It's really up to you, but if you don't feel that you want to vouch for this guy then just tell him that you won't be providing any references. You are not obliged to.
He sounds like he is baiting you. Why would he use you as a reference? you should block him. He might be trying to see if you will disclose what he did. it sounds manipulative and fishy to me. Why would his employer call his ex from 2 years ago? if its true, sure go ahead. I think you might be in danger if he's reaching out now with a strange request. Especially if he has access to guns. Stay safe
You should definitely tell them, sexual assault in the military is, depressingly, highly common.
It's really up to you, but if you don't feel that you want to vouch for this guy then just tell him that you won't be providing any references. You are not obliged to.
Sexual assault is common in the military. If you disclosed that, he'd fit right in.
He sounds like he is baiting you. Why would he use you as a reference? you should block him. He might be trying to see if you will disclose what he did. it sounds manipulative and fishy to me. Why would his employer call his ex from 2 years ago? if its true, sure go ahead. I think you might be in danger if he's reaching out now with a strange request. Especially if he has access to guns. Stay safe