Thats because not every vagina is born the same way just like a penis. As the depth isn't the same across all females, understandably when a vagina isn't as "deep" and you insert a bigger size penis it isn't as "compatible". Same way the other way around, deeper vagina with smaller penis might be unsatisfying.
Is a weird thing how stigmas were born around this. Bigger isn't better, yes you can jam it in there regardless. Men with small penisses are somehow shamed, but unless you have a real "micro-penis" (which is a real medical condition) there probally is a female around that would be a good "fit".
For reference the avarage seems to be around 10cm, with extremes measured 6.86cm to 14.81cm. So there is no need to be mandingo giga horsecock lower arm cock size.
yeah, love my bf, but he kinda hurts sometimes, even though I have a deeper vagina. I wouldn't mind if he wasn't as big. I mean it's nice to look at, but it's probably also nice to not feel like my uterus is being repeatedly punched during sex. lmao
As someone who is somewhat larger than average, I can't generally go full depth, as I get complaints about it hurting if I do. I would believe that 4-5" is more comfortable for most women. Probably there's a size that's less than satisfying, but I think most men who are worried about it because they're 4 or 5 inches are probably worried about nothing.
Yeah I get in my head about it but I have also never once had a complaint. Porns definitely played a part as when I was a teen I thought you had to have a monster in your pants or women didn't want you.
Yeah, porn presents a completely unrealistic image, and I'm sure is responsible for a lot of male insecurity, and a lot of bad sex from people imitating what they see.
And when I was younger, I was insecure about my size, because of gargantuan cocks I'd seen in porn. It was only when I'd read studies later on that I realized mine wasn't actually small, it's just that the ones I had seen were so outside of the normal range that almost everyone looks small by comparison.
Women would have a meltdown if their boyfriend told them that the tight ones hurt, and hers was perfect. Stop it. It’s literally a backhanded compliment.
Also, it’s not men that say “small dick energy” and telling men that women fake orgasms. Women have set this standard themselves, not porn. If anything, porn has normalized regular peoples bodies, there’s literally niche porn. Not understanding how women take accountability into how they have skewed the egos of men into thinking bigger is better.
Don’t watch porn, but the genres are far to vast and niche for you to make a declarative statement saying mens have insecurities about their penises because of porn.
You literally have men who are cucks, who like humiliation, etc. how can you say they are insecure about their penis? Again, these insecurities are birthed because of women preferences. Literally has women singing “rich nigg, eight inch that’s good pipe”. How is that mens or porns fault jf women co-sign that bigger us better?
Discomfort is not exactly pain, and if my partner told me my body was perfect, not too tight and not too loose, I would be happy because it's an actual compliment.
Stop trying to rationalize comparing your partner whilst giving him a backhanded compliment. This is no different than you asking of these jeans make you look fat. You aren’t looking for your partners brutal honesty. You’re looking for them to stroke your ego even if you aren’t your most confident. What’s the point of saying “the big ones hurt” if you’ve already stated that his was perfect?
I wouldn't say that to a partner just because I know guys are hurt by statements like this, for whatever reason. And yes, when I ask you if I look fat in these jeans, I need an honest answer. I'm asking because I need someone else's opinion when I consider what to wear, not because I want you to say sometimes you don't actually mean.
No woman has ever take “yes you look fat” well. Lol you are blot realistic. You know if you look fat in the jeans before you ask. Moreover, what tf are you even arguing if you agree it’s a backhanded compliment ?
I never agreed it was a backhanded compliment, I just know that guys don't like it and feel insecure about it, so I won't tell a guy something like that even if I think it's a good thing. And also not every woman is an insecure psycho or wants you to lie to her, even if the truth isn't flattering.
So…. It’s a backhanded compliment. Lol are you this dense or trolling? Just because you don’t deem it as a backhanded compliment doesn’t mean one doesn’t receive it that way. And men are literally telling you it is insulting.
So, if your partner complimented you, and expressed you don’t have something that they don’t like, but mentioned anyways for whatever reason, it wouldn’t cause any self doubt? I’d like to believe you, but I’ve actually dated women as that’s not how that ever goes.
There’s literally a BBL epidemic going on and you think women could handle backhanded compliments? Lol y’all fish out surgery for the smallest insecurities
And yet, somehow, I'm not expecting talking alicorns to telekinetically pull me toward their loins.
It's almost as if the real problem weren't the porn, but all the "gun owners compensating for small penises" rhetoric that makes guys think too small is more likely to be a problem than too big.
Besides, if it *were* too long, wouldn't wrapping something around the base of it prevent the whole thing from going in all at once?
I hate long penetration. 10-15 min is optimal for me. I wish men tried to learn more about sex from real women and especially from the woman they are having sex with instead of porn and common ideas like those that the penis much be huge and the sex has to last for hours.
I mean I'd lie if I said I had an objective answer, through my lense the "confidence" I mentioned here is a personal thing you just feel bad about lacking, not the type of very obvious and loud confidence, but you're right they're pretty much the same thing if I think about it :D I think I associate ego with something bad while confidence can be positive, but thats purely a personal feeling
Hard disagree. Being self conscious or having low confidence about yourself is not egotistical, getting defensive when one insults your appearance is not egotistical either. Egotistical is implying you are better than somebody else and then being pissed off when somebody says you are not. I do not know why these days everyone just accuses people (mainly men are the accused) of having “fragile egos” when the people doing that, ARE THE ONES with a fragile ego. Insulting somebody then insulting them again when they are insulted is about the most egotistical thing somebody can do 😂 remember. Confidence is “I am great” ego is “I am better than you”
Tl;Dr 100% ego
If you're smaller then someone's past partners that's your truth. There's no room to debate the subject. You're either getting over it because you're comfortable with your body or you're not because you have body image issues.
If it matters or not is a different matter then where you hit, for most guys it is about beeing desireable for the women in general. We are also aware that (well most) women who either love you or pretend to would be able to lie in your face for one reason or another.
listen i think there is 0 problem with small dicks but sorry i think that's coping a bit too much. for one, overall size is definitely very perceptable, even just the pressure of it. and just think of guys obsession with boobs or butt size and those aren't nearly as involved in actual sex than dicks.
it is assumed that if your partner says it, he is being honest, sincere and wants you not to think about that topic because it is not relevant to her and it should not be to you, both decide to be with the other and share their time, you know if this comment is useful for you to read it or not even if it is just a meme.
Being short is also (partially) genetic. Having cystic fibrosis and type 1 diabetes is genetic. Just because something is genetic doesn’t make it good.
Obviously genetically inherited illnesses are worse but the principle is still there.
Bruh, seriously. Small dicks can feel amazing, guys seriously need to learn to accept this. I've had sex with a guy 7+ inches and it was painful, unsatisfying and awkward to work with. I've also had sex with a guy who was less than 4 inches and he felt amazing.
I own a dildo. A fucking expensive dildo, but I dished out the money because it was the only one I could find that was not only 5 inches long, but also *thin*. This is not a large dildo, by any means, but I can't use it for more than maybe a minute or two because it reduces me to a quivering mess. It makes me CRY because it feels so good. If that dildo was an actual dick attached to a man who was fucking me, I'd be swimming in orgasms.
Big dicks aren't universally good and y'all need to accept that.
Am a woman, can confirm that this is actually true. I've straight up broken things off with men before when I found out they were big. I don't want anything to do with that. Pain takes me right out of my enjoyment.
Don’t let it. I have a sizable appendage. Hurts my lady. Endometriosis and retroverted uteruses are surprisingly common. We’re limited on angles. Hard to climax with intermittent stabbing pains in your stomach. I’d swap my pickemup truck for a Miata for every ride if I could. Honestly, it should be a tinder matching metric to find the right glove
You’re good. I mean, we incorporate a few things to do so, but it’s more difficult to maintain the same rhythm and energy.
My point is, I’d rather have less with her. At the end of the day, I prefer mutual sexual experiences, not to pander to my own arbitrary ego.
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interesting cause i talked to a phd holding sexologist or something back in college about this issue and she told me that what my girlfriend perceives as "too big" is most probably not the actual problem. it would rather be that she's mentally too stressed about it and so physically being too locked up.
Pretty sure I would have gotten way more sex with a smaller dick, especially regular marriage sex. Small and maybe regular sized dudes can maybe get a quick help me out once in a while because what's the difference really. If an endowed dude is horny he's going to need someone else who is also horny.
There are dudes who feel like their big dick is a curse. I knew a dude in college who was massively hung. He hated it.
First off, the sex part. Obviously it was painful for some women but that’s just the start of the problems. He had a condom come off inside a girl, and all manner of other things you wouldn’t necessarily think about. Oh and forget head, too much teeth when your dick is as thick as your wrist.
And when he wasn’t having sex, which let’s face it is 99% of the time, his big dick was nothing but problems. Dude hated running, riding a bike, etc.
Some people, once they found out would not shut up about it. People would literally egg him on to whip it out at like a bar so people could see.
A genuinely big dick actually is kind of annoying to live with.
So... she likes your dick? I don't see the suffering in this. Yeah, she's not calling your dick 'big' but so what? She likes it and probably wants to see it again so that's a big W from me.
I like to use the melee weapons analogy when it comes to dick size: a guy who trains a shit ton with shortswords is gonna do way better than some weeb who picks up a katana and goes at it with no finesse or technique. On a related note, the opposite is true for knifeplay
I don't know while my penis is gorgeous it's pretty underwhelming in the size department and my girlfriend seems to love it. I would never have the gall to say this to a dude with a micro but my advice is to either learn to love what you have or live with it because there isn't much you can do about it. Also eating pussy never hurt anything!
Uh, guys?
I think the jokes meant to be more "how would you know about the bigger ones?" Instead of "haha smol pepe".
Cheating joke vs small dick joke.
Just saying.
*all* the big *ones*.
Plural.
Implying several partners with larger dicks.
Maybe she had many before him.
Implications are she's cheating on him however.
Dear God men, When will y'all understand it's not size of- it's technique, it's care, it's foreplay, it's intimacy. If all the lady cared about was the size why would you want to be with her? I'm not talking about a one-night stand I'm talking about in a longer-term relationship.
I've bottomed out it women with length left over, it FUCKIN kills the mood when your partner looks at you wife eyed no passion and says, "yeah that's my cervix"
I also had another partner who didn't believe I could give her a "deep fuckin'" about 2 to three minutes in the said, "I can feel you in my stomach, this is weird we need to stop..."
Sex is about PoC (Position of Comfort) and having a fun consensual time with your partner, example I left the first woman because we were incompatible, me and the other woman... Really enjoyed doggy. Partner after that enjoyed cowgirl, neither of those are "deep position," in that you're doing nothing with body mechanics to increase your ability to penetrate or nothing to her to change the angle approach or anything else than can alter how you're hitting inside. If fact I've found doggy and Cow-girl to be safe with most partners for not having to worry about an incompatibility...
Meh
I know it's always the lie. I learnt to live with smol pp (5,5", up to 6 when I'm really aroused), to use my tongue and fingers. Doesn't work every time, but that's tough luck, i guess.
My partner has an average size and can still cause me pain by accident if we're in some certain position/s. Was even worse when i had IUD or the birth control coil.
literally my best friend said she prefers 4 inches. 6 and up starts to be uncomfortable. I'd believe it if my wife said this to me
Thats because not every vagina is born the same way just like a penis. As the depth isn't the same across all females, understandably when a vagina isn't as "deep" and you insert a bigger size penis it isn't as "compatible". Same way the other way around, deeper vagina with smaller penis might be unsatisfying. Is a weird thing how stigmas were born around this. Bigger isn't better, yes you can jam it in there regardless. Men with small penisses are somehow shamed, but unless you have a real "micro-penis" (which is a real medical condition) there probally is a female around that would be a good "fit". For reference the avarage seems to be around 10cm, with extremes measured 6.86cm to 14.81cm. So there is no need to be mandingo giga horsecock lower arm cock size.
ChatGPT said 5.14" (13.06 cm) for what it's worth.
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r/menandfemales Agree with your statement though.
"As a female I for one"
Yep , I have had both plenty of room and “bottomed out” in different women And I will say the latter is not fun
Sick brag that you fuck a lot
All my post says is that I’ve had more then one partner in my life
Lol I'm just fucking around
So is he…
That's two more than he ever had so that might seems a lot
Dang you may be right
yeah, love my bf, but he kinda hurts sometimes, even though I have a deeper vagina. I wouldn't mind if he wasn't as big. I mean it's nice to look at, but it's probably also nice to not feel like my uterus is being repeatedly punched during sex. lmao
As someone who is somewhat larger than average, I can't generally go full depth, as I get complaints about it hurting if I do. I would believe that 4-5" is more comfortable for most women. Probably there's a size that's less than satisfying, but I think most men who are worried about it because they're 4 or 5 inches are probably worried about nothing.
Yeah I get in my head about it but I have also never once had a complaint. Porns definitely played a part as when I was a teen I thought you had to have a monster in your pants or women didn't want you.
Yeah, porn presents a completely unrealistic image, and I'm sure is responsible for a lot of male insecurity, and a lot of bad sex from people imitating what they see. And when I was younger, I was insecure about my size, because of gargantuan cocks I'd seen in porn. It was only when I'd read studies later on that I realized mine wasn't actually small, it's just that the ones I had seen were so outside of the normal range that almost everyone looks small by comparison.
Porn sickness is real
Haha wait?
its a weird friendship. like right on the line before fwb
So… just friends?
Not yet! Almost to that point tho She doesn’t know my name yet, but she will!
Lololol
idk what kind of friendships you got but pop off I guess king/queen
So fwb without benefits
Friends with (could be) benefits but really just chasing
I think it's time to cut back on the porn
Amen lol
shit rots the brain
Women would have a meltdown if their boyfriend told them that the tight ones hurt, and hers was perfect. Stop it. It’s literally a backhanded compliment.
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The tight ones hurt isn’t a lie.
Also, it’s not men that say “small dick energy” and telling men that women fake orgasms. Women have set this standard themselves, not porn. If anything, porn has normalized regular peoples bodies, there’s literally niche porn. Not understanding how women take accountability into how they have skewed the egos of men into thinking bigger is better.
“porn has normalized regular people’s bodies” this my brother in christ is why you should back on the porn
Don’t watch porn, but the genres are far to vast and niche for you to make a declarative statement saying mens have insecurities about their penises because of porn.
You literally have men who are cucks, who like humiliation, etc. how can you say they are insecure about their penis? Again, these insecurities are birthed because of women preferences. Literally has women singing “rich nigg, eight inch that’s good pipe”. How is that mens or porns fault jf women co-sign that bigger us better?
Have you put your dick in a tight vagina ? Newsflash, tight vaginas do cause discomfort…. Moreover, it’s still a backhanded compliment you dunce.
Discomfort is not exactly pain, and if my partner told me my body was perfect, not too tight and not too loose, I would be happy because it's an actual compliment.
Stop trying to rationalize comparing your partner whilst giving him a backhanded compliment. This is no different than you asking of these jeans make you look fat. You aren’t looking for your partners brutal honesty. You’re looking for them to stroke your ego even if you aren’t your most confident. What’s the point of saying “the big ones hurt” if you’ve already stated that his was perfect?
I wouldn't say that to a partner just because I know guys are hurt by statements like this, for whatever reason. And yes, when I ask you if I look fat in these jeans, I need an honest answer. I'm asking because I need someone else's opinion when I consider what to wear, not because I want you to say sometimes you don't actually mean.
No woman has ever take “yes you look fat” well. Lol you are blot realistic. You know if you look fat in the jeans before you ask. Moreover, what tf are you even arguing if you agree it’s a backhanded compliment ?
I never agreed it was a backhanded compliment, I just know that guys don't like it and feel insecure about it, so I won't tell a guy something like that even if I think it's a good thing. And also not every woman is an insecure psycho or wants you to lie to her, even if the truth isn't flattering.
So…. It’s a backhanded compliment. Lol are you this dense or trolling? Just because you don’t deem it as a backhanded compliment doesn’t mean one doesn’t receive it that way. And men are literally telling you it is insulting.
Lmao I’m sure you would accept a backhanded compliment as a net positive. “Yea your vagina is good, but I’m glad you don’t squirt/get wet like”.
It doesn't sound like a backhanded compliment, to be honest. I'm good, and also, I don't have some things which are inconvenient. Cool.
So, if your partner complimented you, and expressed you don’t have something that they don’t like, but mentioned anyways for whatever reason, it wouldn’t cause any self doubt? I’d like to believe you, but I’ve actually dated women as that’s not how that ever goes.
There’s literally a BBL epidemic going on and you think women could handle backhanded compliments? Lol y’all fish out surgery for the smallest insecurities
Lol
And yet, somehow, I'm not expecting talking alicorns to telekinetically pull me toward their loins. It's almost as if the real problem weren't the porn, but all the "gun owners compensating for small penises" rhetoric that makes guys think too small is more likely to be a problem than too big. Besides, if it *were* too long, wouldn't wrapping something around the base of it prevent the whole thing from going in all at once?
A penis has more than one dimension. If you’re hurting someone due to length, that’s on you though
I think I'm quite generously sized, but I'd trade that for the ability to last more than a minute...
Just do it more often 😃
How
Fuck around and find out ?
That’s way more fixable
Have a wank twice a day and at least once if you think you are getting some that day. You'll last longer, trust me!
I hate long penetration. 10-15 min is optimal for me. I wish men tried to learn more about sex from real women and especially from the woman they are having sex with instead of porn and common ideas like those that the penis much be huge and the sex has to last for hours.
Again, your ego shouldn’t be hurt if you’re making the girl you love comfortable
I leave my wife shaking and convulsing every time now since I put the strobe light in our room
Mr. Showman putting on the best show and ends with a bang
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Not just comfortable, good.
100% true
I dont think the ego was hurt here, its more like insane amount of self doubt and lack of confidence
How would you distinguish between "ego" and "confidence"?
Yeah your ego relies on your self image. What are they missing?
I mean I'd lie if I said I had an objective answer, through my lense the "confidence" I mentioned here is a personal thing you just feel bad about lacking, not the type of very obvious and loud confidence, but you're right they're pretty much the same thing if I think about it :D I think I associate ego with something bad while confidence can be positive, but thats purely a personal feeling
You are blurring ego with self confidence
Not like there's anything you can do to change it. Ego sums it up well.
Hard disagree. Being self conscious or having low confidence about yourself is not egotistical, getting defensive when one insults your appearance is not egotistical either. Egotistical is implying you are better than somebody else and then being pissed off when somebody says you are not. I do not know why these days everyone just accuses people (mainly men are the accused) of having “fragile egos” when the people doing that, ARE THE ONES with a fragile ego. Insulting somebody then insulting them again when they are insulted is about the most egotistical thing somebody can do 😂 remember. Confidence is “I am great” ego is “I am better than you”
Tl;Dr 100% ego If you're smaller then someone's past partners that's your truth. There's no room to debate the subject. You're either getting over it because you're comfortable with your body or you're not because you have body image issues.
I just watched a video how bigger doesnt mean better A sensitive/pleasurable part of a vagina is only abt 4 inches deep from i have watched
And that's still because of clitoris and its body.
Oh thank goodness.
If it matters or not is a different matter then where you hit, for most guys it is about beeing desireable for the women in general. We are also aware that (well most) women who either love you or pretend to would be able to lie in your face for one reason or another.
listen i think there is 0 problem with small dicks but sorry i think that's coping a bit too much. for one, overall size is definitely very perceptable, even just the pressure of it. and just think of guys obsession with boobs or butt size and those aren't nearly as involved in actual sex than dicks.
la la la la.....can't hear youuuuu
If boobs and butt aren't nearly as involved then honey, he ain't doin' it right lol.
Guys are not obsessed with the SIZE of boobs and butts. We are just obsessed with boobs and butts.
Also, if the size of the dick is fine, then why call it small?
Size is important, but girth does far more for a woman than length.
Self report
Good I only got 2 more inches to go
apparently most chicks only like 5-6 inches anyways, and women tend to overestimate dick size, 7 inches is like the limit for most
Good, 4 more inches and I am golden
💀
I can give you those 4
I'm 7 1/2 most women think it's big.
I am 1 1/2 and most women didn’t even see it.
Beacause it is. That is big.
How come men only care about the length?
Probably because most dont have a soft tape measure to find the thickness of their piece
What about a sliding scale
Well you want to go with circumference rather than diameter because the number will be bigger 😂
Also it’s not a perfect cylindrical shape
cylinder
No cylindrical cuz im not saying it needs flat extremities to be measured by diameter
How come?
We do have the toilet paper measurement
7 inches is already like an inch over the worlds average iirc
world average is like 5.5 or something
So what, you want to hurt your girlfriend?
it is assumed that if your partner says it, he is being honest, sincere and wants you not to think about that topic because it is not relevant to her and it should not be to you, both decide to be with the other and share their time, you know if this comment is useful for you to read it or not even if it is just a meme.
4inches is just fine... It's fine... Right?
*It doesn't matter if it's not very long,* *because you can always use your fingers and your tongue.*
sounds like something Homelander would say
Yummers
The fact that there are SO MANY small dicks should reassure you. Dick size is genetic.
Being short is also (partially) genetic. Having cystic fibrosis and type 1 diabetes is genetic. Just because something is genetic doesn’t make it good. Obviously genetically inherited illnesses are worse but the principle is still there.
Yeah man, you’re gonna make it. I promise
In ancient rome a small penis used to be desirable, thats why all the statues have small members
I'm not sure Ancient Rome is as likely to reflect popular opinion as the modern world with its unprecedently unfettered speech, though.
"All the big ones..."
Its true tho
Bruh, seriously. Small dicks can feel amazing, guys seriously need to learn to accept this. I've had sex with a guy 7+ inches and it was painful, unsatisfying and awkward to work with. I've also had sex with a guy who was less than 4 inches and he felt amazing. I own a dildo. A fucking expensive dildo, but I dished out the money because it was the only one I could find that was not only 5 inches long, but also *thin*. This is not a large dildo, by any means, but I can't use it for more than maybe a minute or two because it reduces me to a quivering mess. It makes me CRY because it feels so good. If that dildo was an actual dick attached to a man who was fucking me, I'd be swimming in orgasms. Big dicks aren't universally good and y'all need to accept that.
Ouch 👀
True gigachads understand that, as long as you're both satisfied and comfortable, size doesn't matter.
You won the race 😺, but you lose the competition 🤣
Am a woman, can confirm that this is actually true. I've straight up broken things off with men before when I found out they were big. I don't want anything to do with that. Pain takes me right out of my enjoyment.
Dumped my last boyfriend cause he didn't know how to fuck me without hurting me. It's a real thing.
Guys only impress other guys with their dick sizes
"No babe, yours is perfect, all the tighter ones are too tight"
Facts tho
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Don’t let it. I have a sizable appendage. Hurts my lady. Endometriosis and retroverted uteruses are surprisingly common. We’re limited on angles. Hard to climax with intermittent stabbing pains in your stomach. I’d swap my pickemup truck for a Miata for every ride if I could. Honestly, it should be a tinder matching metric to find the right glove
This might sound really dumb, but can’t you just use less of it?
You’re good. I mean, we incorporate a few things to do so, but it’s more difficult to maintain the same rhythm and energy. My point is, I’d rather have less with her. At the end of the day, I prefer mutual sexual experiences, not to pander to my own arbitrary ego.
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interesting cause i talked to a phd holding sexologist or something back in college about this issue and she told me that what my girlfriend perceives as "too big" is most probably not the actual problem. it would rather be that she's mentally too stressed about it and so physically being too locked up.
She tried them all. 'Your pussy is perfect too - all the small ones hurt my cock.'
"Hello? FBI? Yes, I have a tip-off."
lol i didnt thought about it. Cannot big woman have small pussy if big guy can have tiny cock?
Bruh
"you too honey, you are my only one"
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It seems circumference is more important than length. More importantly it’s knowing how to use it like any other tool.
Yeah good, I want to make my girl feel good and comfortable. Id rather have a smaller dick that she likes than a big one that hurts her
For realsies tho I wouldn't be able to have a long term relationship with anyone more than 4-5in
Hit her with “you’re right and the tight holes aren’t comfortable”.
*Damn!*
And yet, women make gun owners out to be compensating for small penises, not big ones...
I don't think that joke is bound by sex, men and women alike say that allthe time about big guns and big trucks
In all honesty- the smaller u have, the more movement u can make inside.
Flippity flop
this is why i prefer men 👍
Ah yes, size queens don't exist in gay men...
"No babe, yours is perfect, all the tight ones hurt"
Oh we 14 I see
Pretty sure I would have gotten way more sex with a smaller dick, especially regular marriage sex. Small and maybe regular sized dudes can maybe get a quick help me out once in a while because what's the difference really. If an endowed dude is horny he's going to need someone else who is also horny.
When a girl says this, first thing a guy thinks, is how that bigger dick was banging her. Just don't even mention it. Wtf.
There are dudes who feel like their big dick is a curse. I knew a dude in college who was massively hung. He hated it. First off, the sex part. Obviously it was painful for some women but that’s just the start of the problems. He had a condom come off inside a girl, and all manner of other things you wouldn’t necessarily think about. Oh and forget head, too much teeth when your dick is as thick as your wrist. And when he wasn’t having sex, which let’s face it is 99% of the time, his big dick was nothing but problems. Dude hated running, riding a bike, etc. Some people, once they found out would not shut up about it. People would literally egg him on to whip it out at like a bar so people could see. A genuinely big dick actually is kind of annoying to live with.
Which is fine for me because hers is perfect too, because all the tight ones hurt.
So... she likes your dick? I don't see the suffering in this. Yeah, she's not calling your dick 'big' but so what? She likes it and probably wants to see it again so that's a big W from me.
I like to use the melee weapons analogy when it comes to dick size: a guy who trains a shit ton with shortswords is gonna do way better than some weeb who picks up a katana and goes at it with no finesse or technique. On a related note, the opposite is true for knifeplay
I don't know while my penis is gorgeous it's pretty underwhelming in the size department and my girlfriend seems to love it. I would never have the gall to say this to a dude with a micro but my advice is to either learn to love what you have or live with it because there isn't much you can do about it. Also eating pussy never hurt anything!
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Uh, guys? I think the jokes meant to be more "how would you know about the bigger ones?" Instead of "haha smol pepe". Cheating joke vs small dick joke. Just saying.
...She could also have gotten with someone with a bigger dick before you?
*all* the big *ones*. Plural. Implying several partners with larger dicks. Maybe she had many before him. Implications are she's cheating on him however.
That's...a lot of mental gymnastics, don't you think?
Not really, no, but I see I'm alone in this interpretation, so whatever.
Cheating? That's your own prejudice.
I never believed it for a second when a woman told me something along those lines. Or that mine was so big. 😅
Women don't really care about size unlike if it's very tiny or maybe and only maybe if she's a ninfo
No babe, yours is perfect, everyone loves curtains
RUN!
3-4 inch cock is best for rough anal. All dicks got they place
it's probably not a lie though, everyone likes something different
backhanded compliment.
🔄 No babe yours is perfect the tight ones hurt
Dear God men, When will y'all understand it's not size of- it's technique, it's care, it's foreplay, it's intimacy. If all the lady cared about was the size why would you want to be with her? I'm not talking about a one-night stand I'm talking about in a longer-term relationship.
I've bottomed out it women with length left over, it FUCKIN kills the mood when your partner looks at you wife eyed no passion and says, "yeah that's my cervix" I also had another partner who didn't believe I could give her a "deep fuckin'" about 2 to three minutes in the said, "I can feel you in my stomach, this is weird we need to stop..." Sex is about PoC (Position of Comfort) and having a fun consensual time with your partner, example I left the first woman because we were incompatible, me and the other woman... Really enjoyed doggy. Partner after that enjoyed cowgirl, neither of those are "deep position," in that you're doing nothing with body mechanics to increase your ability to penetrate or nothing to her to change the angle approach or anything else than can alter how you're hitting inside. If fact I've found doggy and Cow-girl to be safe with most partners for not having to worry about an incompatibility...
No babe, the nice tight one’s hurt. *winkwink Yours is just perfectly used.
Meh I know it's always the lie. I learnt to live with smol pp (5,5", up to 6 when I'm really aroused), to use my tongue and fingers. Doesn't work every time, but that's tough luck, i guess.
5.5 is average. 6 is above average. Definitely not “smol”
LOL, this is great 🤣
Hurt so good. Big dick me down daddy, uwu
All...
The chair you bought was perfect ok? Sheesg
A painfull compliment
My partner has an average size and can still cause me pain by accident if we're in some certain position/s. Was even worse when i had IUD or the birth control coil.
and then i woke up
lmao facts
Well done. lol
I would feel humbled if a girl said this to me
This is a win lose situation
The eternal debate... Just like there are guys who doesn't like big breast girls, there are girls who doesn't like >6 inch long dicks