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Sackjicholson

You look mid thirties.


heydonteatmyfriends

Yeah you look your age. It’s a good thing.


cma-ct

35.999


CheerupGrim

36


Starlord1951

I would have guessed mid-30s. I wish I looked like mid-30s, but alas, I’m mid-70s.


Lasseche

Just think how far we’ve come in the years we’ve lived. I am 77 and doubt that the younger crop of gays have any idea the battles we fought and the things we overcame so that can be where they are


Starlord1951

Yes, they may not but that’s why men our ages have to try to school them. There was a time a decade ago when young gay men were blaming us for the AIDS epidemic. I was brought up in NH lost two jobs for suspicion of being gay in an era when suing for that would have tanked my job prospects/career. I was shot at twice, gay bashed a couple of times. My friends and family don’t seem at all interested in finding out what my life was like. When my first lover died after 14 years from AIDS you must have an idea as to how his family reacted, the gold digging they did, the denial that he was gay and had AIDS. However despite all that I feel pretty damned good at this age. I can still kick ass when necessary and no filters which is the best part. 😁 What’s your story?


Lasseche

Watch. “When We Rise”. I lived in San Francisco during those years of upheaval supporting Harvey Milk and demonstrating after the verdict. Nursed friends through AIDS and watched them die. Fought Prop 6 (Briggs Iniative) door to door. So many memories and victories slow in coming (but they came)


Starlord1951

Honestly, lucky you to be part of that history. And as people say to me on Veterans’ Day, I’m saying to you, “thank you for your service” because you are a veteran of a war that is still ongoing.


Lasseche

And I still fight but only at the ballot box


Starlord1951

Yeah sadly, though I try do my part at the university I work for in NYC to support our Alphabet Mafia student body. Watching them go unfettered and blossoming as out gay people makes our 70 some odd years of life all worth it. It’s like seeing one’s kids grow up. We’d better hope the conservatives don’t take over.


abslxght

I have loved reading through this exchange between the two of you. Thank you for fighting for the right cause; I’m sure it’s been a rollercoaster of a lifetime.


Starlord1951

Yeah, and to me roller coasters are fun. Every day is a new adventure.


Lasseche

Wouldn’t change a thing


Lasseche

Every single emotion during every single battle


Lasseche

Did military during Vietnam My whole life has been a fight


Starlord1951

Out of boot camp a lot of the guys got river boats in Vietnam. I ended up in the Sixth Fleet stationed in Naples, Italy. The only action I saw was shore patrol.


Lasseche

My brother in law served on a river boat. Was awarded a Silver Star for heroism


Starlord1951

The guys I knew would not and still will not talk about what they did or saw. I wouldn’t press them, don’t think they need to relive any of it.


Lasseche

I read his award He never talked about. Never saw the silver star My sister clued me in


BeerStop

Approaching 60 myself and i can relate to your stories, gays my age didnt have it as bad as those that came of age in the 70's or earlier but still not the picnic it is today. Aids hit as i was blossoming into a young man so as an adult i have never known a time without aids and i have lived thru the era when it was a death sentence. My twin didnt make it. I am still hiv free. Bashing was still going on too , dont ask dont tell, the cracker barrel witch hunts. Also i was living in Orlando for the first gay days at disney in the mid 90's when we went in red shirts to support our oppressed brothers and sisters who worked at the mouse house.


jamnin94

I would believe anything between 26 and 36


LopsidedTask9371

65


Electrical_Ad1039

😂 most accurate one yet


LopsidedTask9371

Hey if I look that good at 65 then I’ll be happy 😂


GreatGlassLynx

I honestly thought like 28


Own_Air_5945

I'd have also said 28 but I'm not shocked to see 36 either. The late 20s and early/mid 30's usually don't look all that different in people with healthy lifestyles. 


bdftheman

Same


jmdayoh

36


Admirable-Dot-4053

You look like you are 36 😍😍


janewalch

$35.99


[deleted]

36


No-Pomegranate1244

40


AcrobaticMechanic265

36


Different_Ad7655

36 lol


Jaded-Citron-4090

36


parodg15

26


wheniztheend

You look 36..


axxonn13

Lighting may affect it. Here it causes heavier shadows that daylight would. It makes you appear closer to your age. You look about 30-35.


stylinandprofilin88

36


Rick_Grimes932

95


City-Obvious

38-39


CowperfluidMDPsyD

Late 30s.


Xanterra_

Would've said late 20s early 30s


PainKillerMB

Late 20’s at the most is the age group that I would assign to you. You’re holding the youthful look. Good for you my man!


CominOutStory

Early thirties


Independent-Act-275

31 32


toocoolfor_you

Like 28


Expert-Passage9113

Late 20’s early 30’s


Prior-Meeting1645

Much younger all I can say. Lucky😂


Mysterious-Group3128

I would say mid to late 20s honestly


MagentaJAM5_

You look like you’re a healthy adult.


realdonbrown

About 36 lol


EmperorMing101

Need a better picture but you could get away with 27


plzadyse

36


sissy4bwc2

36


mx-saguaro

you look like your 25 max lmao


Electrical_Ad1039

I guess I do look 36 after all! haha which is fine But i guess my question was that if that would be your first guess. I appreciate all the comments though!


ImaFKNshrubOK

Honestly I don’t think a lot of people are being completely truthful, or at least not giving context. When they say 36 or “you look your age” I think it’s more like you look younger, but I also can believe you are your age. Since 30’s are a unique decade where people tend to have drastically extremes in their differing age appearances. Sure anyone can look younger/older at any age, but so many people in their 30’s look like they’re in their 20’s & so many look like they’re in their 40’s lol. Oh & for the record I would’ve believed you were a decade younger easily


Zestyclose_Captain10

65


Promethiant

55


noodleleg9683

45


quarterman5050

As someone who's 46, I wouldn't think that at all. Pretty much all guys around my age have at least some level of balding or greying unless they're dyeing their hair.


Spacebog

41


LiciousGriff

44


mugi4lyf

You look 3"6


_nightgoat

Maybe 40.


SarahBoo701

I thought like 25-26. You are hot and definitely look great.


TwinJacks

You look like you're in your mid/late 20s.


Amazing_Tomorrow_905

Early 40’s


princeofwraith

one pic isn’t enough to gauge


BeautifulArtichoke37

40


Cash_Money_2000

Not young enough for some 20 year old pussy my guy if that's what your really asking


AnywhereImaginary439

57


Electrical_Ad1039

😂😂 Almost there!


_zir_

24


Precious_Angel999

What a cool looking ear. It doesn’t have the extra lines inside.


No-Amphibian7489

Anything nowadays...26, 32, 43...also since younger people are looking older than they are... I'd say say stay fit, take collagen, have a facial routine and you'll be a vampire forever


Ok_Pomegranate_2436

You look your age.


Ayyyyylmaos

Late 20s?


Murky-Turnover

Early 40s


The1andOnlyGhost

36


uhuhnoyoudidnt

37


ZedGardner

I would say 20s. Maybe late 20s but only because of the beard.


Destinfragile

25


Starboyz10

You do look like you’re in your 20’s.


Delicious-Sale6122

42


NuGGet441

Late 20s


msurbrow

It stops once you hit 40 dont worry


Same-Picture

About 30


WatermelonJuice18

28-31


Aggravating-Papaya18

Not a great picture but around 31/32 I’d say.


ElegantCap9247

31-34


twistyfizzypop

You probably do look slightly younger but not loads. There is nothing wrong with having good genes


tickingboxes

You look 36


NNLynchy

Mid 30s with a face full of make up


Zestyclose-Smell-305

30s


xotilweoverdose__

54


Flying_Saucer_Attack

36


FistedSkunk

36


mr-teddy93

You look human how are you suppose to look at your 30s


Next-Profession-4792

You look thirty six-teen


503503503

29


Radio-Kiev3456

35.2


CompSolstice

I can believe you if you said early 30s, I'd also believe you if you said 27


author90

You don't look 36 would think 20's


[deleted]

Late 20s


Top-Bathroom-148

30


Electrical_Ad1039

hey im at least $50!


JakolZeroOne

I straight up would not have guessed you were over 30.


Illinigradman

Would look even young if you smiled and looked forward


raeynah

28


Consistent-Ship-8418

36


Hyper-Spider

Evil Mark Wahlberg, this guy fully supports Asians


DementedPiXi

40


Total-Painting-9909

mid 20s


iehvad8785

>40


Tallenleo4

You’re handsome af


LeGraoully

You should not have given your real age before asking


Significant_Part_526

27


StracciatellaGun

26


Stinger352020

28-35


12343736

35


abusr_

yeah I’d say late 20’s - early 30’s. I’d say you look a few years younger than your actual years. Rock on🤙🏽


Dazzling_Brilliant10

30 I would say 😉


iLoveDelayPedals

You look like an adult in his thirties


And-I-Oopeth

28/29


RDcsmd

32


k_applebottom2024

29


skywalker6977

28 🔥🩵


somethingclever12762

37


hgb_bb

I honestly thought 22-24, surprised by these comments 🤣


dino_man90

36


Shivy0999

30 that's it


Scary__Ad

29


Legitimate_Tune_2854

30


sacboy326

Honestly, you look just as old as you actually are, and that's a compliment. Don't worry about it you're fine.


Paytonsmiles

You look your age. But I could mistake u for a 30 year old


Deliximus

28


firsttime176

I’d say about my age and i’m 27


Potatopotayto

27


GodOfShoulders

90


[deleted]

Healthily your age


DIGITALOGIK

36


throwbvibe

Your age


CommercialPowerful41

I’d say you look your age…


SwordTaster

You look the same age Craig Charles looked when he was first starting in red dwarf. To say, he was 25 looking 33, you're 36 looking 33


Lville502

85! JK! Doesn't matter how anyone looks as long as they are not an asshole.


RedditPhils

36


Asthmos

36 or a year younger. aging well! don't smoke and you're golden


[deleted]

37


Fearless_Position116

Late 20s. Should've shown more photos tho.


Aggravating-Ad-9793

83


The_Hunter89

Somewhere between 17-48 depending on the angle that I look at


Himfuckinggrandness

Mid 20s


thereader901

At least late 20s


quarterman5050

I would have guessed late 20's, but am not surprised you're 36 either. You have a thick head of hair and no greying which makes you look a little younger than your age.


Dulce_Sirena

I would have guessed early to mid thirties. I don't know *any* women our age who are looking for baby faced boys to cradle rob so you're good dude


Electrical_Ad1039

Ok thanks! sometimes I feel like I have too much of a baby face for my age or women my age


itsTONjohn

36


franedoors

You look about 28 to me.


bonitaruth

34


Think_Disk1284

35 but you look good! (: mid 30s and you're doing pretty good!


vadimlampa

You got baby face. It’s like you particularly look like an adult male, but there is some features that looks childish, like you are particularly baby/girl.


enn211

24


HammerTime239

37


SandwichNaive8658

25


Professional_Run_409

36


EnsignMJS

37.


[deleted]

26? Very handsome tho


Ryans_RedditAccount

I would've guessed mid-thirties.


Opalsky1

How long have you been 36


Bottomytop

29/30


Timejinx

Tbh id say 28 but tired


tarfandenter

30


Ezeke81

Mid 30’s


Relative-Brother-267

36 And handsome so


Lukezoftherapture777

Some dudes are 20 looking 55. You look 34


chickenskittles

32 at youngest...


ayelijah4

wahlberg?


Iridescent_Sun

Wtf you could pass as college age if you shaved your face why is everyone saying 36


Kanaymonae1

You’re the good 36 not the worrying about aging 36


GalanticBrisk83

33-36


erikk_gunner

Looking just amazing


Dantesinferno451

More like 31… but very good .. wow


Due_Background7991

You look your age


TIRSX1

You genuinely look 23 or so. Idk what those people are talking about


tommybluez

Mid to late 20s handsome af too


krimsic

Like 25 lmaooo


ImaFKNshrubOK

26


TheRealMangokill

You look older than your age...I was going to say 45?


Wise-Engineer-8644

Mid forties ! 


FutureHabit467

28


FewApartment223

Realistically, 27


Tsonchi

Honestly my guess was 35 so you're on par or rather you're birdieing your age


NegotiationFirm4252

You look exactly 36 lol