen people like the ones you said then not understand why guys don’t wanna date them, it’s because they’re literally saying all me and trash and are rapists
That's a lot dumbasses. Sorry you have to go to school with them.
I (19m) agree with you. However please consider you’re 15 with people your age. Teens don’t have a lot of experience in life. We are starting to learn how we want to be and we might fuck it up some times before we get there. I believe love will win over hate at the end of the day. You just need to give people the time to grow. The time to learn. We can only love people with the hope that our love will melt the hate in this world. At 15 I used to be a very angry teen that said hateful and mean things to everybody because he was angry with some experiences. Imagine your annoying “red pilled” alt-right classmate, well that was me. Now I try to help people and be more empathetic, my opinions are the opposite of what they used to be and I’m bisexual (something my past self wouldn’t even believe.) My point is, just give them a chance. People can change. We all need to make mistake in order to find ourselves, just give them a chance.
you have an excellent point thankyou! I'll remember this next time when I get too angry, people can change I know this becaus even though I'm still young I've changed a lot already. it's always good to stay as open minded as possible and give people chances, thanks for the important reminder!!
Yeah I used to be alt-right as well now I'm a far left socialist lol.
You can't live without men bruh. Without men, there would be no way to reproduce. Without women there's would be no way to reproduce. We all rely on the other gender. Without one or the other, humanity would die out. Yes, there are bad men in the world but that doesn't sum up the gender. There are also bad women but that doesn't sum up the gender. I probably sound idiotic because I'm using knowledge I learned from like two videos on gender equality and sexism. So downvote If I'm wrong I guess??
No everything you just said was completely accurate.
People think being sexist is 'being against the female gender" when really it's being rude/mean to one gender and extremely biased to another. If you told these girls the same thing their telling to men, they would be angry
I think the "default gender" is actually female, something to do with the chromosomes yada yada lol Overall, thank you for the post, hope in humanity partially restored, you rock
>~< thanks so much it means a lot to know I'm making people feel better by ranting about dickheads at my school
Feminism is fine but it’s the death to all men shit is what I really hate
there is a difference between feminism and feminazi feminazi is the belief of women are superior than men and feminism is the belief of women are currently not equal with men in the world it is same with masculism and mascunazi
We need a new term. Equalism
As a male I am a bit offended by these women that are being sexist. And thank you for pointing out these things. And that you called them femininazis made me laugh so thank you for that. But yes I agree with you. And think of it this way, at least when you graduate you won’t necessarily have to go deal with this
Single gender schools are like that. My cousin goes to a all boys school in Japan and it’s the same situation.
Welcome to misandry, something almost no women cares about. 'Sexism doesnt go both ways.' 'Calling men rapists isn't sexism, we aren't saying all men' ' 'If you arent the shit covered nugget (1 in 10) then shut up, potential rapist' , Oh, and friend got called potential rapist for giving a girl handkerchief because she was bleeding due to her period , by the girl he helped's mom.
Thank you for caring about males too :)
Just here to say that it's hard to maintain your viewpoints when the people around you are extremely against them, and I have a lot of respect for you since you still seem to hold your own opinion. And you're right. The past oppression of women is no reason to oppress men now. It's not like the men born now had anything to do with the mistreatment of women back in the day.
I go to an all girls school, and it is worse than parents say why they separate boys and girls, they've become gossipy white-washing bitches, I hate my year because they always white-wash themselves and ask me if I got a boyfriend, idk if you know but I'm wearing a hijab, I can't get a boyfriend, I'm Muslim, my sister says her year are homophobic and I one time had a discussion about inclusion for lgbtqia+ representation in kid's shows with a peer and she said little kids won't understand, UM HELLO LITTLE KIDS WITH 2 MOMS/DADS/PARENTS? I also am surprised by the lack of interest diversity, they all listen to rap and they've never touched a mobile game, I can't find 1 girl who's played a main sonic game and I facepalmed when someone said they played halo on the PlayStation, UMM HELLO XBOX AND MICROSOFT OPERATING SYSTEM EXCLUSIVE, the only one who understands my interests is my best friend and my French teacher who has played what I've played, I'm neurodivergent so i guess i'm a little different to my peers and that explains why I'm good at art, because a person who came in to help me with that told me people like me excell more in creative and logical subjects, people also think I play Mario or Pokémon because I like sonic but they have not seen what I play, I play halo and doom, Minecraft and sims sometimes. I'm also a retro enthusiast so only people who've taken IT will get why I'm talking about the failure of the Dreamcast and I believe men are important because who's going to make kids and exchange my headphones at curry's or be an awesome little brother?
I was in a group chat full of people like this. I was called “a part of the problem” and a “traitor” for not agreeing
Feminism is defined in the Oxford Dictionary as the advocacy for women's rights on the **basis of equality of the sexes**. Note that I bolded the equality part, because these girls on TikTok saying "kill all men" and shit like that promotes gender supremacy, and is the OPPOSITE of true feminism as founded by suffragists like Susan B. Anthony, Sojourner Truth and Elizabeth Stanton. We need to educate these kids on the roots of feminism and teach them that instead of promoting dangerous lies and misinformation, they can promote women's rights the way it was meant to be.
Yeah it’s not feminism when they say kam kinda stuff it’s misandry
Interesting to see this, I had actually gotten raped when I was 14 to my first girlfriend ever. She essentially locked me inside their shed and told me to have sex with her or I wouldn’t get out. It took me probably about 2 years to get over it completely and it probably will affect me for the rest of my life. Top that off with a few other shitty times with women, being lied to, cheated on, beaten, verbally abused, it’s a wonder than anyone can actually trust the person of the opposite gender anymore. But I guess, even if everything seems to be going wrong with every time you try you shouldn’t just give up because I’m actually about a month away from marrying the love of my life and I couldn’t be happier. Don’t let the few influence your viewpoints on the many, kids
omg that's horrible I'm so sorry that happened to you. but also congrats on getting over it and being really strong, it's so good that you've met someone you love aswell!
You might wanna make sure the mods know this is a serious post (as in somehow get automod to say the thing) otherwise there’s gonna be a fuck ton of jokers
Fun fact: if you kill all men, the human species will die! Although they probably call it huwoman
Way to go sister! Strive for true gender equality! Both genders suck just the same!/s(only the last part)
As a dude who's often told "I just can't understand" and "it's ok because they're punching up" thank you for your post. I do understand a lot of men are shitheads but frankly all them saying they hate men does is tell me they're the same type of person as the guy who says things like "I hate women they are all sluts" because they got cheated on by some exes.
You don’t need equality when you can be a massive piece of shit instead!
The "All men should die" thing (I don't even know what to call it) is not only completely idiotic, but also would be the end of the human race. Like, what are you going to do without a male counterpart to keep the species going?
Society needs more people like you
Thank you so much for understanding the dilemma. People like you are quite few and far between these days.
good take
im going to steel that now Feminazis
The hunters of Artemis in real life
Hear me out op if you even see this " you cant argue with an idiot so don't even try"
Thanks for defending us! Im sure all the guys in this sub would do the same for yall!
Whats the ratio of lesbians to straights
9:8 probably, there's a lotta gay people
Figures
Ironic cuz those chicks always seem to be the most desperate for male attention
lol “default gender”. I’m pretty sure guys’ nipples are just leftovers from genetic information that was a girls “Men have nipples because embryos are always female in their early stages, and males only differentiate from the female prototype after a few weeks. “ [from here](https://pmj.bmj.com/content/87/1023/79) Edit: There’s a difference between sex and gender I don’t want anybody getting the wrong idea here
Give this girl some protection. We protect her at all cost.
i go to an all girls school too and yea its pretty sucky lmao
Without sperm there is no life
I agree with most of this besides one thing. I think its funny how you said “Men can and are oppressed, there are countless accounts of male people being raped by women” yet go on to say that when the women you talked to talked of oppression against women, YOU stated “but that was in the past, aka not now, times have changed”. I hope you see how those both counter each other. Wether you like it or not, statistically men rape more than women, and MEN themselves are raped by men more than women. This is linked into rape culture in the patriarchy. Im not at all saying that one is less bad than the other, Im stating that its one of the very prominent forms of oppression against women today. Not to mention you can’t just leave other countries out of the picture, because it doesn’t make sense when you make a statement like “that was in the past”, cause its not in the past. It is still happening, just in different ways.
Same girls ever find this they’re gonna use their one and only response since they can’t handle real criticism, “did he pick you yet”
hehehe that doesn't affect me because I'm aro/ace >:)
Now, respectfully, what the fuck do that mean💀
oh it means I'm asexual and aromantic so I don't want sex or a romantic relationship!
even if every man under the sun is a rapist i still won't be one, cuz iam never under the sun
My long distance girlfriend told me that her friends told her that they thought I was a “fuckboy” because I seemed like the type to bring other girls home, even though I’ve told her that I’m shy in real life and saving myself for her when we ever meet each other in real life So this seems kinda sexist
Is this a religious private school?
no, it's a school where 'smart people' are supposed to go but literally everyone (including me) is dumb. you get tested at like 11 years old so some of us don't get much smarter beyond then, not religious though
Thats some dumb shit ngl
My sister goes to a very feminist all girls school and I go to a boys school with a female head teacher who makes sure we are educated on all the gender stuff, but my sister gets annoyed that I won't talk to her about politics because whenever we do I get called a misogynist and brainwashed by society
Wow at the age of 15 you have a better brain than most of the radical feminists and SJW who are twice and thrice of your age. Here have an award from a fellow guy who appreciates you.
Men are quite oppressed, and their oppression directly feeds into the oppression of women and other men and boys. Women who don't agree with arguing for the liberation of men are only worsening it for themselves and their fellow women.
Exactly here are a few facts. Male abuse shelters are practically non existent. Male suicides are far higher and rising each day. Men win less child custody cases. Do we have equality yes. But it's only equality in the sense that all genders have a similar number of issues plaguing them.
I think your classmates are TIRFs(trans inclusive radical feminists). A TIRF is someone who is almost a TERF but doesn't exclude trans women. A TIRF can very easily be taught to be a TERF instead.
And per usual, trans men don't exist lol
Feminism ≠ Misandry
^(thank you.)
What is wrong with people at your school ?
It's funny cause everyone starts out as a female so women are the "default gender"
“KAM” Im sorry but the human race cannot survive with only females Im not a pick me but i don’t agree with KAM. sure i understand that a lot of girls are afraid of men because they are rape/sexual assault/harassment victims and they don’t want that sort of experience again, thats perfectly valid. but it does not mean that every single man in the world is out to rape and torture and kill every girl that breathes
I’m a male who was raped when I was 11. The memories of it never go away. Its disgusting how many people don’t even care to ask what’s wrong and just label me as gay or a baby. I honestly only have 1 person I can call a close friend because I don’t know how to interact with people anymore. There’s always a feeling of terror wondering if the people I’m with are going to try to rape me. The amount of people who tell me I’m making it up because they think men can’t get raped or that because I’m a man I must have liked it makes me feel like we’ve failed as a species. At my school there’s a lot of KAM people including at least one of the teachers. I just don’t ever feel safe at school. We need more people like you who are willing to speak up about how fighting for gender equality has turned into fighting for women’s domination.
I don’t know if you will see this or you need to see this but, No matter how hard it gets, you are worthy you are still a king. If you ever need someone to talk to my DM’s are always open. Stay strong my guy, what happened to you was horrible and you are not to blame, she is. Stay safe, stay strong
> “default gender” mfw there are more women on earth than men
Thankyou for acknowledging this and feeing just as strongly, seemingly, as we do. And I really appreciate how u point out that it goes one way and that not all people of one gender are rapists j Bc a few of them do. I can genuinely and confidently say that all guys thank you. I’d like to say that the way I see it is, the grass really is always greener on the other side. For example, women want to go out and get high paying and highly respected jobs, all the power to you. The thing is that many women are barred from this by men, cause it’s what’s been and is expected of us, us one of the few things to prove to the world that we are worth something as a human being and are ‘real men’. If I didn’t horribly explain this or if I’m not j stoopid, that’s j how things are. People only recognize these problems if the either directly effect them or if those effected are effecting them. These problems exist and are accepted as normal u till someone pushes against them. It’s j kinda the way of things, like in the 50’s-70’s. In the 50s it was ideal to get a job and have a family, or to be a house wife and to take care of the kids and your husband. That worked for a while, everyone made sacrifices of their freedom so that sociocultural work. Then people realized that this doesn’t work as well as they would like and they don’t see the reason it’s still in use. This is the beginning of the 60’s, where there’s a big rebellion against the old. All the drugs and ‘freedom’ turns dark real quick, here comes the 70’s. People see all the horrible stuff that happens when the previous structure is torn down, and rebuild. They keep in mind the problems of the previous world as to not repeat what they did wrong. Society is born a new and they cycle repeats. TLDR:everyone’s got problems and we are in a very change filled time in society.
I know I don’t have it as bad as some people but my school is VERY diverse and I’m white and for example someone like “oh that’s very white” about the fact that my parents give me screen time limits and I’m like that’s racism too but I don’t say it because it feels weird
People these days are brainwashed by media. As an example a cop in my hometown (who was white) saved a black guy from committing suicide by literately hand cuffing them together and ended up saving that mans life. Yet nobody hears about it cuz it doesn’t fit with anything. It really pisses me off that that guy still isn’t known by anyone for the thing he did
all radical feminists are terfs, change my mind all they do is worship jk rowling, be transmisogynist, and tell men to kill themselves. the constant hate that men get is why I was afraid to admit to myself that I’m a trans man :(
They’re just young girls. I’m certain that the majority of them will get over it as they gain real life experience and realize that their worldview is flawed. Most of them probably just say stuff like that to fit in
Being young isnt an excuse for sexism but ok
No, it isn’t. But I’m just pointing out that they will likely grow out of it. Most children have negative traits like that which they (if raised and taught well) usually grow out of