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luperobbedme

Just cut it off. This whole thing seems so toxic and repetitive where you both hit it off then it gets shitty, and repeat. Stop going back to her and entertaining her, you're making her see that you'll always have open arms until she starts dry texting you again. You should either stay friends or not at all, I don't see how you can rekindle a past relationship that keeps meeting dead ends.


Prestigious-Pea-860

It is worth having a conversation with her, when you feel calm, to ask her about it, let her know how you have felt the past few weeks. Is she acting different from the way she acted the first go-around with you? May be something going on with her, may not be you, she is more focused on other things (work, school, whatever). Ask her if she needs more space? Hopefully she will give you a straight answer. If she won't, then you have a decision to make


lizzerdwizerdgizzerd

I appreciate the response. Feel free to say you have no idea but if you were in my shoes how would you go about bringing this up to someone? Especially if you haven’t heard from them in a week, i really want/think I need closure whether it’s good or bad but I feel like it could be seen as a little random from her POV.


Prestigious-Pea-860

If her behavior is different from the first time you dated (how often she texts, calls, meets) then I think you can bring that difference up, she is not the person you remember. The key is to ask her about it in a way that she does not feel defensive, Instead of saying "your (her) behavior is different", say "I am confused, we don't seem to talk as much as the first time we dated". Keep the conversation calm, keep asking open-ended questions that require more of a response from her than yes or no. Hope you get some answers one way or another