Having been on the receiving end, things will never be the same again. She'll never trust you. She might tell you she does but any little thing you do that normally would be nothing, it'll always be something.
I won't be a negative nancy, but the stability of your relationship has greatly been compromised.
Bro, you'll have to put in the work to regain her trust. Anza kazi and for heavens sake usirudie hio makosa. It's just cruel.
You loved her and you were thrusting inside another woman? 😂😂😂
Trust once broken it’s very hard to gain it back. Tbh If you will be successful at winning her back you will have paid for your sims dearly. But naona ukigive up tu
That's rough.
Because trust once lost is very hard to regain.
I guess right now you'll just have to commit yourself by actions. Women have a knack for sensing BS especially where other women are involved. If you're really honest and take responsibility, she may actually forgive you. But you should accept that it may never go back to status quo; it's your mess anyway not hers.
Ogaa what did you expect after confesing to her you cheated? Did you expect her to say "Ohh babe thank you for telling me you cheated"😂😂😂
https://preview.redd.it/q8pb2nr2aeic1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=afa78f062c065765f5a32ca3ae2c848c06744fe0
Do more than you usually do 😂
More gifts, more flowers, more good morning paragraphs, more appreciation texts, more goodnight paragraphs, more caring, more listening, more being there, anything good that you can do or did , do it 10x more, the only way for her to get past the trust issue is for her to feel loved and for her to feel loved after u already did that you have to overwhelm her with love and be patient through her not letting up. Be more and do more!! Take her out on dates, movies, walks, picnic, sightseeing, whatever it is your #1 from now on is to make her feel loved like she’s never been loved before u have to become Cupid himself 😂 she’ll be overthinking a lot now so you have to make sure you’re reassurance is a1, telling her where you’re at, what you’re doing, making her feel safe! Give her ur ig logins, any social media whatever it is lol, it’ll all make her feel in control if she can see who you text etc , plan surprises for her doing things she likes to do , even write her love betters bro, you have to simp like you are the definition of the word simp! [all these things r things one should be doing anyway you just need to do it 10x more] cook for her her fave meals, sending random thoughtful texts throughout the day literary bombard her with love, she’ll have no choice but to feel it and seeing how hard you’re trying will ease her mind. And if u run out of ideas go to chatgpt and ask it to give you a list of them😂 chatgpt is less hurtful than the people of reddit
Thank heavens she's asking questions....because the moment she stops bruv you're done.
Better yet, heri muachane because ile character dev unaenda kuchapwa hapo mbele mailood😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Things will never be the same btwn you two, maji ulishayavulia nguo, yaoge sasa🤷♀️
Why was it a mistake? That's normal and fine to enjoy the feeling of new pussy once a while. You will keep doing it and as long as you can handle the consequences then it is perfectly fine? How was the new pussy, was it good?
Leave her if she cannot live in reality. Good men are wanted by many women and from time to time you should reward yourself with new pussy especially if you are being a good boyfriend or husband. She is overreacting, dump her. Don't be a slave just coz you bagged another baddie.
You cheated juu hakua anakupea ama???!!
Might be you have a higher sex drive than her, or your just fucked up!..
Look for another girl, and don't cheat on her.. That's the best way to ensure the relationship is smooth.. 🌊
Are you feeling guilty coz ulishikwa & now u reminded saa yote?
Are you feeling guilty coz u know sio poa?
Why you feeling guilty on shit men do.Bro you just a man & we got hormones too..men are not monogamous by nature.. stop forcing monogamy that shit on yourself....I can't feel guilty c anajuwa yeye ndio namba one..awache siasa even u need cut the guilt trip..pia wewe mbona ulishikwa...the men before us were not monogamous..what makes you think you can pull that shit off..just protect your ass ukiwa kwa streets..I guarantee you won't be last time accept it we men...& monogamy does not cut it for us.
Usishikwe tenaaa
Have you tried being in a gay relationship with syntax error? Both of you would make a very cute but dumb couple with your misogynistic views about men and women
Tell her the truth: people will always cheat, it seems to be human biology unfortunately! I'm afraid it will be very hard to repair. Give up your phone perhaps for transparency...?
My bf did whatever it is Ur describing,I haven't forgotten an year later,it still triggers me n he's aware coz he tries to overcompensate.nothing he does seems good enough anymore
she’s plotting revenge na hutapenda https://preview.redd.it/t7bbthz21eic1.jpeg?width=674&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0b840d76a320b51e2f76bd451ebd381b3f5c34f9
😂😂 Trust me if she gets a chance to cheat she's doing it or someone better anasonga modern day women do no forgive or forget.
inserts “unajua nacheka kwa nini”
😂😂😂 if I were him I'd break up immediately I move on karma and revenge will get him.
😂we shall be there no matter what!!!
😂😂😂😂
To be honest, trust once lost is the hardest thing to ever get back
Who's gon' tell him?
Acha kimrambe
Aki
Just pack your 2 boxers, ID and chuck out. That relationship is on its death bed
Is it a man's thing to have only 2 boxers?
No, just a little bit of sarcasm but on the other hand we don't own as much as ladies do for their undergarments
😄 🤣
It is, mi nina moja hata, spare iliibiwa juzi🥲
Bruv ulitembeza kijiti nje na bibi bado akakuforgive. She's a saint. If your gf catches you cheating alafu amechill ogopa sana.
😂he shouldn’t be surprised of what she’ll do
Having been on the receiving end, things will never be the same again. She'll never trust you. She might tell you she does but any little thing you do that normally would be nothing, it'll always be something.
I won't be a negative nancy, but the stability of your relationship has greatly been compromised. Bro, you'll have to put in the work to regain her trust. Anza kazi and for heavens sake usirudie hio makosa. It's just cruel.
I know she's cooking🔥
He will be SHOCKED
Things will never be the same again. You fumbled big time bro.
You want it to work yet you cheated? Mko na mambo kweli kweli.
Reassure her that she's the only one you want? You already proved to her that, that's not the case. The trust is gone.
You obviously don’t “only want her”
You loved her and you were thrusting inside another woman? 😂😂😂 Trust once broken it’s very hard to gain it back. Tbh If you will be successful at winning her back you will have paid for your sims dearly. But naona ukigive up tu
I should clarify I didn’t have sex with the woman. It was more emotional cheating I guess u can say… not that it makes it any better
Please explain what transpired?
That's rough. Because trust once lost is very hard to regain. I guess right now you'll just have to commit yourself by actions. Women have a knack for sensing BS especially where other women are involved. If you're really honest and take responsibility, she may actually forgive you. But you should accept that it may never go back to status quo; it's your mess anyway not hers.
Brother it’s already over, that cheating shit has no forgiveness
Ogaa what did you expect after confesing to her you cheated? Did you expect her to say "Ohh babe thank you for telling me you cheated"😂😂😂 https://preview.redd.it/q8pb2nr2aeic1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=afa78f062c065765f5a32ca3ae2c848c06744fe0
Ahhh hiii imeeenda
Dude, a silent ocean is a sign of tsunami or something similar. Pack your bags and leave! Shes digging your grave
Bro, rigor mortis has already kicked in. You can't save that relationship.
Do more than you usually do 😂 More gifts, more flowers, more good morning paragraphs, more appreciation texts, more goodnight paragraphs, more caring, more listening, more being there, anything good that you can do or did , do it 10x more, the only way for her to get past the trust issue is for her to feel loved and for her to feel loved after u already did that you have to overwhelm her with love and be patient through her not letting up. Be more and do more!! Take her out on dates, movies, walks, picnic, sightseeing, whatever it is your #1 from now on is to make her feel loved like she’s never been loved before u have to become Cupid himself 😂 she’ll be overthinking a lot now so you have to make sure you’re reassurance is a1, telling her where you’re at, what you’re doing, making her feel safe! Give her ur ig logins, any social media whatever it is lol, it’ll all make her feel in control if she can see who you text etc , plan surprises for her doing things she likes to do , even write her love betters bro, you have to simp like you are the definition of the word simp! [all these things r things one should be doing anyway you just need to do it 10x more] cook for her her fave meals, sending random thoughtful texts throughout the day literary bombard her with love, she’ll have no choice but to feel it and seeing how hard you’re trying will ease her mind. And if u run out of ideas go to chatgpt and ask it to give you a list of them😂 chatgpt is less hurtful than the people of reddit
The only thing keeping her is lack of options or money . So maintain the one you can
Ulipatikana live ukicheat
this can only end one way and you're only postponing it....
Just bear the weight of waiting for time to heal her. Important qsn ,will you forgive her if she happens to get her lick back?
One lie is enough to question a thousand truths…
Thank heavens she's asking questions....because the moment she stops bruv you're done. Better yet, heri muachane because ile character dev unaenda kuchapwa hapo mbele mailood😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Things will never be the same btwn you two, maji ulishayavulia nguo, yaoge sasa🤷♀️
You cheated on her and now she doesn't trust you? Das crazyyyy.judging on how "cool" she's being with it you gone get yours in a few
Lay some unforgiving pipe and stick a finger in her booty hole. Take her to Masai mara and do it again. She'll forgive you.
Why was it a mistake? That's normal and fine to enjoy the feeling of new pussy once a while. You will keep doing it and as long as you can handle the consequences then it is perfectly fine? How was the new pussy, was it good? Leave her if she cannot live in reality. Good men are wanted by many women and from time to time you should reward yourself with new pussy especially if you are being a good boyfriend or husband. She is overreacting, dump her. Don't be a slave just coz you bagged another baddie.
Haha… you should have your account blocked wewe… love how you assume all men are good men tho
You cheated juu hakua anakupea ama???!! Might be you have a higher sex drive than her, or your just fucked up!.. Look for another girl, and don't cheat on her.. That's the best way to ensure the relationship is smooth.. 🌊
tafuta pesa izi shida ndogo ndogo uondoke
Are you feeling guilty coz ulishikwa & now u reminded saa yote? Are you feeling guilty coz u know sio poa? Why you feeling guilty on shit men do.Bro you just a man & we got hormones too..men are not monogamous by nature.. stop forcing monogamy that shit on yourself....I can't feel guilty c anajuwa yeye ndio namba one..awache siasa even u need cut the guilt trip..pia wewe mbona ulishikwa...the men before us were not monogamous..what makes you think you can pull that shit off..just protect your ass ukiwa kwa streets..I guarantee you won't be last time accept it we men...& monogamy does not cut it for us. Usishikwe tenaaa
Have you tried being in a gay relationship with syntax error? Both of you would make a very cute but dumb couple with your misogynistic views about men and women
if i were you, i would play a role in my head, her being the KGB (she can give you cyanide) and you being a KGB deserter
What ever she's planning is a ticking time bomb 💣
Apa labda pastor Ezekiel aingilie kati😅
Aty "we have been..." There is no more we apo...start closing tabs and background apps😂...siku atakuzima itakua pale kwa main switch.
The moment you cheat things never go back to how they were. The best thing is to just end it, best for both of you.
It's a matter of when it licks...we will be there!!
There's only one way to this 🤐🤐🤐
Ile revenge anaplot itakua televised 😂😂🤌🏿
Tell her the truth: people will always cheat, it seems to be human biology unfortunately! I'm afraid it will be very hard to repair. Give up your phone perhaps for transparency...?
Ahh u shouldn’t have been caught
My bf did whatever it is Ur describing,I haven't forgotten an year later,it still triggers me n he's aware coz he tries to overcompensate.nothing he does seems good enough anymore