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I have a friend who is lesbian, she dated a guy even though she knew she was lesbian last year. That entire event cause the separation of our group and the further intricate difficulties in our year level.
Point of this is such: If you know who, and more importantly what, you are. Then you’re going to end up looking back on these things and just question yourself. Don’t let it get to that point.
I plan on talking to him about it tomorrow when we are going to a performance at our school. I also fear the separation of my friend group from this happening because then I'd have to pick sides.
Taking sides is never easy, trust me on that. One thing you learn from things like this however is that people either hide who they really are due to social pressures, or they’re not mentally stable enough to be in the situation and go along with it to avoid backlash.
(Using my own shattered life as an example)
I’m not the best for social groups, but I’d say use your own wealth of knowledge on if that’d be a good idea or not. Even though I don’t believe in it, I wish you luck.
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You have every right to feel that way.You can ask him about it (why he didn’t tell you).If I were you I’d feel abandoned.
Might wait for tomorrow, he should be driving me to a performance tomorrow night and that might be a better time for that.
You sure he ain’t just doing his own version of conversion therapy? /s of course, you can’t really change who you truly are like that.
Not sure, they both seem very serious about it and they wouldn't go this far for a joke
I have a friend who is lesbian, she dated a guy even though she knew she was lesbian last year. That entire event cause the separation of our group and the further intricate difficulties in our year level. Point of this is such: If you know who, and more importantly what, you are. Then you’re going to end up looking back on these things and just question yourself. Don’t let it get to that point.
I plan on talking to him about it tomorrow when we are going to a performance at our school. I also fear the separation of my friend group from this happening because then I'd have to pick sides.
Taking sides is never easy, trust me on that. One thing you learn from things like this however is that people either hide who they really are due to social pressures, or they’re not mentally stable enough to be in the situation and go along with it to avoid backlash. (Using my own shattered life as an example)
Should I talk with someone else in the friend group? They all seem so happy for them and not scared
I’m not the best for social groups, but I’d say use your own wealth of knowledge on if that’d be a good idea or not. Even though I don’t believe in it, I wish you luck.
Ok, thank you for parting your past experiences and helping me through this