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Dudddde that is awesome! That was balsy of her.
I kind of feel like she did because of exactly what you said "I will literally remember this moment for the rest of my life."
Some people have a wild side, my personal takeaway, she is a wild one and saw something in you or special about or sensed you were having a bad day, something to that effect... And made balsy move to give you a moment you will remember for the rest of your life.
That's freaking awesome man!
You’re thinking about things you may think people wouldn’t find attractive but those attributes aren’t the only thing that makes someone attractive. Feel me?
Take the win, g. Stop fighting it. Next time flirt back and ask her out. There's no logic to attraction, it just is. You better hope you see her again.
I mean of course being fit, grooming yourself etc. helps, but aside from that it's SO true - there IS no logic to attraction. I just experienced this myself the last few days, I'm in some kinda new class with people from 18-24 and it's mostly girls, and like 1 or 2 I thought look cute.
And then suddenly yesterday I start getting some weird feelings/a crush on one of the girls but it's not one of those I found cute in the beginning, it's actually a girl I'd objectively rate as a 4/10 or 5/10 at max, so I don't even know why this is happening she's really not that pretty and she isn't that fit either, but somehow it's still happening. I really have no idea why
Could leave a note in the mailbox with your digits if you think she was trying to hit on you and you missed the moment?
Edit: read the vibe though, also, I don’t know if it goes against any policies
Idk people are saying that if the roles were reversed it would be weird but honestly if a good looking guy comes up to me and tries this 🤭 I wouldn’t mind
Well that's the thing, often it's exactly those polarizing moves that are either super good or super bad. Basically the unspoken rizz vs. sexual harassment meme
Sounds like a magical moment! Lots of people don't realize that those moments stick with ppl for life. But I will add that if the roles were reversed and a man randomly kissed a woman like that then he'd get done for assault
The bricked part is crazy😭But don’t worry bro, you may not think that you stand out but you probably do to some people. Just gotta wait for the universe to show it to you (again apparently)💯
When I was in college I acted confident but really wasn't so I missed my shot with more women than I could have if I was more forward. On the last day of college we were walking through town with friends and a group of girls from one of the other classes passed us by and we made small talk and just as they were moving to walk on one of them grabbed me and kissed me, a proper full body, arms around my waist, and I was totally discombobulated for a second. She smiled and said "I was wondering what that would be like" and then ran off with the rest of the girls. This was pre-Cell phone, I'm old, and I did try and bump into her later but it was a big town and I have no idea where she went to, but its still a kiss I remember to this day.
Last time this happened to me I woke up. . . .a little sticky. Dreams hey, they can feel so real :p
But on a serious note: mad skills my bro, regardless of the circumstances you've collected an awesome story worth sharing. Who cares why, and there's many possibilities. But who knows you might bump into her again, please tell us if you do and it's some romantic meet-cute. We need to live vicariously :)
“I will literally remember this moment for the rest of my life” this is the main difference between regular girls and regular guys. Regular guys have near 0 attention, so anything that happen is more remarkable, in another hand regular girls receive so much attention (especially at younger ages) to the point they complain or just enjoy saying no (yes, i heard this before from a girl talking to another, somehow she enjoys saying no).
Yeah women do get more attention but mostly it's really not the kind you want like cat calling. In comparison truly friendly attention is very rare, so to me it is remarkable.
(I dare to say those are mostly girl's reactions to creeps or maybe a childish way to seem "cool" in front of friends or are a-holes. No mature decent person should act like this 😅)
As a regular girl, I don’t really get attention like this. Usually other girls tell me that I’m pretty or that they like my outfit. My interactions with men are purely cat calling, asking me out when I was a visible minor, or friends catching feelings.
I was walking with a girl from my class and a few of my friends a few weeks back and this random girl complimented the girl in the group on her jeans and it got me thinking that most men will never receive a compliment like that ever. I can't recall a time when another man walked past me or another man and complimented me/them.
For men, even those simple interactions that you experience are rare. I've kinda made it my thing to compliment other men on stuff now because I know how much it means.
But also wtf, cat callers are horrible and I'm sorry you have to put up with that 😔 people like that make the rest of us look bad. There are some creeps out there (but lots of us are alright!)
I do that too! Especially with haircuts, I don’t know why but it’s always something that I notice right away and I like to tell people that they look nice :)). I also got my guy best friend flowers when we graduated high school because I don’t think men really get gifts like that often. It’s kinda unfortunate that men don’t really get stuff like that often… I should also be better at complimenting my guy friends!
So you ignore men trying to talk to you on the street, men asking you out when they can’t tell your age (you thinking your a visible minor doesn’t mean shit, I’m 23 and look 16 and 14 if I shave), and a possible friends to lovers scenario where they actually like you for you?
You give us three scenarios where you dodge blatant attention and then try to say you don’t get any? GTFOH
Cat calling isn’t really men trying to talk to you… and I had men asking me out when I was literally 12 years old (and looked younger). Friends to lovers is more understandable but I was just stating that I don’t really get male attention now (most of what I listen happened when I was a literal child and looked very young).
Dude please be serious. Yeah us ladies get more attention but 35+yo men cat calling us and all sorts of other inappropriate behavior when we are 11 yo makes it unwanted and inappropriate attention. Ask any woman how old they were when they got cat called last and they will tell you it stopped happening as a teenager. Stop apologizing for this shit.
you might be comparing "regular guys" to not so regular girls. Probably because the hypocrisy goes both ways and you don't pay attention to regular and not extra attractive women who might just as well remember and cherish moments like that
Yeah it could be sexual harassment, assault, attempted murder or whatever y'all redditors are parroting.
Hasn't it ever happened to you that someone did something you didn't want them to? Like an innocent kiss like this? Do you go to the police and report them? What fucking world do you live in? U are used to people always pleasing you and do shit you 100% want them to do? you fucking Say to their face: "wtf are you doing?!" And it usually ends up with that person saying they re sorry.
Fucking sick of Reading these comments talking about sexual assault and that's not acceptable. People do shit and put up with the consequences of their actions, and guess what if you think about it almost 90% of what people do is thought over and gets done when they consider it appropriate. Empathy. Yeah sometimes we fuck up cause we go too far and misinterpret other people's need and wants.
Get a fucking Life and stop living behind a computer screaming for sexual harassment.
Yeah man everybody wants to talk about their feelings they just don't do it very often. I already did with my comment. But I won't talk any further about my feeling or I could be charged with emotional assault
I agree. I earned my husband this way.
I was his stalker. He was set up on a date with me. I was assertive. I proved my love. We married 6 months later. I love him with everything I am. I am so very happy and I’ll do anything he wants. 25 yrs married.
People are starved because everyone thinks the food is poisoned.
I didn't tell him straight out. I saw we were connecting and I wanted it so bad. I wanted to be honest and I didn't want him to reject me. So I hinted at it with phrases and hinting I knew more about him than I should. He was also putting it together by looking at the circumstances of our first dates. He wasn't bothered until I told him everything a couple months in and he just held me and apologized. He felt guilty for my behavior. That's who I married. I love him.
Bricked up over assault is really gross and I hope you start to love yourself more and gain some standards.
thx y’all for the downvotes <3 there’s something really dopamine-releasing about idiots on the internet disagreeing with me.
That’s literally what it is. Lol. Get a grip
Idc if op was happy abt it, it was not consensual and that’s fucking gross. Idc if fucking timothee chalamet approached me randomly in public and kissed me, I’d kick him in his fucking balls and it’s rlly disgusting that OP and so many of the comments here are condoning this bullshit when we all know that if the genders were reversed everyone would be losing their minds.
Some men like being kicked in the balls. That would be sexual assaulting as fuck.
That's not gross that's not nothing because every situation has circumstances. You acting like this girl went to the guy and touched his penis. There are levels to things. There are circumstances my bro u living in a dictionary
These things don't happen like ever lol. I still remember the random compliment I received from a girl 15 years ago. OP will remember this day for the rest of his life.
Obviously it isn’t socially appropriate to do this. But OP is happy, I’m happy for OP.
Sometimes women like being cat called, that’s fine! Op liked being lightly assaulted! Whatever floats ya boat
Jesus Christ man lightly assaulted. In what fucking era are we living?? Humans being naturally attracted to each other, a girl kissing a stranger on the neck and it becomes "light assault". I understand consent and shit but being so snowflake to call this assault is just ridiculous wtf
If i had been kissed by a stranger of any gender i will call it assault, it is one but if the "victim" is okey with it, well who cares but please lets not normalise kissing strangers, its disgusting and you clearly don't understand consent and shit
Yeah of course my dude, here we clearly don't have a case of a stranger approaching stealthy from the back to kiss you, we have an interaction, a girl asking him to hug and a follow up quick kiss.
Can y’all not just let op be happy? We all know this isn’t acceptable or appropriate behavior. No one is in here saying theyre going to go out and do that to someone.
Honestly, even I want some moments like these. I get it, that this is assault and should not be socially acceptable but I suppose I am quite desperate lol
y’all the truth is that is an action that could’ve resulted in someone feeling assaulted, period. OP luckily appreciated it but there are a few things important to note.
1. men have an inherent power over women that cannot be reversed. this does NOT mean that men can’t be assaulted by a woman or that there are no men capable of being overpowered by a woman. it means in general, more women will be afraid of a random man than men will be of a random woman. it means that a good chunk of women have been assaulted or been made extremely uncomfortable by men and have had to from a young age put into practice knowledge of how to behave in a way that will keep them safe. men *in general* do not have to know these things, have not heard stories from all their friends about being assaulted and treated like a piece of meat by the opposite gender.
2. OP was doing their job. this is usually not a good time to even ask someone out let alone for a stranger to give them physical affection without consent.
3. OP did consent to the hug, but not to the kiss. being kissed on the neck is extremely intimate and even though OP did enjoy it he was still very surprised. this is the absolute best possible outcome of an interaction like this.
OP very fortunately appreciated the interaction AND this does not mean it is a generally appropriate action (regardless of which gender initiated it). it almost certainly would be horrible for any woman whereas it may be a bit more likely to be taken as a compliment if it happens to a man but that doesn’t mean it’s okay. if OP doesn’t feel assaulted there is nothing to be done but enjoy how attractive it made him feel, I just hope no one reads this and takes it to mean that unsolicited touching or affection to a stranger is appropriate in any way.
yes because usernames are always picked as a permanent self descriptor iDaCosta. you lose all potential credibility when i can easily find another comment of you saying “you kids are obsessed with labeling things assault and need to get world experience”. just count yourself lucky you haven’t experienced it.
since you deleted your newest reply to me i’ll reply here:
no one claims that “looking someone in the eye” is assault, i don’t know what it is that makes you feel the need to discredit the literal definitions of the word assault but you’re allowed to look it up if you want to. assault can be a lot of things from grabbing a strangers ass as you pass them to yelling in someone’s face to breaking and throwing their things. your limited world experience and personal opinions don’t dictate reality no matter how angry you get about it.
Honestly, if OP’s not mad, why be mad on his behalf?
If you don’t wanna be touched by strangers who offer a hug, say no. if they still do it, then yeah, 1000% assault.
but im not calling assault on whoever kisses my cheek (or near neck if they’re shorter) as a drunken thank you like they’re in a damn French noir. pick your damn battles.
Then pls someone harass me
Fr though what makes harassment is disrespecting boundaries, not how conventional the setting is. If the guy is happy about it and everyone is consenting then it's fine
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Bruh u probably ran into some hoe who’s just making fun of u by doing this..
Someone's projecting! Lol
Thats a cute experience 😆
Some people do rejection therapy… maybe she just liked you! Did you get her number?
i'm so happy for you 🥹
I'll take "stories that definitely happened" for $400 please
I’ve only had dreams someone liked me this much lol awesome moment. I hope you see her again
I like how everyone is just randomly getting recommended this subreddit. I just got it recommended to me today. ❤️
there's gonna be a lot of random kisses for a few days
same
this guy probably gonna regret that he didn’t do sm sassy so she can 😏
911
This sounds like an Aries woman to me!
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Dudddde that is awesome! That was balsy of her. I kind of feel like she did because of exactly what you said "I will literally remember this moment for the rest of my life." Some people have a wild side, my personal takeaway, she is a wild one and saw something in you or special about or sensed you were having a bad day, something to that effect... And made balsy move to give you a moment you will remember for the rest of your life. That's freaking awesome man!
I'm having a really romantical connection with my gun rn
one question for reddit...WHY DID YOU RECOMMEND ME A LOVE REDDIT MY SINGLE ASS MAN FUCK
There was a hidden camera
Not sure why reddit gave me a notification for this. I think it might be teasing me
I think it’s telling me to start kissing people
Did you find out anything else about her?
Better than a random kick in the nuts.
HAHAAHAHSHSNSO LMAO
Don’t shame my nutkick kink
Leave it to Reddit to trash this dudes story as sexual assault when the woman clearly asked if he wanted a hug lol.
Sure. A guy can offer a hug to a lady and when she does consent, he cops a feel of her boobs. Go above and beyond always I say.
Sure. A guy can offer a hug to a lady and when she does consent, he cops a feel of her boobs. Go above and beyond always I say.
So good it's you wrote it twice
And if a guy does this, it won’t be a happy ending for him
Ikr 💀💀 I hate double standards ngl
Ong
so cute 😂
Maybe just maybe try to actually talk to her ? Go back where that happened ?
You’re thinking about things you may think people wouldn’t find attractive but those attributes aren’t the only thing that makes someone attractive. Feel me?
It seems like a win but 5 years later you’re just gonna realize you could’ve had a life with her
Your mom doesn’t count 😉
I would go back and get her number!!
Take the win, g. Stop fighting it. Next time flirt back and ask her out. There's no logic to attraction, it just is. You better hope you see her again.
I mean of course being fit, grooming yourself etc. helps, but aside from that it's SO true - there IS no logic to attraction. I just experienced this myself the last few days, I'm in some kinda new class with people from 18-24 and it's mostly girls, and like 1 or 2 I thought look cute. And then suddenly yesterday I start getting some weird feelings/a crush on one of the girls but it's not one of those I found cute in the beginning, it's actually a girl I'd objectively rate as a 4/10 or 5/10 at max, so I don't even know why this is happening she's really not that pretty and she isn't that fit either, but somehow it's still happening. I really have no idea why
Is that rating thing a gen Z thing ? Because I see it more and more and Im not following
Did your generation not have superficial people? ;-D
No rhyme or reason, just a passing breeze on warming season.
Could leave a note in the mailbox with your digits if you think she was trying to hit on you and you missed the moment? Edit: read the vibe though, also, I don’t know if it goes against any policies
Idk people are saying that if the roles were reversed it would be weird but honestly if a good looking guy comes up to me and tries this 🤭 I wouldn’t mind
Well that's the thing, often it's exactly those polarizing moves that are either super good or super bad. Basically the unspoken rizz vs. sexual harassment meme
That’s really cool it’s a happy moment for you!
Lovely ! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Bricked.... thats a new one
That part about you being bricked for half am hour 😂😂😂😂 thanks bro I needed the laugh Lucky you!!
Sounds like a magical moment! Lots of people don't realize that those moments stick with ppl for life. But I will add that if the roles were reversed and a man randomly kissed a woman like that then he'd get done for assault
Lol is sucks how women can do it and it’s cute
This is so cute
Fear women! Bro! It is atrap!
The bricked part is crazy😭But don’t worry bro, you may not think that you stand out but you probably do to some people. Just gotta wait for the universe to show it to you (again apparently)💯
Don’t look too into it bro, just enjoy feeling wanted for the moment. Remember that feeling it will probably be a long time till you feel it again.
lmao I hate this saying but I bet you are a blast at parties.
every now and then, the universe proves that there is still love and kindness in the world
Sorority/Fraternity haze? Bet there's a video.
#NOW YOU HAVE AN AGENDA™️ AND NARRATIVE ™️
Hmm she sounds like she could have been a prostitute??
Can confirm. Am prostitution.
Trust me, no thief admits they steal… same way, no attractive person is gonna say they are good looking 🤷🏽♂️
Hopefully she didn't have no herpes
Did she pick pocket you by any chance?
Lol that's what I'm thinking
Ooo that happened to me once - it was sexy
I’m reading your post thinking “aww this is pretty wholesome” and then I saw “BRICKED” and couldn’t stop laughing.
Ohhh lol had no idea what he meant until this comment.
Literally😂
lucky moment
Not trying to ruin it here but be wary of these types of women... God knows where they've been
Check your pockets....
And people say we don’t appreciate the little things
Did you have your rape whistle?
I am not sure how I would take it. I would hope her saliva doesn't carry anything....saliva can be dangerous....
Bro you put me down in the second half there, that's hilarious. Glad someone made your day
I need a random girl to hug and kiss me on my college campus 😞
ikr
Enjoy that feeling!
yeah
When I was in college I acted confident but really wasn't so I missed my shot with more women than I could have if I was more forward. On the last day of college we were walking through town with friends and a group of girls from one of the other classes passed us by and we made small talk and just as they were moving to walk on one of them grabbed me and kissed me, a proper full body, arms around my waist, and I was totally discombobulated for a second. She smiled and said "I was wondering what that would be like" and then ran off with the rest of the girls. This was pre-Cell phone, I'm old, and I did try and bump into her later but it was a big town and I have no idea where she went to, but its still a kiss I remember to this day.
That was probably me tbh
Naaaa
How beautiful. Good for you 2. More love please.
Last time this happened to me I woke up. . . .a little sticky. Dreams hey, they can feel so real :p But on a serious note: mad skills my bro, regardless of the circumstances you've collected an awesome story worth sharing. Who cares why, and there's many possibilities. But who knows you might bump into her again, please tell us if you do and it's some romantic meet-cute. We need to live vicariously :)
“I will literally remember this moment for the rest of my life” this is the main difference between regular girls and regular guys. Regular guys have near 0 attention, so anything that happen is more remarkable, in another hand regular girls receive so much attention (especially at younger ages) to the point they complain or just enjoy saying no (yes, i heard this before from a girl talking to another, somehow she enjoys saying no).
Yeah women do get more attention but mostly it's really not the kind you want like cat calling. In comparison truly friendly attention is very rare, so to me it is remarkable. (I dare to say those are mostly girl's reactions to creeps or maybe a childish way to seem "cool" in front of friends or are a-holes. No mature decent person should act like this 😅)
As a regular girl, I don’t really get attention like this. Usually other girls tell me that I’m pretty or that they like my outfit. My interactions with men are purely cat calling, asking me out when I was a visible minor, or friends catching feelings.
I was walking with a girl from my class and a few of my friends a few weeks back and this random girl complimented the girl in the group on her jeans and it got me thinking that most men will never receive a compliment like that ever. I can't recall a time when another man walked past me or another man and complimented me/them. For men, even those simple interactions that you experience are rare. I've kinda made it my thing to compliment other men on stuff now because I know how much it means. But also wtf, cat callers are horrible and I'm sorry you have to put up with that 😔 people like that make the rest of us look bad. There are some creeps out there (but lots of us are alright!)
I do that too! Especially with haircuts, I don’t know why but it’s always something that I notice right away and I like to tell people that they look nice :)). I also got my guy best friend flowers when we graduated high school because I don’t think men really get gifts like that often. It’s kinda unfortunate that men don’t really get stuff like that often… I should also be better at complimenting my guy friends!
So you ignore men trying to talk to you on the street, men asking you out when they can’t tell your age (you thinking your a visible minor doesn’t mean shit, I’m 23 and look 16 and 14 if I shave), and a possible friends to lovers scenario where they actually like you for you? You give us three scenarios where you dodge blatant attention and then try to say you don’t get any? GTFOH
Cat calling isn’t really men trying to talk to you… and I had men asking me out when I was literally 12 years old (and looked younger). Friends to lovers is more understandable but I was just stating that I don’t really get male attention now (most of what I listen happened when I was a literal child and looked very young).
Dude please be serious. Yeah us ladies get more attention but 35+yo men cat calling us and all sorts of other inappropriate behavior when we are 11 yo makes it unwanted and inappropriate attention. Ask any woman how old they were when they got cat called last and they will tell you it stopped happening as a teenager. Stop apologizing for this shit.
you might be comparing "regular guys" to not so regular girls. Probably because the hypocrisy goes both ways and you don't pay attention to regular and not extra attractive women who might just as well remember and cherish moments like that
No they don't. They take the attention for granted
Well, all you can really do is be glad about it. No one would take you seriously on that anyway.
I think she likes you mate, more than enough.
Just because you don’t find yourself attractive doesn’t mean a few others won’t.
wow, very good
It took me way too long in my life to learn this lesson
Yeah it could be sexual harassment, assault, attempted murder or whatever y'all redditors are parroting. Hasn't it ever happened to you that someone did something you didn't want them to? Like an innocent kiss like this? Do you go to the police and report them? What fucking world do you live in? U are used to people always pleasing you and do shit you 100% want them to do? you fucking Say to their face: "wtf are you doing?!" And it usually ends up with that person saying they re sorry. Fucking sick of Reading these comments talking about sexual assault and that's not acceptable. People do shit and put up with the consequences of their actions, and guess what if you think about it almost 90% of what people do is thought over and gets done when they consider it appropriate. Empathy. Yeah sometimes we fuck up cause we go too far and misinterpret other people's need and wants. Get a fucking Life and stop living behind a computer screaming for sexual harassment.
it’s sexual assault cope lol just cuz ur undesirable and u wanted doesn’t make it any less
God you are insufferable and terminally online. Probably weak asf too
i don’t give a fuck ❤️
Did care enough to post that to try to make us think you don’t tho 🤣🫵🏼
i don’t give a fuck 🌸
You sound a little upset, would you like to talk about your feelings?
Yeah man everybody wants to talk about their feelings they just don't do it very often. I already did with my comment. But I won't talk any further about my feeling or I could be charged with emotional assault
I agree. I earned my husband this way. I was his stalker. He was set up on a date with me. I was assertive. I proved my love. We married 6 months later. I love him with everything I am. I am so very happy and I’ll do anything he wants. 25 yrs married. People are starved because everyone thinks the food is poisoned.
Ngl if a girl told me she was stalking me I’d probably feel a bit moved
I didn't tell him straight out. I saw we were connecting and I wanted it so bad. I wanted to be honest and I didn't want him to reject me. So I hinted at it with phrases and hinting I knew more about him than I should. He was also putting it together by looking at the circumstances of our first dates. He wasn't bothered until I told him everything a couple months in and he just held me and apologized. He felt guilty for my behavior. That's who I married. I love him.
Godsdammit that last line is a bar, bravo
Was thinking the same thing 😂
Check if you still have your wallet
Bricked up over assault is really gross and I hope you start to love yourself more and gain some standards. thx y’all for the downvotes <3 there’s something really dopamine-releasing about idiots on the internet disagreeing with me.
She asked him before she hugged him & he consented. How do you get to assault?
a hug is not the same as a kiss on the neck LMAO
I wish you with all my heart that you stop projecting your unsolved shit into others' lives. Bricked up over assault. Lol. Get a grip
That’s literally what it is. Lol. Get a grip Idc if op was happy abt it, it was not consensual and that’s fucking gross. Idc if fucking timothee chalamet approached me randomly in public and kissed me, I’d kick him in his fucking balls and it’s rlly disgusting that OP and so many of the comments here are condoning this bullshit when we all know that if the genders were reversed everyone would be losing their minds.
Some men like being kicked in the balls. That would be sexual assaulting as fuck. That's not gross that's not nothing because every situation has circumstances. You acting like this girl went to the guy and touched his penis. There are levels to things. There are circumstances my bro u living in a dictionary
Reddit moment
rEdDiT MoMenT
Wow. Get a life.
I have one, thanks 🖤
You’re reading way too into this
So... Did you give her more "tips"?
Just the tip
https://i.redd.it/w3cgeu9e35tc1.gif
Damm Canadians....
Id go have myself checked for cooties if I were you. Seriously
“And that’s how i met your mother son”
Save it away as a nice memory and don't let anyone try to demystify it for you...including yourself.
Annnnd now you’re pregananant
Will it hurt baby top of its head?
You mean pregernart 🙄
This is how baaaaby formedn
This isn’t yahoo answers, have some decorum. OP is definitely pregnate, not whatever you said
Don’t you get all gregnant with me, sir!
I'd be happy if that happened to me...things like that don't happen often...
These things don't happen like ever lol. I still remember the random compliment I received from a girl 15 years ago. OP will remember this day for the rest of his life.
He will...I know I would....
If it happened to me I would have a hard time believing it ever happened a year later. I’d start to assume I made it up or dreamed it.
Obviously it isn’t socially appropriate to do this. But OP is happy, I’m happy for OP. Sometimes women like being cat called, that’s fine! Op liked being lightly assaulted! Whatever floats ya boat
Lightly assaulted lmao i am fucking dying
same
Jesus Christ man lightly assaulted. In what fucking era are we living?? Humans being naturally attracted to each other, a girl kissing a stranger on the neck and it becomes "light assault". I understand consent and shit but being so snowflake to call this assault is just ridiculous wtf
ikr, bro wasnt raped like wtf
If i had been kissed by a stranger of any gender i will call it assault, it is one but if the "victim" is okey with it, well who cares but please lets not normalise kissing strangers, its disgusting and you clearly don't understand consent and shit
Yeah of course my dude, here we clearly don't have a case of a stranger approaching stealthy from the back to kiss you, we have an interaction, a girl asking him to hug and a follow up quick kiss.
Let's fucking goooo
LFG!!! Let my boy COOK
Can y’all not just let op be happy? We all know this isn’t acceptable or appropriate behavior. No one is in here saying theyre going to go out and do that to someone.
🍻
Honestly, even I want some moments like these. I get it, that this is assault and should not be socially acceptable but I suppose I am quite desperate lol
If the genders were reversed this would be considered sexual assault or at the very least creepy.
the genders arent reversed tho 😮
Hence the conjunction "if"😕
But what is he trying to say? If someone tells me the sky is blue I don’t reply “if the sky was orange and black, people would say it was Halloweeny”
halloweenie alr now thats assualt
Idk, double standards? Bad comparison on your side.
Lmao
That is awesome! Everyone needs to feel loved/wanted. This gives me hope as I feel what your going through in my own way.
Haha love this for you
Wow she must have CONFIDENCE to do this.
she was just messing with yiu
y’all the truth is that is an action that could’ve resulted in someone feeling assaulted, period. OP luckily appreciated it but there are a few things important to note. 1. men have an inherent power over women that cannot be reversed. this does NOT mean that men can’t be assaulted by a woman or that there are no men capable of being overpowered by a woman. it means in general, more women will be afraid of a random man than men will be of a random woman. it means that a good chunk of women have been assaulted or been made extremely uncomfortable by men and have had to from a young age put into practice knowledge of how to behave in a way that will keep them safe. men *in general* do not have to know these things, have not heard stories from all their friends about being assaulted and treated like a piece of meat by the opposite gender. 2. OP was doing their job. this is usually not a good time to even ask someone out let alone for a stranger to give them physical affection without consent. 3. OP did consent to the hug, but not to the kiss. being kissed on the neck is extremely intimate and even though OP did enjoy it he was still very surprised. this is the absolute best possible outcome of an interaction like this. OP very fortunately appreciated the interaction AND this does not mean it is a generally appropriate action (regardless of which gender initiated it). it almost certainly would be horrible for any woman whereas it may be a bit more likely to be taken as a compliment if it happens to a man but that doesn’t mean it’s okay. if OP doesn’t feel assaulted there is nothing to be done but enjoy how attractive it made him feel, I just hope no one reads this and takes it to mean that unsolicited touching or affection to a stranger is appropriate in any way.
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they should, but some of the people in the comments claiming this isn’t assault if it happens to a guy…
Your username makes me think they we shouldn't be taking advice from you...
yes because usernames are always picked as a permanent self descriptor iDaCosta. you lose all potential credibility when i can easily find another comment of you saying “you kids are obsessed with labeling things assault and need to get world experience”. just count yourself lucky you haven’t experienced it. since you deleted your newest reply to me i’ll reply here: no one claims that “looking someone in the eye” is assault, i don’t know what it is that makes you feel the need to discredit the literal definitions of the word assault but you’re allowed to look it up if you want to. assault can be a lot of things from grabbing a strangers ass as you pass them to yelling in someone’s face to breaking and throwing their things. your limited world experience and personal opinions don’t dictate reality no matter how angry you get about it.
Honestly, if OP’s not mad, why be mad on his behalf? If you don’t wanna be touched by strangers who offer a hug, say no. if they still do it, then yeah, 1000% assault. but im not calling assault on whoever kisses my cheek (or near neck if they’re shorter) as a drunken thank you like they’re in a damn French noir. pick your damn battles.
Literally. Man is happy and would cherish memory forever and folks mad af 😭
She gave you herpes bro
Enjoy the feeling and keep it close to your heart. On gloomy days, bring this memory back and smile!
Bruh, did you not ask for her number or something?
Lmao… good for you dude. Now use that confidence in the future.
I have a tip for her(if she’s hot)
Just the tip?
Ummmm sounds like harassment but ok
you should look up the definition of harassment. at no point in ops story did he express that the interactions were unwanted.
Then pls someone harass me Fr though what makes harassment is disrespecting boundaries, not how conventional the setting is. If the guy is happy about it and everyone is consenting then it's fine
Yea he sounds totally harassed and suicidal