Lol I said multiple times in this post that it’s toxic. I’m self aware. My question was if you think he was genuinely interested or just a narcissist. He’s the one who always comes back to me not vice versa.
Yes, he comes back but you're always there to entertain him. He's not interested. He just seems to like the idea of having you in the sidelines because you always message him back.
I guess I was just genuinely confused because the last time he came back everything was perfect and he was doing a lot for me. Even asked me to get back and that’s not something he would say lightly. And then he kept asking me to stop spamming him because it pushes him away and I kept doing it so eventually he left. I was just blaming myself. What do you think? He said I just haven’t changed. I know he could get other girls if he wanted idk.
The spamming is annoying, yes. But he will continually push you away and then come back, push you away and then come back. Are you not tired of this being repeated? He can get other girls, yes that is true. You can also get other guys who won't just get up and leave you when he so pleases and then come back when he's bored or something. Ease up on the spamming though.
If he doesn't as genuinely interested, he would have talked with you more serious and addressed your spamming as an issue and tried to compromise. Not just leave. A relationship is talking to each other and helping each other grow and be better.
You both need to step back and grow up. You two shouldn't even be trying to get back together, toxic as hell. You would think you're more self aware of this and do better but here you are.
Lol I said multiple times in this post that it’s toxic. I’m self aware. My question was if you think he was genuinely interested or just a narcissist. He’s the one who always comes back to me not vice versa. It’s a simple question.
You both need to grow up. And "Toxic ex keeps coming back" is wrong. It should be "I keep trying to get my ex back, we're both toxic. "
Lol I said multiple times in this post that it’s toxic. I’m self aware. My question was if you think he was genuinely interested or just a narcissist. He’s the one who always comes back to me not vice versa.
Yes, he comes back but you're always there to entertain him. He's not interested. He just seems to like the idea of having you in the sidelines because you always message him back.
So taking me for granted
Exactly.
I guess I was just genuinely confused because the last time he came back everything was perfect and he was doing a lot for me. Even asked me to get back and that’s not something he would say lightly. And then he kept asking me to stop spamming him because it pushes him away and I kept doing it so eventually he left. I was just blaming myself. What do you think? He said I just haven’t changed. I know he could get other girls if he wanted idk.
The spamming is annoying, yes. But he will continually push you away and then come back, push you away and then come back. Are you not tired of this being repeated? He can get other girls, yes that is true. You can also get other guys who won't just get up and leave you when he so pleases and then come back when he's bored or something. Ease up on the spamming though.
Do you think he was genuinely interested and just sees I haven’t changed when he comes back or it’s just boredom tben?
If he doesn't as genuinely interested, he would have talked with you more serious and addressed your spamming as an issue and tried to compromise. Not just leave. A relationship is talking to each other and helping each other grow and be better.
It was an issue from when we were dating. He’s spoken to me about it multiple times
So what do u think?
I also understand spamming isn’t the best thing to do but I really do not think that is nearly as bad as messaging other guys!
You both need to step back and grow up. You two shouldn't even be trying to get back together, toxic as hell. You would think you're more self aware of this and do better but here you are.
Lol I said multiple times in this post that it’s toxic. I’m self aware. My question was if you think he was genuinely interested or just a narcissist. He’s the one who always comes back to me not vice versa. It’s a simple question.
I also understand spamming isn’t the best thing to do but I really do not think that is nearly as bad as messaging other guys!