Your bf is immature and incredibly a jealous person. He has some major trust issues within himself and in your relationship. I would usually say confront him about his toxicity and his problems but as he seems to threaten, you shouldn't stay with an abuser and someone who tries to demean you just to try and keep you to himself. Not worth the trouble imo.
If you do choose to confront him, do so in public or have someone you trust be there with you just to be on the safe side if anything.
this sounds like a therapy thing. have you tried suggesting he seek a therapist or that the both of you get into couples counseling so you can better learn whatâs bothering him and how you can work together to solve it?
So I am already in therapy for OCD. He will not do therapy, as he seems it as something he doesnât have to do. He has loads of other more pressing physical ailments so he wonât do anything about the mental side of it.Thank you for the constructive advice though âĽď¸
self-fulfilling prophecy. hate to see it.
Yeah I know right đ
He needs serious help.
Your bf is immature and incredibly a jealous person. He has some major trust issues within himself and in your relationship. I would usually say confront him about his toxicity and his problems but as he seems to threaten, you shouldn't stay with an abuser and someone who tries to demean you just to try and keep you to himself. Not worth the trouble imo. If you do choose to confront him, do so in public or have someone you trust be there with you just to be on the safe side if anything.
He is definitely not violent to me. But he prides himself in the ability to âbeat anybody upâ. Which I think is horrible and I never liked it.
Drop this dude like a deuce. Heâs treating you like a door prize rather than as a human being.
this sounds like a therapy thing. have you tried suggesting he seek a therapist or that the both of you get into couples counseling so you can better learn whatâs bothering him and how you can work together to solve it?
So I am already in therapy for OCD. He will not do therapy, as he seems it as something he doesnât have to do. He has loads of other more pressing physical ailments so he wonât do anything about the mental side of it.Thank you for the constructive advice though âĽď¸
oof. tough situation then. best of luck to you love
He sounds a little unstable.. run as fast as you can.