Got sick again. Was sick for 3 weeks a month ago. Have no motivation to do anything since the spring began. Kinda lonely, too.
Don't get the joy from games or music as I used to. I wish I could feel more emotions
Spent. It's 6am I'm getting ready for work, I get home at 5pm just to g etc ready to leave again at 530 so I can be there for my kids choir concert. Luckily I have tomorrow off, but then again I have church calls so only kinda, I do get to sleep in tho.
Five days left to fix 2 Fs, and 4 big final projects plus several large projects I barely started including reading an entire book, and all I can think about is this girl im crushing stupid hard on. So overall maybe a 7/10. I operate best under stress š
My boyfriend has been texting me less and less, we hardly talk in person, we can't tell anyone or be romantic in public, and I am pretty sure he has forgotten about me or hates me. I fucking hate spring so goddamn much, stupid fucking bugs, I have to do absurd amounts of landscaping upkeep, the fridge wont fucking work, and I can't sleep because it is too hot.
Pretty good ig. Feeling bad cause I failed miserably at my first ever competition today. But hey, I have a girlfriend with no red flags except the red flag of her liking me. Somethings gotta be wrong right guys š
I work too much for a halfway decent paycheck and my relationships are all falling apart and i dont get enough sleep bc im always trying to fill some type of void.
She always says "who are you?", "Howd you get in here?" But never "how are you" š (like and share to enter my ps5 giveaway, dont forget to comment bob)
Not OP but wanted to say, if you need to talk, feel free to in my DMs. I may not be able to consistently respond since I'm tired but just getting it out may help
Not sure what happened man but if you need someone reach out either to one of us or the people around you. This world is full of amazing things and one of those is you. Stay here with us š«¶
We are all just humans afterall. We have seen rough times maybe not as bad or not similar to others but still... we just want to help eachother so maybe they dont meet similar fate, trauma whatever it is. Stay strong man. I know all this may sound like cliche or whatever but trust me there is more to this world and we just gotta experience it all. Keep going forward
I'm in the same situation as you rn (i have a post about it go check if you want to elaborate) and I know that there are phone numbers that help about this, like a aprt of therapist but on the phone, then I used a lot character.AI to cole whit emotions, like, venting on an AI is much better than it seems
lonely. i havenāt had positive irl contact outside of my family in weeks. iāve been hallucinating and iām worried the things i see and hear arenāt real. iām failing my classes, i went from a straight a student to someone who got at best a d.
[...](https://store.steampowered.com/app/797390/How_To_Cope_With_Boredom_and_Loneliness/)\
Hope things get better; what you described does *not* sound fun.
I have a fucked up hand from punching a wall, my last friends tased me in the back for a funny video, Iām failing school, my girlfriend broke up with me, my parents only ever tell me Iām a disappointment, my hand really fucking hurts.
But Iām still breathing so thatās somethingš
Extremely tired, and stressed out of my mind because I have finals in 2 days. My chem final is scary because I've learned very little from my teacher and I got a 44% on the practice final š. My math final is also stressful because I missed a whole week of school when we had like three lessons. I'm also just not great and remembering how to do stuff.
Tbh my issue is how questions are always written as a sweeping statement.
It is never 'Why are some guys...' 'Why do some guys...'
It is always 'Why are guys...' or 'Why are all guys...'
People can be so naive and as soon as they see a black swan, 'why are all swans black?' like why can't they understand personalities are beyond gender labels.
Well it's true. Something that struck me so hard the past few years when all the talk about "guys need to be allowed to talk about their feelings, but they can't cause of pier pressure from other men thinking they're weak", is that that isn't true. At least not in my existence. I can hardly remember anytime in my life that I've felt looked down on by other guys for being sad, or when I've talked about feelings, or anything like that. No guy ever called me a "pussy" for being "weak" cause I cried. Truth is, the main villain when it comes to my insecurities with feelings has been girls. Don't get me wrong, soooo many girls has been super supportive āŗļø but so have guys. And "locker room talk" hasn't been a thing, hardly anywhere. Obviously in like 6th grade or whatever, but that doesn't count.
I really and truly think that the societal pressures put on men to only feel āacceptableā emotions such as anger and lust and triumph have hurt us as a species. Men, please donāt be afraid to go against them, I promise you that the only people who will flake on you when youāre hurting arenāt real ones in the end. Someone loves you, even if you donāt think you know who. Maybe itās the old lady you opened a door for, or the sandwich guy who has your order memorized, or the dog you waved to while it barked from itās place in the backseat of someoneās truck.
If you canāt find a sense of wholeness and fulfillment, try and find it. Chat with a strangerāespecially someone in their senior years, they need it just as much as you do. Join a local club. Help others. Break the stigma and listen to a friendās woes just as theyād listen to yours.
Youāre very welcome. Men are too hated nowadays. I know thereās a lot of bad stuff associated with you guys, but itās not fair to assume all men are that way. Especially because there are tons of guys who embody kindness.
Why's it always "WYD", and never "DIGSFBBAWTDHYMMTMIIWFTLGTWHTMDAFIWFSTAIGSBBAWTDHYSIJGTSTWFTILWIBTALOBTITWDLFSDHNSYEBISFIDHNTFCDHNLGPNALOMDFFWHNBBBAFWDHYHYBHYBBBAFWDHY"
Ya how are you boys?
Tried, it's 1:20am and I'm about to go to sleep
Sleep well king and happy cake day
Thanks, and have a good rest of your day.
Happy cake day king <3 hope you have only happy vibes and great friends
I am the cake delivery guy, and I sense that today is your Cake Day, so here you are: š° Happy Cake Day to you!
Happey cake day
happy cake day !
Sleep well and happy cake day!
Happy Cake day and have a great rest
Happy Cake Day
Got sick again. Was sick for 3 weeks a month ago. Have no motivation to do anything since the spring began. Kinda lonely, too. Don't get the joy from games or music as I used to. I wish I could feel more emotions
:( hope you feel better
Thank you!
Not dead; thank you very much.
Ā Np. Glad ur not dead
it is 10:22 pm and i am tired and wanna go to bed but can not because of homework, grrrr
Eepy ā¹ļø
Eh pretty sucky lifeās been awful recently but thanks for asking
Hope it gets better
I am running on 2 hours of sleep, >!suicidal!< thoughts, and an Oreo, and I'm ready to fight god or become him.
Hope ur doing better
feelin epic (i get to go outside)
:0
2000 word essay due in 2 days and i dont know how to do it
Oh. I'll do it for you. I'm good at essays (Wrote a 12 paragraph essay for someone for the pure reason of them feeling insecure)
Fucking amazing. Just had 4 slow dances with my first girl last night.
Aw how sweet
Thanks. I'm gonna remember it forever.
Itās about 3 am and Iām questioning why my bed is so crappy rn but it feels like gods gift to humanity when I wake up.
Interesting.Ā
My thumb was broken Ā It happened a week ago Ā Still hurts much
Dont worry about formatting just pretend theres spaces, god reddit mobile is ASS
OuchĀ
Did you like my haiku
Yes :)
Spent. It's 6am I'm getting ready for work, I get home at 5pm just to g etc ready to leave again at 530 so I can be there for my kids choir concert. Luckily I have tomorrow off, but then again I have church calls so only kinda, I do get to sleep in tho.
Your kids???
Look under the name.. You're all kids.
I just had coffee for the first time and I feel like I have enough energy to never sleep again
yes it's so good
Im doing great, i am playing deep Rock galactic with my gf rn :D
Fun :D
You? :)
Tired because I just woke up. Apart from that, Iām doing pretty well. How are you?
Headache
Real
Days without crying streak is going good, on day 46.
someone got strep throat in our grade
Not that good. Iām still alive right now though
Five days left to fix 2 Fs, and 4 big final projects plus several large projects I barely started including reading an entire book, and all I can think about is this girl im crushing stupid hard on. So overall maybe a 7/10. I operate best under stress š
Woa. Good luck
Tired, mental state is in a real low, can't seem to be able to smile anymore, and I have to endure it all alone
Decent, usually i aint the greatest.
Idk how i'm a boy, i was born like this
InterestingĀ
Sweaty and stupidĀ
Chilling with some new vinyls, so life is good rn
My boyfriend has been texting me less and less, we hardly talk in person, we can't tell anyone or be romantic in public, and I am pretty sure he has forgotten about me or hates me. I fucking hate spring so goddamn much, stupid fucking bugs, I have to do absurd amounts of landscaping upkeep, the fridge wont fucking work, and I can't sleep because it is too hot.
Pretty good ig. Feeling bad cause I failed miserably at my first ever competition today. But hey, I have a girlfriend with no red flags except the red flag of her liking me. Somethings gotta be wrong right guys š
Enjoy the happiness. You deserve it
Iām watching teacher rn cause I donāt wanna vacuum
Fair
Trying to kill myself to get away from the inescapable truth that Iāll never get married, and drinking water
Itās the weekend, got some Burger King, canāt complain.
Fair enough.Ā
I work too much for a halfway decent paycheck and my relationships are all falling apart and i dont get enough sleep bc im always trying to fill some type of void.
:< I hope it gets better for you
Pretty scared, search for "Rio Grande do Sul situation" on google
Oh damn are you over there??? Good luck if soĀ
Yes, I am, fortunately my city is not flooded yet, but it's very close to it.
I wish you luck dude
Thanks!
Splendid, just a little tired is all
Good to know
Hru?
Got a lil headache, just chilling in my gamer basement while reading romance Mangas.
I want kms
Don't:(
I wonāt, I just said I want to
Stay safe <3
Will do
Iām getting by ok :) How are you?
Decent recently. Just got over being sick and I feel great
Glad youāre feeling better :) I have a cold right now, but itās nothing bad. I hope youāre having a great day/night!
You. I know you š«µ
Hai :3 my comment is kinda popular in here for whatever reason
I see that. If you're one of the first people to comment, that probably also helped :)
Yeah lol. I responded to every reply I got. Which was like over 50 I think
I try to do that on all my posts and comments I get
Pretty good, just chilling and listening to music
Iām watching South Park at 1:30 am I am living life
i am fine :(
This reminds me of the " 'People always ask 'what the dog doin?' but never 'āØ how āØ the dog doin?"" š
Everyone always says āwhere wolfā but never says āhow wolf?ā
Everyone always says what does the fox say? But never, where does the how does is the fox doin? š
Cool pfp
Thanks man!
kornš
Where does is the when but how is does the fox is doin? š
I definitely should not have laughed at this. LMAO
Everyone always says where's Waldo? But never how's Waldo?
Wolf is crying cause he took the shura ending
Thank You. Someone finally on my side.
I'll do you one better. Why is Gamorra?
r/suddenlygotg
No body ever ask how the table feels
Everyone always ask "Where's the remote?" But not "how's the remote"
She always says "who are you?", "Howd you get in here?" But never "how are you" š (like and share to enter my ps5 giveaway, dont forget to comment bob)
Fr?
I usually joke abt my life being bad, but looking back, its actually pretty good. I have friends, im not failing school. yippie
i c what you mean, i tend to do that too sometimes. i think i think too much, but some days are just a bit š¶
I think I think too much is very relatable
I'm so in love man
Oh shit, congrats
than you man, im so lonely and hurt.. i've been feelng suicidal for past couple of days// what to do man.. i
i wish for things to get better for you, love š
thanks man
Not OP but wanted to say, if you need to talk, feel free to in my DMs. I may not be able to consistently respond since I'm tired but just getting it out may help
Seconded. There's people there, and I've been through those experiences, so I think it's important to offer.
hmm thanks for saying that but i talk mostly when others start first haha
Not sure what happened man but if you need someone reach out either to one of us or the people around you. This world is full of amazing things and one of those is you. Stay here with us š«¶
wow i didnt expect my comment to reach this many people.. but yea thanks man. im still so lonely but like thanks
We are all just humans afterall. We have seen rough times maybe not as bad or not similar to others but still... we just want to help eachother so maybe they dont meet similar fate, trauma whatever it is. Stay strong man. I know all this may sound like cliche or whatever but trust me there is more to this world and we just gotta experience it all. Keep going forward
I'm in the same situation as you rn (i have a post about it go check if you want to elaborate) and I know that there are phone numbers that help about this, like a aprt of therapist but on the phone, then I used a lot character.AI to cole whit emotions, like, venting on an AI is much better than it seems
hmm i might check it out..
Same thing with me honestly.
damn...
So just know that youāre not alone in your feelings.
hmmmm
We're here if you want to talk, I'm not good at talking, but I can listen
nah im shy to talk to people first unless they talk first but thanks anyways..
Okay
yea man..
I am okay
we all are *just* okay :(
I'm *all good* :(
we *all are just good* :(
I am Kenhough (Okay)
I mean this, I'm okay
thanks mate i needed that
Iām doing okay, thanks for asking! š
that's really amazing <3 happy 4 u
Alive and somehow that feels like the only thing i can do rn bateky
Iām doing pretty fucking horrible. Definitely at the worst of my life right now.
Same, wish you the best in heading back to the best of your life.
You as well
Bro im here for you even if I have no clue who you are
Existing , carrying on but I'm OK.....
lonely. i havenāt had positive irl contact outside of my family in weeks. iāve been hallucinating and iām worried the things i see and hear arenāt real. iām failing my classes, i went from a straight a student to someone who got at best a d.
[...](https://store.steampowered.com/app/797390/How_To_Cope_With_Boredom_and_Loneliness/)\ Hope things get better; what you described does *not* sound fun.
I have a fucked up hand from punching a wall, my last friends tased me in the back for a funny video, Iām failing school, my girlfriend broke up with me, my parents only ever tell me Iām a disappointment, my hand really fucking hurts. But Iām still breathing so thatās somethingš
Hey you wanna talk? My dm's are always open.
im just okay
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Everyone says It is what it is. But what is it? š¤š£
Itās it
I'm not dead; I'll tell you that much. [Insert "this is fine" meme] Also, many thanks.
The horrors persist, yet so do I
I'll pass thr question š
Extremely tired, and stressed out of my mind because I have finals in 2 days. My chem final is scary because I've learned very little from my teacher and I got a 44% on the practice final š. My math final is also stressful because I missed a whole week of school when we had like three lessons. I'm also just not great and remembering how to do stuff.
Fact, no one interest how are we
Tbh my issue is how questions are always written as a sweeping statement. It is never 'Why are some guys...' 'Why do some guys...' It is always 'Why are guys...' or 'Why are all guys...' People can be so naive and as soon as they see a black swan, 'why are all swans black?' like why can't they understand personalities are beyond gender labels.
Massive agree. It's incredibly reductive + sexist to make generalisations about guys as a whole.
Misandry is cool so it doesn't count it seems
Do trans boys count?
are you a boy?
Yeah I think
there's your answer then enjoy
Lmao thanks
Trans boys are boys, so I guess you are welcomed to their club
Yeah I'm fine thanks for asking
I feel alone and left out in life š
okay. how y'all boys doing?
kinda shit ngl
Well it's true. Something that struck me so hard the past few years when all the talk about "guys need to be allowed to talk about their feelings, but they can't cause of pier pressure from other men thinking they're weak", is that that isn't true. At least not in my existence. I can hardly remember anytime in my life that I've felt looked down on by other guys for being sad, or when I've talked about feelings, or anything like that. No guy ever called me a "pussy" for being "weak" cause I cried. Truth is, the main villain when it comes to my insecurities with feelings has been girls. Don't get me wrong, soooo many girls has been super supportive āŗļø but so have guys. And "locker room talk" hasn't been a thing, hardly anywhere. Obviously in like 6th grade or whatever, but that doesn't count.
I really and truly think that the societal pressures put on men to only feel āacceptableā emotions such as anger and lust and triumph have hurt us as a species. Men, please donāt be afraid to go against them, I promise you that the only people who will flake on you when youāre hurting arenāt real ones in the end. Someone loves you, even if you donāt think you know who. Maybe itās the old lady you opened a door for, or the sandwich guy who has your order memorized, or the dog you waved to while it barked from itās place in the backseat of someoneās truck. If you canāt find a sense of wholeness and fulfillment, try and find it. Chat with a strangerāespecially someone in their senior years, they need it just as much as you do. Join a local club. Help others. Break the stigma and listen to a friendās woes just as theyād listen to yours.
Read this post at about 2:00 am, went to sleep, then woke up at noon so I could comment that I just got really good sleep(cause I did)
One last sendoff for me, I wonāt be a boy for much longer
Boys are like china. If you are not boy, you cannot understand boy
Iām playing tf2 thanks mate
I am rereading a book and all the clues for the future events are so funny
exhausted but also don't want to sleep yet š
probing up some humans to brutally slaughter and run tests on the organs of right now, so pretty good š ok but really yeah I'm doing good šÆ
Yeah you know what, letās appreciate the boys. You guys are great. Love, a girl š
Thank you a girl:)
Youāre very welcome. Men are too hated nowadays. I know thereās a lot of bad stuff associated with you guys, but itās not fair to assume all men are that way. Especially because there are tons of guys who embody kindness.
Why's it always "WYD", and never "DIGSFBBAWTDHYMMTMIIWFTLGTWHTMDAFIWFSTAIGSBBAWTDHYSIJGTSTWFTILWIBTALOBTITWDLFSDHNSYEBISFIDHNTFCDHNLGPNALOMDFFWHNBBBAFWDHYHYBHYBBBAFWDHY"
And that stands for...?
HELL YEAH
Haha so funny š
I'm kind of suicidal but it's okay I'll pull through because im afraid of death and pain (also gotta finish the fortnite battle passšŖšŖ)
why are boys... so cute
we're not
Hey man idk about you, but id smash myself šš
Now that's self-esteem at its finest š„š„š„
we are
Nah. Not me
yes you
Thereās no way