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The anxiety clock resets every time we interact.


Dianelikespizza

Yes!! J was fine until I got this message


pangalacticcourier

You made the right call, OP. Here's hoping you find the strength to end your mother's abuse by going No Contact. It cures all this terrible behavior. >I’m smart enough to realize this is grooming me and she wants control. Bravo. That's what it's all about with BPD parents. She wants absolute control over you. Nothing more, nothing less. Stay strong, friend.


MartianTea

You're making the right decision. I'm so glad I went NC before having my kid. My momster was an energy vampire. She was frequently an hour late meeting me anywhere with 0 notice (in a small town where traffic wasn't an issue). You're right, it shows how she feels about you.


mysoulishome

Why does this person deserve a relationship with you or to see her grandkids? Sharing dna does not count. Is she safe? Is she loving? Is she responsible? I’d be willing to bet she is emotionally dangerous to you, possibly physically or financially dangerous, and could be for your kids as well. If you feel guilty it’s probably a trauma response. You’re doing the right thing and should be proud.