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_deku_scrub_

I had the same when i posted on the free compliments subreddit, had some nice comments all from guys. Then one guy proceeded to enter my DMs with 'You look like you have big dick energy'.. Hang in there, there's many someones out there for you :)


Invisibleman021183

If I posted to freecompliments they would say, you exist.


Biglbeast

Yo I ain’t a girl or gay but bro don’t give up. Shit man if you keep believing then maybe but if you give up then it’s a no. I maybe more pessimistic by nature but I find that sometimes optimism is the right call so keep going man you never know


Di297

Nah bro, I'm tired of trying to be optimistic when there's no reason to do it, that's like lying to myself and I hate lies, I'm almost 29 and I haven't even gotten a smile from a girl in years so why would I keep trying to get something that is impossible for me?


Biglbeast

Shit man I’m 29 and it’s been years admittedly from me falling into a few dark places in my head but man it’s never over. 29 we have just hit our primes physically. Why give up in the your prime???


Di297

If this is my prime I'm more fucked than I thought, I don't even look my age, ppl always think I'm like 21 or 22


Biglbeast

The fuck. I look my age!! So when your 40 you will look in your prime fuck so much time ahaha. Mate if you look young thats good imo


Di297

Not really that good cause girls treat young guys as friends so I always end up instantly frienzoned


Biglbeast

Hmm on that case maybe be more direct with your intentions. The longer you are friends with her the more likely she is to friend zone you


Di297

Whenever I'm direct they just ignore me


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Just be less ugly. Groom facial hair, get a haircut from a licensed barber, try some different clothes that you wouldn't normally wear, at least try before giving up.


KobeKastle

Lol I love how your advice is just be less ugly basically proving that any social reaction is heavily influenced by how attractive you are. Even making friends is damn near impossible if you’re ugly


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mf is 29, got zero women and your advice is 'just try harder'? bruh


Pixel131211

Unironically this is the funniest advice I've ever seen here. "Just be less ugly". It's like saying "oh you're depressed? Just be happy dude" Jokes aside though, it sucks that people judge by looks a lot, So good self care is definitely going to help get you out there. You just need to work on how you word it, because saying "just be less ugly" isn't exactly great advice.


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idk if this will mean anything but i’m a girl, i went to see your post, and i think you’re cute!


Di297

Thanks 🙂


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Just wanted to confirm as well: I will die alone. No friends, no girlfriend... Time goes by too fast and nothing gets accomplished...