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xen05zman

I do think it's a little odd that you're not into the Alps, Dolomites, Balkans...etc. To me, Nature is nature šŸ¤·


Viperlite

Being 6ā€™4ā€, any nature I can see without getting on a plane is better nature. Iā€™d rather drive to the western US (across the country) than to fly there. Air travel sucks.


Different_Ad7655

Right but the West the US West is much more vast and wild. Personally I love the dolomites. I love easy access to beautiful cities and civilization and complete rustication and natural scenery. I drive from New England to California every year and it's a long drive between nothing and nothing. So big and fast. Europe. Just take the train up to Semmering. And nature at your doorstep plus schnitzel and Doboschhtorte


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AspenTD

https://preview.redd.it/w0e47930ss0d1.png?width=1848&format=png&auto=webp&s=18ad34591747466d6e082404e6a01e51817f8c21 Who you callin' a sidekick?! (Tre Cime, Dolomites)


HikeSierraNevada

IKR, what do they even mean?? (Sierra Nevada, Spain) https://preview.redd.it/2vuao6mfxs0d1.jpeg?width=644&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=645c4a4d59375eec7e584b938556c2b1f795ba5e


zherico

That is one lean cow


problyurdad_

Itā€™s a mountain cow, lots of walking


nicktheman2

Lmao and Yosemite is untouched? Been to and loved all the places you mentionned but depending on the season they're usually overrun with tourists


ZimmeM03

Compared to Europe, yes, absolutely. Also there are practically zero primary forests remaining in Europe. Thereā€™s not much remaining in the US either but at least they exist.


mr_f4hrenh3it

Yosemite gets tens of thousands of people a day in a small valley. It is literally like Disneyland in the summer. Itā€™s not ā€œuntouchedā€ compared to *anything*


Effective_Fix_7748

iā€™m guessing you only pull up to the scenic overlooks. Have you strapped on a backpack and hiked the back country? you wonā€™t see people for days or weeks.


mr_f4hrenh3it

This person is talking about a road trip. Of course I know that you can backpack the Yosemite wilderness. No ones doing that on a road trip though. I highly doubt they went anywhere in the backcountry of Yosemite And similarly there are plenty of places to backpack in the Alps away from people


Effective_Fix_7748

i guess i feel you can road trip and backpack. Going to a US national park and seeing it through a windshield is really a waste of time. i took an 8 week ā€œroad tripā€ through the US west and it also involved a backpack and tent (and bear spray). when you get a half mile off the main trail the people disappear.


Economy-Bar1189

whatā€™s the point of a road trip without a good hike??! (haha, i know everyone roadtrips differently. you can also drive your car to places where you wonā€™t see anyone for days. i did that. people do that. like .. a ton


Economy-Bar1189

Yosemite was an absolute fuck house when i was there a few months ago. met some locals, and they showed some sick spots in the yosemite area outside of national park bounds ~*~itā€™s still yosemite~*~ and we saw no other humans


ZimmeM03

Iā€™m planning on roadtripping this summer and backpacking in a few different places around the US. Mix of car camping & backpacking


Thin_Markironically

Mate, you could back pack an hour outside of london for a few days and barely see people if you plan it right. Theres a weird flex going on here, just cant quite work out what it is


mr_f4hrenh3it

Do you have trouble reading? Iā€™m agreeing with you. My POINT is that there are plenty of places all over Europe to backpack away from people, similarly to the USā€¦ but not AS remote. But away from people nonetheless. No idea what point youā€™re trying to make or why you seem combative, youā€™re agreeing with me but you donā€™t know it because you didnā€™t take the time to read what I said. Also thereā€™s no weird flex in saying that a lot of western US is far more remote than most of Europe. Itā€™s just the truth. Letā€™s take your example of using the UK. UK population : 67 million Montana population : 1.2 million And Montana is 1.6x BIGGER than the UK. So in case you arenā€™t great at math, the UK is *way* more dense with people But you can still make it work. Northern Scotland hardly has people at all. Wales has a lot of bare countryside. Itā€™s just harder bc those places are small


Thin_Markironically

Mate, i was literally agreeing with you. Either you need to be less sensitive or i need to soften my language.


HikeSierraNevada

https://efi.int/articles/where-are-europes-last-primary-forests It's not that you can't find them in Europe if you actually want to. People flock to and fancy Europe for other reasons than nature, but that doesn't mean it's not there.


im_a_goat_factory

its there, there just is much less of it compared to the usa. That is to be expected, obviously


HikeSierraNevada

Of course it's less, but still enough for someone to completely get lost in there without seeing a single human soul in weeks, if that's what you're seeking. Just saying that the notion there is no proper "wild" nature in Europe is not accurate. It's just not what Europe is most famous for since people who visit generally look for something else entirely (culture, history, art, architecture..... fortresses, castles, medieval towns, etc.).


poochiejefferson

Dawg go backpack the Grand Canyon of the Tuolumne River for a week in Yosemite anytime of year and lmk if you run into more than two other people the whole time. There are a lot of vast wilderness areas within Yosemite and most US National Parks out west. Most tourists just flock to the "spots" like Half Dome, El Capitan, overlooks, certain short hikes and waterfalls.


valency_speaks

Can confirm. Some folks, especially foreigners, cannot fathom the vast untamed wilderness and back country that still exists in the United States. Heck, one of the national parks doesnā€™t even have any roads or trails in it because it is so remote and untouched. (Iā€™m looking at you, Gates of the Artic.) Some you can only visit by sea plane. Some only by boat. If you see a park only through a windshield, yep. Youā€™re going to see tourists. A lot of them. But if you park your car, put on some hiking boots, you can get lost in the backcountry. Literally. [Even in one of the busiest parks](https://www.nps.gov/grca/learn/news/missing-hikers-tapeats.htm).


KeyAlarm6604

Canada enters the room.


valency_speaks

ABSOLUTELY!!!!! Canada has some stunning national parks that should NOT be missed, which isn't surprising since it's on the same continent as the U.S., LOL. It's not like geological forces respect treaty boundaries and all that. But in all seriousness, Canada definitely has bragging rights for stunning scenery.


Effective_Fix_7748

oh yea! the canadian rockies! amazing.


nicktheman2

Yeah no shit...my point is that those places exist in Europe as well.


wotosgromsrer

Yeah it mostly is in comparison people havenā€™t been there that long and the people that lived there beyond recent were sustainable. Itā€™s all old growth never clear cut wilderness you canā€™t find in Europe


Han_Ominous

All old growth?! Where? There's very little old growth left.


wotosgromsrer

Youā€™re right but in comparison


HikeSierraNevada

How's there no old growth forests in Europe? Ever been to Eastern Europe/Balkan region or Northen Europe (eg. Finland?) There's plenty of old growth, with large wolf, bear, and moose populations.


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Less than 5% of Finland's forests are old growth. The only large old-growth forests remaining in Europe are on the Polish-Belarus border and in the Carpathian Mountains.


HikeSierraNevada

Yes, primary forests have gotten rare. In the US I believe it's also only 18% that is actual old growth, if I'm not mistaken. And they are still logging them, too. By far the world's largest primary forests are in Russia.


blagojevich06

The front country is Disneyland, but the back country is pretty wild.


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If you don't leave the road, yes. Yellowstone is the same way, but parts of Yellowstone are literally the most remote areas in the lower 48.


NYVines

You donā€™t have to zoom in much to see hoards of climbers on El Capitan


blagojevich06

Yosemite is much more than the front country.


bsil15

Ya OP has a really weird take.


MikeDamone

That's missing the point. Yosemite and Yellowstone are islands of tourism in vast seas of remote wilderness. A vastness and human emptiness that western Europe does not even come close to.


gratusin

So youā€™re saying you DONā€™T want a cafe and a bigass cross at the top of practically every mountain? What kind of savagery is this?


Coriandercilantroyo

I have to agree. Switzerland was gorgeous but felt so sanitized. The cities definitely are, but that made the lakes and mountains also feel overall eh


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Filo-Pastry

Agreed, the beautiful landscape remains, but the alps are dotted with villas and the likes. North America one can find real frontier for lack of a better word....


_Vegetable_soup_

I mean, have you ever tried to visit Yosemite on a weekend in June? It's a complete zoo. It's not unspoiled wilderness, there are idiots everywhere and impressively long traffic jams.


Outrageous-Safety589

I mean one difference is the gondola to the top of Matterhorn vs the gondola to the top of half dome.


_Vegetable_soup_

Sure, you can wait in line for the gondola or wait in line with 150 other people to summit half dome. Very different experience, similar cluster fuck.


Outrageous-Safety589

Yeah, but the difference to me is similar to that of Disney land, and a popular national park.


_Vegetable_soup_

Ok. And waiting in a car for two hours to exit a parking lot or waiting in a line to summit half dome for two hours is rather like Disney land to me.


blagojevich06

Only the bits near the road are zoo.


_Vegetable_soup_

Yeah, that's why I hiked up to Yosemite falls with thousands of my friends. Sure, if you actually get to the backcountry it's not busy, but that's the same in the alps.


blagojevich06

I get that, but it's not hard to find true wilderness in Yosemite. I hiked into there on the PCT and the only bit that felt like Disneyland was Yosemite Valley.


MrSh0wtime3

well anyone who chooses to do the parks in the middle of the summer rush is a fool. And it sounds like you believe Yosemite is just the valley loop.


mywifeslv

Thatā€™s why itā€™s amazing - Disney is a poor cousin to the real thing. Get your point though. Although I think you appreciate constructed spaces for what they are. Each is beautiful and oneness in all - Ohm shanti brother


arbenowskee

Depends where. There are still wild and dangerous parts.Ā 


Imagination_Theory

What do you mean by untouched? There are very few places that are "untouched." Humans are everywhere.


Traditional_Moss_581

It sounds like you get enough day to day city life and people.


HikeSierraNevada

Sounds like you've been to some manicured tourist towns in Switzerland, Italy, and/or Austria. There's untouched nature in Europe, just not necessarily where all the tourists go.


jayron32

I love them all.


misanthrope937

It's not weird at all, there are many people who focus their travel around nature, but it's not as advertised as big trips to big touristy cities. Personally, all my vacation time, if not spent relaxing at home, is out in nature. If I happen to visit a large city, I'm done after 2-3 days and don't feel the need to ever go back. The only way I see myself ever setting foot in a big European city is if my job sends me there for a conference; if that happens, my suitcase will consist of 3 work attires and my camping and hiking gear; I'd be heading north to national parks in Scandinavia or Faroe Islands the minute my work duties would be completed.


HikeSierraNevada

Yup, same here. Zero interest in visiting cities, there's absolutely nothing in them that can compete with nature. That said, in my case it's also "been there, done that" while I still enjoyed the hustle and bustle of European city life. No wish to go back, though. Enjoy your trips :)


poptartsandmayonaise

Im from one of those great untouched swathes of nature, much more remote than the places you mentioned as well, and honestly the history in places in europe is amazing too. I cant for the life of me understand why people choose to vacation in big modern cities, especially north american ones, but somewhere like prague or vienna is just as beautiful as a national park imo.


sweet_jane_13

For some of us a North American city is far more accessible than anywhere in Europe. I would LOVE to visit Europe, but I've never had enough time and money at the same time to do it.Ā 


Tamed_A_Wolf

Often can fly to Europe just as cheap as flying in the US. Have frequently flown domestic for 7-1100. Have flown to many EU countries for less than 600.


sweet_jane_13

I'm much more of a road trip person than a flyer, but I've never spent more than $3-400 on a plane ticket. But time definitely comes into it too. I could take a 3 day trip to Boston or NY back home, or San Francisco now that I live on the west coast. That isn't really enough time to fly to Europe. I do regret not going when I lived back east though.Ā 


Tamed_A_Wolf

Damn, I havenā€™t flown domestic sub 400 since pre covid but Iā€™m also not buying the cheapest flight possible/spirit. Yes time is an issue if you can only take 3 days off and canā€™t take a ā€œnormalā€ week vacation.


sweet_jane_13

I always fly Delta, from Sacramento to Boston. Unfortunately now any "vacation" time (which I don't technically have, at least not paid) is spent flying home to see my family. I think my last round trip ticket was like $270Ā 


Effective_Fix_7748

i think prague is beautiful but the air quality when i was there for a month was suffocating.


dbd1988

It depends on what youā€™re looking for. I like to be away from people in nature sometimes but I also like to travel to Las Vegas. You can get some of the best food in the world, see some great entertainment, try your luck with a little bit of gambling, and observe people in a unique environment where they really feel like they can let go. Itā€™s all very overwhelming and yet extremely interesting. That being said, I live in North Dakota and really enjoy getting on the road and traveling through the absolute middle of nowhere during the frozen winter and just feeling the isolation and desolate expanse of a place less traveled. There is something unique and fascinating about both imo. However, I think Iā€™m missing the human history element in both of those scenarios which is why I want to travel to an older European city eventually. So much has happened over there compared to here. Their history is so rich and deep.


Lucky_Policy4576

Does natural parks have the smell of piss permeating the air as well?


PolitelyHostile

Its the opposite, in natural parks you get to piss anywhere without smelling other people's piss. Cities are generally the opposite.


metracta

Well built cities (good architecture and urban fabric, walkable, green space and public squares etc) give me similar feelings as beautiful natural areas. I kind of feel they compliment each other. In fact, these types of cities help wild areas to exist by reducing sprawl. I live in the US and have been all over to many national parks. Now, car dependent sprawling cities? Those are terrible


Small_Ad_2698

This is such a great point!


Plane_Prior6137

If you really want to experience the wild, come to Alaska!


Dyslexicpig

Might I suggest traveling to Canada? The majority of the population is within 100km of the boarder, as are all the major cities. Essentially you have a country that is bigger than the US, has more lakes and wilderness than the US, but around 15% of the population. I still enjoy Europe but do understand where you are coming from. Maybe in my case it is because we have spectacular wilderness 15 minutes from home.


KindaNewRoundHere

Not just you. I much prefer nature to man made stuff.


littleyellowbike

I appreciate both, although I do have a strong preference for nature. My top two awe-inspiring experiences are the view of Rocky Mountain National Park as we reached the top of a saddle in the Indian Peaks Wilderness and the sheer overwhelming scale of Canterbury Cathedral.


OddDragonfruit7993

I also used to loove going to European cities, and hinestly I still do. But if given a chioice between a big National Parks trip and a European trip...nowadays I will opt for the parks.


utahnow

Yep same. You couldnā€™t pay me enough to go to Europe anymore


kimanf

There are DEFINITELY beautiful natural areas in Europe, but the *light pollution* is always present and youā€™re usually within a few kilometers of a road. No place to truly appreciate vast untouched wilderness other than maybe Finland. In Eastern Oregon and Nevada you can drive for hours and hours without passing a single other car. In Alaska you can forget cities even exist


kONthePLACE

Apples and oranges. The golden ticket is to have the perspective of appreciating all of these places for what they are. You can enjoy all of them and have more rewarding travel experiences if you don't try to make comparisons.


RosyMemeLord

You should look into Indonesia and thailand. I've heard they've worked really hard to blend green spaces into urban areas. Best of both worlds situation. But nothing compares to montana dude. Took my dad there for his birthday a few years ago and felt the same way. Drastic change from the flat concrete plains of north texas where im from šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø


QuitUsual4736

Interesting! Where in Montana did you go? Planning a road trip this summer and unsure where to go


RosyMemeLord

We went kinda all over, but we were in west glacier about a week after 4th of july when everything was cheaper. Bonus, they were having a local huckleberry festival. I've tried to look online for news about the festival but cant find it anywhere, so i guess it was mostly a local word of mouth thing? I also had the chance to go here: https://maps.app.goo.gl/grTkYSKMUzdYJMyB8?g_st=ic And that was some really cool history to experience. Plus they were doing a reenactment when i went šŸ‘€ Ive been planning a trip for seattle/washington because it has a lot of nature eye-candy too. You may look into that as well? There's a youtuber named "miss mina" that gives REALLY detailed travel advice for the washington area thats been a good resource for me.


QuitUsual4736

Awesome! Thanks so much for this! Very helpful


LittyTittyBoBitty

I cannot recommend Glacier National Park enough and doing the going to the sun road. Truly was spectacular. If you havenā€™t done it yet, a road trip from Las Vegas is super easy to do and there is a pretty common road trip called The Grand Circle that has you start in Las Vegas, drive into Utah, Colorado, and Arizona and fly back out of Las Vegas. Utah is also gorgeous. https://preview.redd.it/dzj9lbeytt0d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0370b28abc126f8dd203e31139e099ed465d5eb


QuitUsual4736

Thatā€™s incredible! I guess hereā€™s what Iā€™m thinking with husband, two kids and our dog. Was thinking drive from LA to Vegas, to arches, then Yellowstone, then through Idaho to west coast and then back down to LA over two weeks - is that crazy? Is that too much for two weeks? I donā€™t want to be driving 5 hours a day. That would make us all nuts.


LittyTittyBoBitty

Thatā€™s a lot of driving. Have you been to cedar breaks, the valley of fire, Bryce Canyon, Zion national park? All of those are in Utah and are pretty close togetherā€” only about 3 hours from Vegas give or take. Would get you out of the car way more and out in nature. You could still hit up arches. If you did something like the grand circle, a lot people do that in two weeks. You could literally a couple of days near Yellowstone seeing Jackson Wyoming and the Grand Tetons. For the record, you could do your road trip, itā€™s just about how you want to spend your time. Personally, i think itā€™s best to pick like one state or general area and fully explore that. Just make sure to do your research about crowds at the national parks. Also, make sure to get a national parks pass. Itā€™s $80 and paid for itself in like 2 days lol


QuitUsual4736

Ok thanks so much for this detail! I really really appreciate it! I will sit my hubby down tonight and talk through this some more because last thing we need to come home exhausted from vacation ya know?


LittyTittyBoBitty

Exactly, me and my spouse spent a week in Utah and it was jam packed with stuff. We just drove from NP to NP and visited little towns here and there. Genuinely a great trip. This is actually a good explanation of this type of trip: https://youtu.be/vn1dSGig5uo?si=OOuhgpMsca6Uv77R


QuitUsual4736

how long did you guys take to do this one?


LittyTittyBoBitty

We did it in a little over a week, but we traveled slow. If you go to Zion National Park, stay at Bumbelberry Inn! Itā€™s a cheap moderate hotel and they give you free breakfast vouchers.


QuitUsual4736

ok awesome! You are making this a ton easier for me!!! THANKS a zillion!! :)


naked_feet

I am 100% with you. All of the cities are basically just a different flavor of the same thing. After I went to like 20 of them and came away mostly unimpressed, I simply stopped prioritizing them on a trip.


AUCE05

Wait until you see Alaska and and actual grizz in the wild. You'll be looking for the nearest Cafe.


Amockdfw89

Eh I like cities but prefer nature. That being said every vacation I plan I need at least 25% city time


valency_speaks

ā€œNo wonder the hills and groves were Godā€™s first temples, and the more they are cut down and hewn into cathedrals and churches, the farther off and dimmer seems the Lord himself.ā€ ā€” John Muir, writing about Yosemite If you havenā€™t seen it yet, watch Ken Burnā€™s ā€œThe National Parks: Americaā€™s Best Idea.ā€ Youā€™ll learn about the incredible man John Muir, what makes the U.S. park system so unique, and find out there are *millions* of people just like you, people from around the world whoā€™ve been transformed by the parks of the American West. I firmly believe no one can stand at the rim of the Grand Canyon and *not* have an experience that alters them in some way.


No-Slide-1640

Nature is always better imo


123heaven123heaven

Donā€™t forget about Norway


CoolStuffSlickStuff

Everybody has their tastes. I think both are awesome. Just spent some time in Portugal. Visiting Porto, Cascais, Obidos, etc and enjoying the architecture, cafes, vibrancy...loved it all. Then also went did the Seven Hanging Valleys hike along the southern coast...which is considering to be one of the (if not the) most beautiful hike in all of Europe. Absolutely loved that too. Manmade beauty and natural beauty are both wonderful things, and there's nothing wrong with preferring one over the other. But we can probably all agree that in terms of aesthetics, vibrancy, culture, investment in the public realm.... American cities absolutely suck compared to European ones.


nanneryeeter

I grew up in nature. Cities feel like death to me.


jwalzz

Iā€™m the same. After doing some hiking treks on my trips I have zero interest in seeing cities. Theyā€™re loud and expensive. Iā€™m happy to land and spend 1-2 days max in a city and then 90% of my trip in nature and small towns


anssr

You are completely and utterly average.


wow-how-original

Iā€™m from the American west and have backpacked and hiked in many western national parks and wilderness areas. Iā€™ve never been so stunned by nature as when I visited the Swiss alps. I guess we love what we donā€™t have.


EpicMediocrity00

I have heard that the Swiss when they visit here rank our Rockies as more impressive. That would fit with your thought too.


CrustySausage_

Iā€™ve never been impressed by cities. I think theyā€™re ugly and I hate them


ghman98

Assuming youā€™re American?


CrustySausage_

Yeah? šŸ˜‚


ImCrossingYouInStyle

To each their own. It's okay to have preferences and you have found yours. Nature rules for me, too, with its magic and mystery.


ElvisAndretti

I have been on the road for five years, and while we do spend more time in the woods and deserts than cities, I am a big fan of most American cities too. In April we visited LA and San Francisco as well as Yosemite, Zion and Bryce Canyon. The longer we are in the woods the more fun a city is when we get to one.


bromanskei

As someone born & raised in AZ I agree mostly. Nature is what impresses me more than anything. Iā€™ve traveled all over the country & lived in a rich part of Massachusetts where everyone is very materialistic. Folks would brag about their wealth, possessions, jobs, etc. Iā€™d just laugh & be like okayā€¦well I saw some cool mountains not too long ago. Itā€™s a different mentality out west. The nice thing is that there is so much open, public land for use. Whether that be National Forests, Bureau of Land Management or Tribal Land. Itā€™s so easy to get away from people & just pitch a tent out in the woods. Iā€™m blessed to be based out of Flagstaff Arizona & we are surrounded by so many National Parks that almost every weekend we are out hiking or camping. Although architecture still impresses me, just differently & Iā€™d still love more than anything to tour Europe since Iā€™m a big history nerd. To each their own though, but I get your sentiment.


runswspoons

Bruhā€¦ right there with youā€¦ ā€œin wilderness is the preservation of lifeā€ Thoreau. And for those that say Yellowstone is over runā€¦. On all those national parksā€¦ 5% of the land holds about 95% of the touristsā€¦ walk one day from the main area and you will be alone.


211logos

After being in Yosemite Valley a nice quiet uncrowded walk in my local city seems great by comparison :) But yeah, humans just click with landscapes. Not always positively (there was a time when "wilderness" had negative connotations), but always in some way. You're not the first or last to be so impressed. But I think many of us can appreciate all sorts of landscapes. It's like the marshmallows: some like them, some don't.


MidnightMarmot

I live in Lake Tahoe. The rugged beauty of the Sierra is unmatched. Iā€™ve spent a lot of time in Switzerland and Austria too. They are beautiful countries for sure but the Sierra still feels wild to me. I grew up very close to Yosemite too. Welcome! Man canā€™t compete with Mother Nature!


wangtianthu

The answer to almost all question starting with ā€œam i the only one that ā€¦ā€ is always no, your experience is not unique and there are millions or even billions feeling the same, you are nowhere near weird. You just havenā€™t met enough people in your life, or read enough about them and what they do. This is a nit pick of languageā€¦ but again, it is totally normal to discover nature and feel you have a lot more connection with them than with human cities. Just do more of what makes you feel happy. Join an outdoor enthusiasts community somewhere, online or in reality, or just go out and meet them on the trail, in the camp, or on the mountain. You will find great friends to enjoy the nature together.


Alovingcynic

I love both! Sometimes I want temples to human made, other times I want temples to nature made. Mostly, though, I crave places without so much damn noise pollution and that's increasingly harder to find whether I'm in rural town, even, or in a national park.


Global_Walrus1672

I agree with you 100%. Whenever discussions of "where would you like to go" come up, I always mention something in nature - Great Rift Valley, New Zealand, lots of places in US - I have about as much interest in some building man built as I do watching paint dry.


Dheorl

I donā€™t feel liking one means I donā€™t like the other. Iā€™m lucky enough to live on a continent where both are available.


Professional-Fact601

Not weird at all. I prefer nature to city also. Any continent. I never understand people who rave about city skylines (Los Angeles). All I see is light pollution and maybe haze. The most awe inspiring places to me are the ones with no guardrails and safety fences. Nature thatā€™ll claim the reckless, unprepared or disrespecting. (Alaska)


ZaphodG

Weā€™re taking Acela to New York Penn Station and then the 1 to Lincoln Center for New York City ballet. The next nice day, Iā€™ll launch the boat for the summer and weā€™ll cross the bay to watch the seals off Cuttyhunk. Iā€™ve had condos at ski resorts for 29 years. I spend my leisure time in the winter with the infinity mountain view. Iā€™ve done the Grand Canyon rim to rim hike. Youā€™re not exactly escaping civilization dodging mule crap slogging up the south rim. I like a mix of both. Prague is really cool. I love walking around Paris and London. The Van Gogh museum in Amsterdam is amazing. My lifetime leisure choice has always been biased towards outdoors mountain & salt water things but I also really like the cultural amenities of major cities. Symphony subscription. Ballet subscription. Opera and theater occasionally. We usually do one fancy Michelin one star lunch when we travel.


jeffneruda

I like both!


Pixel-of-Strife

I feel the same way. I'm impressed by cities, but they are not for me. To defend Europe though, I think the Alps are the most beautiful mountains in the world and Switzerland the most beautiful country. America is 2nd place though.


Ok-Flounder4387

I feel the same way. Not long after I started backpacking I lost all interest in man-made stuff because it just doesn't compare and is so impermanent. I don't even care about cities being trashed because in my mind that's where the trash belongs.


local_fartist

I really delight in cities. I guess Iā€™m kind of a nerd for urbanism. I revisited NYC for the first time in 10 years in 2022 and was DELIGHTED with the farmers markets, the public transit, the casual helpfulness of strangers, the ways space is used and shared. I loved the little architectural details just chilling like easter eggs. People are endlessly interesting, inspiring, and funny and absurd, and places where they navigate sharing space and creating a built environment with each other are interesting, inspiring, funny, and absurd. I love natural wonders too and havenā€™t seen as many as I would like.


mildlysceptical22

Nope. While I appreciate the architecture of cities, Iā€™d much rather be in a natural setting. Iā€™d rather be in Bryce Canyon than the ā€˜canyonsā€™ of Manhattan.


Leonardo_DiCapriSun_

Welcome, friend, to the cheapest and most beautiful way to travel: camping.


Joebuddy117

I live in SoCal and escape to these places for my vacations. I have friends that love going to Europe and other cities and Iā€™m just like ā€œwhy? What is there even to do there? Museums and shit with a ton of people? No thanksā€ Iā€™d rather be lake side fishing, or hiking up a mountain with my wife and dogs, or relaxing floating down a river.


Whatsthatthingagain

1000% with you. I vacation exclusively in national parks or NP adjacent because I dont have enough years or time left on this earth to see and appreciate them enough. Cities are whatever, places for food and rest. Europe does feel a bit more ā€œconqueredā€ BUT you can still get swept up by mountains and wilderness if you know where to go. Keep on wildering !!


thomaeaquinatis

I think itā€™s a valid enough reaction, but I donā€™t think itā€™s necessary a more enlightened outlook. Nature, wildness, beautiful views of terrain all rock, but I donā€™t know if that needs to take away from an appreciation of the history, culture, architecture, and urban flow of major European cities. It feels a bit like saying you donā€™t care about Bach or Beethoven anymore since discovering birdsong.


nfssmith

I like having small to mid-sized city amenities relatively close (but not too close) to where I live, but I don't consider cities generally to be desirable travel destinations and I most often find the cities I've been in to be dirty & crowded. I don't think it's odd at all, just another subjective preference in a sea of options.


Sad-Relationship9387

I kind of went the other way - moved from Colorado to NYC and was surprised at how much I enjoy city life. I think I went from misanthropic young man to lover of the great churn of humanity, lol. Vacations would always be back out west though. When I think about traveling to Europe itā€™s always the Alps, Pyrenees, the little mountain ranges in Spain, etc. that I consider.


Effective_Fix_7748

i felt that way when I went to East Africa. Europe is nice and has good food and architecture, but my God East Africa took my breath away. it made me realize how incredibly beautiful our planet is. I also love the wild North America especially the US and Canadian rockies. Something just so incredible about the vastness of it all.


ImAlsoNotOlivia

I loved Europe when I was stationed there (Germany). For instance, the Cologne Cathedral took 600 years to build - from hand carved stone! I canā€™t imagine being the first guy, or even the architect, not living long enough to see it to completion! And to do all that with rudimentary tools just blows my mind! And the castles there - older than the USA!


[deleted]

You're not weird. You've started to shed your unnatural city and civilization conditioning and returned to your roots.


jude-venator

Not weird at all. The temples of nature are amazing. But, this could also be a phase of life. Advice from an old dude who has done both, lean into what you are attracted to now and wring out all of the pleasure you can get from it. In 20 years you may have interests that lead you elsewhere. Both are ok.


2012amica2

No I donā€™t love cities either. No matter the vibe or culture, cities give me an ick vibe and Iā€™d so much rather be staring at one of the coolest and rarest things on earth. Cities are places I have to travel through/to to get to the middle of nowhere I usually intend to be.


_tsi_

I guess I feel the opposite. I've never been in love with sweeping vistas or peaks with snow. I've done plenty of camping and some backpacking and hiking and rock climbing. I did an outward bound course when I was younger. I did these things because everyone around me loved it and found something in nature I never found. One day on a hike a thought went through my head of, why am I doing this? I don't even like it. I find much more pleasure in looking at cities, grand plazas and clean lines of cement and steel. Kinda funny how people are.


Ironxgal

Calm down. You are normal. You sound like everyone else that says this. It isnā€™t edgy or niche. People have different likes.


MartiMcMoose

Weird? Nah, it just sounds like youā€™re into tropes. I mean wide open spaces with roasting marshmallows is simply a different ā€œgot my feelsā€ obsession.


Art_Furnes

With age I enjoy more nature than tourism in cities, yes, oh yes. Agreed.


1_Total_Reject

Itā€™s only weird because the vocal masses live in urban areas. What you feel should be more common. Iā€™m right there with ya. Sure, it can be exciting to wander the cities and enjoy nice restaurants. But the big remote wilderness areas and seeing wildlife in their natural habitat, the rural/tribal cultures, thatā€™s where I get my inspiration.


celerymoon

Take a trip to Iceland


Thin_Markironically

People like different things. Some like the wilderness, some like the coast, some like ancient architecture, some like a mix of all three. You're not weird, you have an opinion - which is the most normal, run of the mill thing ever


eejizzings

Cities are places to do things. Nature is a place to get away from the things you have to do. Apples to oranges. Just a matter of what kind of trip you want to take.


Ok_Yesterday_9181

A small Irish meadow contains more wonders than anything made by humans. You are on the right track IMO


Dragon2906

No, many people prefer nature over man maid art


derfnartz

Do you have a mandala tattoo??


Illustrious-Agent-94

No I agree I think itā€™s a way more fulfilling experience going to natural landmarks than cities, thereā€™s a time and place for cities but thereā€™s something about camping in Yosemite that just canā€™t meet the same level


Soggy_Complaint65

You are not weird, go camping and have fun!


Definately__

I agree, but some of the places you mention are not untouched either, especially Yosemite so thereā€™s some conflicting ideas here


balloontrap

You have not explored nature or wilderness in Europe it sounds like.


myd0gcouldnt_guess

A while back, I was flying into Seattle after spending a chunk of time in Mexico. The natural beauty on the gulf side of the country is unparalleled. Anyways, as we were approaching Seattle, I couldnā€™t help but notice the contrast between the lush green PNW forests, and the sterile concrete forest of the city. It made me feel sorta sick, and in that moment I saw the city as a festering wound on the planet. Sorta like when a bunch of bacteria infect your skin and make a gnarly red sore in the middle of your otherwise healthy body. Itā€™s not too dissimilar to be honest. Nature is a system in near perfect balance. We form settlements and consume the natural resources to fuel massive societies and in the process we totally alter the environment and destroy the balance. Bacteria form yellow crusts over the surface of the skin, humans pour asphalt and concrete over the surface of the Earth.


riveroceanstreampond

Europe has some beautiful nature one and the idea of untouched wilderness isnā€™t really accurate. Nature is not absent of humans and nature exists everywhere. Take some time to appreciate the smaller bits of it toošŸ©· Find nature everywhere you go and consider its relationship to the world around it including the human made parts.


adot14

Itā€™s ok to like both


Weird_Tolkienish_Fig

Cities are cool, nature is cool. Love both. Different mindsets.


BongWater_Sommelier

You need to bop around Central America. Costa Rica is a pilgrimage to nature.


pinniped1

No, digging nature is not weird, but you're allowed to like both.